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If you have the need for mention that you saw “craziest things” or things moving from nightclubs to other rooms then I doubt if you ever seen anything actually crazy because what you are talking about pretty much happens everyday in nightlife and is no big deal. And no need to think of people in a demeaning way for liking sex.
/r/seduction14/03/26 03:52 AM
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I personally know a very large number of djs including some very famous ones, I am a hobhy music producer myself, been very active in nightlife for years and I have never met one person who works in the scene while thinking of the women in clubs like that. Really weird
/r/seduction14/03/26 03:06 AM
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Great post, I agree with everything you are saying. I am m32, have a pretty high body count and been dating for more than 10 years. I learned all of this the hard way.
/r/seduction22/02/26 04:24 PM
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I dont even remotely remember the amount of women I have fckd in club toilets or taken back to my home from clubs
/r/seduction27/12/25 12:07 PM
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I am a brown man living in Europe and originally from Pakistan, my body count is over 100 and I have had a very happening dating life. I have also made a bunch of posts on this sub about my lifestyle and game
/r/seduction25/05/25 09:07 PM
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I have been trying to enlighten you but seems like you are not willing to listen. I have been posting on this sub for years so I think I know a thing or two about what I am saying here. Feel free to go through my post history
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:59 AM
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Where am I saying anything about external validation? And dont know why its so hard for you to understand that confidence can work differently for different people lol
/r/seduction06/05/25 11:49 PM
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M31 here, my body count is over 100 and its always been easy for me to get with women, I am bored of casual sex and at this stage of life I think its in my best interest to commit to one woman and start a family, not because I am emotionally dependent on her or love her but because I would like to slow down and have some stability in life.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 11:44 PM
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Okay well I have met a bunch of people who derive their confidence from looks or wealth, so none of that means anything and it’s subjective what someone derives their confidence from.
/r/seduction06/05/25 11:31 PM
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Once again - its subjective and has no set of rules. For some people it may come from within but not for everyone.
/r/seduction06/05/25 11:29 PM
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Wrong - different people derive confidence from different things. Some get it from looking good and some get it from a big bank balance. There are no set of rules for it
/r/seduction05/05/25 01:51 AM
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Also m31, every big city I have traveled to in Europe I have pulled, in my experience its so easy to pull while travelling, every woman is looking for some travel dick and summer romance.
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:50 AM
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This is actually right lol
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:47 AM
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I wanted to mention some details in the posts itself but I was pretty sure some people would start trolling in the comments so I didn’t. Anyway, I try to stimulate multiple sensitive spots on her body at the same time, for example kissing the nipples and playing with clit and gspot at the same time while fingering her or rubbing the clit when I am inside her. Try a few variations of these and you will soon figure out how to make her cum. On top of that I am decent looking, lean muscular body aro…
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:18 AM
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Agreed. Big city dating is difficult and sex is easy however when you are good at there is a high chance someone you are casually sleeping with turns into a relationship. Seen that happen a lot and thats another reason why you should be good at sex.
/r/seduction29/04/25 08:27 PM
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Not in my experience, it doesn’t matter how hot she is, if I am treating her like she is a 3 or 4 while giving her good sex and maintaining my frame/confidence, there is literally no way she can ever get over me. I have had women who started their serious relationships but still wanted to keep fucking me on the side and craved my validation more than their bf. But yes the moment you lose frame/confidence, get ready to say goodbye to her even if you are doing everything else right.
/r/seduction29/04/25 08:23 PM
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Experience - back in my teens the first time a random girl started dancing with me at a club I came from excitement, got embarrassed and ran back home. I am 31 now with a triple digit body count and honestly have no idea what it is, have lived in multiple countries and dated women from all over the world. I have learned a lot along the way
/r/seduction29/04/25 08:17 PM
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Idk what your point is, but good for you bro
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:31 PM
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What would I or anyone get by making shit up on Reddit which is the most anonymous social media on the internet? I have been posting on this sub for years and most of my posts are inspired by real life experiences, not because I am trying to sell a course. I have also shared my pictures/instagram with a bunch of people from this sub who requested for it.
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:29 PM
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It may or may not up your numbers but it will definitely help you build a rotation of women that you are having sex with (if that is something you are looking for)
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:14 PM
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This has also been my experience, although I am a bit surprised at how people are taking my post negatively here
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:09 PM
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Tons of content on YouTube and other platforms about it
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:08 PM
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Yes exactly, its just one of many skills that you need to keep women interested
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:05 PM
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Yeah its an insane ego boost for me
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:45 PM
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I have been active on this sub for years and have written a bunch of posts here including some about how to initiate but also wanna share what to do after the initial first or second date
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:43 PM
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Where am I saying confidence is not important? Having a successful dating life means you have to have a bunch of things in order including confidence, hygiene, physique, bedroom performance etc
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:28 PM
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Yes its sad but it is what it is
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:25 PM
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I am originally from Pakistan and I had a very happening dating life even when I was living back home. Although the culture is different of course, you dont get to meet as much and you don’t get to have sex as often but it still happens. Also highly depends on what kind of background you come from, people who are financially more well off are normally not too religious and more open to dating.
/r/seduction29/04/25 01:15 PM
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Horrible and unrealistic advice. Please have a happening life and women will come naturally
/r/seduction31/03/25 10:18 AM
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I am not going to read any of that, you created your account 2 days ago and I have been on this sub for years
/r/seduction02/03/25 09:53 AM
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Bad advice, as a man you are supposed to be the one who wears the pants in the relationship and get shit done. The moment you start opening up emotionally she will start losing respect for you and think of you as weak.
/r/seduction01/03/25 06:42 PM
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Done it more times than I can remember
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:55 PM
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In short term it gives you an ego boost and improve your confidence a lot with women In long term you get kinda bored from it
/r/seduction20/02/25 06:55 PM
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If its genuine its fine, if its forced then its not fine
/r/seduction11/02/25 02:22 PM
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Maybe in small villages it’s difficult to date but big cities are normal and the capital Islamabad is pretty much like a European city in terms of life in general and infrastructure
/r/seduction08/02/25 08:32 PM
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Idk whats your point but I am originally from Pakistan which is a third world country and had a very happening dating life even when I was living there
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:40 PM
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Same with me, in fact I had a very happening dating life when I was kinda broke and wasn’t really working so I had a lot of time and could date even more women
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:39 PM
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I wrote a post about my lifestyle around an year ago which is still present on Reddit, you might find some helpful information there:)
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:37 PM
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I wrote a post about my lifestyle around an year ago which is still present on Reddit, you might find some helpful information there:)
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:36 PM
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I wrote a post about my lifestyle around an year ago which is still present on Reddit, you might find some helpful information there:)
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:36 PM
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I agree to what you are saying but at the same time you have to understand that all of us have our own insecurities for example, I am not very tall, around 174cm but I have to make my peace with it even if it’s unwilling because there is not much I can do about it.
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:33 PM
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Bro I hope you didnt give up on the friendship tho:)
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:28 PM
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You are right yes, a lot of the times it’s about mental health and I think that depends very much on your childhood. In my opinion guys who had a tough childhood grow up with insecurities and mental health problems.
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:27 PM
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Good for you but terrible dating advice. You are not the knight in shining armour she is looking for, stop trying to save her.
/r/seduction06/02/25 11:30 AM
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dont be rag doll sex is team work communication dont use teeth while giving blowjob let him take the lead Enthusiasm moan Just the usual stuff
/r/seduction06/02/25 07:05 AM
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Walk away with your head up high, mute all her notifications and stories and absolutely do not message her anything and she will reach out to you herself in a few weeks. Do something stupid and send her a message to ‘save face’ and you will never hear from her again.
/r/seduction06/02/25 06:46 AM
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A lot of people have no idea what they are talking about in the comments. All pornstars have a lot of sexual experience and they are very good at sex. And when as a guy you are good at sex, it gives you an insane amount of confidence. For me personally as soon as I properly dick a new girl down I leave her on read and dont give a fuck about her because my confidence is through the roof and I am pretty sure she aint going nowhere once she has had a taste of me. So obviously in my opinion male por…
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:38 PM
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Thats extremely weird and really off putting, maybe something like that can work in the US but do that in Europe and you would be blocked the next moment.
/r/seduction09/01/25 03:58 AM
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I have also been in the game for a long time and I disagree. If someone leaves me on read I cannot care less and never message them again unless they make the first move like, like my picture or something. I always have a rotation of women, one of them leaving me on read doesn’t bother me.
/r/seduction09/01/25 01:30 AM
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Yeah 2 is very high, good for you buddy enjoy
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:08 PM
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Nightlife is a piece of cake to me. Also south asian
/r/seduction06/01/25 12:05 AM
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I do stuff like that every weekend and I am a bit surprised at how much this post is getting attention? If this is not already common to you guys, please go out more
/r/seduction06/01/25 12:04 AM
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Having 2 women in your life made you the expert? Hahaha if its numbers we are talking about then go through the posts on my reddit to see the type of numbers I am doing
/r/seduction06/01/25 12:02 AM
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So you are in an open relationship, which is clearly not something this post is about yet you are trying to ‘disprove’ all of it lol
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:13 AM
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Where is the attitude? As a young man who is currently in the dating market, I just wrote my comment with my personal experience. While you, as you mentioned in your other comment that have been with your partner for 10years which means you are not well aware of the current dating situation.
/r/seduction04/01/25 02:34 AM
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I consider myself maybe slightly above average looking and I am not super tall but I have been with some really beautiful women and the only reason I was able to do it in my opinion is confidence. So I agree with the entirety of this post. Romantic relationships with women are always a power dynamics, as long as you have power over her she will stick around. But I think a lot of guys who have been in the game long enough already know by now that confidence is king. And a good question is, how do…
/r/seduction04/01/25 02:30 AM
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Doesn’t work like that, even the emotionally healthy will ditch you at some point if you keep putting her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction04/01/25 02:09 AM
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You are the exception not the rule
/r/seduction04/01/25 02:06 AM
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I have had sex with sex workers three times in my entire life. Two of them were like bachelor party type things and once I invited some sex workers because I was too fucking high. But my body count is over 100 so 3 out of those 100s doesn’t make any difference to me. Although everytime I was with a sex worker I regretted it later. In my opinion sex with a sex worker and sex with a woman who actually desires you are two entirely different experiences. Nothing can replace a woman who genuinely wan…
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:09 PM
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For me depends on her energy: for example she says no with a genuine reason and suggests an alternative date/time then all good. Or I invite someone or even just send a message and I do not get a response, then I NEVER double text!
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:06 PM
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Once again, there is no rocket science here for which you need a book on this topic. But you do you, best of luck
/r/seduction10/12/24 10:30 AM
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Self improvement and confidence, that is all you need. You can use the same time in other areas of your life which you would use reading a book about this stuff. Best of luck
/r/seduction10/12/24 09:47 AM
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Ffs. Go out and meet people bro. There is no rocket science to this
/r/seduction09/12/24 09:56 PM
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What the hell is snap? All my hookups are from bars/clubs and some from dating apps
/r/seduction08/11/24 09:06 PM
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Yeah but the other way around, like hooking up with someone I wasn’t really attracted to but did it because I was high and horny
/r/seduction08/11/24 09:02 PM
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Dont
/r/seduction08/11/24 09:00 PM
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I am not East Asian, but South Asian (originally from Pakistan) and have several posts about my dating life success in Europe on this reddit account, feel free to check it out.
/r/seduction08/11/24 09:00 PM
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Exact same boat, after having a lot of casual sex for years I started a relation around three months ago hoping it would making things better but if I am being honest I am not attracted to my gf at all even tho she is very pretty. At the moment I am planning to break up and thinking about travelling to some remote areas for a month or so, hoping this break from pickup/hookup would help me from
/r/seduction04/11/24 12:44 AM
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Gameplan is just to go out and have fun, everything else mostly just happens naturally
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:51 AM
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Whats self rating? I am just being lazy because I dont wanna write another paragraph about how I look. Anywho you are free to believe whatever
/r/seduction30/10/24 03:00 PM
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I think you have to compare cities rather than comparing nationalities or countries. In my opinion someone in a club in Barcelona at 3am on a Saturday is just as open minded/liberal as someone in a club in Paris at 3am
/r/seduction30/10/24 10:16 AM
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I like bigger clubs more. Festivals in my opinion are more tricky when it comes to having sex because people are very exhausted from staying in tents for multiple days but casual dancing and making out on the dance floor is very easy in festivals
/r/seduction30/10/24 10:12 AM
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In some of my previous posts, I have mentioned my physical appearance, I am definitely not a chad
/r/seduction30/10/24 09:56 AM
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Europe, done all of this in many big European cities and got more or less the same results.
/r/seduction30/10/24 09:53 AM
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Sure thats fine although I personally love clubbing so I prefer having sex in the club than ending my party early
/r/seduction30/10/24 09:52 AM
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The clubs that I go to have same toilets for men and women and even if they dont, no one really cares about who is going into the toilet. Security is mostly concerned about harassment or drug overdose. And sure toilet sex is not the most comfortable but its definitely an adrenaline rush when you start dancing with a beautiful woman and within the next hour or so you are fucking in the toilet. I am a big club rat and love nightlife, so I would rather fuck in the club than leave and end my party e…
/r/seduction30/10/24 09:50 AM
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Here are somethings which help me set the vibe in my apartment:- balcony with a view huge screen tv purposely placed in front of the bed so if someone wants to watch something, they have to come to the bed a disco ball in the middle of the apartment which is just a bullshit excuse to initiate a dance with someone and break the physical touch barrier lighting with many different settings including dim lights drugs, most people I hangout with are drug friendly continuous music without interruption…
/r/seduction30/10/24 09:37 AM
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I have done this more times than I can remember, I also have some comments and posts on my Reddit where I have mentioned details about my night game success Follow the steps below and if you are not getting the same energy in response then move on to the next one, make sure to not be pushy about anything. eye contact on the dance floor smile move close to her try to dance with her initiate physical contact by either holding her hand or put your hand on her waist whisper some bs in her ear like “…
/r/seduction29/10/24 10:05 PM
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I agree to the underlying message but to be honest, its not that deep, you just had good sex with someone and she started blabbering, happens with me all the time when I properly dick someone down lol
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:52 PM
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Getting a gf doesnt fix it for everyone. I recently got a gf after years of casual sex and the void in my soul is still not filled. I am planning to breakup soon and going back to the streets.
/r/seduction22/10/24 10:57 AM
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Its a skill which you learn with time and experience. Alcohol also helps
/r/seduction30/09/24 09:44 PM
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The strip club owned by Trevor in gta 5
/r/seduction26/09/24 02:48 PM
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Yes, a lot of others are also equally fucking around as me but this is also because I like hanging out with those types of people and I specifically go to spaces where such people hangout. But I guess if I want to find someone to date date then I need to start going to more regular/normals types of spaces.
/r/seduction24/09/24 10:00 AM
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No I dont. I believe dating is hard in every big western city these days and where I live its even harder than New York in my opinion.
/r/seduction24/09/24 09:56 AM
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Bro its not that deep, maybe you dont have a lot of experience with clubbing in Europe but I am at the clubs every weekend and I see all of that happening all the time.
/r/seduction24/09/24 09:53 AM
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I fall into this category of guys, its very easy for me to get sex. When it comes to relations, I dont have a good answer for you because I haven’t really looked for a relation in the last few years but have only started looking recently and its definitely harder than causal sex. I am not sure but maybe it’s because of my looks, I have a bunch of tattoos and piercings and I am lean muscular. If you take a look at my instagram, I look like a complete fuckboy and on top of that I also live in a ci…
/r/seduction23/09/24 11:00 AM
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Almost all of my hookups are done this way. Its so easy for me that I dont even try the apps or anything else and meet all women in clubs. Used to feel really awesome but its not as exciting anymore.
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:09 PM
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Eye contact, smile, dance, kiss. In that order. I don’t remember the last time I went clubbing and didn’t make out with at least one or usually multiple girls, unless I just wanna hangout with friends and I am specifically trying to avoid anything sexual.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:38 PM
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Same. Its lonely at the top
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:25 PM
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In my opinion less is always more with women. I have had tons of dates where I spent 8~12h or more with someone on the first date, this time would include activities like hanging out in the park, museums, lakes, getting stoned, getting drunk, doing other drugs, eating out, and always end up having sex on the first date. But when you spend so much time on the date with a girl she feels like she knows everything you have to offer and you become boring to her. The way to get a woman attached is to …
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:34 PM
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Highly incorrect, I recently went out on a date, we had a great time and at the end of the date I said “would it be weird if I ask you to comeback to mine” she said it wont be and I replied “doesn’t matter cause I am not asking you to comeback anyway” If I am out with a girl and I think of her as a bit more than just a hookup then I say something like that and dont have sex on the first date. This is nothing about putting her on a pedestal and its kind of a manipulation tactics, it makes the gir…
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:07 PM
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Every night I am out clubbing I can makeout with multiple women if I want to and I very often leave clubs with someone I met during the night but I sometimes still struggle with accepting that I am good looking. Most of the times I think of myself as slightly above average looking. I think what helps me and my confidence is when I am regular with gym and avoiding porn and masturbation.
/r/seduction15/09/24 03:19 PM
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Honestly I wouldn’t except a woman to smile at me when I am doing groceries or I am in the subway, also because I am not my best self at those times. But it happens all the time at other places where people go to have fun and socialise like small house parties where friends are bringing other friends, clubs, bars, parks etc
/r/seduction11/09/24 10:08 PM
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You can replace club/bar with any other place where people go to have fun and socialise
/r/seduction11/09/24 09:53 PM
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A simple way to tell if you are attractive to women or not is to go to a nightlife related location (club/bar) and see if women are making eye contact and smiling at you
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:34 PM
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Even though I do it time to time but normally it doesn’t work like that with women, but with gay men you can do it any time
/r/seduction04/09/24 02:27 PM
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You are setting yourself for failure if you want to improve yourself for external validation. I try to improve myself because I love myself and my confidence is through the roof when I am slightly getting better every day. Women, I believe are just a side effect of that confidence which I get from self improvement
/r/seduction03/09/24 02:54 PM
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If you are so nervous that you have to make this post then I am sorry for the bad news but you wont be hitting it tonight
/r/seduction31/08/24 07:14 PM
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You need to meet girls in clubs or on dance floors or if you have a date, invite her to a club. Make the dance hot and steamy and go from there
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:18 AM
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You definitely can
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:15 AM
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Opposite for me. Hardly any success on apps (but maybe I just dont use it enough) and tons of success irl
/r/seduction21/08/24 10:17 PM
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Exactly what I do
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:53 AM
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How tattooed are we talking about? Few small ones, that doesn’t matter. But in my opinion if a women is heavily inked then she would definitely prefer a guy who is also tattooed. Speaking from experience as currently I have 8 tattoos and planning to get more and 6 piercings, over the years as my tattoos increased, it got easier for me to be with tattooed women, infact they would be attracted to me naturally. For sex I personally also prefer tattooed women because I think tattoos make sex hotter.
/r/seduction25/07/24 11:35 PM
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Been doing it for a long time and I do not enjoy it as much as I used to when I started. At this point its more like an obsession or an addiction, specially because I am also often mixing drugs with sex and all my sexual partners are drug friendly. Now I feel like my lifestyle is getting unhealthy for me both mentally and physically and I should instead be in a monogamous relation but at the same time the thrill of making eye contact with a hot woman in a club and a few minutes later you are dan…
/r/seduction19/07/24 01:24 AM
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The best girl to go after is the one who is into you, she would also be the easiest one for you
/r/seduction18/07/24 09:45 PM
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No big deal, you are young and attractive, just maintain yourself and you will have more than you know how to deal with. Also, this post is a proof that being good looking and look maxing is king, everything else(money, social status etc) are secondary and in many cultures are hardly of any importance.
/r/seduction18/07/24 05:41 PM
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Just the usual stuff - be well dressed and well groomed - smell good - dance good - confidence - learn to pick up on hints from women - be in good physical shape I also have a bunch of tattoos and piercings and I believe they help me stand out but thats all, I dont have anything special to add. And I also wrote a detailed post on this topic which I already mentioned to you in my previous comments and its still present on my Reddit, you might find some helpful information there
/r/seduction16/07/24 11:38 AM
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Sounds like an American problem
/r/seduction15/07/24 07:18 PM
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I think the sentence is pretty self explanatory, Idk how I can explain it any further
/r/seduction15/07/24 07:15 PM
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They would dance around him, smile at him and give him tons of hints that they want to be approached
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:26 PM
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As a man with high body count, I wont mind being with a woman with high body count for a casual or open relation. But for committed relation or marriage, I would think twice. Reason: its hard to sexually satisfy a woman with high body count, which is not a problem for me right now as I am young and good in bed but down the road it might get difficult as testosterone goes down in men with age, at that point there is a good chance that she might cheat. Also in my experience woman with high body co…
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:22 PM
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Sometimes I just go to dance and have fun and hangout with friends and not looking for anything sexual, and sometimes I am actually looking for a hookup
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:11 PM
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I have been going to clubs every weekend for years now and have been to almost of the famous clubs Europe
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:28 PM
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I am at the clubs every weekend and have had tons of hookups at the clubs so I know night life very well. Feel free to check the posts on my Reddit
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:22 PM
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Yeah I agree to this, if OP was an actual 8 or 9 girls would literally be throwing their selves at him. I consider myself slightly above average looking and still get a lot of attention at the clubs
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:19 PM
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If you were an actual 9, girls would literally be throwing their selves at you without you having to do anything
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:16 PM
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Sounds a bit strange to me, I consider myself slightly above average looking but clubs are so easy for me. I can pretty much find a hookup everytime I am out clubbing if I am looking hard enough
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:15 PM
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Starbucks and McDonalds even though I dont like approaching in public places
/r/seduction12/07/24 10:24 AM
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I am sorry but your entire post sounds extremely feminine, you are over thinking every little detail about her, you were probably in awe of her beauty from the very beginning which made you insecure, stalk her instagram and lose your masculine frame. And with this attitude, it was obvious that she would dump you sooner or later
/r/seduction11/07/24 10:43 AM
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swiping is more time effective Lol, how? I can go out right now to a club/bar approach someone, ask them back to mine and have a hookup. While on apps I would have to wait for a few days to even look at the person in real life
/r/seduction10/07/24 09:15 PM
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There are tons of people out there who want casual sex, just find someone else who has the same interest as you and dont lie to people
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:44 PM
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Exchange instagram and stop texting her - if you already have the date set for the weekend then I dont see a reason for you to text her, too much messaging can kill the attraction. Send her a message one or two days before the date to confirm the logistics. When you meet her act like you have done this hundreds of times and you have been with tons of girls who are just as hot as her if not hotter. Do not shower her with compliments or do anything that would give her any hints that you think of h…
/r/seduction09/07/24 08:41 PM
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Selective, only if I really like the woman and mostly I pass to avoid disease. Also my finger game is amazing to make up for that
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:44 PM
1

So you have a hard time saying yes to sex?
/r/seduction08/07/24 10:40 AM
2

Yeah I agree, I think I need to get better at saying no
/r/seduction07/07/24 01:07 AM
3

I agree to everything you are saying but tbh my lifestyle (clubbing, drugs, casual sex) has a strong grip on me and I dont have anything to look forward to in life so I live like this to Idk maybe fill some type of void? But yes I am trying and hoping to be better and thank you for your comment
/r/seduction07/07/24 01:04 AM
1

Opposite for me, I am highly confident when I havent had sex or busted a nut in a few days, but my confidence after sex always gets extremely low.
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:55 AM
-1

Omg stop lol
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:48 AM
0

Yeah that one really worried me and made me think “wtf is wrong with me” and I wrote this post lol
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:28 PM
-1

I think it goes without saying that dating and sex are related but yes, tons of sex I never had any envy and have always been with very good looking women, instagram models, influencers and whatnot and lol, reproduction is survival Any who I cannot make any sense of what you are trying to say
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:25 PM
9

I am 5’9 and south asian
/r/seduction06/07/24 06:38 PM
0

No not really, I had a pretty happening dating life even when I was young. And I keep sex to once a week, and considering the fact that human race is programmed to reproduce as much as we can, I wouldn’t call once a week “sex obsessed”
/r/seduction06/07/24 06:37 PM
22

Yeah I needed to hear this, thank you
/r/seduction06/07/24 01:26 PM
1

Very easy lol
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:37 PM
0

Yeah if you are lame and boring
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:21 AM
13

Ever heard about “having fun”?
/r/seduction15/04/24 02:50 PM
2

You are just going to come off as creepy if you don’t enjoy the environment, even if you think you are faking it well, you actually aren’t because women can literally smell that shit on you. I do very well in club environments and I believe one of the reasons is because night clubs and dance floors are my natural habitat.
/r/seduction15/04/24 02:49 PM
12

I disagree. I have been in many similar situations while I consider myself average looking. Key is to look like you are someone fun to be around
/r/seduction15/04/24 01:55 PM
1

Few years ago I was obsessed with numbers but over the time I have started measuring my success with women depending on whether I had a good time or not. But I have had a lot of casual sex so this might not be how everyone looks at things
/r/seduction07/04/24 05:52 PM
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