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What makes you think I need to loose weight? Is it only fat girls that you get to talk to in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:38 AM
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An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. This according to US Dept. of Justice. This discussion started with my statement that it is much better for a woman to stay alone than end up with some abusive jerk. Then it developed into discussion about who is abusive. Men are abusive way more than women. This subreddit is poluted by men that believe they are owed sex, and those pressures are very much present in the relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:34 AM
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I didn’t go radio silent You provided one single article which examines specific population group during very limited period of time. For instance, I could cite honor killings in Pakistan and claim all men are fanatics. See item 2 https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Small%20Dick%20Energy I didn’t provide any obscure data. You can just Google “domestic violence” and get plenty of data from authoritative sources. I didn’t say your data is not from valid source. I said it was limited sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:03 AM
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I am not wrong. Info you provided although cherry-picked and not representative of major trends still confirms my claim that men are responsible for majority of domestic violence. They also commit vast majority of violence against women, especially sexual violence. You did not offer any information regarding your claim about high level of domestic violence committed by bisexual and lesbian women, which is ultimate nonsense. Lastly, before labeling me as misandrist you should check urban dictiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:44 AM
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I compare guys here looking for green cards to poor women abroad looking for a way out of poverty. Some of those guys are good looking, intelligent, just like some of those women overseas, and have good prospects, it is just one never knows what will happen once they accomplish their goal. Just like many but not all foreign women dump their husbands once they are brought over and get established here. Obviously, there are exceptions, and I’m sure true love sometimes does happen. Personally I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:38 AM
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So, even after cherry picking information based on very limited sample, the best you can do is “More than one in four women (28%) and around one in six men (16%) had experienced domestic abuse”. But thank you for enlightening me, so now I realize how much of a culprit bisexual women are. So much small dick energy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:15 AM
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No, it is just because you cannot cite any info from authoritative sources to prove your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:54 AM
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Alternative facts in all their glory!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:48 AM
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Just Google the stats. How many injuries, murders, rapes etc are there, as result of domestic violence, and who the victims are. Numbers do not lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:23 AM
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One in every four women experiences domestic violence in her lifetime. Google it. And even if it is just some boring guy that woman is not attracted to - why would she bother? To have an honor to cook him a dinner and give him BJ afterwords while holding his beer? Why, oh why, when she can spend the evening having cocktails with a girlfriend and not be farted at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:14 AM
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Being alone with the cat and a box of wine absolutely beats getting old next to some abusive jerk you had to spend the life with because of societal pressures or lack of options to support yourself. Besides, women are so much better than men when it comes to building support networks, especially as we age. And as we tend to marry older men and men in average live 5 to 7 years less (that US stats), average woman is likely to survive her husband anyhow. It is time for human population to level off…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:55 AM
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Then maybe some therapy. It’s Saturday night and I am off to dance salsa, no time or care to check profiles. This place is not good for mental health b
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:09 AM
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The very fact that you have nothing better to do on Sat night then to rant this much about male superiority here tells me everything I need to know. I am off to dance salsa, and you have a great evening conversing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:08 AM
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Well, both men and women would prefer to be in a good relationship. However, a man would rather be in a bad relationship than alone - or so they believe, as they believe that being in a relationship guarantees sex and someone to cook and clean. A woman would rather be alone than in a bad relationship (assuming that she can provide for herself) because women have less interest as well as easier access to casual sex and don’t want to be unpaid maid (again assuming that she has an income). This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:55 AM
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Nah, just like a fat girl that lost weight but is still insecure and scarred by previous rejections, you will be stuck at 4. Therapy may help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:42 AM
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Well, it’s a choice. If you are so desperate for sex and companionship, lower your standards, ain’t that what you want women to do? Many women do lower their standards, accept divorced fathers, deal with blended families, toxic ex wives, etc. And some decide to be on their own. It’s a choice, you see! Mopping around and crying about unfairness of it is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:37 AM
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Obviously not a Chad, aren’t you, and desperately wanting to be one. No sympathy for you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:18 AM
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I dance salsa. Plenty of Latin men of questionable status trying very hard to find a gal to marry for papers. I am also a smart Eastern European woman who speaks 3 languages. Smart enough to get a scholarship and then a good engineering job here. I know so many smart women back home that would readily lower their standards to catch a man to take them away from the place where there is no future and no opportunity. They beg me to set them up. But hey, if you want to believe that by some miracle y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:14 AM
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Yeah, right, have you seen a Mad Man? That is a recent history. Women are still catching up, however we outnumber men as college graduates even though only since a decade ago. Give it another 50 years and it will even out. And it is because we finally can support ourselves is that we can have standards. Actually, in about quarter of marriages nowadays wives outearn their husbands. Those wives are raising daughters and what a role model they are. Standards will only get higher. Maybe you should g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:01 AM
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You need help. Not only that you hate women for not being able to get them, you hate men that can get them. I sincerely feel sorry for you. Stop obsessing, find a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:29 AM
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My coworker is a hot fit woman and was single until 40. Refused to lower her standards. At 40 she met 35 yo handsome tall and gainfully employed man, they were married 9 months after they met and had a son one year after the wedding. She is 55 now, still happily married and she claims that she would have stayed single hadn’t she made a good match. She believes that her life would not have been worse, just different. She tells this to her nieces and all the younger women. She tells this to her so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:26 AM
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I wish they would wake up pregnant. That would be a riot! Someone should make a movie about guy wishing to be a woman because it is so splendid to be one. Just to experience being ogled, objectified and harassed first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:14 AM
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Plenty of men coming to US trying to marry American women. They want green card. Plenty of men going to SE Asia where they can become Chads. Local women want them as they are poor and these foreigners are rich compared to local standards. I’m sure there is a forum somewhere for men from Thailand complaining about those “quality” women wanting American Chads. Not that American Chads care! It’s transactional, so it is demand and supply and nothing to do with quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:13 AM
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Then only reason men run society is because women were second class citizens for most of the recent history as you yourself admitted. And wishing on us to go back to that so you could get laid is probably the reason you cannot get laid, as attitude like that doesn’t fly with modern women. But you don’t have to wait for “revolution” that would put western women back where you think we belong. Go to SE Asia, find some hungry girl that will adore you because you have enabled her and her poor family…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:02 AM
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Dude, given your attitude and how you comm, no wonder you cannot get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:53 PM
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How about dating a woman ten to twenty years older than yourself? Women do it all the time. I betcha that will open up so many opportunities!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:51 PM
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In addition, we witness so often how men upgrade later in life, and replace their wives with newer models, if they can afford it. Investing in oneself, career, independence, ensures woman’s future, rather than relying on a man - a man is a nice to have for a modern woman, not a has to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:46 PM
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Men are desperate for YOUNG women and they themselves create the shortage that causes desperation. Young men want to young women. Older men want same young women, men over 40 want 20 somethings, men over 50 and 60 want women in their 30tees. Once woman is in her 40, unless she is in a truly great shape and childless, she doesn’t have that much choices. Divorced men want to upgrade, again young women. Sugar daddies want young women. Married men want young mistresses. So for every woman age 18 to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:15 PM
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And this is why many women prefer to stay single!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:56 PM
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Sure, that’s why you are on Reddit with the rest of the whiners. I’m sure you have options, just not the options you want, just as everyone else. Get a hobby men, western women who have an upper hand only have it because they diversified their interests and gained financial freedom. By whining here all you guys look desperate and needy only reinforcing aforementioned delusion. Best of luck to you n
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:21 PM
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Well, nobody thinks about themselves as being unfuckable. Just like nobody thinks about themselves as being stupid, yet they are. But you are right - one woman’s trash is other woman’s treasure, so it everyone around you is rejecting you - look in the mirrror and adjust expectations. Or go to some impoverished country where your market value will be higher. Or be alone. It’s really simple, there is no “issue” here. Just supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:19 PM
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Well, no one likes to be a bearer of the bad news. I mean, does anyone want to be told explicitly that they are unfuckable? Besides, many may get unpleasant at best and physically abusive at worst when spoken in that matter. Geez, go somewhere where your sexual market value will be higher, plenty of impoverished places where women will perceive you as a catch for those few bucks in your pocket. This sub is so depressing b
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:27 AM
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LTR seeking men will not rush and be willing to invest time to try to get to know you and about you even before they meet you. They will ask about your interests, family, aspiration and they will be willing to respond to your questions in detail. On average I waited about a month since start of correspondence to actually meet someone. Don’t go for much younger men, men who send you canned messages, men publishing or sending abs and biceps photos regardless of how tasteful they are, men that flau…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:40 PM
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Exactly, sex is just part of it and not to be all and end all, as it is for many of men. I do not know how such an urge feels, but I saw many making really bad choices and totally wrong decisions cause of it. I’m sorry it has to be so!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:31 AM
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I did online dating for a year or so before meeting my BF. Whenever a man so obviously out (above) of my league responded, I ignored it - he likely only wanted casual sex. Well, so did many in my league, but a bit above average woman gets inundated by responses on dating apps, so you have eliminate many men and you are bound to make a mistake. So if you are a hot guy being rejected by average woman - it could be her insecurities but it could be that it is also that you do not look like BF materi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:58 PM
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Correct! Myself and most of my friends, all females, desire sex once a week in average. Sometimes less. Most of our men want more. Honestly, one of the reasons I don’t ever want to live with my BF is that I don’t want to be available to him at all times - I can dictate the frequency of sex because we do not live together. My fiends always complain about their husbands always being on their case and nagging, and they do it often to avoid conflict - and that makes them want it even less, this may …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:24 AM
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According to your other posts - you are a transgender. Nothing wrong with it, if you want to be a woman. It’s a shame you want to be the worst kind of woman, but again, it is your choice, so best of luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:42 PM
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Depending on circumstances, it is quite possible I could see them as desperate. Almost every woman have stumbled on a guy down on his luck, maybe just dumped, or stressed at work, maybe also drunk, just hoping to get laid as a release or distraction. Regardless of how objectively attractive such a man may be, it really isn’t sexy. Maybe very young therefore inexperienced or equally desperate women cannot tell the difference, but anyone with a bit of self respect sees it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:46 PM
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Unfortunately it is so, suicide rate especially amongst older men is trending higher. Men tend not to build support networks as women do, very few have close friends, rather they have bros, do not relate to their family the same way women do. They often solely rely on women in their life for emotional support and if they are estranged from them or their family they do not know how to cope with loneliness, often develop addictions. American men are especially vulnerable, in other cultures men do …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:29 PM
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Well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:35 AM
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Which sure is a turn-off, the more desperate a man is, the less attractive he is perceived, even if he is objectively attractive. No wonder there is such a disconnect between genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:40 AM
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Amen, they exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:01 AM
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Most of the guys will not get this. So many times my male friends were baffled by the fact that I would not sleep with any man I consider 8/10 or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:01 AM
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That is quite an argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:57 PM
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Because we are less accepting of our circumstances compared to previous generations. And media, social media and access to all kind of info via internet raised expectations exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:26 PM
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Not you in particular, and I agree with you - relationships are hard, require so much compromise on both sides. What I meant that those not willing to put in the work in searching for a right partner and then sacrificing for the relationship should not complain about being sexless or alone - which is exactly what many do on this subreddit and blame the opposite sex for their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:13 PM
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Most laws were enforced by men up to 70s, then women started participating and that is why the tables have turned. Push backs happened and will be happening but you can’t put that genie back in the bottle!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:05 PM
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Only about 20 to 30 % of both genders is worthy of procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:42 PM
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Honestly, only two, maybe three out of 10 marriages I know of are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:41 PM
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Because depression frequently went undiagnosed until recently. And as usual, women are more proactive when it comes to resolving health issues, men are likely to suffer silently or otherwise channel it and not look for help when depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:40 PM
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If it stresses them, men should be staying single as well. It is a valid and wonderful choice. Don’t complain about it so loudly, especially don’t complain about how you cannot get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:37 PM
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Yes!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:35 PM
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It is only since recently that women have the option of pricing themselves out. Up to 80s or so, a woman simply had to get married to have any social standing, with few worthy exceptions that is. It is just a reality in western world nowadays. There is always Latin America and SE Asia if you prefer 60s kind of wife!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:31 PM
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Correct, because for a single woman sex is more accessible and available, comparing to what a single man can get. Not that casual relationships are the best, but can be fun while they last and certainly are better than net negative relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:23 PM
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Man worry so much about being laughed at. Women do not, as there are more dangerous things we are exposed to so being laughed is the last thing on our minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:55 AM
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As a woman that dated frequently - I was never asked, not explicitly at least. The only time I was asked was when a man inquired if I was intimate with someone he personally have known. So I am sure there are many guys like you. And what’s the point of asking anyhow, when one cannot ever verify it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:52 AM
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You go play a little computer game now dear boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:52 AM
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By excluding half of brain power humanity as we historically did? I don’t think so, progress happened in the western countries where inclusion and equality are encouraged otherwise conservative societies would be super powers. Luckily we are on the right track, we will continue to use all the brain power by educating women in developing world - and in return we will stabilize human population to manageable numbers by having women participating in work force and having less babies. We already see…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:37 AM
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It is only matter of one generation until 3rd world catches up. Birth rate is already going down and girls education is improving in most of southern and eastern world. And good even for those impoverished women being brought over - at least they will not go hungry and at least half of them will move on from the men that brought them over as soon as they establish their ability to provide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:23 PM
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Actually tech, science and medical advances in last half of century have been nothing short of revolutionary. Less war and conflict than ever. I guess not everyone can contrast and compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:18 PM
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Actually tech, science and medical advances in last half of century have been nothing short of revolutionary. I guess not everyone can keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:16 PM
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I am single and alone - and yes, it’s lonely sometimes. But I consider myself much happier than many of my friends that are in toxic relationships and stuck. Lonely people believe that being in the relationship is better in general and that is not true. And even being in a good relationship will suck some of the time. So pick your poison and your trade off in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:24 PM
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Well, this is exactly same for women over 50 and has always been. Somehow humanity survived. Boys will be fine, and accept that sexual attention is not a God given right. Maybe society will learn to appreciate their purity and virginity, the same way it is appreciated for females.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:14 AM
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Exactly. Numbers are skewed because men expect younger nubile partner, and the older they get, more of the age gap they desire - famous half your age plus seven. So young women, especially attractive ones have all the choice, less attractive ones and less capable ones will be picked up by older men leaving young men with less choices, as they are unwilling to go older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:38 PM
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Maybe men should “settle” more. Like with older women. In the past, many women married 20 to 40 years older. There you go gents - all problems solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:00 AM
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So bring back “good old times”? Prevent women from being financially self sufficient so they have to start “settling” again. Is that the solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:56 AM
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