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You are in the small minority. Men that have standards are pretty rare. Most men are so desperate they will do anything that walks. A good buddy and I talk about this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:28 PM
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100% facts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:53 PM
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Thanks for your sympathy, I don't need it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:59 PM
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I always ask, no real consistent asnwer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:59 PM
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Your post is correct along with the fact that if I have no standards I can get sex easier than if I want a top model woman... so this CMV is rather easy to destroy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:57 AM
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Can confirm; being pretty doesnt solve internal issues bro. Worrying about things outside your control doesn't either. Find value in life and give it to others. Focus on your talents and round off your weaknesses as best you can. ❤
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 03:51 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:57 PM
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Both sexes are generally after different things, so it's not equivalent.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 02:56 AM
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This is the problem with generalization which of course we all do. You fall into this logic fallacy where you believe everybody fits into that category. I would say it's generally true but of course not everyone fits into it. There's also a big part of perception. One person's ideal mate is not going to be the same as the nexts.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 02:55 AM
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Your point is very basic. You're telling me to look in the mirror but the fact about a man being single and a woman being single or not the same thing... I wouldn't expect you to understand that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:52 AM
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You know this is a stupid point because there are a lot of people that I reject. I'm talking 99%. I'm in large part single by choice. If you have any standards for yourself and dont accept manipulation, codependence, low achievement by a partner you will mostly be single. My base criteria is not being overweight and that is 67% of the population in the US. Checkmate? If I had no standardsl I could have been married yesterday 100 times over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:37 AM
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No. Been to therapy, I exercise and fit, around 6 ft, great job, income in top 5%, lots of hobbies, ambitious, etc. So just no. By the way all my friends are high quality guys and have the same problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:20 PM
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Women that are 30 plus that are in shape and pleasant are likely married. Add decent income and you are now in unicorn territory! I'm forced to go younger! And yes this is definitely the best relation forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:17 PM
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Lmao - of course he left out the units because it would be a combination of pounds and dollars 🧐 there is no conversion of these units!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:15 PM
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Exactly - there's this weird sweet spot I for one gender. Not so much the other. I've heard there's really weird men into the 50s+...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:14 PM
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So that's the point - it shouldn't be " the one" rather there are multiple. It's a misnomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:13 PM
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This is pretty much the only accurate reply I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:12 PM
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If this is correct, then there is supply demand imbalance, and that is what I am CMVing about. So... thanks for agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:39 PM
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It is all relative and personal. I am of course committing a logic fallacy as well - thinking that any of these people would have been a good fit anyway - since I approached based on attraction. A good personality is a whole other problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:39 PM
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Believing there is "a one" is like thinking Santa exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:16 PM
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Nothing about social status or income here? Are those irrelavant?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:37 PM
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I have had "random/chance' success over time.... I have not been a complete drought?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:36 PM
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You read into that one, my standards have always been high. For me and my partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:35 PM
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It was to demonstrate the title - they are off the table. The people I found attractive were off the market. Of course I don't take that personally to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:33 PM
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All relative michael
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:32 PM
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At 40 I will be in really great shape, but that isn't the point. I don't think that entitles me to have a "fit woman" to be honest - though that is a criteria I desire - I think for most people (including me) LTRs come down to personality meshing. I see many really fit and healthy women with men that are not in shape or have dad bods that are <30. So I theory is not always reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:04 PM
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Taking the word on its superficial face is pretty silly. Youth implies health, fertility and less baggage. I have a ton of baggage as I approach mid thirty. Imagine what a good looking babe has? Not to mention generally speaking it is extremely hard to find someone in their thirties that takes care of themself. They are usually taken. What does that say about this speaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:44 AM
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Women gernerally always have more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:06 PM
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I'm actually in love every year that I get older as a man...
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 12:23 AM
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Theoretically this is correct... drinking age should be higher. There would be less youth accidental deaths'. Practically/ethically, this is a whole other issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:35 AM
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Bringing up random celebrities in a general discussion is obnoxious, moron. Not everyone can or wants to be famous.Less than .01% of people are celebs. It is a dumb argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:19 PM
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Except I am not physically repulsive... I have had many women tell me I look good and say thwre is no chenistry on a fiest date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:49 AM
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And he is in prison right? Is that the goal here? Abuse children and end up broke and no rights? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:45 AM
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I do not feel tingles for women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:42 AM
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The frontal lobe which is responsible for executive function and planning does not terminalize till 30ish....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:38 AM
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lol guys with standards dont do that 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:53 AM
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Of course there are guys out there that think there are perfect women when in reality they're not...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:24 PM
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I have been with many 10s (20 year old, small waist, curvy, cute) .... Guess I am a 4 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:09 PM
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A good personality is much rarer than good looks. Personality is definitely more important. I am just one guy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:16 AM
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A good therapist.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 04:01 AM
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We use numbers to quantify relative attractiveness; it is not an absolute scale though - thereby accounting for variability among other people. Either that or everyone should be required to post a photo of themselves. That would be the only way to eliminate the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:32 AM
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having high standards in comparison to where you personally stand... I believe you committed a statistical error:! If most people are 4-6 range, and I am an a supposed 8 ... statistically it will be hard to find another 8 that is available since they are rare mathematically and likely already with someone. Statistics trump my standards in all cases!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:03 AM
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They see a snack and think I'm cap'n save a hoe and gonna support their kids! I was minding my own business running downtown and a gang of whales eyed me like I was a Twinkie!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:09 AM
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From the storys I read in reddit as well as what women tell me the only way I could improve is to be famous (i domt want) or a 6'6" basketball player. To be honest I don't like the number system because all that matters is whether or not you find someone attractive or not. But I would rate myself at least an eight but it is extremely hard to get an 8+ into bed or an LTR genearlly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:26 AM
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I am sorry but you are sorely mistaken. I would date a black woman that was super feminine, I have been with women that don't have huge perky tits, too tall is relative, porn star in bed most men couldn't handle, virgins don't really know what they are doing, & I am not fat...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:24 AM
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Well said and I am in this boat I am 100% sure and have realized most women that are both attractive and pleasant are just not available. No sense to get upset about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:08 PM
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Besides being a pleasant person and having a small waist, how many other bars are there to pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:54 PM
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well of course, most men will put up with a hot woman that acts like a bitch...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:13 PM
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Do you get turned on by obese 40 year olds? Those are the only ones throwing themselves at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:11 PM
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This has nothing to do with the red pill. Single men that have options are not going to pick women with huge waist or children. I don't find either attractive generally. I'm a 32 waist and have a six pack. I cant be turned on by a woman that is more than that 2 or 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:33 PM
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For you to believe this you would have to imagine all the things that get said on dating apps 100% happen; which is just false.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:29 PM
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It is not even the fact that is ubiquitous, but temporary or a feeling they have currently. Might not be forever and statistics say it is likely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:10 PM
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This is very simple - eat foods that are as close to nature as possible. Broccoli, carrots, spinach, avacados, lean & unprocessed meats, nuts, berries, etc.; avoid foods that are highly processed and refined with added chemicals: twinkies, McDonalds, soda, debbie cakes, high fructose corn syrup, chips, unhealthy fats, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 02:16 PM
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Did you watch the video? You are behaving exactly the way people do when it comes to success... actually quite funny.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:53 PM
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The exceptions do not make the rule. CT is .001%
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:08 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3LopI4YeC4I&ab_channel=Veritasium I bet you are a deca-millioinare since you have direct control of your money?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:32 PM
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Viagra/cialis likely won't work since it does not get at the root of the problem. You should watch the whole talk. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU&ab_channel=QuickTalksQuickTalks
/r/askTRP08/06/21 05:03 PM
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Hey OP, I'm a doctor of nursing; PMHNP. You have likely to wait months+ or more for epigenetic changes to occur in the reward centers in your brain. These brain changes are also causing the anhedonia and zombieness. As people have noted in the comments, stop watching videos and get some good exercise. Squats, dead lifts, chest press, lat rows, & overhead press. Maybe some jogging. You will be better in no time. Also, I didn't see anyone ask if you were really attracted to the woman you want to s…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:44 PM
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This is the typical cliché answer which is fine, but it is deeper than this. Worrying about things you have absolute 0 control over occupies mental space and is not productive and further has negative mental health consequences. It doesn't matter if it is your face, how much money you have or the woman you are sleeping with. All these you have literal no control over. The only reasonable thing to do is to let go of the idea that you do have control and that it is important. These things are only…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:36 PM
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No
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:26 PM
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Right, so that is something I personally do not believe in because I hate when women lead me on, talk to me for weeks, and then flake. I would rather them just not talk if they had no interest in meeting. Which A LOT of women just want chat buddies/attention.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:29 PM
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It is whatever works for you. I find that 2 is what I am good with, while talking lightly with others. But even that is too much sometimes.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:55 PM
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It depends on your stage of life. Once you get to 30-35 and you have had a good amount of experience with women, you will realize new randy sex is not worth substituting for other things you are really passionate or enjoy, especially a good social network & friends. If you are truly a man of value & have other things going on, you would find it tiring juggling more than 2-3 plate more trouble than it is worth just for the consistent sex. That being said, there are still men in the 50+ range that…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:13 PM
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This post is from a person named "BrazilianPie" and about screwing other women while in a LTR. What does this have to do with the beauty of your continent? I merely observed that in EU, the women seem to be much more sexually open than women in the US - there are also lots of other content put out by men about this on YouTube and other sites. It is relevant bc that is what this post is about.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:35 PM
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This is common in EU.... just compare the porn out of Eur & US...
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:26 PM
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gotta be a lil ugly. "If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, make an ugly woman your wife"
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:14 PM
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There is a lot of that too lmao; my favorite is the jealous protective mother hen archetype
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:12 PM
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This is very true. Of course we mostly generalize, but even women in the 9+ category have insecurities. It never matters what you rate them, it is how they rate themselves. I think the same for men and their value.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 08:19 PM
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yeah, sadly there will always be demand for it... The last year I have realized that some men are so desperate that they will do anything to delude themselves into pseudo relationships.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:36 PM
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The most success for most people will be keto; low carb, mid fat, high protein. See my 600lb life. You can lose 1-2 lbs a week. Any faster can be dangerous. Walks won't matter much. Cut out fast food, fries, buns and sodas are essentially killing the US.
/r/RedPillWives28/05/21 02:11 AM
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You must be rollin in pu$$ie since you are not "just an idiot"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:26 PM
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Having no "social life" is not winning on paper bro. Yes you have the height but that barely gets you in the door. You need good social calibration and confidence more than anything.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:33 PM
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Yeah, as you age you eventually accept there are some that like you and some that won't. Doesn't matter who you are really. You can increase your attractiveness only so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:00 PM
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Yeah what the fuck? That isn't the reason at all lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:55 PM
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When any westerner goes to an Asian country basically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:39 PM
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Yes, sure that makes sense... but women also see when they go on any social media or dating app when they are trying to find a man to date. BT W the under 30 crowd literally can't set their phone away for 2 minutes. They can easily DM a dubai oil money guy or a local NBA player.... Those are top 1% too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:38 PM
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Yes, this is the core problem. I get like 30-50+ matches a week. Do they go anywhere? Mostly not past 2 messages. In person I have no problem getting great responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:19 PM
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Yeah, came here to point out this is stupid and not a simple cause-effect relationship. So many people find 1 article and think that is some "quality research right here".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:03 PM
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Exactly, "why do simp exist?" WEll, bc there is market.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:48 PM
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I really think the only way to smash left and right with women coming to you all the time is to be famous in some way. Neil Strauss wrote about this in the Game which I read over 10 years ago. Today it is social media or YouTube for the average joe but you need a sizeable following which can take years to build on average. I have had "enough" success as a man, and can say for sure chasing multiple young women is not worth it. As a well above average male, I built a great life for myself in my 20…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:44 PM
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I hung out with 3 groups and had 2 dates this past weekend. See how you can not perceive someone based on a couple sentences what they are really like in real life? Not the internet? Do you guys not have this distinction in your heads?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:04 AM
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A thoughtful response; please consider the following... This is an anonymous forum therefore the dynamic is different; I do not talk like this in person... I have never called someone else "RIPE" besides my own dad that doesn't shower for several days and walks around in a cloud of odor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:02 AM
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No joke breh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:00 AM
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Me and all of my male friends have generally speaking the same problem. I have met and he has met many younger people. They don't stick though. Everyone wants to point the finger at us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:17 PM
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That would make me laugh and not take personal insult and anger. Why are colorful metaphors nowadays triggering speech. Some deep introspection required here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:15 PM
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And that is funny, I don't take this too serious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:09 PM
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I will never be cucked as I'm not getting married, ever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:46 PM
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I go to the farmers market to find ripe fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:43 PM
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The fact you think you know so much about me from a couple of words is pretty funny -I am using the term colorfully, as an artist uses paint on a canvas; not to trigger random internet strangers. Stop getting angry at words that aren't meant to offend!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:41 PM
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Best reply right here. Honestly, I find that women could care less how you look for the most part. If that were true I would have a harem of women on rotation. It is much more about confidence, as this portrays much more important sub contexts; confidence and pride in who you are as a person, wholeness as an individual, likely high value work, lots of social exposure & contact with men and women, etc. When I am in the zone and confident, I get really good reactions. When I am in a frail and weak…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:02 PM
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This shit is so stupid. I approached a woman yesterday and had a great 1 hr conversation with her. She said she enjoyed talking. What is true and what you need to do as a man is realize that logistically it is just not gonna work. And I am over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:57 PM
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can't get (quality) partners, poor communication from either side, lack of time for relationships, feeling unhappy in relationships These are all my problems
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:26 AM
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Yeah, I mean we could write a whole dissertation on the matter and how "social" media plays a part. What about discounting that the internet and social media mean that any cute woman is being DM'd 100s of times a day by men she probably wouldn't have been able to meet about 10-20 years ago? I have a friend I would honestly rate at about a 7, though she is a professional, and she gets so many matches on bumble alone that she can't reply to them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:10 PM
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That is not what my parents taught me at all....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:10 PM
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This is so far wrong and general blanket BS. I have had women come over to my place on the first meet and they told me to my face it was because "I was always sweet" towards them. And if you don't believe that, you always catch more bees with honey. I bet you are one of those guys that get's super angry when someone doesn't text you back in 1 hr. Those same women might come around and screw you if you are patient and don't get your panties in a bunch. I know because it has happened for me more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:00 PM
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Women that want a man that has his things together - as soon as he realizes he has options, he is not gonna want to get tied down. Especially after how much work it takes to get to a 'good place' with women. I am talking, years, therapy, gym, good job, etc. Takes HARD WORK. What really burns you out even more is when you find women you have things in common with, genuinely want to know, and they just ghost over and over. Most men don't have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:55 PM
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