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0	My response to "rape culture" issues brought up by feminazis also this	/r/MensRights	19/03/13 05:03 AM
19	My response to "rape culture" issues brought up by feminazis This is stupid. Obviously we shouldn't blame victims for getting mugged. Calling feminist feminazis is extremely offensive. If you want your "movement" to be taken seriously, don't say stuff like that. What millions of deaths are feminist responsible?	/r/MensRights	19/03/13 01:48 AM
0	It's stuff like this that makes me sick ok so i empathize with anyone who is a survivor of sexual assault or rape, but isn't this anecdotal evidence. There are many women who will be good friends and offer support to male rape survivors. I think the main problem feminist have with MRA is that they discount and discredit women who feel like rape survivors, saying that the circumstances in which where they were rape don't qualify as 'legitimate rape'. I think in MRA didn't make such an effort to constantly show that women on occasion ma…	/r/MensRights	11/01/13 10:06 AM
1	Do women want sex as much as men? I don't think there is any study showing that high sex drive is correlated with a certain gender. The truth is that there are people with low and high sex drives in any gender. Feminism doesn't supports the idea that women want sex less than men. OP is suggesting that women don't really want sex as much as men, despite claims from feminist that they really do. You said that feminism relies on the myth of women not wanting sex as much as men. While I agree the statement is false, its untrue that …	/r/MensRights	16/12/12 09:41 AM
-3	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. No there is no ideology called "whiteism" but that is a very poor analogy. White people are in the position of privilege, why on earth do white people need liberating. Unfair affirmative action policies? Being stereotyped as bad dancers? White people do not face racism. Feminism addresses sexism by acknowledging male privilege (amongst other things) and empowering women. (To continue with your race analogy, not to say the struggles are identical or unrelated) The same way the black power movemen…	/r/MensRights	13/12/12 10:17 PM
-6	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. I understand that NOW was involved, but "Family Rights" groups are notoriously regressive when it comes to social issues and gender equality. That does seem like some bullshit legislation.	/r/MensRights	13/12/12 08:09 PM
-7	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. I am not subscribed to that subreddit, I am talking about real life radical feminist, which is very makes a point to be very inclusive.	/r/MensRights	13/12/12 08:03 PM
-5	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. I think queer theory addresses all gender roles. But if you don't buy that, I have also taken feminist courses which adress the militarization of youth, in this country, a distinctly male issue. U Mass at Amherst's gender studies department recently put on a performance call Phallus(y), about the myths of male gender roles and sexuality, inspired by the Vagina Monologues. Many feminist acknowledge the intense pressure and shame men can fell about fulfilling the provider role. I just think its bu…	/r/MensRights	13/12/12 07:57 PM
-12	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. That's simply not true. Do you know much about the trans* and gender queer folk that a huge part of contemporary feminist philosophy.	/r/MensRights	13/12/12 07:42 PM
-32	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. That's bullshit. Feminism is eager to move away from the idea, that it is solely a woman's job to raise children. Third feminism is all about deconstructing gender roles with a post-structuralist understanding of both gender and sexuality.	/r/MensRights	13/12/12 07:08 PM
3	Guys, how do we answer the Porn question? I like many other feminist don't find porn degrading. Many sex workers are in fact feminist. While there are feminist who argue porn objectifies women and can led to violence against women, there is little evidence to support this. I do believe that the porn industry panders to the male gaze, but this could be improved by having more female directors. Like ErasmusMRA said its up to the individual, if it is something they want to do they should be able to. "let two consenting adults make an excha…	/r/MensRights	07/12/12 09:43 AM
1	It's important to remember our female allies and rational female friends too ;) All female commenters in this. I think both of those instances are rape. The extreme intoxication shows that they really aren't fully capable of giving consent and their crying shows that they are probably upset about something. I think to continue is clearly taking advantage of someone's inability to resist. I am not saying no one is capable of giving consent after consuming alcohol, but it is definitely risky to rely on purely implied consent. And people may find themselves in a situation where one party feels like they wer…	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 01:47 AM
1	It's important to remember our female allies and rational female friends too ;) All female commenters in this. Well what if the non consenting person is extremely drunk and starts crying, yet their partner continues without any sort of communication, would you call them a rapist then? What if a man is asleep, and is awoken to a girl he doesn't want to have sex with riding him, but makes no move to push her away and doesn't verbally protest? Rape, especially 'date rape' is not a cut and dry issue. I think consent training would do a lot to lower the instances of this problem. Obviously it wouldn't be very…	/r/MensRights	03/12/12 08:48 PM
1	It's important to remember our female allies and rational female friends too ;) All female commenters in this. No, that isn't rape. But I do think sometimes people have what they think is consensual sex, which is in fact rape. I have had sex with someone and regretted it later, but I would never say I had been raped. I have had friends both male and female, that had non-consensual sex that didn't physically protest to. They were raped.	/r/MensRights	02/12/12 10:52 PM
1	It's important to remember our female allies and rational female friends too ;) All female commenters in this. The "kind of rape we care about"? Really? I care about all survivors of rape and sexual assault, even if you want to delegitimize what happened to them. I think often, especially in situations with friends involving drug use, rape isn't a straight forward black and white kind of situation. Thats why verbal consent is so ideal, there is no way to misinterpret an enthusiastic yes.	/r/MensRights	02/12/12 10:14 PM
-5	It's important to remember our female allies and rational female friends too ;) All female commenters in this. I get what your saying, but why does that matter. This is about a huge shift in rhetoric away from victim blaming. I am confident that 'consent teaching' would reduce rape, bottom line. I believe many people don't really understand what rape is, which can led more sexually assault and rape. Maybe the language used in 'consent teaching' at present is one sided, but it is a huge step in the right direction and over time hopefully it will evolve to become more inclusive.	/r/MensRights	01/12/12 12:53 AM
4	It's important to remember our female allies and rational female friends too ;) All female commenters in this. Well how do you teach people how not to rape, by telling them to always get consent. How can you possibly frame "don't rape" as a bad message. I don't see it as any different than teaching people not to cheat, steal or murder. Also, no where in the 'Why I need feminism' poster does it say anything about sex or gender. It was the commenters interpretation of poster that brought in sex/gender. I believe all people of all sexes and gender identities can be raped, but that is besides the point. This…	/r/MensRights	30/11/12 10:54 PM
-2	So I was bored and tried to make a simple picture showing why the MRM isn't a threat to women, women's issues, or feminism. I hope I didn't oversimplify it. But then I read articles like this one and it is hard to believe that the MRM doesn't threaten equality .	/r/MensRights	26/11/12 09:48 PM
3	Need your help with some circumcision info Understanding Circumcision: A Multi-Disciplinary Approach to a Multi- Dimensional Problem- is an academic publication with articles published by many authors, very thorough. It was my main reference when I wrote an essay on circumcision for school.	/r/MensRights	16/11/12 05:46 AM
12	Feminists and recognition of rape As a feminist, I distinctly remember being at a friend's house, where I heard a guy telling a story about being passed out drunk and being suddenly awoken by some "fat chick riding him". All of his male peers were laughing hysterically. I was in the other room and said, "Dude, that sounds like rape! Why didn't you try and push her off of you?" (he was a buff meat head type) He responded saying, "Well it dosen't work like that, once the gears are in motion, I'm not going to stop it, ya know?" I d…	/r/MensRights	17/10/12 05:43 PM