oneandonlysealoftime Archive

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0	Feminists could do well, if they develop humility This argument exists since the first days of feminism. Women are the group oppressed by men. There are also issues, that men have obviously, but they are caused by being oppressed by other men: the mental health crises due to pressure to be emotionless and strong, the obligation to die in a war etc Now think, why would a woman go as far as to start claiming herself to be a misandrist? Most of my friends don't event claim they're feminists anymore, they despise feminism for playing too much with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 09:08 AM
1	If Men Had Understood Hypergamy, Would They Have Supported Feminism? I'm a huge believer in absolute selfishness - that whatever we do is inherently selfish. Hypergamy makes absolute sense in a sexist world. And even if it was some sort of inherent nature, I don't care much, doesn't change my view on freedom of choice for all women When I think about why I support feminism, there is absolutely compassion and empathy, especially to my own mother, sisters and wife. And it's the thing I relate to the most, when talking about my beliefs But in reality even if I had z…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 08:27 PM
2	We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic. Feminism is not about equality. It's about women's rights. And I don't think we can ever achieve "equal" society, there are so many hard aspects of one's life no other person can understand We can nevertheless achieve the society, where people are treated the way they want to be treated. And can do whatever the fuck they want without others telling them to conform into some obscure role (be it "real man", "true feminist" or "divine femininity") Oh and a society, where men serve women, provide we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 08:56 AM
0	A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good person 35% of men are interested in cuckoldry, Cuckold porn is very popular among men. Does it mean all men want to be cheated on? Same goes with women liking "rough" guys erotica. A man in fiction can't really harm you IRL, he "abuses" you only in the right way, without doing any icks	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 11:22 AM
3	The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs. As a bisexual man (although from eastern Europe, where homophobia Is even more widespread) I have never encountered issues in dating due to my orientation and past experiences with men. Quite contrary, I have been fetishized several times, and just treated generally better when girls found out that. There is more trust in bisexual men in my cultural environment, because homophobia is tightly associated with misogyny	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/25 06:59 AM
-1	Has feminism gone too far in the west? Oh no, I completely agree with you here. But I believe it's mostly cultural, not legal issue. Law after all is only a formal representation of our moral consensus. And any law that contradicts it is not going to be followed and vice versa any law that doesn't represent it won't be respected Although it's very debatable what comes first - change in public opinion or law enforcement. Not ready to dive into it right now Thank you for explaining your opinion in details ♥️ Also read your other post h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 09:45 AM
-1	Has feminism gone too far in the west? You consider the pay gap fair?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 09:09 AM
5	Has feminism gone too far in the west? Western feminism is not far enough. I have shared your opinion before looked at the data. Still women earn less on average. Still women are main victims of SA crimes. Still women are experiencing the most by large mile that can't only be described by "men are ashamed of reporting it" Intimate Partner Violence (btw, it's often believed that lesbians have experienced more of it, but in reality the source has been previous relationships with men) In the US abortion is being banned in multiple state…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 06:16 AM
14	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. The issue is the red pill community lives in the past. The world where there was a strict, clear and ubiquitous hierarchy is long gone. In reality we all build our own hierarchies. If your boss is a vegan, no matter what they say, they will think better of you if you are a vegan. You will be higher in their personal hierarchy. Sure you can try to generalize traits, that are considered advantageous more commonly than others. But the reality is you will end up with a set of guidelines, that don't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 07:56 AM
8	Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidence If we include homosexual relationships in here, then we'll find that submissive gay men also prefer "bad boys". It's not inherently female thing to consider "power" and "strength", that the image of a bad boy conventionally drags with itself, attractive, but more so a trait of a submissive person. This perceived "power" is in my opinion also associated with "courage to initiate things that you want, but hesitate to ask for", so it kinda makes sense to prefer it for a submissive person	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 09:27 AM
1	CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerous Well it's a consequence of gender socialization. Women are raised to be okay to be in this position and in many ways are given positive discrimination, that makes it harder to toughen up. Men on the other hand are raised as "providers" and forced to be stronger. And is this really bad, that people end up in some roles, that are not strictly enforced and deviancy from which is not frowned upon? I don't remember girls in the "soft girl era" criticizing hard working self-made women. I mean some of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 08:58 AM
8	Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream media Yup, this is the cause I can stand behind. But not fighting solely the feminists doing the shaming, but just people in general shaming small penises, feminists included If someone is a feminist it doesn't automatically make them a good person, it just makes them a feminist. And lots of people in general are hypocritical, feminists are people as well, therefore lots of feminists as well are hypocritical. Don't see any controversy here	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 07:44 PM
1	Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream media I mean makes sense. Feminism is about women's rights (even intersectional feminism is about women's rights through alliance with other oppressed minorities). So it's the men who should fight for small penis to be represented and tolerated. And I fully agree that it's a good thing to advocate for 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 07:13 PM
2	RP men use dating strategies that attract specific kinds of women, which reinforces their stereotypes about women in a vicious cycle It's a misconception, especially in our globalised, especially in places that serve a boiling pot of cultures	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 08:08 AM
2	RP men use dating strategies that attract specific kinds of women, which reinforces their stereotypes about women in a vicious cycle Looks - yes, but people have vastly different preferences in looks, that are dictated by their stereotypes (i.e. high men are narcissists; short men are weak; fat men are kind). Those stereotypes are only partially shared Status - yes, but status is determined based on a certain hierarchy. Different moral systems create different hierarchies of "what it means to be cool". For an anti-state, anti-capitalism person money and political influence would be viewed as negative traits, rather than what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 08:22 PM
0	RP men use dating strategies that attract specific kinds of women, which reinforces their stereotypes about women in a vicious cycle I've had lots of girl friends during my teenage years, including girls popular among guys overall. They've done the opposite of red pilling me, cos broke my assumptions that AWALT, they all love hypergamy and only care about looks (and wealth, and status)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 08:13 PM
2	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment Agree with your points, disagree with your definition of monogamy, but that's personal thing! If one has lower libido then that's sexual incompatibility I'd disagree with that, cause life happens, libido changes. There are "normal" levels I guess, when no stress involved etc... But other times masturbation is a great way to at least relieve some of the pressure. I guess for me it'd be okay to live with an ace person, if they'd still feel okay with hugging, kissing and other kinds of physical int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 04:59 PM
-1	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment My reasoning: otherwise it's infidelity and that makes for an unhealthy relationship Based on the argument, my only counter-argument can be: It's not infidelity and that doesn't make relationships unhealthy Monogamy, infidelity are very non-binary things. In one couple enjoying company of another person is considered cheating; in another you can kiss your friends "in game"; in third as long as there are no feelings it's not cheating. Are swingers monogamous? Are people, who keep communicating wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 04:43 PM
2	The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stopped it reduces the motivation of people to get into relationships Do we really need to motivate people to get into relationships by restricting sex only to relationship? I think it'd be more beneficial, if we would allow people to fuck whoever and however they want, satisfy their physical needs, and not get into any premature partnerships without a need for one. IMO sex should be born from mutual desire, and not in exchange for receiving other relationships benefits. Relationships are more about a p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 10:00 PM
3	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity It's harder for men to find a one-night stand or FWB situation, and on the contrary it's harder for women to find a suitable long-term romantic partner. Check gay dating by the way, it's super ez to find a fuck buddy, but very hard to build a romantic relationship as well (for a man). Women are penalized for promiscuous behavior through slut-shaming and higher responsibility for not getting pregnant. Women are bullied for: Having more than one partner Getting pregnant (while it's a mutual respon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 12:32 PM