onlyslightlyabusive Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	Why do so many women think they need violent sex now? I think you really nailed it - so many women are immersed in a culture that rewards their sexual submission and they often have abusive men as roles models in their lives and when this happens during critical developmental periods for forming sexual preferences then ofc you will learn to be attracted to pleasing others at all costs - bc that is what these women really enjoy about violent sex I think. Its not that they like pain or violence, it's that they like pleasing others and when that is ti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/21 01:32 AM
2	What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man? Ok sure let’s imagine that it was 100% consensual and she was never pressured - she tried it and she didn’t fucking like it. You don’t want a woman with sexual preferences or desires of her own you want a blow up doll at the temperature of a human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 06:27 PM
0	What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man? Disagree Hard. Lots of women are manipulated or pushed into kinky sex and later learn to stand up for their own needs better. People are allowed to grow and change. Not being interested in sec at all, that would agree with - but not giving you some specific kinky thing you asked for but she’s genuinely not into even after having previously tried it…naw dude that’s just you pressuring people into sex acts not some big sign from the universe	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 12:59 PM
9	CMV: Purge week exposed PPD for what it really is, a big mental asylum I’m actually new to this sub this week so I have no idea what’s normal. I did have call out a few men who were openly advocating for rape and how all women deserved/secretly wanted it. Comments were later deleted but like it was uh...just curious if that’s pretty typical or only allowed during purge week?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 03:17 PM
0	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? Well first of all when I said “Now you want me to hire you as my full time baker over all other bakers?” that was just to express commitment not transaction but bc of the baker/cake analogy it happens to. But regardless, let’s assume that like you say many women view relationships with men as transactional. You are still comparing two transactions that are fundamentally different in nature- in one transaction both parties are motivated by sexual release. In the other transaction one party is mot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 01:36 AM
2	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? No arguments here too bad it doesn’t make the overall argument sound	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 07:10 PM
-1	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? You have this way of just making statements that are related to my arguments but don’t actually do anything to negate them. (I forget exactly what that logical fallacy is..maybe strawman?) But it does appears to gets you upvotes by people who just want to hear what you tell them, and clearly aren’t willing or able to think about the cogency of the arguments beyond that. sorry gents, facts don’t care about your feelings. All of this about the wasps and tyrones and the women not being able to bake…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 07:06 PM
3	Sex and sexuality doesn't have to be fair, logical, or consistent: no one owes anyone anything Nothing wrong with being angry but it’s super unattractive so any person raging for this reason is shooting themselves in the foot. And frankly, what’s unattractive about is mostly the failure to take accountability for their own feelings and situation in life - when men rage about muscular men getting all the attention they are making women responsible for the fact that they themselves have failed to go to the gym, they have failed to eat right, and that they have failed to develop their own se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 05:29 PM
1	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? Eh yeah probably more attractive people are harder to get to settle down? Idk though, it makes sense but from what I’ve actually seen irl wanting to be in a relationship is more about life stage and outlook than it is attractiveness. In fact I’d say basically all of most attractive men that I actually know have gfs or are married. Maybe they slept around when younger but still, it’s commitment-readiness isn’t about attractiveness despite the existence of options	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 05:17 PM
0	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? Nah, it’s correlation not causation. Sorry for my poor wording but here being a reject is not about being desirable to others, it’s just stating that fact bc it’s just not that hard for attractive men to get causal sex these days and a man, who can’t get causal and has to pay for it, is doing so bc he’s unattractive either mentally or physically. Sure there could be exceptions, but it’s super unlikely. Also, like women are not snowflakes, theres basically a pretty standard set of traits that mak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 03:25 PM
2	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? Logical fallacy of the false equivalence all around here and look how many poor people took the bait. This is only even a logically sound question if we assume that a woman getting free casual sex is the same - physically, emotionally, morally, etc., as the man buying casual sex. While you could argue they’re the same functionally, the premise that they’re the same morally and emotionally doesn’t hold so the argument is unsound. Edited heavily to be less angry and more coherent. I’m feisty today…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 03:13 PM
-2	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? How are you unable to the false equivalence you’re using here? Like the logically fallacy is clearer than your mommy issues... You are attempting to draw an equivalence between casual sex with no monetary incentive and professional sex services. These are not at all the same thing....it’s like if I said a baked you a birthday cake when I really bought it at the store. Meanwhile someone else actually baked you cake. Sure, either way you get cake but the process of buying a cake and baking a cake …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 03:11 PM
1	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? No they want men who actually attractive enough to have had all the casual sex or attached sex with women, who they didn’t need to rent. It’s not about “being monks” and about not being rejects	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 02:59 PM
1	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? I’m in this boat as well. I may be able to be the breadwinner but do I really want to do that and have children? Let’s face it, it is physically demanding and your career tends to suffer no matter what you do...so there’s a huge physical and financial burden that women bear in having kids. Could be worth it, but I’m gonna protect that investment legally and I’m not gonna feel bad about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 07:06 AM
1	If a man is trying to get laid then he shouldn't be afraid to be superficial, nor should he care what women will think of him after sex. I mean maybe you don’t care what that woman thinks of you anymore but shouldn’t you care what you think about yourself? Using lifts or enhancing your appearance is one thing but going too far - lying, deceit, manipulation, etc? Like, have some pride in yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 04:58 AM
22	Do you find insta-models appealing? So you like a more approachable, girl next door type, or a more natural look. That’s cool. It’s like a kink to be into average chicks these days lmao!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 04:55 AM
6	Women believing they have the power Economics would lead me to believe that large demand and low supply creates high prices. In other words, we value most what is hard to get but everyone wants. For woman, sex is cheap and relationships from healthy men are expensive. For men, relationships are cheap and sex is harder to find especially without the relationship. So yeah, women have the power in terms of sex and men have the power in terms of commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 04:42 AM