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There's people saying it here 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:13 PM
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It screams closeted gay with severe self esteem issues, good thing you left that asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:23 PM
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Oww poor you You came to an online forum throwing hate at women and then got your feelings hurt when women fight back? I'm so sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:05 PM
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I see you don't have any feminist/single mom/fat friend 😉 The hate just tells me this is more about jealousy than anything else, reality didn't reflect what you are saying But if it lets you sleep at night...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:47 PM
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Fat women, single mothers and feminists are often in relationships. Men can't stand the people they consider "inferior" have a better life than them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:19 PM
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Yes. Not sure about the war but they definitely want to go back to a time where women needed them and were not allowed to do stuff without men's approval
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:52 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:50 PM
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In my country the president had his dead dog cloned (5 english mastiffs) and there are some interviews where he says the dog is still alive. He also said his sister is a medium to communicate with the dead dog, and that's how they make political decisions. You can have this guy, it's not fun anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:02 PM
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I think it's so dumb to judge someone for their age 1) you can't help it, everyone is going to agree 2) there's no lack of men at any age. Yes older men get in relationships with older women, that's what normal people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:28 PM
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Holy shit the parasocial is high Destiny is probably is insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:23 PM
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Enjoyed? Of course not It's a shitty situation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:14 AM
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Op, you forgot to take your meds
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 07:27 PM
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The only thing I agree with Jordan Peterson is "clean your room" and I say this as a messy woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:38 AM
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KIM JONG UN IS 5'5 we may be onto something here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:43 PM
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Just Dictatormaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:17 PM
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yes unless they've been together for years (in which case I suspect there aren't any news to share lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:54 PM
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I'd watch this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:52 PM
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there are more chances that you are more mature as you age but not always Would a 20 year old working parent be more mature than a 40 year old childless man who never worked? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:51 PM
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Be Civil
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:44 PM
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I think women in general are more vocal about everything. If a friend of mine is having good sex I'm going to know about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:43 PM
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But apparently men are not born to plan dates 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:04 PM
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u/Maractop you know you are not supposed to block people you naughty boy 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:29 PM
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that's up to you to decide are you able to see women as people and not just someone to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:27 PM
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Now Be Civil 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:21 AM
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Well that depends on the eyes, mine are generic af, they don't stand out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:19 AM
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If the compliment is specific I believe it if they say some generic stuf like "nice eyes" then no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:18 AM
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how about TEETH
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:44 AM
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my sweet summer child
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:36 AM
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yes, how many times I wish people read other comments to answer their own questions jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:53 PM
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if by now you don't understand it I'm not sure I can help you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:52 PM
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like I said I don't believe there's going to be an incel revolution but a threat is a threat incel's lack of sex is threatening humanity's future (acording to incels obviously 😂) I'm not going to repeat this again because if you didn't get it by now I don't know what else to do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:05 PM
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yes, they are saying that smoking threatens their health
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:55 PM
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not them obviously they can't even go outside (although there were some public shooters who talked about an incel revolution lol) it's so plain to see "If you don't do this, this terrible thing will happen" there's no way that's not a threat no matter how you see it a ridiculous threat obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:27 PM
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thank god they don't measure their manliness with money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:40 PM
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my sister earns x3 than my BIL it wasn't always like that, there were some years my BIL earned more they are fine, going 20 years of relationship now ​ my mother eraned more than my father. Again, they were fine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:50 PM
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I'm glad I didn't die during my anxiety night the sleeping pill knocked me off woke up and cleaned my appartment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:39 PM
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I'm always cold anyway 🥶
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:26 PM
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Yes, that's how threats work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:49 PM
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Wdym how do you know they are young By looking at them? Also who goes to a spa with their opposite sex bestie? That's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:00 AM
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you are doing it again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:09 AM
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Good for you we don't do happiness on ALP or PPD
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 12:42 AM
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Society will not collapse if we fall below 1 birth rates. of course society won't collapse but people here say that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:53 PM
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Exactly "this is not a threat but if this keeps happening society will collapse"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:49 PM
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That's not enough, imo Maybe you walk like prancing or look around a lot (I don't know how to describe it) But maybe that's just me, maybe other women are scared of size
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:36 PM
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Because they ugly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:33 PM
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Imagine not committing to someone you like because your friends bully you lol what are you 13?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:31 PM
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I like a guy younger than me I'm planning on absorbing his youth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:30 PM
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Just let us know, we'll be there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:28 PM
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It's all part of Big Friendship agenda Tinfoil hat *
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:25 PM
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A guy that agrees on everything is boring and lacks personality Why do you need to make up a strange explanation when a completely rational one is right there (Women are attracted to kind men, they are not attracted to men who appear to be kind because they have no personality)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:22 PM
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Do you look shady? I'm only scared of guys who have a certain way of walking (like they are looking for something) and don't have a backpack or bag. Guys that don't seem to be going to a specific place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:16 PM
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It's small talk. Sometimes is ass kissing but most of the time it's genuine bonding men could use some compliments too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:11 AM
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TRP rebranded very basic dating advice and PUA tactics that have existed since forever I swear you can see most of TRP advice on 80's women's magazines
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:02 AM
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I know the literal definition I'm explaining how it's used irl as an insult. it's like the "nice guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:00 AM
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I know but let's say guy A: had sex 3 times this year but has a deep hatred for women guy B: had sex 3 times this year but he's generally normal and fun to be around only guy A is an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:07 PM
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because then they stick their dick in crazy, have a bad breakup, come here and say "all women are crazy, they call you evey 5 minutes, burn your underwear and torture your cat"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:57 PM
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if your eyes "light up" with violent video games, does this mean you intend to shoot up a school?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:54 PM
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I'm not sure I understand but I usually follow them for example if they took an hour to reply maybe I'll reply right away a few messages but then all of the sudden I'll stop replying for an hour to see what happens Also initiative is important. Are they making questions? Are they engaged? If I see the person is somewhat interested (and everything's going well) sometimes I leave a dry answer for an hour or 2 and then double mensaje to continue the conversation just to show I'm interested but that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:09 PM
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Not a privilege sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:04 PM
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"escort" is a better word, and no, that's still not a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:52 AM
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Not when we are talking about prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:48 AM
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Where are the stats that abusers are doing better than average guys with flowers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:45 AM
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😂😂I didn't know the future of Humanity depended on them having a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:43 AM
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I wouldn't call that privilege though, more like a "job opportunity". I don't think letting a guy pay you for a trip comes without any cost
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:41 AM
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Charly is such a husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:37 AM
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You were probably banned because you comment here, it's default
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:35 AM
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You measure that by the speed they reply to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:34 AM
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Who tf puts their passport in a bag, that's mistake #1. You put it in an inner pocket in you underwear with emergency cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:32 AM
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They say literal abusers score more than "nice guys" and we already stablished that nice guys aren't really nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:27 AM
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You replied in a way that implies entitlement 🤷 Creepy entitlement because the point is she didn't like the act, and that's creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:39 AM
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I didn't know people prepare for it like hours before lol. It's the least spontaneous sex act. Makes sense though. Like gay guys I imagine. Anyway I have never tried it, I'm scared of hemorroides lol sorry tmi
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:30 AM
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But she didn't like it Why would you wanna try something that didn't work out? Better have someone else have that shitty experience and find a new thing to do Unless you are implying that you don't care that she didn't like it because at least you got to stick your dick in an ass even for 5 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:26 AM
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Tbf I have a friend who does anal with randos, but she also does it in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:22 AM
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I've been here long enough and I've never seen it either Also never happened irl so.... Idk Links?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:16 AM
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I literally had someone tell me that he didn't want to take women's workshops (pottery, cooking, yoga, like that's all women do obviously) because that's gay but he also didn't want to take any other activity like a sport (cycling, running) because there's too many guys it's like dude, relax, just enjoy the activity and the people!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:07 AM
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I don't know maybe leave a book titled "does the hymen hurt when penis" and see if a woman tries to read it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:05 AM
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I become that guys need to work on cultivating friend groups with women in them. 10000000% this I'm going through this right now. I joined a support group that meets monthly and I found out there's sub groups of people that like each other and hang out. I have a lot of anxiety but I don't think there's another way around it. once you form a group of 3 people you can already start inviting other people to hang out and (I hope) that's how you expand your circle eventually someone will come or you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:02 AM
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ppd be like How are men expected to meet women in today’s world? answer1: OLD? cold approach? no! 80/20 blablabla answer2: maybe expand your social circle? have friends and friends of friends? no! that's pointless answer3: maybe go socialize in an activity like dance lessons? no! that's gay answer4: maybe travel and meet new people? no! (not sure why not but no!) answer5: maybe go to random meetups? no! also PPD: are AI girlfriends the future of humanity? sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:50 PM
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classic ppd high standards ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:19 PM
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isn't it exactly like "gamer girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:06 PM
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I haven't caught up are we pedos now? always have been teen pill does sound Michael Jackson-y
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:05 PM
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nothing it's just "pair bonding" sounds so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:04 PM
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lmaooooo exactly like Twilight don't tell TRP, they get very offended if you point that out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:03 PM
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omg why do people have to make things so weird "the chances of pair bonding decrease with age" = I want to meet my soulmate asap " the idea of being this man who's sitting very low in the totem of pole of male hierarchy seeking a woman who's higher in the totem pole of social hierarchy and having it not work out of them is something they've yet to connect the dots on." = men should have friends and confidence helps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:58 PM
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but teen love is something that just happens unless you had really strict parents that won't allow it in which case you are going to have bigger problems later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:48 PM
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are you having fights in a golf course? man that's some first world problems right there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:47 PM
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Jumping on the teen pill subject without reading anything It's not about deciding to take the teen pill or not, it's about you being able to go through that stage naturally. If for whatever reason you didn't experience teen love but are somehow socially adjusted you can experience love later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:43 PM
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🌈❓ ​ jk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:39 PM
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This is common sense, I don't see how is this a pill. When you are a teenager is the moment to be awkward and learn. With love, friends, work, etc. It's a learning stage we all had to go through, for some it happens at 15 for some later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:37 PM
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Wtf is the teen love pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:31 PM
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suuuuuuuuuuuure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:50 PM
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you mean all the stupid "studies" people post here are also BS? absolutely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:07 PM
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what are you going to prove? that ppd men resent women? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:36 PM
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no, you are only proving this place is an echo chamber
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:24 PM
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what are we supposed to discuss? it's just your personal bias in action If I say "no, they are looksmatched" there's nothing else to discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:12 PM
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I honestly don't know. I had a friend that was able to get dates from talking to random women on the street, but tbf he would talk to just anybody and not with the intention of flirting, it just came naturally to him. Regarding normal conversations I can do that easily, specially travelling or walking a dog, or at a waiting room, etc. But they never lead to anything because that's not my intention. I just think that approaching someone with the clear intention of flirting in a place that's not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:46 PM
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you never started a random conversation with a person at the supermarket or wherever? Old ladies do this all the time if you have a dog that's just socializing on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:08 PM
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Or maybe approach more casually, striking a random conversation like you would on a line at the supermarket, and then you see if that can lead to something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:32 PM
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Ohh I understand!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:08 AM
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do people orchestrate dates so much? isn't that a little excessive? what's to plan? you meet at a bar, you have a normal conversation, they walk you to your car/taxi/public transportation, maybe something happens in that moment what else do you need to plan other than "we meet at 8 on X location"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:31 AM
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My advice is that your body is too used to the vibrator, that's why human touch is not enough. What I would do in your place is to stop using the vibrator and masturbating all together so that you build horny. Once you spend some time without any, your body will crave it and anything will do the trick. You have to reeducate your body to be aroused to a different movement/touch. I hope this helps (or like other commenter said, have him use the vibrator, that's an immediate solution)
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 10:14 PM
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I know A LOT about my friend's sex life, that's how we bond, by telling each other dating issues. And when you talk about a dating issue, you get advice. I think maybe men don't get together to chat about love life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:05 PM
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to see if a good boy is a good boy I need to know him first why is this such a hard concept lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:39 PM
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it could be people have very strong parasocial relationships, so who knows maybe in the future..... It's not so different from being "in love" with a streamer or a pop idol. In fact it's safer btw I loved the movie Her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:38 PM
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No, they weren't alphas to begin with, it's more like I got hurt so now I'm more cautious but you go off to believe all the TRP bullshit you want lol there are good men out there that aren't so fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:29 PM
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I mean, if a guy can't wait for more than one date because otherwise he feels insulted that's vulnerability I'm at a point in my life where I want to get to really know the person before sleeping with them. I have had ONS but I don't want to do that anymore. So if a guy feels insulted because I don't sleep with him on a first date, that's too bad, I'd move on to someone who doesn't take the wait as an insult. this is about compatibility, not responsability
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:03 PM
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Then she's insulting every man who doesn't get first date sex with her. if he's that vulnerable then they are clearly not compatible oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:54 PM
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Are there any 30 virgin women out there? aren't them like unicorns? I honestly wouldn't know where to find them unless church, and even there, it's probably hard. All the religious people I know are married by the age of 24 Unless you are religious it's pretty weird to be a virgin by 30, that's why they tell you to not disclose it The women probably don't care that you don't like them
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 08:35 PM
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When a girl holds off on sex, it's because he's not attractive enough. or she doesn't want him to think she sleeps with every guy on a first date I though men cared about ncounts If a woman sleeps with you on a first date it's safely to assume she does this with everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:08 PM
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exactly no? like they could totally use their rational superiority to act with their brain and not the penis
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:40 PM
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HUMOR, it shows 2 very important qualities like being able to read the room and intelligence VULNERABILITY and EMPATHY too being there for me and letting me be there for him fluid communication
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:28 PM
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a lot of men are fleeing to AI girlfriends are they? where? I have never seen them, are they on OF? also your coworkers are absolutely right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:25 PM
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same here! that's why I hate Tinder. A pic tells me nothing of a person. I need to know the person to be attracted. It's so frustrating when society expects you to have sex by date 3.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:16 PM
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It's always so funny to see comments like this get downvotes when it's the most normal thing to happen
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:12 PM
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if you are in love or are having good sex you get attracted physically
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:08 PM
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lol yes they are! believe it or not There's one specific video circulating on this sub about guys measuring their face with rulers and coming up with a number I can't find it now but it's real!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:52 PM
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the truth normal common sense is Looks are important for first impression but personality is what holds a relationship you can do all the research you want but that's what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:41 PM
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Not all of them are shitty. I know plenty of good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:35 AM
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Because I thought they weren't shitty? How hard is this for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:33 AM
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Read again, I said it a million times already
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:32 AM
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Because they are shitty 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:22 AM
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I don't know what that means 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:19 AM
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I never said that you are replying to an imaginary comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:45 AM
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pretty sure yes, it's all TRP, blackpill incels it's all the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:44 AM
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Men generally police other men, women generally do not police other women. tell that to the whole TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:42 AM
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yes, telling men to stop raping and killing would be great. This already happens though, we even have laws and jails for them. TRP has a whole thing to encourage men to lie to women to get sex the men do that and then they come here blaming women for believing such lies do you see how it doesn't make sense, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:44 PM
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It's more a personal thing some people can, some can't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:22 PM
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exactly that's why there's no incentive for them to choose NiCe GuYs over shitty guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:20 PM
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says the people who claim that Emma Stone and Sendaya are a 6 😂😂😂😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:15 PM
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This sub makes me appreciate men who touch grass more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:13 PM
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Feminists need to be criticized because they're against shelters for men, fair divorce laws, and hotlines for abused men. this is not true. Also that's how social movements work. Imagine if the first homosexual fighting for his rights would give up on the first "no" they received. Again, thinking that someone else has to make the change you want is extremely privileged. If mensrights want shelters they should just do it. And literally nobody will be against it. be constructive and fight for your…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:10 PM
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No they’re not. how do you know? I dated ugly guys (and hot ones) guess who cheated on me? the ugly ones lol don't you have average friends? are your parents and family all chads? this is like explaining that grass is green
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:07 PM
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have you ever read the comments? it's literally a cesspool I wish mensrights would dedicate that energy in building shelters for men, proposing more fair divorce laws, having hotlines for men's issues but no, they dedicate their time in criticizing feminism and that will lead nowhere I also would add that expecting other people to solve their problems is a big fucking proof that they are privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:43 PM
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🤷‍♀️ I mean if you didn't think it's misogynistic just by reading the sub you surely weren't going to change your mind by any rational explanation so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:30 PM
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that doesn't make sense if you know you shouldn't why do it? you are not going to literally die if you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:05 PM
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Average men aren’t getting the chances to “jump at” in the first place. yes they are lol this is such a NiCe GuY way of thinking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:04 PM
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and?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:00 PM
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autofill suggestions don't include "?" so those are probably questions if you put "personality matters more than beauty" first result is looks may be important in initial attraction, what really holds a relationship together has much more to do with how two people connect on a deeper level. BP common sense answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:49 PM
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oh yes it is https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/ublde6/why_is_rmensrights_hated_so_much/ here's a good explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:26 PM
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It's possible to respect someone as a person but still want to fuck them. THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:12 PM
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"personality is more important than looks" literally nobody is saying that when people talk about personalities it's assumed everyone knows beauty standards are a thing. Specially women that have to live with the pressure of wearing nice clothes, be thin and wearing make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:06 PM
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here it applies the "coworker effect" meaning that average people have more chances with people they interact daily in any activity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:49 PM
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Literally no one with option would choose a used up older woman with other man's kids they do that all the time what are you even talking about? do you know people who are +35?? everyone has kids, they are with each other. the real world is different from the reddit world. I know at least 6 couples with kids from prev couples. they are happy people. That's why it's important for women to be economically independent. That's even in the TRP for women sub. It's not about finding a nice guy that can…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:43 PM
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ahhh that's why it's either not listed or can't see it thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:37 PM
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do you have the link of the trp sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:27 PM
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totally agree you can always adopt if it's a biological issue there's nothing you can do about it so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:18 PM
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the idea that a man dies if he's not having sex is crazy you don't *need* to put your dick in crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:13 PM
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I met a hot guy (a friend of a friend) but I also noticed a girl I like was already trying to hook up with him. So I stay away from them when they are having a 1:1 convo so no, I'm not competitive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:57 PM
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Well, they are the ones complaining about men the most. and? if there's advice to give should come from other women who are supportive from an honest place this post isn't about the wellbeing of women, it's another lame attempt of "but I'm a NiCe GuY, wOmeN ShoUld ChoOse Me" So no, I don't have any sympathy for women who choose shitty men nobody is asking for sympathy. This post isn't sympathetic, it's vinctim blaming so if you could stop writing about it that'd be awesome 👍 There is no incentiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:32 PM
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same with women why would they change if they will always have the choice between one or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:20 PM
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oh so you are worried for the mental stability of women lol sure again, if you think shitty men ruin women, change the shitty men. Women will always have the choice to be with one or the other so..... it's only a problem for men, not for women there's no incentive for women to change
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:13 PM
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what does take accountability even mean? I'm a woman, I have the freedom to choose one or the other the past shitty men I dated were fun, now I'm into something different I take full accountability that I got myself involved with them, so what? that's what I wanted at the moment so I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:09 PM
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if shitty men are ruining women, why not convince shitty men to not be shitty? (instead of encouraging bad behavior like they do on fresh and fit and such)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:06 PM
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also you never see men policing other men for being shitty, in fact they encourage it and then blame it on women for having bad taste in men smh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:05 PM
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are not going to have the chance to actually exercise their desired fuckboy lifestyle you'd be surprised In fact sometimes it's even worst because insecure men will take *any* chance of having sex with just about anyone. Even if they have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:59 PM
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I have to be honest and say that I have dated both. Now I'm back in the good normal guys. Now blaming me for my daddy issues is stupid. Why don't we blame the shitty men for being shitty and that includes my father for not being there for me when I needed him the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:56 PM
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at first I was confused with the boys bands example but that's totally it. An incredible handsome pre fabricated fake unatainable Chad then comes real life with imperfect people that we love so much more because they are real. I wouldn't even call it settling, it's just growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:51 PM
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'how do I become a more interesting person that women find irresistible?' the problem is they bring a lot of outdated conservative gender stereotypes that are insulting, like "women are submissive" "women BiOlOgiCallY prefer pink dresses and have kids" "men providers" "career women are bad" etc etc etc that's why they keep getting hate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:13 PM
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and then they gaslight you like the other day that someone told me Andrew Tate isn't misoginistic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:11 PM
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andrew tate, fresh and fit I'm pretty sure they have on the side bar something along the lines than women aren't capable of feeling love so......
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:10 PM
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The Red Pill subreddit what's the TRP sub? I tried to find it the other day and couldn't I wanted to copy and paste something from their sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:08 PM
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you have r/AllPillDebate that's pretty much a circlejerk of depressed adults not linking women r/MensRights is super circlejerk misogyny I got like -50 for pointing out that nobody read a poster correctly lol also the CMV posts are supposed to contradict OPs views, or else the comment gets removed. Not many BP post though, that's why it seems that it's all against TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:07 PM
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exactly this! it's also a common trope like in Married with Children. It's such a boomer joke that for some reason TRP rebranded with cringe terms. Like you said it comes from a time/cultures where people start a family very young. My friends who are married with kids come from a progressive background so they had their 20s to experiment and have fun to finally settle at 35 to have kids. It's not guaranteed that their marriage will last forever but at least they are mature enough to be economica…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:25 PM
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I dated (and liked) so many non chads. I also confessed my love to 4 guys and they all rejected me, They are not chads, I'm not a Stacy, we are all normal average people. I dated a chad once but he was so narcissistic his beauty became boring after a while. people around me are the same. Non chads with wifes and babyes, all looksmatched. So idk what reality this incels live in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:45 PM
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lobsters..................... idk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:37 PM
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I think it more like they see a normal couple, happy, with a kid maybe, and because that goes against their beliefs they make up a story saying that she's not really happy inside. So much for a movement that has stats for everything. There are not stats that say that she really isn't happy because she's "Chad widowed"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:01 PM
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I've seen yt videos of foreigners living in Japan and they say they are not the most welcoming society. They don't like strangers very much, specially if you are an English teacher. They think they only go there to party. Also many said that they behave in closed groups of friends. Not like us that we invite friends of friends to parties
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 12:57 PM
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People at the supermarket isn't a personal anecdote since there are supermarkets everywhere in the world, you should try it sometime. Go outside and look who shops, who are couples, who has kids etc. Parks are algo good. Basically any place *outside" Yes, if you paint women in bad light, that's literally misogyny. It's very funny when the same people that repeat misogynistic ideologies then are all Pikachu face when women reject them. The neurodivergency comes when they think "it's not that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:47 PM
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Can't deal with other people's happiness no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:38 PM
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The insults must be fun though! Also you get to report them no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:37 PM
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me too! I've been going to therapy for most pf my life so I'm used to that type of conversation. Men definitely trauma dump a lot. All of the guys I dated cried at some point and it was a bonding moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:26 AM
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one of them needs to move out of his parents house so... yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:02 AM
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It doesn't hurt to work on yourself I have 2 friends that struggle with dating. Both of then could use some work on themselves and that'd help them a lot. One of them is balding so he has to shave his head, the other one would look super hot if he went to the gym. BUT the problem in TRP is thinking that's the only thing they need and that's far from correct
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:49 AM
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totally. The act of choosing one species of chimps over another to compare humanity is a totally biased act
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:42 AM
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but one thing is saying "that guy is super hot" and a very different one is to harass people online to tell you which number you are with decimals. Beauty also depends on the context and how you carry it (if you are outgoing you are going to be perceived as more beautiful) the decimals in the numeric value gives me neurodivergent vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:40 AM
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there are things about people and relationships that can’t be boiled down to objective facts exactly this also the numerical value is so weird. I didn't know about it until I came here. It makes as sense as you tell me you are a scorpio, since there's no objective way of measuring something as subjective as beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:38 AM
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It's so difficult because getting a divorce over one comment is also too much, specially with a kid in the middle. So sorry OP, I hope you can let it go someday.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 07:32 PM
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and then they have the audacity to say that bluepill is delusional lol imagine thinking you know better than the actual person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:06 PM
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just to add there's no prof of the AF/BB thing either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:02 PM
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I've had people here tell me that normal couples at the supermarket don't exist so you tell me who is more delusional also the idea that you can understand personal relationships with % and studies is kind of neurodivergent NT people don't need a study to tell you that beauty standards are a thing and going to the gym will make you look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:55 PM
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society tends to equate youth with femeninity? no, this is not a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:00 PM
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funny how the rest of the world thinks he is anyway Andrew tate is red pill so...... he's not a misogynistic asshole? ppd will argue that water is wet my goodness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:49 PM
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sure, not misogynistic like Andrew Tate or Jordan peterson 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:35 PM
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it's all different flavors of misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:26 PM
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THIS SUB?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:17 PM
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TRP is mixed with neurodivergence and ND people expect certain answers because they can't understand some parts of the outside world. They expect a BP answer to be something like "You have to be 48,5% nicer to women to get dates" when the BP answer is "just read the room"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:16 PM
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This poll actually tells that there are no females in reddit there are women on reddit they are just not here WONDER WHY
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 05:11 PM
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a large amount of tattoos this only means he has money, nothing else unless they are prison tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:02 PM
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Of course not, it's a machine men are still going to compete with each other for the human women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:54 PM
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Women not conversing, side-eyeing one another, refusing attempts from other women to engage with them. women's workout doesn't require interaction though, it's all cardio on cardio classes women make friends with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:51 PM
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so you have a terrible idea about women so you made up stories in your head while going to the gym? right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:49 PM
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Women are the majority of violent actors in our current society lol no just the other day I saw a group of guys kick another on the ground and I thought how common that is in men and how uncommon in women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:48 PM
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It's the equivalent to men being all nice to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:37 PM
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It's absolutely not your fault, a trip to Paris is what anyone would dream of. Even if you've been there many times there's still a lot of stuff to do to be amazed together if she was disappointed fuck her, you deserve better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:30 PM
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I get that Paris was the surprise, but once you arrived there, she should've said "I've been here before!" and you should've planned the trip together. That's what I mean by lack of communication You could've totally taken a 1 or 2 hour bus to another city that she didn't know to be amazed together. I think she put you in that awkward situation and you should totally blame her. This is not all experienced women, you planned a nice surprise for her and she didn't have the decency to be happy abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:22 PM
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I'm sorry but she doesn't sound like a good person and/or you are having communication issues. If you tell her "We are going to Paris!!" she should've said "I've already been there, let's plan our trip together". What's the point in letting you take her to a place she already knows sucks? Let's say she wanted to let you lead by lying, then she should've acted accordingly and lie all the way by faking enthusiasm. Still, this is super strange behavior. She should0ve said she already knew Paris and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:56 PM
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we also have all sorts of synonyms of whore as common insults, for example son of a bitch, slut, yo mama, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:40 PM
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This is a personal issue. OP we don't know you, maybe you are weird on dates, maybe you have bad luck, maybe you have a shitty taste in women or can't see the red flags via messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:38 PM
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exactly, this is not the threat OP think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:32 PM
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No, if you put specific % numbers in quotes without clarifying that's an example there's no reason for other people to interpret that's an example Are the real numbers even close to 10/90? Or you literally made everything up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:58 AM
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If orgasm doesn't happen during sex there's always the possibility to finish by hand or oral. If your can't finish by oral that's weird and probably won't change if it's a LTR or a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:56 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. I don't know what's going on in your relationship but I feel that she's the problem, not her experience. I'm old, I have experience, but I try to find what's unique about the person I'm with. For example I found that I like a sex thing that I didn't previously like, so I let him know that he's special because this sex act works with him and not anybody else. Physical compliments too, so that he feels hot, etc. If she doesn't make you feel special.... Idk... Why be with he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:48 AM
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I've seen this happen IRL! It's like 2 weirdos find each other and don't let go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:28 AM
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Isn't that kind of cruel though? First times having sex are usually awkward, you don't know what you like, how to position your body in a way everything feels good, you don't know how much foreplay you need, etc Imagine condemning people to go through all that every time they meet someone new
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:06 AM
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I would be a cuddling whore 😉
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 11:54 PM
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I wish cuddling hookups was normalized imagine meeting with someone for a cuddling session with no strings attached, just netflix and cuddles, no sex
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 11:45 PM
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you think only 10% of women enjoy casual sex 😂😂😂😂 where did you even get that number from, that's insane
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:37 PM
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sex is not all about orgasm though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:36 PM
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OP thinks women don't enjoy sex 😂😂😂 kind of telling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:34 PM
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this is true. I just met a 2 guys and I loved the bond between them so I (F) started hanging out with them. I kind of like one of them but I don't know him yet. Meanwhile we are going out with other people and having fun
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 10:52 PM
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Some men can read social cues, some can't, some think they have to insist, they think "she's playing hard to get". Maybe women do it too but in general it's men who take the first step. I think that campaign isn't an attack on all men, it is to eradicate the "I'm going to insist because she's probably playing hard to get". (Yes, Also maybe some women are probably playing hard to get)
/r/MensRights30/09/23 02:33 PM
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It means don't insist, don't be dense. If you approach them and you notice they don't want to talk to you, don't insist I don't think there's anymore than that
/r/MensRights30/09/23 09:37 AM
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Why is everyone forgetting to read the word "if"
/r/MensRights30/09/23 02:19 AM
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😂😂😂 ikr I just can't stop laughing how people take this seriously
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 09:09 PM
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post it here bet nothing will happen
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 09:06 PM
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there's a million comments everyday how women are shallow, golg diggers, dumb, incapable of love. Specially on this sub don't victimize yourself
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 09:05 PM
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still hotter than guys posting here though
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 09:03 PM
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Or hot men choose hot women who are obsessed with their looks. Hot looks are difficult to maintain as you get older. If their relationship is based on being hot, it surely is stressful to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:31 PM
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oh! sorry I thought you were talking about PPD rules
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:27 PM
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how is that even related there's no proof she's being pumped and dumped by guys better looking than her. You forgot to explain the dump part you can't just throw any link and expect to make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:24 PM
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Of course there are rules that explicitly forbid non-feminist answers what are non feminist answers? pedo answers??? lmao also there's a post on the RPwomen sub with a clear example why age gap relationships are potentially predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:22 PM
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oh YES
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:20 PM
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no, that's not enough evidence because you don't know how they look like, which is the whole point of discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:17 PM
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idk if these particular stereotypes but fitting into beauty standards obviously helps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:12 PM
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Masculine men can intimidate their enemies who??? thiefs? bears? who are you intimidating ????? also this is "masculinity" not "toxic masculinity" I'm honestly tired of people not doing proper research no, I won't share links, you can do that yourself, I've had this convo a million times
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:57 PM
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I'm just talking about what I think people think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:55 PM
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usually simp for women far less attractive than them the famous ok cupid article disagrees with this though When we looked specifically at sending the first message, we found one striking habit: everyone’s a reacher, meaning people tend to reach out to someone more attractive than they are. To put a number on it, men are reaching out to women 17 percentile points more attractive, and women contact men who are 10 percentile points more attractive. This means that if a woman does nothing, her inbo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:53 PM
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All could be solved by men lowering their standards to the women that do pay attention to them but this sub isn't ready for that remember it's you the one with the problem, so you should change
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:43 PM
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Today someone posted in allpilldebate about how he spend a lot of money into his appearance and also got a good job and that made him happy 70% of the comments were bitter and unsupportive I know allpilldebate is a cesspool but got me thinking about how men don't support each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:39 PM
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I think it's also about strength Men are assumed to be stronger so a woman "can't really force" a man to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:31 PM
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whooshhh is this not a post about hunger in the world OMG now Be Civil 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:28 PM
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sure, and there are kids in africa who are starving, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:19 PM
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Yes, OP is right. Some people that would fail on OLD can definitely get lucky in a group of friends because you get to know the person, share stuff, even travel together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:17 PM
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and saying that men who don't have that shouldn't complain about struggling to date is just kicking someone that is already down If they admitted a social circle is important, sure, but that's not often the case
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:14 PM
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and? saying that someone has it better won't solve your problems
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:11 PM
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Vsauce did a good video that covers a similar feeling yesss I saw this, it is a really good video
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:24 PM
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Are men discovering the concept of beauty standards? good job
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:02 PM
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Taking care of people is seen as 'feminine' but you see how contradictory you sound if you want to women and men to take care of people you shouldn't call take care of people feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:19 PM
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if men continue to feminize starting by not calling taking care of your spouse as "feminine" It's not "til death do us apart (unless you are a man)"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:48 PM
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That's great!!! All those things absolutely help build confidence. Congrats!! Why is everyone so bitter in the comments can't you just be happy for once?
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 03:23 PM
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so.... having ptsd is a sign of lack of self control? would you say men who went to war and suffer from ptsd lack self control? you have the definitions mixed up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:57 PM
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But how does it make any sense to be tiptoeing around someone who needs a smack in the head. It's so weird and unappealing. That doesn't mean equal partners aren't going to stay by your side, that's how any couple is supposed to be These women are on constant mental gymnastics to be able to propose better solutions without undermining a guy that clearly has an extremely fragile ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:34 PM
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If you traveled to 2005 TRP men would have said that men are biologically attracted to small skinny asses (britney spears, christina aguilera, etc) Women who are hot now were considered "fat cows" only a few years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:14 PM
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Have you been to the red pill women sub? many posts are something like: "my husband gambled all of our savings and usually comes home drunk. How do I approach the subject while still making him feel like the captain of the ship?" I can't understand why would anyone not like TRP for women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:11 PM
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this is my idea of doctors I don't accept anythig less
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:03 PM
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70+ dates and none of them worked out? Mmmmm idk, that's like the exact opposite of knowing women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:58 PM
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Sorry to hear that, yeah that's just plain old bullying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:30 PM
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the difference between creepy and awkwward is insisting. If you are awkward and insist (keep sending messages, stalking, forcing a conversation, etc you are being creepy if you are awkward and mind your own business you are just awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:03 PM
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creepy behavior is doing something without realizing you are not wanted. It's basically not getting social cues. So if the other person already likes you you are not going to come off as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:44 PM
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is this the whole concept of your post? to call other people ugly? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:20 PM
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imagine being 25 and thinking you know all about women 😂😂😂 very cringe honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:45 PM
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Like I said before, my friends are married, ceremony and all, they met their SO later in life, past 35 y/o my friends that are hooking up don't want relationships. One of them is poly. are you on that age range? do you even know people on that age range? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:35 PM
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nono, I say the same every time someone posts about this, which is like once a day. Some ppd men rather have negative attention from women than no attention. mods are probably going to make a megathread with this topic because it's boring to always be talking about hypothetical girlfriends PPDers don't have
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:31 PM
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you love the attention, though otherwise why ask? normal people just live life without other people's permission
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:07 PM
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nono, relationships too, most of my friends got married and had kids in late 30's, past 35y/o. I also have friends who are hooking up with no problems. That's why I'm not sure where TRP has the idea that 35 y/o women are crying at home because 35 y/o men are after 20 y/o, that's just.....not a thing I'm personally not looking for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:02 PM
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lmao jealous of porn, this is a new one lol women don't value sex like men do because it's easier for them, so the idea of being jealous that someone else is having sex it's not even a concept
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:56 PM
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But age gap relationships trigger older women emotionally. as you can see by the replies on this posts and the replies everytime this is posted it's all women that are triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:54 PM
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we should make a sticky post with this I'm so tired of ppd's mental gymnastics when a perfectly good Occam's razor explanation is right there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:52 PM
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that's not true, there's no cliff, there's always men who will want women 🤷‍♀️ I honestly don't know where TRP got the idea that women struggle after 35
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:50 PM
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I'm +35 and I don't struggle with dating. I'm not hot If there's a cliff I haven't seen it yet, there's always men who will want women 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:47 PM
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Also, women don't care how much sex you have access to. exactly, this is more a men between men competition since it's easy for women to have sex in general
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:40 PM
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I see. For me it's being able to make people laugh. I think there's a lot of intelligence and reading the room ability to make good jokes. by "nerdy" I meant people who are into the same stuff as me like reddit, youtube, memes, etc. As opposed to sports guys, who I have nothing in common with. btw I went to a couple of reddit meetups and both women and men were horny mfs. I thinkI saw a couple of couples form there. And everyone was shy/nerdy/goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:33 PM
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an example of something natural is like yawning when you see someone else yawn. It's a reflex that doesn't change throughout history without a lot of analysis. Also the fact that men tend to be taller and women tend to have boobs, Having a tendency to DIY or wearing pink for femininity is not "natural" because it fluctuates, it's trendy, it belongs to a time and place in history. I feel that your definition goes in circles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:04 AM
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yeah I agree shyness is an offputting quality but being nerdy or goofy are attractive for people who are also into that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:27 AM
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what's next? she's not really stuck in the washing machine? shocked pikachu face
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 01:51 AM
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I like meeting new people. I like it when somebody invites me to a party where I don't know most people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:41 AM
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turns out people on this sub aren't sociable shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:40 AM
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shy/nerdy/goofy guys are appealing to shy/nerdy/goofy guys girls don't expect to be appealing to people who have nothing to do with your lifestyle like party drunk people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:26 AM
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it's not like there's a finite amount of self esteem and women are having it all, men should also have self esteem. also men's worth isn't based on how women value them and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:18 AM
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it's not like there's a finite amount of self esteem and women are having it all, men should also have self esteem. also men's worth isn't based on how women value them and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:16 AM
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but that's because he should be doing something else, you are shaming his inactivity in the case of sex it's the opposite, they are shaming the activity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:05 AM
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your comments are so weird of course not everyone does drugs or drinks at parties lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:01 PM
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hmmm yeah? you never had a woman tell you about the good sex she had with a random dude they just met?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:00 PM
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It's misogynistic to think that the woman is always the fish Women do a lot of things to seduce men, to hookup. Despite the orgasm gap a hookup is fun and some women look to hookup with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:57 PM
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I think you are confusing self control with vulnerability. You can have a vulnerable moment by bawling incontrollably threatening suicide, or you can be vulnerable talking about your feelings and past trauma like the type of conversation people have with their therapist, in a collected mature way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:52 PM
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fixed or healed fixed? the hymen? healed? from what? the sinful act of sex? If you don't consider sex as sinful you don't need to heal or be fixed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:47 PM
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absolutely, losing your virginity is overrated best sex is sex you already practiced with someone you already know and have chemistry with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:44 PM
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sex workers as exploitative? that doesn't make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:41 PM
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You mean if secular couples valued more marriage they'd be still together? maybe, who knows. People make bad decisions all the time But what's the point? Why is there this fanatical love for marriage? We all know a bad relationship is worst than being single. I think good relationships don't require a lot of effort for them to work. Also "marriage" means nothing in 2023 since so many couples simply move in together and never do the paperwork
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:28 PM
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gym bros have become a huge red flag to most liberal women it's TRP the red flag, not the gym. Normal people go to the gym too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:20 PM
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classic old "Im jealous"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:00 PM
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People don't tent to praise things that easy but people don't tend to shame things that are easy either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:41 PM
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nono, I need data as to why those women+chad relationships end Data shows non Stacys date Chads. What we don't know is why their relationship stops. People end relationships for so many reasons but PPD men are so sure Chads don't actually like the non Stacy women they sleep with, it's a pump and dump. See how hard it'd even be to reach to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:22 PM
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yeah, this is it one thing is saying "I want a 666 man" and then actually getting one and a very different thing is saying "I'm going to literally die if I don't have sex but I don't like "fat bitches" or "sluts" or non virgin women, or anyone +30, no single mothers and no feminists"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:14 PM
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do you have any actual data that supports this? I see it repeated again anad again but it all sounds like fantasy People start relationships when there's physical attraction. How do you know the reason they break up is because of lack of physical attraction? And not something else like cheating, fights, incompatibility, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:09 PM
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lied to in the past by who? you mean a short guy sees a post with a poll that says that women like tall guys so he assumes that's why his past partners ended the relationship? that falls into category 1 because we all know there are beauty standards (it's part of the reading the room ability), a beauty standard is not a lie, it's right there. If you can read the room you can know that you are expected to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:03 PM
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sure until you logically and rationally tell a man that he has a small dick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:56 PM
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just to watch the blowup There's 2 kids of people who don't lie 1- The ones that don't know how to read the room so they think it's apropriate to tell someone they are too fat. (I'd also say that's probably one of the reasons they struggle with dating in the first place) 2- The ones who enjoy the blow up because bad attention is better than no attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:51 PM
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Because they start the marriage when they move in together also non religious people don't have a problem with divorce, religious people do, so they might stand a bad relationship just to avoide divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:15 PM
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I don't know my friends are all getting married and having kids with people their age in middle 30's I don't know where did this idea that women struggle at 30, in fact it's the oppposite. At 20's people are less mature and not ready to settle. Dating becomes easier at 30 for everyone. Also friendly reminder that people are not against every age gap relationship, only the abusive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:13 PM
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what, are you jealous? everyone could use more confidence and less whining
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 01:34 PM
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who fucked 100 fat chicks it's like you've been personally summoned
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 01:33 PM
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Jfc This isn't about you but thanks for the essay 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:55 AM
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Me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:53 AM
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people are saying being ugly isn't the *only* reason people are failing also there's not much other people can do, if you can go to the gym, go, if you can afford plastic surgery, do it, idk there's not a lot of engagement because there isn't much to talk about
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 02:47 AM
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Looks obviously matter nobody is denying that, maybe that's why it has low engagement. You didn't need a study in the first place to state what's so obvious
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 02:30 AM
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Sure, I know cantonese, latin, zulu and spanish why not, do you think I'd go on the internet and lie? literally nobody here ever talks about a single hostel/traveling experience It's all "threats" like women are going to throw their panties at them please don't leave!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:27 AM
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lol right I dare you bring that up irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:00 AM
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that's weak lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:49 AM
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idk, I don't care about your personal experience, you could be lying who knows most of passport bros don't they are scared of going outside
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:48 AM
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I would like to know how men here go from being scared to go outside to travel for an extended period of time to a third world country that doesn't even have the same alphabet as their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:40 AM
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exactly, it's like TRP translated sitcom/romcom knowledge into cringe words
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:35 AM
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Oh! It's been like a month since nobody posted about passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:34 AM
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According to this sub many will literally die
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:31 AM
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I thought you were going to talk about clogged drains and hair everywhere
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 12:20 AM
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Politicians are the same in every country I'm not saying they aren't rich, I'm saying they hide that they are rich people don't like them because they re rich, and also they are ugly so there's something else that makes them appealing.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 11:42 PM
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of course not lol that's crazy talk I dare any of you bring that up IRL lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:39 PM
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advertising/marketing agencies also work overtime and it's filled with women. Anything that has to do with planning events too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:10 PM
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🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 right of course, what was I thinking It's fine, this is how you get engagement on a post, I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:08 PM
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Not all of them and also being rich as a politician is usually something people don't like. Politicians try to appear innocent, humble and relatable so that you vote for them, they usually hide how rich they are. People assume if a politician is rich they are corrupt.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 11:06 PM
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So? it'll never be exactly the same, not even if you are coworkers yes, women earn less what's your point OP? I don't understand what you are trying to prove are you saying women have to do house chores because they earn less?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:00 PM
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that's not true look at politicians, their main goal is to be appealing and most aren't physically attractive
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 10:35 PM
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I don't understand incels don't work? do they have a secret pension for not having sex?
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 10:32 PM
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It's not about literally the Holocaust It's about not taking things personally
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:27 PM
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I think if you have a normal amount of surgeries you'll look fine, it's when people go overboard when it looks like shit
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 06:24 PM
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everything is contradictory because people are different and we are all allowed to write stuff on the internet, that happens with every topic, there's never one view. You need to use your critical thinking skills and form your own conclusions. you are not supposed to take the holocaust example literally it's about learning about bad things that the group you belong to did in the past without taking it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:05 PM
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There's plenty of info online You just need to not take it personally. Imagine it like being German and reading about the Holocaust and not getting offended. It's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:11 PM
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False confidence is confidence. People think confident people are not afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:00 PM
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Why though? Why would a company hire someone who doesn't care or understand that they have to act a certain way? Imagine a sales employee. Why would anyone pick the guy who won't appear confident selling whatever they are selling? Would you buy something from someone that says "yeah, idk about this, maybe it'll break in 2 months, you still want it?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:58 PM
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I don't think confidence and grief are mutually exclusive though In fact a man or woman that expresses vulnerability is way more confident than someone who does everything to hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:53 PM
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It's so creepy coming from guys who probably don't leave their moms house
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:41 PM
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Broad range of preferences AKA they are more horny and more desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:32 PM
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So to you it's completely fair that a couple divorces and he doesn't spend time with the kid and doesn't contribute money either 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 Great plan, go equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:18 PM
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Of course, feminine traits have been a sinonym of weakness. "Being emotional" is considered a bad thing and only reserved to women (even though men are also emotional). Crying is weak but punching people is cool. Sahm is "not a real job" It all comes down to patriarchy, a system that oppresses everyone and yet somehow men still support it (even though it's bad for them too)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:06 PM
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Is it 2 different dudes? Read the title of the video
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 02:41 PM
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He's hot though I don't see feminine in him
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 02:40 PM
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Wdym Society made them be able to even the length of their legs? Yeah
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 02:30 PM
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I've seen some Koreans get stuff done that you couldn't even tell and it made a big difference. Small stuff like jaw shaping and eyebrows lifting. Imagine someone being asymmetrical...
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 02:10 PM
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that's only if it's a bad plastic surgery
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 01:59 PM
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the problem with this is that he probably had a certain view of women and that made him sleep around a lot
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 01:57 PM
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I also think that most incels are a BJ away from becoming bluepill. 😂😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 01:53 PM
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Love songs are written and performen by men and women even if you personally had bad experiences you can't deny that fact
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 02:25 AM
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Like always, it's not what you say but how you say it Fat people are disgusting =WRONG I want to date someone with who I can share a gym routine and diet= OK
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 02:00 AM
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the problem is the term "whore" you can totally say that you prefer low ncount women without sounding like an asshole
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 01:57 AM
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It makes you apreciate men who touch grass even more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:36 AM
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Someone’s got to keep reminding you that we don’t like misogyny and sexism this is why I'm here also high engagement in a moderated space
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:33 AM
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Oh absolutely! I think bumble has a good system that benefits everyone. Another posibility would be to limit swipes, but let's remember OLD is not a free service, no company would profit from limiting interactions on their apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:49 PM
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owww an insult, how cute 😂
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 11:47 PM
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Incel spaces were shut down because of the toxicity. Now they are here. I don't believe for a second that you came here for advice. Even PPD is better for that. Go to a lesbian sub for lesbian advice, no? Or dating advice? Relationship advice? You just wanted to talk trash about women. Don't come crying when men don't take you seriously in other places, you are fueling misogynistic mentality.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 11:33 PM
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If all men decided to not swipe on everybody, a match would be more valuable. Otherwise it creates the illusion of abundance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:28 PM
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Because it means women aren't as shallow as men here portray them to be, that's my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:29 PM
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Oh sure, you made a post on an incel sub because you are looking for real advice suuuuure 🤣🤣🤣 You like the attention incels give you "woMeN aRe BaD".
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:28 PM
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Why, what's the point in swiping on anything Women want to be picked, they want to be special, not just one of a million swipes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:24 PM
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You are still getting a lot of attention from men by trashing other women, literally pick me behavior Hetero pick me women aren't necessarily attracted to the men they talk to. Because, like you said, women are extremely picky.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:22 PM
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You still don't have any data about what happens to those men who are outside the 20% The rest is common sense, I'm not sure why you need data for that It's not surprising that in a society where it's considered masculine to make the first move, the same happens in apps. Men swipe on anyone and obviously message more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:20 PM
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It means women aren't as shallow as men here portray them to be. You don't know what their intention is, that's just your bias. Maybe they don't care about looks that much or found something different in their bio who knows. You don't have any actual data about what happens to those guys outside the 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:17 PM
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Great pick me pov! 👏
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:01 PM
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Well yes, obviously, after the match is up to you I mean, it seems kind of weird to complain that more handsome and engaging people exist on the same apps. If apps didn't exist, it'd be like complaining that your gf has a hot coworker that might hit on her, or remind her that beautiful people exist (and she could do better)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:40 PM
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again, then leave, nobody is stopping you that's the whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:09 PM
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I agree 💁‍♀️ if you don't like your partner's clothes you can leave, nobody is stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:55 PM
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how is walking with your boyfriend an activity that atracts other men? also remember that practically any mixed activity attracts men. When we tell men here to do activities to meet women, like a sport or a book club or whatever, that means a woman will always be surrounded by men who want her so what's your solution, make her stop going to those activities just because it attracts men? men also don't care what you are wearing, they will hit on you even in sweatpants
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:44 PM
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I had a bf who would celebrate me wearing cleavage because he liked seeing my boobs outside (I know, shocking)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:34 PM
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This is a huge dealbreaker for most men. then explain hollywood stars, red carpets and small provocative dresses hollywood stars usually attend these events with their partners....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:30 PM
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Fourth. It's unlikely that a dog will bite you out of nowhere so it wasn't necesary to walk out in the street. Some men also show off their girlfriends like it's a price
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:26 PM
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Yes they are If you want to avoid a dead bedroom you shouldn't stop going on dates, giving presents, dress sexy, have enthusiasm, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:24 PM
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great job! we are solving most world conflicts!!1!1!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:47 PM
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“women find 80% of the men on the app unattractive” *but still would message guys outside that 20% " the most salient of which is that the average-looking woman has convinced herself that the vast majority of males aren’t good enough for her, but she then goes right out and messages them anyway. " link
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:24 PM
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I feel that men would desperately swipe on literally anything and then blame women for not doing the same I read profiles, I analize pics, I don't swipe on anybody. I feel like a match from a man doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:20 PM
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I agree but doesn't that go agains this sub whole narrative where men don't AF/BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:29 PM
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GENIOUS you solved rape, good job next is let's prevent rapes by convincing men not to rape
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:58 PM
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In my 30s, settle for a long term stable relationship with an intelligent, kind, empathetic and supporting partner who’s at least relatively good looking. isn't this AF/BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:54 PM
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there are plenty of discord servers where people socialize from there people organize meetups
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:23 PM
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"Community" for most of human history was never about "shared interests." but you still need to find an excuse to get together like church, helping others, sports, work, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:20 PM
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So you are saying keep an excel file counting the hours, to be able to balance it or in the future? That's unrealistic Also remember child support is what the father is supposed to contribute anyway. You can't have them divorced and him not paying for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:31 AM
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You can't have a kid be breastfed 50% of the week and formula the rest of the week That's not how breastfeeding works
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:25 AM
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That's not how breastfeeding work you can't have the kid not be breastfed half of the week, the baby has to be with the mother. So, how do you plan to make the guy provide 50% when he can't have the kid 50% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:23 AM
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OP doesn't understand how different people behave and think differently It's like saying "if humans like to be safe and protected how come some have guns in their homes and some are against having guns in their homes"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:22 AM
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it doesn't actually reflect reality. where are you getting data that most relationships are miserable? tiktok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:20 AM
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Why would a woman know women's desires better than a man unless she's trying to project her own experience onto women? just curious would this work the other way around too? Why would a man know man's desires better than a man, unless he's trying to project his own experience onto men? Or is it a thing where men simply know more than everybody because men are somewhat superior beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:18 AM
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No child support exchanged. Oh so that means a man will contribute 50/50 in shared custody too? also 50/50 in expenses? what if the kid is breastfeeding? if the kid is too young you can't separate them from their mother, how are you planning on making the guy do his part?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:12 AM
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show me if there are so many of them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:55 PM
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that's not the same as complaining that nobody approaches them they are complaining about the quality of the ones that are out there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:37 PM
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the first 5 are fine what are you talking about? they literally need to add or remove a few pics (like the indian guy who doesn't appear without hat or sunglasses on any pic) the first one has too few pics, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:12 PM
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If standard A gives no results and standard B gives you results, guess which standard should be your standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:00 PM
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eventually these men would begin to lash out violently more and more men aren't that stupid though Imagine lashing out violently (potentially going to jail) just because a rando called them ugly on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:55 PM
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Friendly reminder prostitution is the oldest job so I doubt it depends on a specific internet platform
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 07:30 PM
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old women will hate it because it is the threat to them that many men their own age However you don't see women posting on and on (and on and on and on) about how age gap relationships are fine it's the men posting again and again about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:27 PM
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You just need to find women who also had plastic surgery and that's easy
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 08:35 PM
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You can plastic surgery your way into chadness with that money
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 08:34 PM
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You still don't know this though
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:53 PM
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The guy is hot though very hot
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:41 PM
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then you are nice person, not a Nice GuyTM
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:59 PM
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You can tell her your dick is above average and she might believe you
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 02:23 AM
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Only works if you're hot that probably means you are not manipulating, you are just hot and probably look dumb trying to manipulate
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 02:18 AM
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always carry your incel with you in case of bears! also bring a spare incel in case the first one gets mauled
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 02:16 AM
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lol totally guys are usually quick to point out "no, not me, I have plenty sex, my friend has a problem, I have a 15 inch dick"
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 02:14 AM
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Like what? what would you tell them to manipulate them? "I'm a millionaire" "I have an 8 inch cock"
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 08:49 PM
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the keep trying because that's impossible not all women are in pottery or cooking classes and if you are intimidated by other men maybe you can work on self esteem issues, because even if you meet someone, you know she will be interacting with other men all the time and you'll never feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:47 PM
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This is why I always carry a simp with me to protect me from the zombies
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 08:32 PM
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😂 I mean what if there's a bear outside......
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 08:30 PM
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not too soon don't you people have a social compass? It's like farting or make a dirty joke in front of someone you just met so many things are forbidden when you are barely meeting someone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:28 PM
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Those aren't the kind of things you're going to be invited to do unless you're already known to the group. I used to participate in a group that was for people who didn't have anyone to travel with. We made a few camping trips. It was a group of random people, mostly women. I also used to participate in a group that got together just to party (couchsurfing meetups). Ratio was 50/50 and everyone was horny af. The problem is if you join these groups just to meet women you are going to come off as …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:23 PM
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You have to be open to all kinds of people. Eventually the friend of a friend will bring someone you might click with It's a win win situation because worst case scenario you have a good time socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:53 PM
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yes, always, I think if you are alone at a party it's better to socialize with just anyone instead of targeting exclusively women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:16 PM
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then maybe the lone wolf should grab a drink, socialize and dance? that's how you don't get viewed as a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:58 PM
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2: why wouldn't you enjoy activities with women? I don't understand. women go to bars, cookouts, camping, weekend vacation....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:55 PM
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It's more about being sociable and inviting people and telling those people to bring more people For example you start an activity and form a mixed group. Instead of sticking to the women on that group you tell everyone to bring other people. That way there's always a flow of new people you are interacting with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:50 PM
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While I agree I don't think it's a better alternative to those sketchy "studies" where they ask 200 people, draw conclusions and post it as a "thesis"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:45 PM
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💁‍♀️✨💅
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:09 PM
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hmmmm and now you might be lying
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:00 PM
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how do you know?
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 04:56 PM
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exactly my point we can't know that's why I'm saying maybe she didn't believe you that's why she blocked you
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 04:42 PM
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of course bro why would anyone go to the internet and lie
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 04:15 PM
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how do we know they are not just simply random pics of women you found online? or coworkers
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 03:20 PM
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here's a pic of my first boyfriend
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 03:16 PM
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I don't know how the conversation went but naybe she didn't believe you? like here's pics of guys I dated: first bf, second bf
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 03:13 PM
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I like Moist Critical, he's not exactly a viking he's a small viking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:09 PM
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Queerphobic woman this is a thing though, not necessarily from women, from a part of society I had a queer coworker who told us he couldn't be chilling minding his own business at a park (for example) because there would always be someone staring at him and whispering their worst nightmare was group of young guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:08 PM
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exactly it's not the threat you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:35 PM
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if your partner happens to be +10 years older younger it's fine the problem is actively looking for 18 year olds, that's creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:54 AM
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I thought the same if it's a hookup or a fwb I understand not wanting kids with them but a relationship? it doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:49 AM
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it's still an issue because you both view sex very differently. experience doesn't have to be related to view of sex. They could be a virgin because they value sex or because they just weren't able to have sex (but would fuck a million people if they had the chance) ask yourself, would you have sex with a virgin? if the answer is no, why not? I would ask why are they a virgin. Is it because they are waiting for The One? then I would probably not have sex with them because that's not how I see se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:45 AM
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thats how you end up in relationships that are doomed to fail. unless you meet someone and focus on the present instead of their past and them not being a virgin becomes a non issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:17 AM
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why would a non virgin want to be treated like garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:15 AM
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people are still hating on FDS? they've been gone for a while now
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 01:26 AM
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why don't you answer to what I said then? op linked statistics saying that a group of people that say they are happy actually aren't I commented "so, what's the point? what's the problem with these people thinking they are happy what's the harm" the you said exactly what op said so I repeated my original comment, "what's the point?" if you can't continue a conversation idk what else to do, none of your comments argued or brought anything new to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:06 PM
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I'm pointing out where the problem is and it's not in the people who are happy it's in the people who can't stand that other people are happy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:05 PM
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absolutely she's not comfortable, she's acting
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 03:58 PM
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he's not a chad
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 03:57 PM
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they don't have a problem you have a problem you don't like other people to be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:46 PM
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so you have a group pf people saying they are happy but you know that deep down they are not happy you? who are you? do you even know this people? put yourself on the other side. You are happy, having a great day, and then some random internet dude comes and tells you "stop that fake smile, you are unhappy, I know better than you" isn't it a little ridiculous?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:30 PM
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Your say that, op doesn't, I've never seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:42 AM
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mine is not anecdotal its logic and common sense you don't believe me? try it in the outside world, see if people don't look at you weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:09 AM
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Feminists do care that men don't believe them. men not caring is what fuels feminism, it's proof that it's still needed And last time I checked men aren't running into feminist circles and their spaces to pull fire alarms to stop them from talking. of course because feminism is 150 years old and it's well stablished now. Mensrights have a long way to go yet, or you were expecting the world to automatically bow? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:06 AM
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No. It's not a thing. also normal people don't believe in what you call "science", people in the real world think those studies are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:00 AM
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I feel that women dating they are happy single is not if a response to this types of "crazy car lady" posts Or a response to centuries of being dependant on men. Now women have the choice of not being married with kids and men don't like it because they are not needed anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:14 PM
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Nobody in the history of humanity gets a divorce just because some demographic online is saying that they are happy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:06 PM
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What's the harm? I don't understand. How does it affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:05 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:25 PM
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So if the average woman wanted to increase her life satisfaction but the point of this post is that the average single woman is saying that she's happy. So she's not looking to increase her life satisfaction because she thinks she's happy what's the point of telling this woman who is saying she's happy "no, you are not"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:28 PM
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then you have to continue making movements until it works. Nobody said it was going to be easy, we are talking about millenia of conditioning. feminists don't care that men don't believe them because they are obviously going to disagree, that's the whole point of the movement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:21 PM
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What's the point of telling someone who says they are happy "no you are not, you are sad" what is the point of all this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:17 PM
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What if there was a men's movement where they didn't need women's acknowledgement to validate their struggle? At the same time they'd be providing each other with a support network to feel less lonely... Bear in mind that there's no political movement that earns acknowledgement from the start. That's why it's a political struggle....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:10 PM
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If women understand and empathize, don't gaslight etc while still not having sex with them I bet they'd still complain. "The male loneliness" isn't solved by understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:00 PM
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If it's the men who lying to women who want commitment why is it women's fault? it's like blaming the woman for not violating the guy's privacy to know he's cheating. If a woman cheats on you, is it your fault too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:57 PM
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I believe it's not about "male spaces" more about encouraging men to have a support network like friends and family the other day I got together with some male friends and one of them was telling us how he was sad about his ex, and he got together with some friends to cry. He was upset but had a support group of friends to feel better that's what I'd like to happen to men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:39 PM
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then why don't men talk to other men so that they stop using women who want commitment just for sex? I don't see how women are in the wrong here. They are horny, they want Chad, chad has sex with them, chad leaves them for a better choice. And that is somehow women's fault?????
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:31 PM
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I can understand the initial feeling of settling. You meet someone and they don't check all the boxes but you continue to date them because something is better than nothing. BUT THEN I discover the person checks many other hidden boxes I didn't know I needed to be checked. So what initially started as "settling" transforms into HVM I would never want someone to settle with me, that's horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:01 PM
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feel protected means they like tall men however "protection" means something else like many people have been commenting here, like emotional support
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:30 PM
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it was his duty to protect me from..?? cockroaches honestly that's a good trait to have
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:20 PM
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that's the point of campaigns, to convince people who wouldn't initially care some form of de-stigmatization of incels
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:12 PM
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what of the campaign was directed to women? "all men are beautiful" but so that women see it so that they know what men go through
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:57 PM
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lol I'm not hoeing around again, nice try so touched I won't be able to sleep tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:42 AM
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why are you changing subject it's like you are ranting about what you want to rant not following a conversation like a crazy person standing on a corner with a sign
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:42 AM
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none of that is the same as saying that 80% blablabla and my point still stands. It's not like nice guys are better people, they are just bitter uglier men. Why would that be a better choice than an good looking guy? ugly guys cheat too if they get the chance to so that's not exactly appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:09 AM
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OH NOOOOO I'M DOOMED JESUS CHRIST 😂😂😂😂😂 your nice guy threats don't scare me but nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:47 PM
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Did the ok cupid study that said that " that the average-looking woman has convinced herself that the vast majority of males aren’t good enough for her, but she then goes right out and messages them anyway. " turned into Imagine being so delusional to think 80% of men are below average in looks If you think about it, the study is almost 10 years old so it's only logical that people would slowly transform the meaning of worlds to the extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:39 PM
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I appreciate the intention but this is not second date conversation, more like 2/3 months dating conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:07 PM
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that's not true every time you meet someone new there's a period where people say what they like, because everybody is different there's no such thing as mind reading magical lover the difference is when you tell someone you like something and they don't do it, or think they know better, or whatever, you get tired and stop fucking this happens in FWB and in LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:57 PM
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sure, that's none of out business though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:21 PM
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then with that woman you already lost, she already thinks you are less masculine for not knowing about female anatomy but usually when women give instructions is for you to follow them if you don't follow instructions you definitely sealed your fate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:05 PM
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The woman clearly is playing on the men's feeling for attention/control/ego, but she's letting everyone know she prefers male friendships is this another form of "women don't know what they want"? because it seems this woman knows what she wants and guys still think they know better than her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:09 PM
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I know what you said but wanting to cheat is as bad as actually cheating I still rather be with someone with choices than someone who would cheat but doesn't just because they are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:56 PM
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I had someone here tell me that it's not masculine to follow instructions during sex "go right honey please" "NO, I'M MASCULINE, I DON'T FOLLOW INSTRUCTIONS FROM A WOMAN" "ok but that's my leg"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:44 PM
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which seems kind of unfair since it's men who put women on a pedestal that they simultaneously hate leave women alone, stop being simps and most men's dating issues will be solved
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:36 PM
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resulting to personal attacks because you don't like the truth? classic sad person take
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:34 PM
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Imagine being with someone ugly because you think they are not going to cheat on you because of their lack of options I repeat, you don't think they don't cheat because they are loyal, you think they don't cheat because they can't you do you, I have more self esteem than that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:33 PM
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One hard truth this sub isn't ready to debate: Being able to read the room is the most important ability to have. If you weren't born with it you are probably fucked. That's how you can explain normal non chads having normal relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:40 PM
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and make me feel normal lmaooo same every time I see IRL situations that people here say they don't exist it makes me feel very normal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:32 PM
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I'm so tired of the "I'm a nice guy!!!1!!23!!!" "nice guys" cheat too so might as well be cheated by a hot guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:01 PM
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choked her as they were kissing. Ugh. it's like for some men there's no difference between porn and real life jesus christ I've also had some similar moments where I was WHAT THE FUCK YOU HAVE TO ASK FIRST
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:00 PM
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I am sorry you listed a bunch of assertions without providing one sherd of evidence. because "education gap relationship" is not a thing, there's obviously no data, that's crazy. Should we not allow such couples or marriages to exist because they "might" abuse said power? it's not either or. If there's an abusive relationship we (as a society) should help the abused. Age gap relationships are as legal as wealth gap relationships. What's not allowed is abuse. That's cool and all but facts don't u…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:17 PM
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I know I know, I just thought it was funny realistically you are right I'd me intimidated to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:05 PM
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that's basically communism 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:22 PM
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I don't get it either other than a ideas for a porno lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:19 PM
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For most women, this is probably one of the most terrifying situations to be in be in an island with 50 hot men that are nice to me and want relationships with me with no evil consequences if I turn them down? 🔥🔥🔥🔥 yes, of course, terrifying /SSSSS
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:16 PM
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of course, mommy issues are rampant here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:05 PM
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because it's statistically more common to be abused in age gap relationships than in education gap relationships. Wealth gap relationships are tied to age gap. It's very rare to find someone younger more wealthier abusing an older poorer person, that's not a thing and don't get me started on abusive attractive gap relationship that literally doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:54 PM
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got teargassed in the club together. 💛💛💛 how romantic I want to add: any group sports/hobby activity, like rollerblade lessons travelling meetups of random internet people (like coachsurfing, forums)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:35 PM
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same! maybe not a hoe phase more like consecutive fwb situationships where I thought "this guy is not bf material but who cares, I'm having fun" now I'm more focused on what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:23 PM
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hoe phase exists since forever it's in movies and series before Reddit people usually have casual sex before settling in a serious relationship others don't have casual sex, just date around until they find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:19 PM
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It's like men here try to see women through the eyes of men, and get so frustrated when that doesn't work. Women understand each other, so it's not like there's some kind of magic. It's about listening rather than explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:37 PM
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Men: "We don't mansplain!!" Also men: "Let me explain to you how do you feel"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:51 AM
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did you ever read the sources of the studies people share here? sometimes it's literally a twitter poll, that's what they are using as "statistics"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:49 AM
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so, whatever, nobody wants to see their ex having feelings for someone else, it's the same normal people date anyway, even knowing they are not the first
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:36 AM
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so, by that logic, is swimming potentially harmful?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:34 AM
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This is crazy, if you make your partner put their hands in your neck and vaguely slightly restrict your breathing (this is what normal people do, I don't think the majority of people goes violet) nothing will happen to you. It's common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:58 PM
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rare insightful take 👌
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 08:34 PM
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I think you have to go too far from "normal" to actually harm somebody if you start slowly it's fine Regarding this post, I enjoyed being choked by one guy but then I tried with another guy and it didn't work. Maybe it was a submissive phase, who knows. I did find other new stuff to do with the next guy, things I didn't like before so....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:32 PM
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I have heard of guys that like to degrade and "violate" some random one night stand... but would never do depraved things with the "pure virgin mother of their children". that's a whole bunch of red flags I would never date a person like this not because of jealousy "how come he choked her but not me!!!" (lol) but more like he thinks choking is literally degrading and not a consensual sex act
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:39 PM
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1- what if she tries it with you and the chemistry for that particular act just isn't there? (everything else in the relationship works) 2- what if, for whatever reason, she doesn't want to repeat that act (maybe it reminds her of the ex or reminds her of a darker time of her life) but you both find new stuff to do she never experienced before with anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:36 PM
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some things work with some people, some don't. For example dirty talk. I was sure I didn't like it until I met one dude and I was surprised. I also tried with him other stuff that I used to like with previous guy and it didn't work out. Not everyone is the same and what's interesting is finding out together what works
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:29 PM
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I imagine something like this no? "so, I wake up at 9, walk the dog, then I go to work, then I go out for beers with coworkers then I go home, watch some netflix and go to sleep" * receives HATE *
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:14 PM
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Men are more likely to leave their female partners when they become terminally ill yeah, my friend fought with his dad for this reason and I fought mine for the same reason
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:50 PM
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My father has other male friends that visit him and help him! me and my sister obviously joke that one of them is his lover whatever helps him 🌈
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:49 PM
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money is not a replacement for a father. Sure, a father is irreplaceable but if they are not around money can pay a nice school, tutors, health, all things that help someone grow up if it's for everyone's good then the government should supply the funds. yes, totally. I'm a firm believer of public schools, public health, public transport, food discount or tax discount for single parents
/r/MensRights12/09/23 05:43 PM
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why do you people have to put the most normal behavior (to have fun while you are young) in the weirdest creepiest words possible
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 04:09 PM
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I don't believe what you said about women manipulating men with sex is true. I literally never had had any woman tell me "in going to manipulate him with sex to buy me stuff" And regarding de racist part If I met someone who was showing off how much of a criminal they are I would (internally) laugh at them and move on. I would never put in the same bag a worker even if their skin is the same color. Same thing I would do with those types of men who think they are so above everyone and lie to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:36 PM
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I have no idea about racism, I'm not American
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:10 PM
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so the reason women don't trust men it's not that historically men have always encouraged other men to lie to women in order to get sex nono it's just us not being able to understand our differences sure, right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:13 AM
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But you are taking the world average and China's 1 kid policy has probably skewed that data. They have a huge population.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:11 AM
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But it's not "natural selection" see how China is bright blue? that's because of the 1 kid policy, that's not natural, they are killing baby girls over there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:04 AM
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and also save it for the classic "women shouldn't lie about their ncount"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:32 PM
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at this point I believe they have a kink shame
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:31 PM
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in the real world however people usually don't confront the liars in hookup relationships or early stages of dating, people just nod along and then ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:29 PM
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Men: let's lie to get our dicks wet! Women: don't trust men! they'll lie to get their dicks wet Men: HOW DARE YOU!!! IT'S ALL FEMINISM FAULT!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:24 PM
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Remember the HIMYM episode where he dresses up like a scuba diver. Oh I just remembered Seinfeld had a whole thing where George says all sorts of bs to women. Art Vandelay, the importer exporter again, while this is all exaggerated for comedic purposes, it's based on reality and that's why it's funny. this isn't new.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:31 PM
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I didn't get the first one, the bike what's going on there? Also this all seem like jokes I don't think any of this is real except smelling the armpit that's disgusting 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:11 PM
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You first. YOU stop bullying men you're not attracted to. because I called you a virgin on that other post? stop acting like a child then and I will stop the bullying fat women literally don't pay attention to the guys calling them fat. No, society isn't demanding anything that's all in your head. It's like there's a room full of people and you ask for the mic and say out of the blue "attention people!! I wanted to tell you that fat women are disgusting, that is all" If you mind your own busines…
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 08:03 PM
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there was that "are we dating the same guy" page that acts as regulation. All of the sudden men's lies are all over the internet, in public view I wonder men don't like it huh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:54 PM
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we are supposed to say "OH NO! This totally new behavior of men lying to get sex is a consequence of my highest standards. I will give that misogynistic incel a chance so that men don't start lying to get sex!1!1!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:51 PM
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it's even on 90s series, Barney Stinson, Charlie Sheen, Joey Tribbiani, etc etc "The Playbook" is as old as time people are too young here, they think a man lying wo a woman to get sex is something new 🤣 where do you think all this distrust for men comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:45 PM
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no they are not they are required though to not bully the people they are not attracted to. Learn from women's example: Skinny average men arent repulsive to women, they are just indifferent. because literally nobody is asking what men think about fat women, you just post it to get at least some women's attention even if it's bad attention. Like little kids who are bullies.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 07:39 PM
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I know right I was this close to start believing the hypergamy shit until they dropped this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:35 PM
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Look, I'm a guy, and I know exactly what he's saying. ohh! a mind reader how special maybe virgins have that special power between each other
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 07:32 PM
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Dating, meeting women, getting sex, are all turning out to be much harder than I was told and shown they would be" this is all you, you don't get to rewrite the post 😂 You are talking about why you think OP thinks the way he thinks Show me where on the post OP is talking about why he thinks he should be able to get someone at or near his level of attractiveness? you are adding that context to fit your narrative If the post was "I thought it was going to be easier but it's not" but it's not. Inst…
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 07:26 PM
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It's like you are proud of being a fatphobic bully lol good for you I guess
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 07:09 PM
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He's saying "based on what people have told me and represented to me, it should be easier for me to achieve this than it truly is" "it should be easier for me to achieve this" achieve here means date "It should be easier for me to date" ​ literally entitlement
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 07:00 PM
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should be written outright as in he needs to see someone use the literal word entitlement? lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 06:57 PM
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The difference is how much they ignore "my" reaction An awkward/inexperienced person would probably look away embarrassed if caught staring. A creepy guy won't. He will keep staring, making the other person uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:38 PM
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what is entitlement if not "I should be getting this"?
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 06:18 PM
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well obviously Imagine how expensive it'd be to pay inspectors to regularly visit every house with a single parent That's how police works too. They come when you call 911 because they can't obviously be observing every situation ever
/r/MensRights11/09/23 06:05 PM
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???? watch some bodycams, that's what they do, that's what child services are for
/r/MensRights11/09/23 06:02 PM
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poverty is never good for anyone, it only ever gets talked about when it concerns women and children I agree there's an emphasis in single moms but only because it's during childhood where you can really change forever the outcome of that kid. Their brains are like sponges, they absorb all the good and the bad that surrounds them, and replicate it in adult life. If dads were the ones taking care of those kids, all support would go to them. Children are the future and they are the most vulnerable…
/r/MensRights11/09/23 06:00 PM
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I thought they only came to the house if someone reported the parents/mother. well, yes, that's how police intervenes in most cases unless for some reason they are there to witness some abuse themselves. It's another reason why sending your kids to school is better than homeschooling. There's someone checking on the kids. Like when people call 911 for any other case. It'd be so expensive for the government to organize inspection to every house with a single parent. School already kind of does th…
/r/MensRights11/09/23 05:55 PM
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But do you realize if you are married and you divorce you still have to pay for child support no? If you are married, your wife gets pregnant, you don't want to have it, you are stuck with child support......
/r/MensRights11/09/23 05:24 PM
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what a coincidence! there's someone on PPD saying that he's entitled to someone on his level of attraction, whatever that is https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16ftzw7/men\_should\_be\_able\_to\_get\_someone\_at\_or\_near/
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 05:01 PM
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what you guys fail to realize is that the welfare of other people's kids is good for everyone. Kids who grow up in poverty tend to have poorer education and usually resort to criminal activities. The more fatherless ignorant criminals out there, the more dangerous it'd be to walk in a city. Poverty is never good for anyone.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 04:44 PM
-2

What if it's one of those conservative women that believe abortion is murder?
/r/MensRights11/09/23 04:41 PM
-2

she hasn't gotten him to sign an agreement accepting parental responsibility by 24 weeks but then he can flee and be no longer responsible for the kid. The reason we have child support is for the kid so if you leave your kid, it becomes someone else's problem. who is responsible for the kid then? Unless you propose that the state gives single mothers a lot of money to be able to support the kid. Give them healthcare for example. That would increase taxes too. If you don't do that and the mother …
/r/MensRights11/09/23 04:39 PM
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"Margot Robbie is mid" is the way they showed us how high their standards are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:21 PM
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There's a time limit to get an abortion which is 24 weeks. After that they only do it if the mother's health is at risk. I assume it's because it would require surgery. From this sitesite "It’s worth mentioning again that, though the second trimester lasts up to 27 weeks, the time in which an abortion is an option is up to 24 weeks, unless medically necessary. Some women may not even realize they are pregnant until this state due to irregular periods, spotting, and/or lack of other symptoms."
/r/MensRights11/09/23 02:52 PM
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I agree with this and this is the reason it's impossible to implement what op is proposing It could totally happen that you don't know you are pregnant until it's too late to abort. There's no legal way of proving you did or didn't know.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 01:22 PM
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But that's what child services do They come to your house and if they see the kids are a mess they take them away from you
/r/MensRights11/09/23 01:17 PM
2

I love the validation I feel anytime any of you tries to justify it For a moment I was almost sold to the 20/80 theory now I know it's BS so thanks
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 11:01 PM
2

It's not about Margot Robbie it's about men finally confessing what we've been saying all along that it's men the ones with high standards When you say Margot Robbie is mid you are confessing that your standards are high
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 10:52 PM
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Thank you for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:37 AM
0

They are probably all misinterpreted like this one. This sentence has been there since 2015 and every inc*l just casually didn't read it Imagine me showing you exactly the study you are talking about and still coming up with some bs that's on your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:41 PM
0

"sounds like you like men" doesn't have to be an insult if someone implies that you might be gay and you take offense in that, it seems like you are the homophobe
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 06:50 PM
1

ah so you think men settling for someone uglier than they think they are entitled to is not a problem? oh ok, then we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:32 PM
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the OK cupid study has been misinterpreted to fit some misogynistic agenda. I just clearly showed how men message women who are way more good looking but that's not enough so here's another And perhaps more telling: women don’t seem to be opposed to actually contacting these men that they’ve just deemed unattractive. They still message guys who they don't find attractive, meaning that women aren't as shallow as men make them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:29 PM
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icy said Sounds like a them problem. you said that what icy said was a personal attack or sarcastic deflection ​ so I'm asking why do you think she's wrong, who else's problem is men's standards if not men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:24 PM
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let me copy and paste a fragment of the famous OK cupid study everyone’s a reacher, meaning people tend to reach out to someone more attractive than they are. To put a number on it, men are reaching out to women 17 percentile points more attractive, and women contact men who are 10 percentile points more attractive. This means that if a woman does nothing, her inbox will be filled with less attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:20 PM
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How is anyone else's problem that men settle for someone less attractive? literally there's no bad consequences for everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:17 PM
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you mean this? everyone’s a reacher, meaning people tend to reach out to someone more attractive than they are. To put a number on it, men are reaching out to women 17 percentile points more attractive, and women contact men who are 10 percentile points more attractive. This means that if a woman does nothing, her inbox will be filled with less attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:12 PM
6

BMI as well "healthy 18-22 bmi"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:58 PM
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came here to say this! ppd thinks we have no memory emma stone a 6 my god, the standards are high
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:56 PM
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maybe they have pets because they like pets. I'd rather have dogs than kids. but you see it as c*pe because you are afraid of becoming one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:11 PM
2

a match made in heaven
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 03:26 AM
-5

how dare you I would never Also I'm obviously better than you but not a lot better
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 03:18 AM
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Who TF makes a compilation of women crying? Who of you weirdos watched 17 minutes of women crying, probably some of you jerked off to this lmao
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 01:29 AM
2

yeah you have high standards bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:17 PM
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very ironic to say on the same sentence that "women have high standards" and "Emma stone is a 6" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:16 PM
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so the movie is ncount related? emma stone doesn't like high ncount men I wonder if anyone sees the irony here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:15 PM
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hmmm it still is very racist
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 03:34 PM
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yeah but he is happy with his life, his money and his wife while you are.......... here
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 03:13 PM
1

I don't understand this sub yesterday you were all up in arms against someone who was being racist but then I see this very racist post? 😂
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 03:11 PM
0

Get a room!
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 02:39 AM
3

OP has unrealistic body standards for men 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:42 AM
2

I'd go even further (random dude I have on pinterest for drawing. I do like that physique though.) (I'm talking about the gargoile/dancer looking guy sitting)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:34 AM
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It's a hydrated bodybuilder 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:29 AM
1

mmm that's Patrick Dempsey, very gourgeous man, not "normal" at all this is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:24 AM
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I would do the exactly same thing regardless of whom she picks I.e vet to make sure the person is actually of decent character and inform my daughters of the dangers that come with ANY relationship with a man and how to watch out for them. The fact you consider something so simple and sensible "not real", I think says more about you than anything. see? I don't believe this but anyway, let's say you win the nobel price for parent of the year, that's not what the majority of people would do. Your …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:39 PM
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Which is exactly what OP is doing. He's saying "women are lying, they are actually jealous" I don't accept a virtuous "I'd let my daughter have her freedom" because it's not real. People say this when they are not parents
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:03 PM
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you should marry this man instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:51 PM
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same, I have no idea I've had complains for being a mess though. I had a fwb who would go crazy when he came to my apartment and things were untidy. He was upset that my appartment, where he didn't live and didn't plan to bc we were fwb, didn't fit his tidiness standards. The nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:46 PM
2

😂😂😂😂 if your boyfriend doesn't celebrate your farts is he really a HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:41 PM
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who knows better how older men treat women? some perpetually online virgins? or women who actually dated or have friends who dated? it's ironic that the same people that claim "don't ask a fish....." are so quick to gaslight women who actually had to deal with older men at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:37 PM
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don't bother they'll either not answer the question or lie There's no chance if a 18 y/o girl brings home a 35 y/o man as her boyfriend he will be fine with it. It's absolutely impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:33 PM
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Would most men want their 18 yr old daughter to be with a man twice her age, or to date her classmate that is 19? exactly. Men here think it's raging feminists the ones against an 18 y/o dating an older man. But actually it's fathers the ones who are more against this. The difference is that fathers don't voice their opinions on the internet. This is as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:27 PM
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Age gap relationships are not predatory by default. They can be predatory. There are men who are abusers who will be looking for younger women because they are more vulnerable. They get to be the authority. Abusers can look for other types of vulnerable people but looking for young ones is pretty common This is not new, people know this, you don't need proof to know this is true. It's logical. In any power imbalance relationship there's a risk of being abused, this is why you're not allowed to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:45 PM
1

If you live with your parents you have to pay for stuff too. If your friend is a millionaire he should be paying for everything that is needed in that household. If you are planning on staying forever he will have to pay A LOT of money for medical bills and general things old people need. Way more expensive than living alone. ​ What do you think about a sharehouse that's not for everyone, I need my privacy. Sure I could live with a bunch of people in a shitty neighborhood, it'd cost me less mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:07 PM
2

? what do you mean you still make critical lifestyle decisions as a single person too the difference is that when you are not single you can go 50/50 on common stuff like internet, rent, taxes, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:34 PM
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??? Why wouldn't it matter where you live as a single person? single people still go out at night so for example a dangerous or too far away place is out of the question also what if you like spending time in a particular park or you want to live near your job? or live near your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:03 PM
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#1 definitely he seems funny and laid back, unlike the other candidates also I don't want kids, that leaves #2 out I just realized #2 has INTJ on his profile that is like the horoscope, so OUT
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:07 PM
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read the other comments I won't repeat myself for the millionth time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:57 PM
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In hindsight everything is so clear but only people who have been in relationships probably don't understand how this works. Most people in this sub have never been in relationships so no wonder they are saying this stuff While it is obvious it's not always the women's fault the fact the data is so skewed shows women are more at fault on average. so if she stays with a deadbeat it's her fault but if she initiates divorce it's also her fault? you can't make this shit up I swear it's hilarious Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:54 PM
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The men those women want relationships with though? Those men are inevitably the gatekeepers, and keep the gates they do by being open to sex with these women, but not to relationships. This is such an incel way of describing a regular relationship. Normal people date, fall in love (or not) and decide if they make it formal or not. None of which are acceptable to her though, Again, normal people date for a while, see if it can go further, if it doesn't work they move to the next person. Women ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:48 PM
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by staying virgins they do dodge bullets lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:42 PM
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How do you know past actions? OP says play detective, IMAGINE how ridiculous it'd be to go through all of his stuff to find the contact of his ex's. Then contacting them out of the blue to ask them for reviews 😂 and the pray for her not to contact him to talk about the crazy gf that's asking questions. Does this plan seem rational to you? (also isn't that the whole point of "are we dating the same guy" that makes men so so so angry?)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:41 PM
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so, you didn't read me? Second, no, homosexuality is not the same as age gap relationships. Just because one was wrongfully accused of being predatory doesn't mean all predatory relationships are fine. homosexual relationships were wrongfully accused of being predatory this is 2023 I thought we were past this discussion pedophilia was also accused of being predatory, just because people made a mistake with gay couples doesn't mean pedophilia is ok, obviously this is stuff that is ridiculous that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:36 PM
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she should have chosen better it's still 100% men's fault he's a deadbeat what's even funnier is that the same experts in relationships virgins then will post how "80% of women initiate divorce, so it's clearly women's fault relationship fails" and then (this gets even funnier) "women are too picky!!!!!!" you can't make this up so, again, enlighten me, when is men's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:28 PM
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I need proof that it's men the ones gatekeeping relationships and not a common decision it's crazy to think that all women +30 are desperate for a relationship and would say yes to any man that wants to have a relationship with them women also say no to relationships, why wouldn't she? she has options! she will always have options
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:22 PM
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isn't it a little creepy to be posting on and on and on how "this is not pedophilia! I'm legally allowed to do this"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:16 PM
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wdym did you not read the post or.....?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:51 PM
2

men want relationships, I know plenty of 30+ who are actively looking for relationships with women their age my female friends don't want relationships for some reason also one of my female friends is bi and poly, so....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:49 PM
2

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:47 PM
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"choose better" /s I love how this virgins have a hindsight vision and are also experts in relationships truly amazing gifted people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:45 PM
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What on earth are you talking about, not holding men accountable? OP is saying it's women's fault he is a deadbeat if that's not avoiding accountability I don't know what is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:32 PM
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oh you should change the legal system them whenever a man beats his wife, because she's to blame, she should go to jail and the kids should go to the beating dad no? does this make sense to you or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:29 PM
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you are not answering the question though when is it a man's fault? we should start putting women in jail!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:26 PM
5

if they just made them wait for sex like 2 weeks OH THANK GOD OP SOLVED DOMESTIC ABUSE is this why I got abused by men? because I only made them wait 1 week, oh silly me!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:25 PM
1

and I've had different experiences, again, it's your word against mine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:23 PM
0

Don't bother tracking that down because that won't tell us anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:22 PM
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Not everyone in this sub hates women 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 right sure but if policy pushed cheating men into calling off the relationship instead of cheating, that's not how cheaters think though, they want to stick their dick in that coworker and also have a wife and family you mean if they loose money then they will really think it through? instead of just loosing their wife, kids and house like they do now? the levels of delusion
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 04:21 PM
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I'm all for that too I have approached and got rejected, it's not the end of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:50 PM
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Source: me. right and I say that's false Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:42 PM
2

Personally, I think there’s also a difference between sexual market value and relationship market value. is there any proof of this? everyone is so quick to bring Studies to this types of conversations but I've never seen the "men gatekeep relationships" proof it all smells like c*pe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:30 PM
1

oh nooo, that sucks I'm sorry that happened to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:27 PM
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it shouldn’t be. of course it shouldn't be but it is. I'm all for women approaching and men saying no but the world we live in is not like that. "Scarcity mindset" or something like that It makes men feel pressured into accepting this absolutely happens, that's why when a woman approaches and gets turned down it feels even worst because "A Man" is pressured to accept anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:26 PM
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Under this system, where a man is thirstier, he's not "allowed" to say no. This is not my opinion, you can say no whenever you want, I'm in fact against that belief, but people believe that A Real Man will prioritize sex above all. So, because a man is supposed to say yes to anything (because they are thirstier) if he rejects a woman it means she's not even reaching the lowest bar than men have. According to TRP women gatekeep sex, ncount and shit. So a woman is supposed to say no. This means no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:21 PM
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I'm talking about completely reviving all of the pubic hair But anyway the point was that's it's a trend, in the vast history of humanity a few years more or less doesn't make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:27 AM
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It's not about keeping it under control that has nothing to do with anything You are arguing for the sake of arguing or because your are not happy with what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:25 AM
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Honestly that's not my experience 💁 There's also no proof about what your are saying right? It's just speculation. C*pe edit: still no proof? so it was c*pe after all lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:20 AM
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Men are thirstier than women, you can't argue this This is why it's different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:05 AM
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I was just thinking that cutting hair was likely related to the use of a cutting instrument and also with the idea of self perception. Unlike boobs that simply exist, they'd have to actively cut their hair intentionally so when they look at themselves in natural mirrors (? still water?) they'd go "yes, this short hair suits me" That makes me think the tradition was born when we were already very cultural, less monkey lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:01 AM
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Idk men seem thirsty at any age. When I had Tinder any swipe right would get me a match. I'm not good looking and I don't post sexy pics. Also this feels like a threat, something like "women you need to pay attention to me now because I won't pay attention to you when you are more than 30" well guess what, there's probably a dude that will you know who dates single mothers? single fathers/divorced men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:46 AM
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From evolutionary perspective the purpose of life is to reproduce. I think there's too many people already in this planet and the fact that so many people are deciding to not have kids is the species self regulating also who tf cares? literally nothing happens if you don't have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:40 AM
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OP friendly reminder that men cheat more than women so this woukld benefit women? knowing how this sub thinks, are you sure you thought this through?
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 03:06 AM
2

and since men cheat more than women guess who benefits from OP's idea? lol
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 03:05 AM
2

practice makes perfect in every other aspect of life, why would sex be an exception?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:37 AM
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In general, men with options will prefer a woman with less or no issue of trivializing sex but in the same comment you say Those promiscuous men who are not hypocrites; promiscuous men have options by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:36 AM
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Maybe she was stressed out in front of her bf because she thinks she might flirt with anyone in front of her maybe she was afraid the bf might flirt with you and that would've been embarrasing for her I'd continue the friendship (see if she aproaches you when the bf is not around) but cautiously, until you figure out what happened
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 02:19 AM
2

lmaooo that's funny but the cleavage-butt happens only if you squeeze them together. A naked woman doesn't have that line lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:01 AM
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and they are wrong, patriarchy is a system and women are not inmune to it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:56 AM
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because, like I said before, it's not the same I know this makes you angry but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:46 AM
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sure but you can see why it's not the same, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:56 PM
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Makes sense but how come all male greek sculptures picture men with short hair? That's the first example that comes to mind. there's probably more, like Rainassance or medieval paintings. I'd dare to say that having a lot of hair is better for working in the fields. Long hair acts as protection from the heat and the sun. I think Egyptians too Asians also have that tradition no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:13 PM
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Men would also have long hair, if they won't cut it but how come men traditionally wear it short and women long if it's a health indicator? you are still not explaining the evolutionary part of that tradition. Probably because it's that, a tradition with no evolutionary explanation, like so many others. If all men had long hair, women would like the ones with more healthy looking hair better then explain why this didn't happen in history
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:47 PM
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Long (good looking) hair, like to the waist as example, means that you have been healthy for a very long time. It's an indicator for fitness. then how come it's not an indicator of health in men? clear skin indicates good hormones in men and women but long hair only applies to women? it doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:41 PM
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The tendency of women to self-decorate may be instinctive while the specific decorations which is interesting compared to other animals. It's usually the gender that doesn't decorate themselves the one choosing partners. Like a pretty bird doing a mate dance for the female bird to accept him. Although there's probably species who behave like humans do I have no idea tbh I didn't know that about breasts. So in theory breasts only serve the purpose of messaging "I'm not a man" though they don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:39 PM
1

7lbs..average I think. pretty small, lucky you! try giving birth to a 10lb baby like my friend did! I weighted 8 pounds and was sitting in my mom's uterus refusing to turn around. I always think about how if this was 200 years ago my mom would have probably died.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:33 PM
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It's a social norm that's not neccesary and hope it changes over the years/decades The problem is breaking it bit by bit. It's a loop that feeds itself. If a man doesn't initiate it's assumed that he's not interested. Under this system that we have a woman is supposed to say no to most advances (or else she's a slut) but a man is supposed to say yes. That's why if a woman aproaches and he says no, it's even more humiliating for her than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:27 PM
1

the 5th one probably came out walking lol joking it's not like if you have narrow hips you are surely going to need a c section, the size of the baby also matters. Otherwise asians would be extinct. It's a matter of probability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:20 PM
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yes they do, the fetus has less space to turn and face the birth canal in the final stages of pregnancy. Now we have cesarean birth, but in the past there were women specialized in giving you a massage to help the baby give that final turn before that women would just die My mom had this issue and one of my friends too. Hips too narrow make birth more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:13 PM
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Because not everything in beauty standards can be explained by evolutionary psychology. there's a lot going on in culture too like trends. Eyebrows is one example. I remember in the past women used to trim their eyebrows until they looked like a faint line. Now it's all the opposite, Dua Lipa style. Same with how big is the butt, People used to talk about Jennifer Lopez and Beyonce because they had an unusual big butt compared to Britney Spears or Christina aguilera. Body hair falls under that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:58 PM
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This is literally patriarchy and toxic masculinity but people here don't bother to search for the correct definitions and take it as an insult. They (rightfully so) get mad at those insults but when you tell them "yes, that's what feminism is fighting against" they also get angry so...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:05 PM
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OP calls women sluts OP is called out as misogynistic * surprised pikachu face *
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 07:14 PM
1

yes, that's how math works, congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:06 PM
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Q: So can you provide A SINGLE article b*tching about older women younger men situations, calling women "pedos" or shaming them some other way? I already said you are right, men are also vulnerable to SA when dating older women, The issues is how can you be gaslighting women who raise red flags about the exact same situation while complaining that men are also vulnerable? I don't understand are young people in danger or they are not? if the answer is yes, then leave women alone in their fight an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:55 PM
2

100% honest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:52 PM
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No, because "they" are single person. Had it been other fathers too, you could see "men" writing articles about it. men being overprotective with theor daughters is as old as time why would they write articles about it? You don't want to take them in consideration because they don't fit your woman hating argument Again, if you are concerned about men's rights why don't you start a movement? I too agree they are too potential victims of abuse. I just find very comical the whole mens rights moveme…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:04 PM
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you want to disregard father's opinion because they are men and they are right. Parents are right in raising flags when their 18 y/o daughter is dating a 30 y/o man. This is common sense. How do you know the women that you hate so much aren't also mothers? or have friends with kids? Or have been in abusive situations by older man and know first hand? Older women with experience are more likely to know what they are talkign than men. if you are so concerned about victims of cougars you are welcom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:55 PM
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5% all of them are online
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:45 PM
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but take responsibility for your actions. why though? there's not lack of thirsty men for any woman? is this supposed to be a threat or something? are men really in a position of making threats?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:45 PM
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First, age gap relationships were never cool. Most people here think relationships were invented online or something but fathers were never comfortable with their daughters dating an older man. Second, no, homosexuality is not the same as age gap relationships. Just because one was wrongfully accused of being predatory doesn't mean all predatory relationships are fine. An age gap homosexual relationship is as fucked up as a hetero age gap relationships Given the pedophilic history the Catholic c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:37 PM
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It is specifically women. is it though? I bet if an 18 y/o brings her 30 y/o boyfriend, her father is not going to like it in fact fathers are way more protective of their daughters than mothers, because they know what the 30 y/o is thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:32 PM
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I must warn you that I don't intend to rediscuss every study with you because I know it will be pointless First of all the study is MORE THAN 10 YEARS OLD and was basically a poll, that in itself should make it less important than it is incels's interpretation: "women go for the 20% of men" normal people interpretation: "women rate 80% as unatractive but don’t seem to be opposed to actually contacting these men that they’ve just deemed unattractive." (this is actually copy and paste from the stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:28 PM
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I think beauty is subjective. If you are 18, a 18 y/o will look attractive. If you are 40 you are probably going to find other 40 y/olds attractive. The fact that an 18 y/o won't find a 40 attractive doesn't mean they are not. Same vice versa. There's a reason age gape relationships are not the norm, people usually date in their age gap +-8 years The thing is, I assume most people on this sub are likely very ypung so they think their tastes are "universal", "biological" and "natural"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:06 PM
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'not a threat, just autistic' that'd be unironically funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:27 PM
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Everytime people discuss beauty standards is anti something IMO the most important thing in dating is confidence and being able to read the room. Maybe that doesn't discualify autism, maybe it does idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:24 PM
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no it's because some of us women were "seduced" by older men and in hindsight we can see now how shady those type of guys really were. When we were 18 we thought it was so cool that the tour guide (28 y/o) that went with us on school trips had sex with one of my friends. In hindsight you can probably see how that was fucked up the whole "women are jealous" is a gaslight tactic that is hilarious, just fyi that won't stop women from raising a flag
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:15 PM
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agreeing with one single person is not a circlejerk lmao this meme pretty much sums up how TRP interprets data 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:26 PM
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All I am saying is that a man can LEAVE. that's what I said in the first message You wanted to flip it so that'd I'd be like "no, he can't leave" but that argument is not working. In fact i'd say before even trying to forbid me from going out, he can pack his bags and leave idc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:19 AM
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what so the average man is going to become gay because that's what he's seeing in porn?
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 12:07 AM
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There are other ways to have fun. sure maybe for you I've been doing this my whole life so..... But that's not the point. I can make my own decisions as to where I go out and if my partner doesn't like that's really not my problem 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:42 PM
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wdym what happens at the club? there's music, alcohol, fun, friends If you have trust issues idc, I have never cheated on anyone, I have options, you can leave, byeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:17 PM
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how is 3 letters harder to write than 13 characters lol are you trying to pick a fight or something?
/r/MensRights03/09/23 09:07 PM
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If by "data and arguments" you mean some nonsense bs that's confirmed by all the same redpillers? sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:01 PM
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online dating
/r/MensRights03/09/23 07:56 PM
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I mean the literal sense of eating
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 04:12 PM
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No no, I also eat incels
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 04:09 PM
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It's very simple, if you have misogynistic views you deserve to be mocked, by me or by twox We all know that's what you crave anyway
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 03:40 PM
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Luckily there's no abundance of misogynistic incels irl. They are not even that common outside manosphere subs.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 03:30 PM
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But do you want to buy him clothes?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 03:15 PM
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You telling us what you saw online is not proof though
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 03:05 PM
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same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:30 PM
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😂😂 If I was the woman in the relationship I'd say "ok honey, if you don't like me having fun with my friends you can find yourself another gf, byeee"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:29 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:26 PM
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Even women agree on this men are too thirsty sometimes and that ruins the whole OLD experience
/r/MensRights03/09/23 02:17 PM
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And also the starving children has to participate in an online community dedicated to talk trash about the people who he wants food from
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 01:30 PM
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As a single woman yes, op is right, I come here to laugh at you guys Your misery makes me feel better about my life Specially when you guys post extremely misogynistic and fucked up takes.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 01:26 PM
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And then when you can't do that you'll come here and blame women's standards of something
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 01:12 PM
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That way she won't know he's also a clueless virgin
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 01:10 PM
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I don't understand why people here struggle with the definition of average am I living in some kind of normie paradise where I get the privilege of leaving my house and seeing people in public places?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:33 AM
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There's no conspiracy, it's just her period. Literally anyone can talk to her about periods, including the fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:26 AM
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that's not realistic though the self grooming bar is way higher for women than for men. Nobody is telling women to get off the couch and take a shower because the standard for women es make up, hair and nice perfume. also, like this sub constantly says, women have more options than men. So if she has options, why can't she be picky? Does the cheeto guy have options?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:19 AM
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this but unironically moving in with a guy only because you are attracted to him is stupid there's so much more that goes on in a relationship, like trust and responsability
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:58 AM
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Is the woman also eating Cheetos from the couch? or did she buy clothes, make up, is dating and rejecting assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:47 AM
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"raised by the state" you mean school? An institution that's designed to teach kids stuff? Right, so sickening
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:55 PM
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😂😂😂 Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:09 PM
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omg you can answer that question by reading my first comment I'm tired of repeating the same thing a million times because people can't read
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:57 PM
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volunteering to be cucked Did you read my comment? they are friends, how can anyone be cucked if they are not in a romantic relationship? again, child support is for the wellbeing of the kid, not some form of punishment for the parent. Also how do you not understand the concept of step fathers/mothers? or gay couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:51 PM
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Did you notice how RP posts that are supposed to be CMV turn into circlejerks? While in bluepill posts you have people debating that's because TRP/BP wins here, not by a lot though, not like AllPillDebate that is a cesspool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:43 PM
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think about it as raising a child together child support and shared custody is for the child's wellbeing, something some men online tend to forget about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:26 PM
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This basically boils down to - “just lie bro” It's not lying, you don't need to advertise all your internal prejudices outloud. Or, if you do, you can't cry when people disagree online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:57 PM
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yes, this is so well written it's the difference between "I don't go clubbing so I'd rather date someone who doesn't as well, so we can share a lifestyle" and "women who go clubbing are promiscuous whores" there's a moral value in the second one but not in the first one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:55 PM
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you sound like you have mommy issues you need a little kiss in the forehead before going to sleep it's cute though
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 03:57 PM
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It doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:06 AM
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A gay couple is 2 people so they fall under the optimal environment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:59 AM
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Yes! As good as Rather than the gender of the people, what's more important is raising a kid in a stable resourceful household
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:56 AM
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Oh right here weirdos probably think a piercing is related to ncounts or some bs like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:49 AM
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No, having friends is average. A few groups here and there: work, any afterwork class like pottery or whatever you do to socialize and your intimate friend's group. I'd say that's average Above average would be those people who can invite 80-100 people to their wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:42 AM
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As a woman, you should know that most of the info about periods and support for when that happens comes from school, schoolmates and maybe parents of schoolmates. It's not a big deal if a woman is raised by 2 fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:26 AM
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This has nothing to do with gay couples, not sure why you brought this up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:23 AM
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That's not what op is saying, he's talking about amount of time, not quality, you are changing the subject of the post, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:49 PM
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I'm a firm believer that gay couples are as good as hetero couples, shocking concept I know
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:43 PM
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Why wouldn't it be enjoyable? OP is complaining that women take too long to orgasm, as long as 7 minutes, he starts to get anxious by minute 7 if you have started having sex and by minute 1 you are not having a good time you should stop but that's not what OP is saying, he's angry that women take "too long" by his standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:04 PM
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I'm talking about people from work, my family, the family of my brother in law, friends from high school, friends from uni, friends of friends, neighbors, people who don't know each other I didn't choose them so how come all of them are are all above average? what a coincidence no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:56 PM
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7 minutes isn't a long time 20 minutes isn't a long time either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:29 PM
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My friends and family are all pretty average, some overweight, some are short, they have average wifes or girlfriends. Here you'll find people saying that such thing doesn't exist... average people do average things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:22 PM
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Besides they'd have to move in together if they both really want to parent the kid. If the guy only sees the kid on the weekend, is that really parenting? Imagine moving in together with a random dude you are not even attracted to why would anyone do that it doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:09 PM
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she has to adopt. again, yes, like a lesbian couple, that's how gay couples have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:05 PM
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she's having a kid with someone who is a stable woman who she doesn't find physically attractive why wouls she choose a random guy she's not attracted to over her friend who she already knows for years?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:04 PM
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will the other one adopt? what do you mean? it's like a lesbian couple, they find a donor and raise the kid together
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:02 PM
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I guess that a lot of those hypothetical women would have tried to get such relationship, but they failed and now they have few years of fertility and they want to have a child. yes, that's my coworker, she and her bff have it all planned, they are both going to be moms, like a lesbian couple without sex. If you ask me that's way more stable that a hetero relationship. what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:41 PM
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I mean, appearance tells you a lot about a person. and people don't exist in spite of their appearance. so the "halo effect" men accuse women of also applies to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:32 PM
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I don't understand what's the incentive though why would a woman risk having to deal for the rest of her life with someone that can be potentially an asshole while she can raise the kid with someone who she has a more stable relationship like her best friend? It's also better for the kid since it'd be a stable home There's also sperm donors or one night stands, so it's not like it's difficult to get sperm to be a single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:27 PM
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lmaoo you keep writting 😂
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 06:23 PM
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because you have to be able to trust that person to be able to raise a child with them I have a female coworket that, unless Chad Prince Charming appears on the doorstep, is going to have a kid with her best friend (female too). Makes sense since she has a very stable relationship with her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:15 PM
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I forgot how dramatic men are on this sub 🤣 a whole paragraph like an anime character before a fight
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 06:10 PM
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A lot of women explicitly say that the only difference between a flirt and a haressment is how attractive the guy is. I'm going to need some links because it sounds BS
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:47 PM
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If I see it with my own eyes I believe it an anecdote that perfectly fits an incel online narrative, not so much
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 04:51 PM
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and then the whole neighborhood clapped
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 04:00 PM
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and without oral sex! a true virtuous sex man!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:46 PM
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Isn't this like the mbti test? what's next? horoscopes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:32 PM
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OP talks like he's annoyed that his aunts kiss him on the cheeks, leaving red lipstick marks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:24 PM
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kisses on the cheek is how everyone says hello and goodbye in France, Spain, Latin America, etc. Men, women, old young. OP is surely trolling or trying to make a point in an obtuse way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:15 PM
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"allowed" is so misused "not allowed" means the police is taking you to jail. Doesn't mean "a few women don't like my online opinions" this sub and half Reddit wouldn't exist if men weren't "allowed" to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:07 PM
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there was one guy who wanted to go straight to PIV and I said wait, oral sex please (I said it nicely but I also was very shocked) He said that I was the first woman asking and all his previous partners always have orgasms just by PIV needless to say it didn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:59 PM
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Yes I read all the comments Google is your friend! I'm not your teacher
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:05 AM
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Tbf I don't know anybody from real life, men or women, who use Reddit I'm the only one 🤓
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 03:46 AM
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Using Reddit leaves your out of the normie category, men or women. I just explained the concept of incel to my normie female friends. They looked at me weird. I'm a woman btw
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 03:34 AM
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I don't think that info is relevant in dating It's not like if you date average it means the person is a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:53 PM
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The average woman is over 30 The math is not working here how come a 29 year old woman becomes average on her 30th birthday? are -30 y/o pre-average? Do 30 y/o women pop up or?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:59 PM
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most of what academia calls "toxic" is really just normal behavior. a classic example of toxic masculinity is tell a man to stop crying or stop having feelings because he's a man People say "man up" normally but that doesn't mean it's ok Yes, women enforce this too Toxic masculinity isn't going to the gym, growing a beard or going to a bar to pick up women Toxic masculinity is the obligation of having to have a physical fight. I'd even say bullying men for having short dicks is also toxic mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:47 PM
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Exactly! Masculinity is attractive! Toxic masculinity is trashy behavior Unfortunately not one single user here got the definition right, they think toxic masculinity is going to the gym or growing a beard
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:35 PM
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I think it's more about finding the right people that love you as you are. Even if that means jumping from group of friends to group of friends for a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:31 PM
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Another "but I'm a nice guy!" post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:30 PM
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If the study was about children dying in war I wouldn't say anything because my country isn't participating in any war If the study talked about children dying of hunger I'd say it's true because I see them every day on the streets Because the study is about average people and I'm average with average friends and family I can say it's flawed or less dramatic like the manosphere says it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:05 PM
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A poll isn't "actual science" lol "Rp doesn't say men are unable to be happy it just says their wife doesn't actually like him" Do you even read yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:00 PM
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You seriously don't think it's a little weird to say that the average man is unable to be happy in a relationship? How are there 9 billion people on the planet if the average man doesn't reproduce? If you ever see a study saying that, your should start asking questions of the validity of that study. There's flat eathers and anti climate change after all... How do you go to your friends in relationships "sorry bro, her love is fake, there's a StuDy" Seriously? I swear it's like arguing with consp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:44 PM
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there's no "StUdY" that will make me believe what the manosphere says when the reality I see everyday with my friends, family and people outside is completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:32 PM
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often the unkempt messy couple looked better when they were younger and got together. Now they're gross and not attracted to each other the kid is a toddler or baby you don't explode with obesity when you have a kid, if you take care of yourself all your life, you probably still do to some extent when you have a kid. Don't you have friends with kids? I have plenty Anyway I know I could show you a pic of my neighbors or random people and you'll continue with the unhinged theories being in a marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:28 PM
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under 30 meaning from 0 to 30? I sure hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:23 PM
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Because it can't be proven/disproven it's amazing how men can see into the future, truly incredible they will say "they will get divorced" like a tarot lady and nobody questions it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:41 PM
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OP, this is impossible they won't acknowledge that the average unkept dude at the supermarket with his unkept wife and their messy child are real they will either gaslight you saying "they don't exist" or they will come up with the most unhinged theory like af/bb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:40 PM
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It may sound unconventional unconventional is not the word try petty and pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:01 PM
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maybe your beliefs are shit and that's why you can't talk about them irl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:58 PM
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I don't think you can change your personality but you can surely build confidence, and just that makes a lot of difference
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:55 PM
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I'm saying 11 or 12 and your answer is WoRdS ArEnT SeXuAl AsSaULt jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:20 AM
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NGL this post has perfect timing since I had someone today tell me that "not all women" get harassed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:26 AM
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just sexualizing jesus christ just sexualizing I'm sorry that happened to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:22 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/160juvm/at_what_age_did_you_first_receive_sexual/ just now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:21 AM
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It is when you are 11 or 12
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:12 PM
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Oh how generous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:05 PM
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remember the guy here posting constantly 18-20 healthy BMI lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:29 PM
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It is, I don't like it either it screams "I'm obsessed with my body" also soft bellies look better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:28 PM
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guys need to dehydrate for like 3 days to have abs like that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:20 PM
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you can ask people, this is a known fact for anyone who has ever talked to women I don't know any woman who hasn't been at least catcalled once
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:15 PM
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if men's rights have any rights to fight for sure, it's perfectly ok to make women a bit uncomfortable. If for example a woman opposes to equal rights in paternity disputes, go for it. remember we are talking about rights, not "it's ok for me to stare creepily at a woman to make her uncomfortable". Those are 2 entirely different scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:12 PM
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OP on that one is cray cray
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:08 PM
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"don't stick your dick in crazy" is totally an option many men here should take
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:02 PM
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there's no such thing as psychological fact everything that talks about how people behave aren't facts, they are just opinions a fact is water freezes at 32F My problem is taking whatever this clowns say as facts, they are not, they are biased opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:59 PM
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psychological fact according to who? Jordan Peterson? the manosphere? hypergamy is a made up term I also think it's true but it's not just women, everyone seeks better stuff, that's how we evolved as a society
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:43 PM
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if you didn't mean to ask the question then you should've put the question and the answer between " " I'm so sorry you don't know how to express a thought lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:32 PM
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Nobody was talking about responsibility men have regards to how women date you asked what do we think about hypergamy and that's my answer "it's a tool to remove responsibility from men and hate on women" that's what I think don't ask stuff if you are not going to like people responding to you Also ps, hypergamy is not just dating richer guys, fact you keep seeing as just that then again your problem since l clearly explained it's not just women going after richer men I copied the literal defini…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:21 PM
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Him: "You're really appreciated at this company" this LITERALLY just happened to me 2 hours ago "you are really appreciated but we are going to remove you from the project because we are in a hurry and (insert generic excuse)" the people from anti work really have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:09 PM
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hypergamy is basically "women seek money" that's what the term implies "the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background." so, again, it removes personal responsibility from men because it's not their fault, it's the women who seek superior sociological blablabla
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:58 PM
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It's so easy to praise people in a normal organic way I hate people who struggle with it I had a boss who would go "this looks great (generic, general praise that feels fake) BUT (points out very specific things that are wrong)"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:55 PM
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that's a bad place for a breastfeeding baby it's too hot it's like leaving them in a car in the summer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:51 PM
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How ? like I said "it's not you who is the problem, it's the women who are all gold diggers"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:50 PM
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"What do you think of hypergamy" that it's a cheap tactic from the manosphere to hate on women it removes personal responsibility from men. "it's not you who is the problem, it's the women who are all gold diggers"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:36 PM
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the sound of sucking just made me want to vomit lmaooo I can understand this I'm very sensitive to gross noise and/or mucus. Like when people clear their throat and spit on the ground I'm literally triggered by that what kind of space was it? a silent waiting room? Church?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:28 PM
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like positions of power? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:23 PM
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unsanitary For who? the baby? the baby is fine as long as she doesn't rub her boob anywhere else. For other people is not unsanitary because there's no spilling of liquids. I must admit that there has been one occasion when I had to leave the room because someone started to breastfeed their kid but why? why did it make you uncomfortable I don't understand I have many friends who have breastfed in front of me and it is kind of awkward to see my friend's boob but it was a thought that lasted 5 sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:14 PM
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not the same one of the reason we prohibit public urination is becase of the smelly urine and the fact that there isn't a creature that is hungry that can't wait for a bathroom places aren't prepared to have a private place for moms to breastfeed so what are women supposed to do? not leave the house while they are breastfeeding? that's crazy just mind your own business and don't look at the boob if it makes you uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:56 PM
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whaaat who can possibly against breastfeeding? are they against public display of boob?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:31 PM
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if they are succeeding no, but if they are struggling it could work I think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:24 PM
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idk I know people can't change preferences at will but it's not bad to have a conversation so that people give a chance to others even if there's no initial attraction (this goes for everybody) Imagine someone not trying OLD because beauty standards are too high or because they read online that women are shit or for whatever reason. I'm talking about positive encouragement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:09 PM
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if you childless what are the negative effects of being poly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:51 PM
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How do you deal with a bad director? I'm on a project that's not working thanks to bad direction. They removed me and put me on a boring project. I'm so pissed. I don't know what to do, because if I don't say anything it looks like it's my fault but if I talk to my boss's boss I'm afraid it's going to be bad for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:09 PM
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Lift and Lurk!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:08 AM
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It's the implication that women being hypergamous are shooting above their league when actually everyone wants to better themselves, that's how humanity evolved
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:02 AM
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once I tried to post something but the post got taken down for OP's inactivity so why is Johnny allowed to not interact I think we are up to something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:09 AM
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sure there's some crazy feminist extremes that probably aren't liked by normal feminism but it's also not a bad thing to make men a little uncomfortable fighting for stuff has never been "hey we want stuff!" "oh sure, great point, there you go"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:05 AM
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100% of women have been sexually assaulted at least once in their lives the days when you are not sexually assaulted you don't post it online so that probably explains it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:59 PM
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What makes you think I'm not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:54 PM
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I'd rather looksmatched partner so I'd go with the ugly dude 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:06 PM
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I'd rather looksmatched partner so I'd go with the ugly dude 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:06 PM
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Have you tried the weather? Anyway my therapist says if I don't know what to talk about I shouldn't say anything at all. I can't do that because silences makes make me nervous but maybe this is good advice? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:44 PM
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Exactly my point! He's clearly ai working on posting crazy shit and keeping the sub spicy but not banned
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:24 PM
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I remember dating in my teens/early twenties there was a lot of harassment, stalking and boundary crossings. Young men then learn. When you grow up dating is actually better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:21 PM
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Has anyone ever seen Johnny autism comment? Is he even real????
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:18 PM
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HOW DARE YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:16 PM
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Great argument, I'm convinced
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:10 PM
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Allpilldebate is like PPD but without so many rules maybe you'd like it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:09 PM
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Pink Floyd's The Wall
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:07 PM
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There's no wall There isn't a shortage of men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:06 PM
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So how do you explain all the fathers that leave their kids or cheat for a younger woman l? I'm not saying you are lying though. I'm questioning justifying everything with evolutionary psychology. People here need to choose, either all men are apes and behave as such or we are cultural beings and act accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:45 PM
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I do have a great understanding of social studies, unlike most here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:13 PM
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If there are no kids and you both work I agree, marriage is meaningless When there are kids in the middle I think marriage is good for tax returns and medicine. Also if things go to hell, the law protects the kids, so that's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:13 PM
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a car??? not even a house, a car! something that people keep changing so it doesn't lose value? that's the best analogy they could come up with lol talking about having low self esteem, my god
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:09 PM
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Yes they are, absolutely I'm questioning Evolutionary psychology part, and the convenient rationality behind it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:06 PM
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so there's this post about Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? Men here often like to explain this phenomena with Evolutionary psychology. Ape brain, young women and fertility etc. Oh but I guess ape brain stops being ape brain once men get married ​ This is an example of the phenomena in psychology known as the endowment effect. Where people value things they "own/had possesion of" more than if they had never had it. endowment effect …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:00 PM
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He couldn't keep his first partner happy, why would he be better at keeping me happy? so this means if someone breaks up, they become "damaged" because why weren't they able to keep their partner happy that applies to her and to you so the only solution is date forever the first person that you met
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:30 PM
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so you are planning on marrying for the rest of your life literally the first person you have a relationship with sure my sweet summer child
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:09 PM
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I love Secret Eaters "I don't know why I'm fat!" (moments earlier) "It's fine, you can eat whatever you want one hour after doing exercise, the calories don't count" *stuffs her face with food*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:33 PM
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Steve Assanti is still alive! he broke up with his wife, shocking I know I find my 600lb life to be one of the most extreme reality show out there. The patients literally die if they don't stick to the dietary plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:27 PM
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people here think it's a coincidence the beauty standard is similar to the people who have always been in power lol as if they are biologically beautiful
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 09:16 PM
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but that leaves out anyone who has ever had a break up including yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:01 PM
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this is not bad actually!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:57 PM
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Back then the political brain rot wasnt this bad, do you have crystal ball to see the future red and blue have always had symbolism. IT'S IN THE AMERICAN FLAG. Also probably same reason why the Matrix movie chose it in the first place. if TRP wasn't supposed to be political, why did they choose colors charged with political symbolism? aside from that It's also funny how TRP in it's teachings say that men know better about what women want. It's like once again they want to override what people th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:47 PM
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Red and blue are famous combination it's like Americans don't understand there's other colors outside their own flag lol this is like those weird dudes that say "the swastika is an ancient Egyptian symbol I should be allowed to wear it without being called a nazi" ​ sure you can cry about it all you want but people are going to associate RED and BLUE with political parties it's a really shitty marketing failure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:02 AM
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I've seen the movie if it's supposed to be apolitical they shouldn't have chosen a movie that polarizes RED and BLUE Then name the whole movement RED pill and (cherry on top) have ideas that are aligned to conservative ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:59 AM
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the origins of pills is reference to matrix movie I know. They literally have millions movies and books and colors and references but they chose RED / BLUE and the ideas fit with the political parties ideas You can't expect people to not make that connection it's like naming yourself Aidolf Hitlor and get offended when people call you Hitler
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:23 AM
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and unattracted to dominant women LOL there's plenty of men who like being dominated but they obviously keep the secret from other men it's literally a very common kink
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:20 AM
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wasn't she a dating coach or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:16 AM
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BUT there's nothing you can possibly say after the BUT that can make you look good. Doesn't matter what you said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:15 AM
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nice try FBI
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:12 AM
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it's supposed to be apolitical? then why chose the colors of the political parties? there's plenty of colors and movies out there it's too much of a "coincidence" that the pills AND the political parties are RED and BLUE
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:09 AM
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I also feel that these tradcon larps are also very young who can afford to build a life with just one income???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:05 AM
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If he loved her he'd set a healthy weight goal. Losing half her weight in a couple of months is literally impossible and could be dangerous for her health. This feels more like he wants a way out or he said it in an angry moment without expecting her to take it literally
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 12:37 AM
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how did this very innocent comment Foreplay does start at breakfast. That’s why I make pancakes for my wife wearing a frilly little apron. And nothing else!!! ​ made someone have a full blown meldown Most politically correct way to say "we want men to be our personal doormats the whole day for the HOPE that they will get sex at night before bed" Which is... It's pathetic. Not gonna lie, it's AWFULLY PATHETIC on behalf of women, and hypocritical too. IDK. I just got the biggest fucking ICK readin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:22 AM
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it was the frilly little apron not the pancakes (pancakes help though) be sexy for your wife! how is that a bad thing? also we don't know if they take turns to make each other pancakes in frilly little aprons
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:18 AM
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🥰 she's so lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:14 AM
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and confidence this is not entirely truth, some of their appeal is to be shy. It's very popular in eastern culture to act shy or embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:31 AM
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The kpop fandom is proud that their idols wear make up and are a bit feminine. They like that they are not conventionally macho attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:27 AM
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