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Never and never
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 12:59 PM
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%100. Women right now are the worse they have ever been in history. All the instagram models who post a sexy picture then rejoice in the thousands of likes and comments about how perfect they are really got to all women. Most women don’t even cook and clean anymore. Men are doing it. Men are becoming the better caregivers of children. With a court system designed to bleed men dry there is no point for any man to get married anymore. Marriage is a trap. Look at all these young athletes getting ma…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 02:00 PM
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Women are in this weird stage right now where they had the me too movement and all this equality stuff. It Doesn’t matter what the issue is or if they are morally wrong, they will get support and encouragement from other females. The sad part is that women have less and less value these days. The women I am dating are not good cooks and have no ability to communicate about anything. They just get an idea in their head then their friends support it and then they think they are being strong and in…
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 12:02 PM
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The whole idea of marriage is stupid in current times. Both men and women have way too many options to cheat and our world is over sexualized. Sex is fun but it’s overrated. Women are in a weird point where they think they don’t need men and they are offering less and less. Weird times I tell you
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 12:57 PM
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Literally 2 days after I told her about the new girlfriend she sent me a long email about moving in with her new guy. I don’t like it at all. I’m in Canada so I’m not sure about the alimony. It’s something I have to look into
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 02:19 PM
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I totally agree. My ex got jealous I was dating a doctor and then made the choice to move in with her new boyfriend. Now she has night shift and this man has to watch my son and put him to bed.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 01:55 PM
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Met a new woman a month ago. We were both off today. She came over and gave me a BJ and a massage then we watched a movie and I took her home. Then my ex asked me to take my son early as she’s going on a plane to see family and she wanted to go early. So I got my 5 year old a few days early for my week on and we had a blast befor bedtime. It was a good day
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 05:28 AM
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Sounds like you don’t need advice man. You got this figured out
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 04:06 PM
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Sorry to hear that brother. It probably won’t help but it may even be the time in the world right now. The younger generation is very entitled and mislead. Social media just destroyed them. It seems as if they have no more shame. There is also this uprising of women power and this arrogance of that no woman needs a man, until they do. But until they do is all about women power. Both sexes can lean on each other. Kids don’t care about what’s right and wrong anymore. They care about getting attent…
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 03:28 PM
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The first year after we split she only seen him On weekends. I should have done something then. But I didn’t and eventually I agreed to go to 50/50. I shouldn’t have but it is what it is now. I’m trying to be amicable and good for my son but she makes it hard
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 08:49 PM
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I feel your message with my whole heart man. I taught my ex so much about life as she came from a country where it’s very corrupt and poor and when she immigrated she truly didn’t understand the world. I think now and she didn’t do anything for me. She cheated and gave me a std but when I truly think of it I never loved her. I just wanted the family image and for my son to be happy. I truly don’t even think her new man will be happy. She has a nice body but they faded over time with the lack of …
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 07:58 PM
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I caught my ex breaking and entering into my house on camera then she admitted it in email. When I told her that a chargeable offence she ran to the cops and said i threatened to kill her in front of my son. I had to wait 3 weeks for court so show my evidence and couldn’t see my son. I do stocks so I watched him during the day and she would take him after work. We were 50/50 with hours though. I used the time to really make my boy smart and teach him so much and he’s only 4 years old. I’m proud …
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 11:49 AM
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I will never get married. And this so called woke generation of women is so off putting. The world is a weird place right now and it’s only getting weirder. I got my son and my dog and I’m getting back into working out and doing things for myself. Although I have no friends and not one family member I can talk to as they are all extremely dysfunctional so a girlfriend to talk to would be nice. I found men support groups twice a week and they help. You can get a lot off your chest. The week off f…
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 03:47 PM
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In all my happiness I started to drink more than I should in the last 5 years. I quit alcohol, coffee and marijuana in the last 5 months and have joined men support groups and I am getting a therapist. I feel my life is making a shift for the better and I am just about to put myself out there and start dating again. I hope you can look at your marriage and judge if it is the best thing for you to be happy in the future. In my experience when women want to end it so abruptly without trying to fix…
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 01:07 PM
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My ex was a very naive and innocent women when we met. The relationship was constantly about me telling her what she thought was wrong and to stop Believing every single thing that people told her. It got tiring to be in such a one sided relationship. She was attractive and always got attention from men which she loved and would encourage. Then she cheated and gaslighted me until she admitted it. By this time we had a son and I had a very bad family growing up so I stayed. I can say she never he…
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 12:44 PM
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Man if you like kids ask yourself the question about whether or not you want your kids to be raised by such an aggressive woman. Kids won’t make it better. It will make it 5 times worse. Trust me. Kids make almost all relationships worse. I’m not saying kids are the problem. I love my son and I love every child. But women tend to get an even larger feeling of entitlement once they have kids and they throw in weight gain and less sleep Your future kids need you to make a better choice in a mother…
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 10:21 PM
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In my experience courts won’t care if she has a new young guy. Things will play out the same. If you can get it resolved easily and you can accept that most people end up shooting them self in the foot one way or the other. Get an agreement written up and get your uncle lawyer to write it up so it’s official and file it though the courts. Save yourself the headaches and the drama of the long court process. It’s crazy how slow it is and each court case only settles with one issue and then they ma…
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 01:01 PM
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It’s time to start new traditions and for your son to accept them as well.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 07:58 PM
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She’s only 33. I think it’s more of a victim-always-pause. She has a nice body and men give her attention so she is used to acting anyway she wants and getting away with it. When she doesn’t get her way then her real crazy comes out. We’re currently going through finding a daycare for my son and I got him into one with a one year waiting list cause I knew the owners. She had a blackmail list to accept it like she gets to claim my son on taxes and keep all child benefits. That’s about a $6000 hit…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 07:45 PM
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I’m in Canada. They favour the women majorly here and they almost always do 50/50 The woman is truly mentally unwell but she is proud of it
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 06:56 PM
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I feel for my son so bad. But it got to the point where if she was driving and asked me to drive and I said no then she would use the weapon as a vehicle and would drive 160 km/hr then slam on the brakes and yell at the top of her lungs. She did this over and over until I used the emergency brake. She would tell my son she would kill herself multiple times and would get to his level and say momma is going to die now Then Swallowed as many Advils as we had in the Bottle or would Run around with k…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 03:23 PM
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I think your white knight mentality is really complex and disturbing
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 08:13 PM
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I feel some and pride and sadness for your story Man. I feel proud that your daughter seen through the bullshit but sadness for what you went through. Do you know talk to your youngest daughter? Had your oldest tried to reach out to her? I’m 18 months into mine and we just got our parenting agreement done. We’re 50/50 on everything. I have raised my son without daycare for the last 3 years as I do stocks from home for money. The first year we separated my ex only seen him on weekends. Our bond i…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 07:52 PM
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I was the original commentor. I wouldn’t have sex with her without the condom and she made issue of it. The other person was trying to justify her actions and I was against that. I wouldn’t bareback anyone I just met. Befor I bareback all my girlfriends we both go get an STD test so we can both feel safe. It’s just something I have always done. In this case I just met her and the day went well. She almost invited herself over so I went with it. It was my first date in 17 months since my separati…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 01:14 AM
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Anybody can make excuses for these women as Much as they want. Nobody comes to save us men and play the white knight when they are ducking us over and taking our kids from us and all our hard earned money. Not sure why you feel the need to defend anyone. You take peoples actions for what they are worth without making excuses. It’s 2023 and men who make excuses for people end up getting screwed in the end
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 12:51 AM
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She was always this way. She cheated multiple Times in the 10 years we were together and now that I look back on our relationship I believe she was a serial cheater. I cheated once back in retaliation. I wish I stayed with that woman as she was sweet and sexy and had her head on straight. But I had a lot of other family issues I was dealing with and was also working 12-13 hours a day 6 days a week so sometimes you just get stuck in a routine and you accept all the bad in your life. I think many …
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 02:47 PM
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I only have one son and I truly love kids. I have a real talent in teaching and dealing with them. I was excited to have sex after so long but once the condom situation happened my mind was No longer focused on the fun but on the why the fuck is she doing this. I lost my mojo but eventually finished but it was not fun. Then when I asked her why she did that she played victim and said I made her feel dirty. See through the bullshit then drove her home and never contacted her again
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 02:32 PM
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My ex is the same. She’s telling people I beat up my mother and I sell drugs for money. She put it in her affidavit as well. I coach my sons soccer and she tells all the parents lies about me, my sons preschool was the same. The teachers would not even look at me. She went to my own family members telling lies and it spread about me. She lied and got an EPO against me and I couldn’t see my son for three weeks. I had her on camera breaking and entering into my house three days befor the EPO and w…
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 02:30 PM
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Yeah man. I couldn’t even focus of the sex. My Mind was thinking about all this shit as we were screwing. She ruined my mojo. Afterwards she cried hard saying I thought she was dirty. It was a weird experience that I didn’t need. As I said I never seen her again
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 11:15 AM
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I haven’t tried dating for 18 months since we separated. I met one woman off tinder a month ago and it went well and we came back to my place but then she got mad when I put a condom on cause she wanted bareback and then she kept trying to take it off. Yeah I didn’t see her again and the my mind was not into sex as I was only thinking of why the duck wouldn’t she want to be safe if we just met 4 hours ago.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 03:30 AM
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My son is 4 and this is my biggest fear. I stayed home with him because I wanted to value this time but she is already doing her thing. She lied and got an EPO and the three weeks befor the court date she kept telling my son he doesn’t need or miss daddy. When the judge cancelled the EPO on my son the first things he kept saying to were I don’t miss daddy. I asked him why he said that and he said it was because mommy keep telling me that. His actions showed different as he wouldn’t leave my side…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 04:45 PM
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Man don’t do it. My ex cheated with everyone around me. Friends, family members. She went to my family and manipulated them against me. She used the fact I didn’t want my son around trauma and used it against me. She told my son multiple times mommy will kill my self. She pretended to hang herself with a blanket she ripped out of his hands. Drove 160 km/hr then would slammed on brakes and repeated it over and over. She went to family resource centres and played victim and lied about me then had …
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 04:56 PM
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We have another EPO court Friday. I’m getting a 6 month mutual no contact order and my House will be added onto it. We will make pick ups and drop offs at police stations
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 01:27 AM
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So did you get 50/50 in the end or full custody. We have our parenting agreement and it is 50/50 so not sure if it’s worth pursuing
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 07:12 PM
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I did in the email. I had one of those push code deadbolt systems. I erased her code but somehow she still got in. I ended up buying a whole new lock after this happend and changed it all.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 04:41 PM
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I totally agree with you man. I was honest in my affidavit and I excluded most of what she did as I didn’t have the evidence to back it up. I only Included things I had evidence for. When a child’s life is on the line perjury should Not be allowed. But we are week on and week off so I don’t have to really interact with her at all which is nice. Karma seems to have a way of coming around to people so im hoping it hits hard. Edit. We were never married. I was never happy enough to want to marry he…
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 03:37 PM
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It’s a shame the courts allow lying to happen. I was %100 truthful in my affidavit. And I left out most of the crazy shit she did like pretending to hang herself in front of my son with a blanket. I do stocks for money so my son has never been in daycare. Now starting next Monday he will be thrown in full time. I have socialized him well and he’s very smart from our daily Activities but I still think a slower transition would have been better. I sacrificed working and making more money so I coul…
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 03:36 PM
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You wouldn’t believe how bad she got Man. She told my son multiple times she would Kill herself. Swallowed 10-16 Advils one time In front of us. We didn’t know how much. She admitted cheating and I said I would leave and this was her response. Her affidavit was all lies but I’m not sure if it’s worth disputing it as courts almost always favour the women. I protected my son from her for over 2 years. I’m sure when he’s older he will see through her and want to be with me but until then all I can …
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 02:36 PM
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Lol. I’m not rich at all. I have had lots of money and lost lost of money. I sacrificed my life for money and spent years away for it. Now I’m at the point where I will take a lesser paying job so I can enjoy my life. I no longer care about the expensive things in life like fancy cars and boats. I prefer to be around good people and to grow myself by learning and starting new hobbies. Life is to short To waste it all working. Thank you for your advice. I don’t think we will either get education …
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 01:00 PM
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Did you have any financials in your agreement. My Lawyer did not put any.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 12:55 PM
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Yes I agree
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 12:47 PM
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I don’t do any social media man. Reddit is all I got But yeah it will be Sunday drop offs and pick ups. That’s all. I don’t live to work. I live for my son and family. I will adjust my life for my son. Money is just money.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 12:35 PM
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Wait. I want Sunday exchanges. I think you meant don’t give her the Friday hand off. She has been sleeping with people the whole Relationship man. I’m not even jealous. I feel sorry for her new guy as people can only pretend for so long. Even befor my son she cheated and then she got pregnant. I only stayed for the family but always hated her We are going complete 50/50 so I don’t think she will go with any right to residence as we are both sharing equally. I do all his education now and I’m the…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 12:13 PM
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Lol. Mine is as well. She wants Friday hand offs. I want Sunday’s as well. I can find a week on and week off job. But they are go Sunday to Sunday. What is right to residence and education? We agree we have to agree on all things with school and everything is shared decisions
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 11:58 AM
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