onefornought Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	I Always Assume All Women Find me Hideous You need therapy to get past your self-esteem issues, apart from any impact this might have on trying to establish relationships with women.	/r/seduction	07/06/24 02:33 PM
3	Is it inherently wrong to change yourself? 100% this.	/r/seduction	07/06/24 02:19 PM
0	Is ‘Just be yourself’ good or terrible advice? Good quality relationships (not just sexual or romantic ones) are strongly correlated with overall life-satisfaction. So, setting aside all consideration of a romantic relationship, there are still extremely good reasons to conquer fears about social interaction. Forget about seduction for now and just work on developing 'small talk' skills. Learn from others where you can. Join a hobby/interest group if you need to. Especially watch for the people who just naturally seem able to start up conver…	/r/seduction	06/06/24 08:34 PM
5	"I am not looking for anything" ? - How do you guys proceed? Yes.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 06:58 PM
0	Is ‘Just be yourself’ good or terrible advice? That expression can mean different things. In one sense, it means don't put on false pretenses. For example, if you say, "I love skydiving" just because you want to sound cool but you have never gone, you're just lying about yourself. In this sense, it's good advice. But in another sense it is sometimes meant as reassurance (often insincere) that you don't need to change anything about yourself or your behavior. You just have to wait for "the right one" to come along. In this sense, it's terribl…	/r/seduction	06/06/24 05:31 PM
1	I would fumble a girl even if she approached ME At the start, don't say anything you wouldn't say to your grandma at a church social hour.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 02:32 PM
8	"I am not looking for anything" ? - How do you guys proceed? "then slowly kinda moves away" This is more important than the words.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 02:29 PM
5	Is it always your fault? You've heard the expression: "It takes two to Tango." Both partners need to do their own part, but they also have to be in sync with each other. All social interactions are exactly like this.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 02:27 PM
1	I would fumble a girl even if she approached ME Why wouldn't you want to talk? Talking is probably the greatest thing humans ever learned how to do - even better than using tools. Start by talking to EVERYONE. You want to get in the habit of feeling comfortable initiating light social contact. Talk to people in the grocery store line or wherever you are. Follow these three cardinal rules: (1) Don't be creepy. (2) Be lighthearted. (3) Don't be offensive, crude, or mean (for example, never make comments that could be interpreted as making fun o…	/r/seduction	06/06/24 02:23 PM
2	HighSchool Bullying really messed my mental game when it comes to attracting women This is definitely something more men need to pay attention to. I also had subconsciously accepted the belief that I was 'undesirable.' The belief persisted even after I had had above average success with women. I can STILL discover those feelings trying to resurface, but fortunately I know that they originate in distorted views of events in my life history. Look at your accomplishments and characteristics as objectively as possible. Really talk to yourself when the insecurities come up as thoug…	/r/seduction	04/06/24 03:24 PM
1	“Just get rejected a lot” is the painful way to go Yup. You never know what kind of day someone has been having. Never take it personally, especially since she doesn't know enough about you to really mean it personally.	/r/seduction	02/06/24 03:45 PM