onebluebird Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss out LIFE AND THE WORLD ARE NOT FAIR. “Fair” is a concept humans created to try and make ourselves feel better about bad/unfortunate things that happen. First pill everyone needs to swallow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 08:20 PM
–	This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective). Say you had 1000 dollars to spend at grocery store to buy whatever you’d like. You’d most likely get the premium things. Next month you have 100 dollars to spend at the grocery store. You opt to get the basic versions of everything you got last month. Has your taste changed or are you options just more limited?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 03:47 PM
1	Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video games I work with a dude who’s got a sick gaming set up. A month ago he pulled 5/5 in a week 😂😂😂 it’s all balance my friend like everything in life (before anyone says he’s some chad - he’s tall and foreign in USA, but he isn’t a model. He dresses well and let’s his personality shine.) Be multi faceted. Have more than one hobby. Eat/sleep/work out/socialize well. Find and develop a style that works for you / makes you feel good and I promise you can still fit games into your life while dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 12:40 AM
3	Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men. Lmaoo you don’t know what you’re talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 11:27 PM
2	Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men. Just did a google search of him. Looks great. And I wouldn’t have known he was 5’5”. His physique would be about the biggest I’d get personally. Probably would lean out a bit as any bigger would emphasize his shorter stature (not that it’s an issue or bad just not my preference)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 10:50 PM
4	Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men. I’m an inch/inch and a half taller and I wouldn’t get as big as him even if I wanted/could. Thanks to my genetics and metabolism I stay pretty lean around 135ish. Back in uni I took advantage of the gym and cafeteria. Went up to 155ish and was looking great (had some athletic background as my base basketball and track). Probably woulda put on another 5-10 but didn’t stick with it. That’s probably my ideal range tho. Us shorter dudes can and do look aesthetic as fuck. Keep lifting/working out sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 08:28 PM
9	Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men. Ding ding ding	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 07:46 PM
1	Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men. If you’re short don’t get crazy buff. Get fit and build a solid base of muscle. Shorter dudes 5’4”-5’8” will look better with less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 06:28 PM
1	We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why? I think looks maxing as you approach 100% looks maxed has diminishing returns. I think the core of: working out finding the right fit and style of clothes, hair/grooming is what all men should focus on. Next level beyond that is derailed skin care routine and stuff like teeth whitening. Great to have but might not crucial (def get a basic skin care routine tho fellas)	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 10:13 PM
1	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. I wish you luck in finding a low n count partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 04:04 PM
3	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. It’s not, I understand. It’s okay that you’re insecure. You are loved my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 04:04 PM
12	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. That’s only going to encourage women to lie about the number of partners they’ve been with them. You can’t “see” how many people a woman’s slept with. So your disgust response is a mental thing that doesn’t even really manifest on it own. It’s an insecurity. Men are insecure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 03:55 PM
3	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. The funny thing is. The more insecure you are as a man, the less conducive it is in satisfying men’s urge to sleep with lots of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 03:53 PM
3	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. Men can have their preference. Everyone can. Just acknowledge your insecurities and hypocritically views. It’s okay to have them. We’re humans we’re all hypocritical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 03:52 PM
8	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. You sound like such and expert on this. What is it about women who’ve had a lot of partners that innately disgust men? What happens to men biologically and mentally. Sounds like mad insecurity but please enlighten me	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 03:46 PM
10	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. You sound insane lmaooo you’re saying most men are like you? No wonder the state of the world is the way it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 03:38 PM
1	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? These men are more interested in you when you’re a teenager than when you’re an adult? What kind of men are you hanging around with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 05:22 PM
1	Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past? Okay fine. You didn’t explicitly use those words but it’s implied with the langue you used and the fact that you’re trying to deflect leads me to believe it’s true. You said “he views sex as something he does to someone and they endure”. Maybe not malicious but certainly not noble or honorable in your eyes, yes? You’re projecting as well. Again you don’t know his mind state, his thoughts, his feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 08:24 AM
1	Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past? I’m being extreme to try and make a point. There could be a hundred different reasons and motivations for why a man seeks out a provider. It’s not all as malicious as your mind is leading you to believe. But you’re entitled to your thoughts and opinions. Not even tryna change them just sharing other perspectives. There are SWers in this thread saying they have clients they enjoy seeing and have seen for 2,3,4+ years. I know I know they might be incentivized to put up this facade or say they love…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 08:16 AM
1	Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past? I’m not disagreeing with you that there are cases where what you described is true and accurate. I have no clue what the stats and numbers are, but I also find it hard to believe there aren’t mutually beneficial relationships with clients and providers where they both truly care and respect on another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 08:06 AM
1	Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past? And you’re speaking from experience as a provider, yes? Thanks for addressing one part of my response. I take it you concede on the others. A person has traumas and struggles and mental issues they need to work through to heal and become better. They pay a therapist who helps them by providing and applying their expertise. A person has traumas and struggles and physical issues they need to work through to heal and become better. They pay an escort who helps them by providing and applying their e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 08:02 AM
1	Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have it who tf do you think you are exactly? I wouldn’t change what I said if 90% of the women in my life asked me to and you think I’d edit myself for a random lady on Reddit? You really do think I’m one of the dudes your post is about, huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 04:29 AM
1	Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have it Uno reverse card. As I said in one of my other comments, any reasonable person agrees personality matters. I actually agree with most of your post. So your attempt to belittle me actually shows me that you don’t have the greatest reading comprehension nor are you as good of personality judge as you think you are (for that matter women in general). I’m quite secure in who I am and what I bring but thanks for looking out you Good Samaritan. I wish I could give you a gold star.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 01:33 AM
1	Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have it I’m so sowwy I didn’t mean to offend you. Please engage with me 🥺	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 01:14 AM
1	Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have it I guess your post has some truth in it “most people are: easily offended lil bitches” ✅	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 01:13 AM
1	Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have it Lmao you’re so cringe. I get what you’re tryna say and do with this post. I think most people would agree that personality OF COURSE holds some weight and factors into attraction. OF COURSE. You trying to argue that people have no personalities is worse than people saying personality has zero bearing on attraction. Good personality is breaking rules for good? That’s your definition lol I sneak snacks into the theaters for me and my dates. Wow so special and cool. I’m a hunk in your eyes eh? No s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 12:22 AM
1	Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have it Yeah what makes Jeremiah’s personality so special? And why isn’t that personality good enough for you to seek a relationship with him? (Assuming you’re both Hetero)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 07:46 PM
1	Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their league I think more dudes need to hear this from more women. Stop praising women whether they are hot avg or below avg. Let these women earn that praise through their actions, personality, values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 12:43 AM
1	Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their league What sub or forum is this? Would like to see with my own eyes. Appreciate you sharing your perspective. While I think you’re right to an extent, I don’t think it’ll ever be possible to stop the simps from simping	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 11:50 PM
1	Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their league Huh that’s an interesting perspective… it kinda makes sense to me this happens on a broad level. Personally I don’t give compliments out to women unless I actually really think they’re attractive. If we’re gonna use the social media selfies as an example I’d comment on maybe 1% of my female friends posts. On the flip side you say women get numb to the compliments but yet it seems y’all post those selfies and nsfw pics for validation? Maybe not entirely but it’s hard for me to believe you (women)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:55 PM
1	If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive? Can agree with that	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 02:27 PM
1	If men are much stronger biologically, why is it a stretch to think women are more attractive? It’s possible to have nice symmetry and clear skin and still not be attractive tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 02:20 PM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Wow I coulda agreed with most of what you said but you really think, I’m average, women have it harder in dating than men?? Please explain and enlighten.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 07:08 AM
1	How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here? For a little bit. I feel like when I focus and dedicate my time and energy and try to incorporate bits and pieces of advice here I’ve had some success. But I’m not always in the mindset or on the prowl to meet and get with women.	/r/seduction	22/09/22 06:45 PM
1	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. Lol friendly misandrist who posts quite frequently on FDS. Where there’s smoke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 06:18 PM
1	Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past. I’ve been there. Sometimes ya just gotta vent into the void lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 05:50 AM
1	Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past. Whatever floats your boat. As long as you’re not bitter about your results or lack of results, do you	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 05:34 AM
1	Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past. There’s truth to this but also as a guy I do think we gotta learn to develop better intuition on said hints. Yeah I’ve been burned before and misread signs/hints before but it’s a learning process. It’s not entirely on one side or the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 12:19 AM
1	College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is? This needs to be pinned at the top lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 03:03 AM
0	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? I think women have a more holistic view on companionship and love. They can get those fries their family/friend/social groups much more easily than guys. I’m sure there’s more to it but haven’t seen that mentioned yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 06:25 PM
–	The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity) Question. So even if they look like they don’t wanna talk I should still go for it? Just got off work and was walking around. Saw a couple beautiful looking ladies but one was in gym attire, beverage in hand looking focused. Another lady had headphones on walking briskly and as she was getting close (we were walking in opposite directions) she kinda turned her gaze away from my general direction.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 12:48 AM
2	“Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS. That’s what I was thinking, appreciate the post and comment	/r/seduction	31/07/22 11:43 PM
–	“Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS. If anyone cares to weigh in appreciate advice/opinions. I had a good first date the other day. Seemed like we were both feeling each other and even throughout our convo she implied and stated interest in hanging again. I sent kind of a fuckboi text in the same vein as “wyd, you up” a couple nights after the date. She left me on read and then unmatched on tinder… should I do the above or just cut my losses?	/r/seduction	31/07/22 11:03 PM
9	What made you realize you actually learned to seduce women? Literally learned this lesson this week. Just being myself, relaxing and allowing myself to have fun and enjoy getting to know a woman has been eye opening. It really can be that simple. Be confident, keep it light and fun, escalate.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 04:24 PM
1	Am I a Simp for this? Bruh that ain’t simpy she’s covering your housing and lodging. Would be nice if she covered your flight too but tf enjoy yourself man. I heard a phrase recently. You usually regret the things you don’t do more than you regret the things you’ve done. If it’s something you wanna do, do it.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 01:00 AM
2	What comes first, chicken or the egg problem. Thanks for the thoughtful comment! And yes I have models and have read the first couple chapters, hoping to finish the book soon.	/r/seduction	12/06/22 02:26 AM
1	What comes first, chicken or the egg problem. You right you right	/r/seduction	11/06/22 10:13 PM
1	What comes first, chicken or the egg problem. Interesting perspective and there’s definitely a part of me that feels this too. Thanks!	/r/seduction	11/06/22 09:37 PM
–	If you flirt with enough sexy girls eventually one is going to like you I’ve had this dream before too. Nice OP!	/r/seduction	22/05/22 03:02 AM
–	Talking about body count??? Did you purposely fudge the numbers to try and make your argument better lol everyone knows it’s 80/20	/r/seduction	17/05/22 03:38 PM
1	How do you initiate touching on a date? Ehhh definitely read the room and vibes. I did that (hand in leg/thigh) once it felt a bit forced and awkward. While she didn’t outright react negatively she didn’t seem receptive	/r/seduction	17/05/22 07:36 AM
1	Talking about body count??? You have a rigid POV/opinion on this, that’s your right and it’s one I generally agree with. I’ve got nothing else to say. Hope you enjoy debating with everyone else in here lol	/r/seduction	17/05/22 05:21 AM
1	Talking about body count??? Religious??? Unless you think it’s wrong to practice a religion	/r/seduction	17/05/22 05:13 AM
1	Talking about body count??? So now you’re going as far as to say EVERYONE who has a preference for low count is for sure being discriminatory? You talked about slippery slope and now you’re slipping down a different slope 😂. I do generally agree with you but I hope you recognize that.	/r/seduction	17/05/22 05:01 AM
1	Talking about body count??? Okay I acknowledge that. Another fair point but like what can be done? People are still gonna have their preferences regardless. Are you saying discrimination, as horrible and bad as it is, can be completely eradicated? Wish this was a fairytale world and that were the case dear.	/r/seduction	17/05/22 04:56 AM
1	Talking about body count??? That’s fair. That’s YOUR preference lol. Which is what I’ve been tryna get at 😂	/r/seduction	17/05/22 04:45 AM
1	Talking about body count??? Good for you. I’m glad you weren’t made to feel bad the way you’re tryna to make people feel bad for their preferences. Just how in your mind it’d be great if people didn’t filter out potential partners based solely on their count it’d be great if you didn’t filter out people solely on their reasons for their preferences. Again I don’t really have horse in the race cuz I don’t particularly care what count my partner has. I’m of the philosophy let people do and like what they do and like. There’s…	/r/seduction	17/05/22 04:32 AM
–	Talking about body count??? My point was that it’s a preference. There’s no good or bad. You’re the one putting labels of good and bad on it. Interesting hill you’re choosing to die on. Again how come you’re so judgmental of people with preferences? I take it you’ve been rejected hard for disclosing your body count before? Or you were made to feel ashamed of your bodycount? (You shouldn’t be btw, live your best life)	/r/seduction	17/05/22 04:18 AM
–	Talking about body count??? I personally don’t care too much. Maybe if the count was insanely high it might bother me a little. But it’s absolutely a legitimate preference. Same as how someone might prefer tall and muscular or long curly brown hair or green eyes and freckles. Or someone who lives an active lifestyle vs a silent introvert type. It’s preference. Seems like you’re passing a lot of judgment on people who are expressing their preference. Why is that?	/r/seduction	17/05/22 04:06 AM
–	Talking about body count??? It’s neither good nor bad. It’s a preference thing.	/r/seduction	17/05/22 03:51 AM
2	There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date Thanks for sharing. I appreciate your opinion and perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 04:07 AM
3	There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date I see. If we picked up coffee to go and then went on a park walk does that change anything? What an interesting assumption to make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 04:03 AM
5	There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date How is a walk in the park lower effort than grabbing coffee at a cafe lol maybe I just live in a city where parks are popular and used by a lot of people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 03:37 AM
5	If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness. holy shit you a wild boy good luck to your future partner xD	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 05:30 PM
2	Men and Women of PPD: Who Would You Rather Date? You wildin my guy commenting on every lady’s opinion on this thread 😂 good luck to you bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 10:13 PM
17	"Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him" Tf is in her preworkout lol you think she’s sane, OP? Wtf does that even mean lol. Is she not making herself hotter by working out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 04:50 AM
7	Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? Discussion You’re fuckin delusional if you think this is what’ll happen hahaha bless your heart	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 05:05 AM
1	CMV: Only men can change the messed up dating market by having higher standards Behavior starts at the top. The 20%/80% rule is still a thing right? The top 20% of men gotta stick to their 20%. That’s it. But they have no reason to give it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/21 04:11 PM
4	Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead? totally agree it's incredibly unlikely, but playing along with my hypothetical do you think it's possible your lawyer wife would EVER even consider it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/20 05:10 PM
12	Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead? But if you were a 40 year old stocker at Target but just happened to have similar/same lifestyle, experience, education and values do you think your current wife would even give you the time of day?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/20 05:05 PM
1	CMV: Sending men to jail for not paying child support is a human rights crisis Getting a vasectomy might lead to less child support bills. Maybe. I’m not sure though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/19 06:42 AM
–	Had success with acting uninterested towards very attractive girls Question: when they tried teasing you, you didn’t tease back, rather you straight up ignored them? Mind sharing an example dialogue? I’m not experience at all and just wanna understand your thought process and what other factors led to you ultimately deciding ignoring them was the best play - like how did you know ignoring them would get them interested or was that not even your goal and you ignored them just cuz you literally didn’t care	/r/seduction	13/03/19 05:44 AM
3	Are red pillers what women truly want? So you wouldn't say that TRP is necessarily a sexual strategy but a way of life...? On the surface, to me, it seems like it's mainly about "bettering yourself" to be able to get chicks/get laid. I'll continue trying to learn/understand more before I make any final conclusions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/16 04:05 AM
6	Are red pillers what women truly want? I concede	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/16 08:53 PM
4	Are red pillers what women truly want? Curious, what does TRP mean to you? I tried understanding TRP before by visiting their sub and this sub, but never came to a conclusion. What are the core beliefs? some TRPers must interpret the philosophy differently than others. I'm sure there are more extreme TRPers and less extreme ones. Where are you on the spectrum?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/16 08:43 PM
4	Are red pillers what women truly want? humans are really, really bad judges of character FTFY	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/16 08:33 PM
2	Question for TRP, what are some comments that other TRP subscribers make that you feel are false, or represent trp badly? Are you implying employers and employees are on equal standing? Because that might not be the best analogy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/15 09:38 PM