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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	When getting her # is it, "What is your number?" or "Can I get your number?" 'What is your number' is too aggressive? Am I seeing things or did someone actually type that? Dude, it makes absolutely no difference which one of two almost identical phrases you use to ask for her number. The fact that you're asking this question makes it clear that being too aggressive is not your problem. The answer here is to grow some balls, stop worrying about how she'll react, stop over thinking the small stuff. Sorry if this post comes across too harsh, but I think you need to hear it.	/r/seduction	03/09/14 09:54 AM
3	how do you tell if a girls attracted to you? There's heaps of signs to pick up on. Most girls are very easy to read once you get the hang of it. The most reliable indicator is how much they look at you. Our gaze is instinctively drawn to what we are interested in. If you see girls looking at you this is good. In a group setting watch out for girls constantly taking glances at you. Another really good indicator if you're in a group is that girls will look at whoever they are interested in when they laugh. Watch out for this, it's a very rel…	/r/seduction	13/08/14 10:07 AM
1	Overcoming my main flaw Your post is incredibly similar to my own story. I have the exact same type of mind and have struggled with the same problem. I can't claim to have conquered the issue, but at times I just get into the right vibe and socializing and letting loose comes naturally. Alcohol helps a lot with this. I think that if you have a sense of humor you do have the ability to be less serious, its just that this is not how you are accustomed to behave in social situations. So I'm sure improvement is possible, a…	/r/seduction	14/07/14 11:09 AM
0	10 Best Pickup and Seduction Books Of All Time The game as number 1, Mystery method as number 2, No Models? This is an awful list, not to mention the fact that you are only posting it to try and make money through affiliate links. You are whats ruining this subreddit. I can't downvote you enough.	/r/seduction	01/07/14 10:13 PM
1	Physical escalation in relationship & how to set up first sex I was in a similar situation when I was 18. I was dating this girl, and every night we would hang out and make out but never got any further. I was a virgin and I wasn't confident with escalating to sex, I didn't know what to do and I didn't know whether she wanted to have sex with me. After a couple of weeks she told me we should just be friends - I asked why and she said because she wanted to have sex and I didn't seem up for it. Luckily she gave me another chance and I did end up having sex a…	/r/seduction	15/06/14 11:12 PM
3	How does one "lead" the interaction? Women expect you to lead interactions. You approach her You get her number You ask her on a date You choose where to go for a date At a restaurant? You choose where to sit Changing venue? You make the decision Got her back at your place? You initiate kissing, you initiate sex Be confident and assertive, and make decisions/lead without hesitation. Don't ask for permission. Obviously use your common sense when applying this.	/r/seduction	26/04/14 10:22 PM
5	How to be less of a 'nice guy' "I know what went wrong, I didn't establish a physical connection, didn't flirt with her" It looks like you already know the answer... 'nice guy' can be synonymous with 'guy who isn't comfortable expressing his sexuality'. Women want a man who is in touch with his sexual side and is not afraid to express his desires. You need to turn her on - communicate that you find her sexy and that you want to fuck her (through non verbal communication). Watch this video, it will help a lot: https://www.yout…	/r/seduction	26/04/14 09:55 PM
1	Former unconfident guys of seddit- what helped you work through your period of non confidence in yourself? Practice is super important. I remember first reading about kino and thinking I could never do that and it would be super awkward. Then one time I was drunk and I tried it and since then I have been comfortable touching women. You really do just have to bite the bullet and try things out. Getting the inner game right is important too. Affirmations are helpful, keep telling yourself that you are attractive and desirable and it will eventually sink in. I used to struggle with the inner game becaus…	/r/seduction	25/04/14 09:04 AM
18	I've never touched women, where do I start? A lot of your responses in this thread are something like 'that would be awkward... I could never do that'. Think about this.. why does it matter if you have an awkward moment with someone who works in a shop or who you meet on the street? It doesn't matter how they react, you will never see them again. You need to stop being terrified of being judged by other people - because at the end of the day it doesn't matter. You are the fucking man, you can do or say whatever you want. Who cares what ot…	/r/seduction	13/08/13 08:12 PM
2	What to do in a situation where a male friend opens up to you and tells you he likes the same girl you are interested in? Considering that he's opened up to you, I don't think you should go forward with the girl if you value the friendship at all. If I was him, I would be pretty pissed if you went after the girl, and consider it a betrayal of our friendship. If you must go for the girl anyway, the best thing to do would be to tell him beforehand that you're interested also and apologize.	/r/seduction	12/07/13 11:03 AM
3	Do most women just not show interest that much? All girls are different; while some will actively pursue men they are interested in, many (probably most) of them will never do anything and simply wait for the man to take the initiative. I have personally experienced this several times, and I know how frustrating it can be. This doesn't mean that females don't show any signs of interest, because they definitely do. It's a matter of you needing to learn to read their signals better. Men as a whole are pretty shocking at reading body language an…	/r/seduction	06/07/13 12:13 PM