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LIFESTYLEoniochalasia/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 07:23 PM
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ADVICEoniochalasia/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 11:49 AM
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I agree with what a lot of people have already said here - I'm sure your guy doesn't really care that much ( in a nice way!). Everything you said in your first paragraph is what matters in your relationship. Respect, team dynamic, heading towards marriage. That's great! My guy is older than me too (22/32). We are both in the same industry but I am at a much lower level than him and he is in management and has been for years. I often have a lot of issues that I want to vent about that I'm sure he…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 01:11 PM
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Thankyou very much for explaining this to me, it has made me feel so much better! I definitely see where you're coming from and I will practice reminding myself of this more often now. This helps a lot!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 10:53 PM
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Thankyou, it makes me feel so much better to hear about other peoples experience and understanding of this. I definitely felt quite alone in this until reading all these comments. You are right - I don't have many female friends, I don't actually have a ton of friends anyway. I have recently moved to a new city and know very few people apart from my boyfriend! Yes, I do care deeply and have put a lot of effort into making my relationship work and applying RPW things I've learnt. I am very proud …
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 01:09 PM
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"Humans need beauty to motivate them to have hope, motivation, and ideals. It ought to be a natural part of our lives." I really like this - my mind immediately jumped to how I always want to motivate my boyfriend. I want to be that person who demonstrates the beauty in the less practical but more joyful and inspiring things in life. If he's had a horrible day at work, I would like to be that example in his life when he gets home. This definitely makes sense to me and is something I can apply/ a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 01:01 PM
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Haha! Thanks for this. Yeah you're totally right and good on you! guess what I really want is to cultivate a feminine frame of mind that then makes how I outwardly look feel much more easy and natural. Or does it work better the other way round? Thanks again
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 12:54 PM
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Thankyou for your detailed reply, this really helps. I have always had quite bad social anxiety and just generally been quite a nervous person, afraid how I am perceived etc. I think this is something I need to work on. Yesterday as a birthday present for myself, I bought a really fancy perfume and some nice underwear. I know this might seem like just regular stuff for a woman to buy, but it felt so weird to me to treat myself to things like this. I did make me feel more feminine owning and wear…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 12:49 PM
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Thanks for making such a detailed reply! I agree with your advice - I think there are ways for me to add things like this into my life without betraying my nature. Like you said about the jewellery and clothes, I suppose there's a time and a place for Being girly. For everyday, I might start trying to include some simple minimal jewellery - I've noticed that almost all the girls I work with wear a necklace/bracelet/rings everyday so I will try go for something like that. Your "basic" girly cloth…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 12:28 AM
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Thankyou. From reading the comments I do believe that this will come with practice and not something I should just try to force. I'm going to try little steps at a time! Thanks for your reply.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 12:21 AM
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Yes! growing up, my mother has always tought me the importance of practicality! I feel like I would be betraying that part of me in some way if I dressed more girly etc. I know that I am deep down quite feminine, but I have a hard time expressing it, I suppose. So glad to hear that you understand! I just had a quick look Finger ratios. My ratio seems regular for a woman but I had certainly never heard of it before and it's very interesting! Hopefully there is a way for me to express my feminist …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 12:20 AM
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Thankyou for your reply. I totally agree. I definitely do want to look nice and make a good first impression on people and especially to set the contrast high in my relationship. I will keep your words in mind!
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 12:13 AM
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Thanks for your reply. Yes, I suppose so. I hope this is the case anyway as this is the only issue I seem to have with RP. I think in my mind everyone else seems to find it extremely easy to be this way whereas I seem to struggle so much. It's possible I'm overthinking it slightly!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 05:18 PM
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Hi, thanks for your reply. What you said makes sense to me - I have already done things that once felt unnatural to me and now feel normal. I suppose it's the same thing? I think with the nice clothes and jewellery etc - it all feels sort of unnecessary or extravagant - maybe coming from the whole "people should like me for more than my looks" or something? I obviously don't feel like that anymore, but maybe that's where it comes from. I have never really been extremely girly so it all just feel…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 05:13 PM
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If you do master this look, please share how you did so - I have no idea how to do casual feminine and didn't fully realise until I just read your comment! Thanks for making me aware of this, good luck with your resolutions!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 12:23 PM
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You're welcome. Also - thanks, I will check that out!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 02:01 PM
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Adding to a lot of the advice here, just start cooking things that you like the sound of or you think your man will like. I personally love following a recipe and find it enormously relaxing and fun to go out and buy the ingredients and to have something ready for my man when he gets home. Knowing that I'm doing something to help him relax and feel better after a hard day makes me feel great about really focusing on cooking something. Even just getting a few fairly simple recipes perfected that …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 01:44 AM
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Have you seen any of the "Charisma on Command" videos? I don't know the guys name but he always has a very strong yet relaxed presence. The videos are also great and informative. Good luck with your channel!
/r/askTRP07/12/16 11:20 AM
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I think thinking too much into how men perceive makeup is a mistake and a waste of time. When I first started staying at my boyfriends house and applying my makeup in the morning, he was surprised at how long it took and said that he always thought I was "quite natural". This was funny to me because I actually wear quite a lot of makeup daily and dramatically improve my appearance because of it. Makeup is also one of my hobbies and I occasionally wear bright and glittery looks. The point is, my …
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:21 PM
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