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2	So how am I supposed to do this? Here are 2 ways to approach this: You can try being honest. Let them know what's up. There is a boldness aspect to being honest, but some will be put off by the lack of experience. If that ruins your chances with a girl, so be it. What else are you gonna do, pretend like you know what you're doing and look like an idiot anyway? Just go for it. It's just a hand hold or a kiss, it's not like you're performing surgery or operating an airplane. So what if it's awkward? It's your first time dammit. R…	/r/seduction	11/09/14 07:22 AM
1	Is this even possible for a guy like me? Sweet, you can drive! That'll come in handy for your future dates. Now as for the getting dates part... First things first, you don't sound very ambitious in general. Showing others that you're "teachable" is good and all, but you will probably want the world to also know that you are someone who can get shit done. Whether it be something in academics, music/art, community, business, whatever. You sound like you're good at doing stuff with cars. Keep going deeper into that if you like. You can w…	/r/seduction	11/09/14 06:46 AM
1	Is this even possible for a guy like me? Also, I forgot to mention that there are a bunch of different things people do at gyms. All for all sorts of reasons. I won't get into any of it here, but you can find out by researching, as well as by asking people questions online or in-person.	/r/seduction	11/09/14 05:31 AM
1	Is this even possible for a guy like me? Stronglifts is a very popular program. It is super simple and requires 45-60 minutes in the gym, 3 times a week. For your own knowledge and safety, read that whole page. I know it's a bit long, but it's well worth your time. As mentioned on the site, as someone who doesn't work out regularly, you'll start off with VERY light weights, but you'll progress very quickly in the first few months. Also try to find someone (who knows what they are doing) to critique your form for all the barbell exercis…	/r/seduction	11/09/14 05:22 AM
1	Is this even possible for a guy like me? If you don't mind providing these details... What do you do for fun? What are you good at? What are your (current) goals in life? What do you hope to get out of school (besides girls)?	/r/seduction	11/09/14 04:56 AM
1	Is this even possible for a guy like me? Is there a gym at your school? Use that. In case you think you'll look like a noob in the gym, don't worry about that. We've all been there. What's cool is that you'll usually find some nice people in the gym willing to help you out if you need a spotter, want tips, or have questions about their routines. Just be polite about it. You'll start off with lighter weights than everyone else, but you'll progress quickly. Don't try to do too much too soon or you'll risk seriously messing yourself up fr…	/r/seduction	11/09/14 04:51 AM
2	So today I "got my ass kicked" Remember, a friend/lover is worth your time only if they are comfortable being around you when you are being yourself (I just hope you aren't naturally a mean and dangerous individual... but some people are actually attracted to that, so...). Just as you may not like everybody, not everybody will like you. And beyond that, some people just don't give others a chance. For all sorts of reasons. Sometimes, for no good reason. You can't blame them, and you can't blame yourself. Just shake it off, sm…	/r/seduction	28/08/14 04:32 AM
2	So today I "got my ass kicked" Just because you aren't good right now, doesn't mean you're destined to stay that way. Life's all about fucking up and learning from those fuck ups. We can learn from others' fuck ups, but more often than not, it takes a personally-delivered ass-kicking for us to learn a lesson ourselves. And it fucking stings... the first few times (or dozen, or hundred, depending on the type of person you are. Zero if you are a sociopath or the king of cool). But after a while, you'll find that the stinging hu…	/r/seduction	28/08/14 04:11 AM
1	I might be in love with a fictional character, and don't know what to do Alright, cool. Your standards in what you look for in a girl are not too high at all. They are very reasonable. Actually, what you look for is nearly identical to what I look for... and undoubtedly many others would say the same. You just have to be patient, and you'll eventually come across girls like that, however long and infrequent that may be. Considering how fucked up life and the universe is, we are blessed that there exists people on Earth who aren't complete douchebags, let alone all th…	/r/seduction	27/08/14 06:01 AM
1	I might be in love with a fictional character, and don't know what to do Indeed, this is quite the odd subreddit for your question, but I'll bite. The thing with love is, it hits us when we least expect it to. I could dig in deeper if you'd like, but first... Let's talk about your standards. What do you look for in a girl? Are all of those "standards" necessary, or could it be that you're being picky/perfectionistic?	/r/seduction	27/08/14 04:39 AM