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| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourBecause men have vastly more realistic expectations than women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourIt's unrealistic to tell men to lower their standards to the bottom 20% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourSocietal problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavour80% of men > 20% of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourAverage man only wants one woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourIt's unrealistic to tell men to throw out 80% of women as options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourWomen have unrealistic expectations of attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourThat's not an accepted definition of average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourShe doesn't find him attractive because of problematic, unrealistic expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourAverage man wants average woman, not Stacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourNot the same. Average man should be able to get with average women, but can't because of unrealistic expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourNot the same. Average men is not in the their league because of women's unrealistic expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourHaving sex does not mean someone is in your league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourThe delusion is they think they can marry him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourHe should be in there league, and would be if women had realistic expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourNo. Sex does not equate to being in someone's league. The women are the delusional ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourNo, the women aren't. It's unreasonable to relegate 80% of men to 20% of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourThanks Jill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourNo. Chad is being realistic in what he can pull. Women are not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourOthers could be to blame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourBecause it's unreasonable to tell men not to go for 80% of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourHow is it beneficial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourNope. Their ego isn't being "inflated" if Chad is willing to fulfill a fantasy by sleeping with them. It absolutely is If you want them to be humbled then tell Chad to stop sleeping with those women. Chad is a non factor If anything this shows that the average man's ego is inflated, because he thinks he is special enough that a woman would choose him over a chad. Bullshit. Women are the delusional ones if they only opt for Chad. Even chads think this is ridiculous. Chads know they are desirable,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourChad is the problem. No, he's not But those men can't be those women's first choice if she does not feel genuine attraction for him. Women not being attracted to 80% of men is delusional, unrealistic and problematic. Seek therapy All of this could be solved if men simply went for women in their league (women who prefer them over Chad). Your idea of the league is horribly unrealistic and cruel to men but why do average men want ONE of chads women to be HIS monogamous long term relationship? Chad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourAre you a woman or have you ever talked to a woman that settled for a man she doesn't feel attraction towards? Caused by unrealistic expectations and inflated egos Most men are not okay with sexless marriages.. but that's what you are basically trying to push. No, it's not. Quote me please If men want real change they would confront Chads about this. They're the ones taking away your opportunity... Chads are living in reality, which I can accept. Women only opting for Chad is not realistic It's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourwhy are you surprised that women take the opportunity to sleep with theirs? That's fine, but more women are opting only to sleep with Chad If sex doesn't mean anything then let these women hook up with Chad... That's fine then they can eventually settle down and marry an average man, even if she doesn't feel any attraction towards him Only choosing Chad for numerous years creates a loneliness epidemic. Also, using men as a second choice is disgusting Why not confront him directly and tell him to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourIt doesn't matter if you think it's skewed It does. That is a problem with modern dating that should be discussed more (and frowned upon) If the men complaining were chads, they wouldn't be complaining in the first place That is not relevant nor helpful for men If they know they're not a chad... then why are they expecting to be treated like one? They're not Why are they expecting the same women that Chad gets? Average man just want average woman Okay, there are millionaires that probably gamble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourSex and hookups count... No, sex doesn't mean that person will marry you. if they didn't then all men would be okay settling for a sexless relationship where their gf still sleeps with Chad. That is obviously a different issue Okay then how do men have a chance with women they can't 1) sleep with 2) date 3) meet in person? They don't. I don't know what you're implying here. Average men go for average women If men weren't going for those women then they wouldn't have subscribed, hoping that she w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourThat is average, because they are matched in desirability. Desirability is too skewed in current dating market because of horrible social media influences and echo chambers That is not average Why are they going for women that Chad is also trying to sleep with? Chad can sleep with 80%. That's fine. It's unreasonable to tell men their options are limited to 20% of women. That's a bunch of nonsense Yet they won't confront Chad directly about it? Why would they? Chad isn't the problem Women are gon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourI think I'll take complaining over quitting haha but agree to disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourThe women have more of a chance than the men. No they don't. Chad is the top 10%. 80% of women can't all marry him Why are you telling women to be realistic but not telling men to be realistic? Average men are going after average women. Most average men aren't realistically going after women on onlyfans. Your argument is invalid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourI think we can do better than number 3 lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourThe men complaining are not getting a one night stand with *average women Fixed that for you. Average men aren't going for Stacy. Average men are going for average women, who are only chasing Chad, so men are understandably complaining Reminder that average is base on weight, height, finances etc not women who "have no attractive features." That is not average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourIf men weren't only chasing Stacie's, they would have more success in dating Extremely false. Men aren't only chasing Stacy and they still have trouble in dating If an average man has a chance with Sophie rain despite never meeting then women definitely have a chance with men they're actually fucking. Neither have a chance with either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourI would argue having sex with Chad doesn't mean he's in your league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourThey have a higher chance than men have with the women they want though lol. No, they only think. By definition, there's only so much Chad to go around Whats the chance an average man can be with Stacy long term if he already can't hook up with one? Stacy is not who these men are going after And that's the point of casual dating, it's not guaranteed to be long term. That doesn't mean two consenting parties can't go out or hook up. There's a growing number of women opting to only chase Chad, crea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourWhat's a better solution? Ignoring the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavouran actual average woman is not a woman that is attractive by any means. She is plain, insignificant and has 0 nice features. To quote what's "in their league," this is the only woman 80% of men have as an option for this guy Which I think is unreasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourI find Emily Ratajkowski attractive. Doesn't mean she's in my league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourSo why are you expecting these women to reject these men as if they're unattractive? Because there's a 0% chance they'll be with them long term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:28 PM |
| 6 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourFuck me, you're right. I'm the stupid one for thinking there's a problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavouran actual average woman is not a woman that is attractive by any means. She is plain, insignificant and has 0 nice features These are the only women you think 80% of men deserve. That's unreasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourNo, that's unreasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourYou mean the majority of women? Dude, come on. "Oh, I'm sorry that I as a man want any women Chad can have. You know, the majority of women. How could I think so " highly" of myself?" I can't imagine thinking lower of one's self | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourI don't just think it's worthless, I think it actively hurts these women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourHow about 80% of men? How about women in the long term? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourThat's the only women you think are options for men?! That's horrendously pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourYes, exactly. This is the problem I'm talking about. The number of women giving the same "average man" from yesterday is going down as those women are opting to unrealistically chase Chad Please, tell me. How is this good for anyone? How is this not a problem? ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourWomen can have both lol I have seen some hook up with hott men, while they are dating a man they settled for My fear is the latter scenario will dwindle as women opt for chasing Chad over settling, and I think that's shown by the rise in men's issues in dating The only way your logic would make sense is if these women had completely 0 access to Chad. And if Chad was willing to actively reject her, so an average man can have her. Incorrect. Having short access to Chad is meaningless long term. Re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourwhen average men who can not even sleep with a Stacy... also feels entitled to a long term relationship with Stacy? No, they don't. They wants a Marsha who's only chasing Chad, or whatever the step below Stacy is I fail to see how you think those girls have 0% chance with men they are sleeping with A) They can't all ultimately end up with Chad and B) is a 5% to 10% chance that much better than 0? But somehow average men have a chance to date women that don't even give them the time of day? Yes, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:53 PM |
| 5 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourWhat's the long term gain on being in an intimate relationship with a man you do not find attractive or desire? Yes, exactly. This is where the problem is. Women's expectations have been driven so high by social media and other factors that it's delusional. That's something I think is worth addressing Actual average women are the women that Chad would reject, even for a hookup Describe to me an average women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourBoth Chad and the women are constantly consenting to it. That's fine. I just think it becomes delusional when these women expect Chad to be a long term partner, and making him out to be is causing a huge divide between men and women Disagree with me all you want but you haven't said anything substantial against this Would it be better if women started getting into sexless relationships/beta bucks with average men, but slept with Chads on the side? What would be better is these women having a goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourIs that fine in short bursts? Sure, of course Is that reasonable long term and fine on a large scale? I don't think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourIf Chad gives them the opportunity do smash or date, then why would they pass that up for a less attractive man? Because it's short term vs long term gain. Chad's never going to choose most of these women, not in a million years. Them fooling themselves and being treated by a series of Chads isn't doing either them or men any good It's not 80% of women lol Say what you want. But people throw that 80/20 number around all the time. I think it's ridiculous, sure, but I think it's striking a point t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourWhy do you think it's better for the average woman to be pumped and dumped by Chad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:29 PM |
| 6 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourMen's biggest issue is that they simply don't make the cut for the majority of women This is exactly what I think is a problem, especially that the gap between requirements for men and women seems to be growing substantial But hey, agree to disagree. I'm outside the states as well taking full advantage anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourI still don't see dating as a specifically men's issue Please, show me where I or anyone else said that I don't see stats supporting that feeling I wish I had stats as well. This is mostly a sentiment I feel from reading online and growing communities like the "manosphere," "PPBs," and young male Trump supporters. Yeah, you can say those communities are toxic. They are. I won't argue. But I also think there are real issues driving people into those communities unfortunately the number of poorly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:23 PM |
| 4 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourHorrible argument when women are the selectors. They ultimately choose, not us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourYeah, that is a problem. The number of women chasing what was once considered an "average man" is becoming lower and lower for that average man. Meaning, the gap between what is considered average between men and women is growing larger. Disagree. Cutting yourself off from women who can "get laid by Chad" is like cutting off 80% of women. Do you really think men should do that? You know what doesn't make sense? For an average woman to chase Chad. It makes way less sense for an average woman to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourThe problem is the disparity in the "league" is delusional. What was once an average woman now thinks she's batting in the 9/10 league, meaning average men will now constantly get rejected (even though the two should be in the same league) It's not a minimum wage worker going after trust fund kids. It's a minimum wage worker going after a jobless person who thinks they're a trust fund kid. The former are way more similar than the latter So what does the leave for the "red pilled" men? Homeless p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:02 PM |
| 7 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourCool. Love to see men not sticking together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourYou don't think large scale hypergamy is a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourI think the number of unsatisfied people is growing, creating / fueled by societal level problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourWhat? Men have specific issues in dating and women have specific issues in dating. Do you also think men and women are exactly the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 08:34 PM |
| 10 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourYeah, that's not what men here are arguing. To deflect and ignore real issues as a man is disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 08:32 PM |
| 11 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourTell me you don't care about men's issues without telling me you don't care about men's issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 08:20 PM |
| 22 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourComplaining is subjective. This sub is for discussing sex issues. I think what you consider complaining I might consider men discussing and venting about real issues. It's weird to brush that off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 08:18 PM |
| – | Will you trust your daughter and protect her?Reported. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:20 PM |
| – | Will you trust your daughter and protect her?That wasn't your original question. And again, if it to death, that's your daughter. Of course I'm going to trust blood first over strangers. Even if I'm skeptical I mean, how low do you have to think of your family to feel otherwise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:16 PM |
| – | Will you trust your daughter and protect her?She's my blood you doofus, that's how. If I knew she was a manipulator or something, sure, maybe she's lying. But I'd still give her the benefit over strangers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:13 PM |
| – | Will you trust your daughter and protect her?What? Yes. Why would I trust some strangers over my daughter? Is this AI? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:10 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.These people don't give a shit about men, and it's disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:28 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.Whatever bro. If you just want to ignore toxic expectations of men, social media's smear campaign against men, and everything else - you do you. But you're not doing men a favor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:25 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.Not only is he shaming us for wanting women (which honestly, is more endearing than what women are saying...), but he's also shamed us for having an ounce of self respect when an average guy doesn't want someone 300+ pounds. There's no winning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:20 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.So we're just supposed to ignore real, societal issues? Nah, I don't think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:14 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.Do you think an 80/20 disparity should be seen as normal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 05:38 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.Men and women don't have to be matched off one to one, you realize that right? How does this work in the long term? Are you saying it's fine if we end up with the large majority of people being single? Isn't that kind of sad? that doesn't mean women are gonna pass up their chances of fcking a chad. Honestly, that's fine. I think an issue arises when these same women legitimately see these "Chads" as a long term partners An average man's level would be women that Chad wouldn't touch This is my bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 05:30 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.There's no "should" about it. It either is or it isnt and it's perfectly ok either way No, I don't think so. I believe women doing that is unhealthy and it contributes to larger societal problems This is entitlement It's not entitlement to look at a possible growing problem and say "I don't think this is fair." Blaming the concept on entitlement is disingenuous and brushes off a real issue (imo) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 05:12 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.Well that's kind of my point, isn't it? Average men shouldn't (have to) be competing with Chad. There's only so much Chad to go around, and I think women need to realize this. E.g. Just as much as the average man shouldn't be chasing Emily Ratajkowski, the average women shouldn't be chasing Chad The former has no chance with Emily, but the latter can get laid by Chad, creating a disparity. Men do 99% of the pursuing, and men lead relationships and dating so yes the imbalance would be created by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 04:26 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.Huge list is posted of how much more difficult the dating market is for men, women all snap their fingers, and then they have the nerve to say "dating is harder for women" You can't make this stuff up folks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 04:16 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.Hard disagree. On numerous points. red pilled men made it that way by choosing to pursue attractive women I don't believe so. I think this is a reaction to women originally creating the imbalance I also don't think a woman that can sleep with a chad, should be in the dating pool of an average man. What? That's basically any women with any amount of physical attractiveness. So does that mean you're supporting that 80% are not an option to all attractive women? Do you not think that's an unrealist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 04:05 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.That's all fine and dandy if preferences are coming from a realistic place. But if social media and echo chambers are inflating women's expectations beyond what's reasonable, then I think that's problematic. Men have that same option. If being alone is better then being with someone you aren't attractive to for you, then you absolutely have that right. Don't you think that's sad? If both genders eventually decide to opt out? Due to the bar being unrealistically high (women) vs unrealistically lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 03:56 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.I think there's a large, growing imbalance between what average women think they deserve vs what average men can find in the dating market. This significantly (and I think unjustly) lowers the attractiveness of an average man's options, and I think it's fair to complain about that E.g. I don't think it's fair to say these men should have to lower their bars even further when women's average bar is so much higher already / unrealistic (imo) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 03:41 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.So much to unpack here... If women find 80% of men unappealing, that's not their fault, it's yours. What in tarnation? This doesn't give you a hint there might be unrealistic standards being set?? If you're unattractive and still failing, the issue isn't your appearance Yes, physical attractiveness matters, it's a universal signal of health and genetic fitness (Langlois et al., 2000). But looks alone don't guarantee success. I think you're grossly underestimating how much appearance matters in m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 03:21 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.Ay everybody, look at the ego on this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 02:54 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?Alright, like your points really have any weight to them. Just because people find other things attractive doesn't mean weight isn't an objective metric. A "majority popular" physique only further proves that idea. It wasn't a yes or no scale, it was a range of most to least liked What is your argument here? That because there's some difference in what people find attractive, then it's purely subjective? No. That doesn't hold up if there's a large majority opinion on what X aspects are attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:24 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?I think if over 80% of people are saying weight is important, it's pretty safe to say it's objectively good or bad. As they say, the people have spoken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:39 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?In a survey of 68,000 people across 180 countries, an average or fit physique was the most popular with 80% of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:56 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?I don't think physical attractiveness is that subjective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:36 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?I see We all know it's mostly lies I don't think that's true, and honestly think women who do this are doing each other a disservice It's positivity at all times Yeah, I just fundamentally disagree. There may not be a middleground here *if that's the argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:33 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?Weight is an objective metric for attractiveness and after X amount, yeah, you wouldn't be objectively physically attractive anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:19 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?All these people here saying "kindness never hurt anyone" are side stepping dishonesty only hurts people. Yes, there's a balance. But what good does it do to artificially inflate someone's ego? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:07 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?I think when there's a large divide between kind words and the truth, it can seem almost repulsive. How do you balance that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:57 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?You're deluding yourself if you think that's true for the majority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:51 PM |
| – | Why do so many men hate sex workers?I don't think it's fair to say all sex work is exploitative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 06:38 AM |
| – | Why do so many men hate sex workers?Oh, that there would be nothing to consume if someone wasn't putting a product out there (a distributor) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 06:03 AM |
| – | Why do so many men hate sex workers?I disagree. Consuming only affects one person while distributing affects many people. Neither have the moral high ground, sure, but one is morally worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:57 AM |
| – | Why do so many men hate sex workers?Porn != sex work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:47 AM |
| – | Why do so many men hate sex workers?Would that make a difference? And wouldn't women who did sex work still be thought of as lower than those who didn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:46 AM |
| – | Why do so many men hate sex workers?Well, make a real argument on why it's different. Unless you were serious about that casino comment... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:44 AM |
| – | Why do so many men hate sex workers?Taking advantage of addiction *and unsuspecting people. Like credit card companies constantly pushing you to sign up right when you turn 18 is terrible. Super predatory Alcoholics don't win anything from a bar lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:32 AM |
| – | Why do so many men hate sex workers?I don't know, taking advantage of addiction happens a lot - casinos, some bars, car loans, credit cards. *I think only fans isn't that different from those, and I wouldn't label all of them as bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:22 AM |
| – | Why do so many men hate sex workers?There's a difference between a consumer and a distributor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Better way to view female "demands"What does this even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 07:41 PM |
| – | Better way to view female "demands"Nice try AI, almost readable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Why social media and dating apps have destroyed dating for average men and wreck the mental health of average womenThat is very interesting. What about the gap between younger men and women's relationship status then? E.g. Double the amount of younger men are single vs women (supposedly). What do you think is the cause there? I used to pin it on dating apps and the "top 5%." Do that many women date older men? To make up the disparity. Or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in womenI'm "one of those" people (traveling 6 years), and I completely agree it's a red flag lol. Attractive, but a red flag. For all those reasons *To be clear, for me a red flag for any gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 08:34 AM |
| 9 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.Crime, probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 09:50 PM |
| 7 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.You can care about women and vote for Trump. There were just other issues that were more important, unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are Passport Bros against sex tourism?That's bigotry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Why are Passport Bros against sex tourism?All of them? All of them are liars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are Passport Bros against sex tourism?Your argument is akin to people saying all atheists might as well be murderers. They are regular travelers, and 99% of single men in dating don't pay for sex. Same for PPBs I don't really understand why this leap from PPB to sex tourism is so concrete for you, and more so why you want to villify these people in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Why are Passport Bros against sex tourism?Not really. They talk like men with options. Also, that's just some of the posts. The primary message is about how to marry women overseas. Navigating laws, cultures, etc Overlap doesn't mean it's a full circle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Why are Passport Bros against sex tourism?Your argument seems very narrow minded. What would you do if you traveled somewhere? Food, sight see, etc? Shockingly, I'm sure whatever you like to do when traveling will be the same thing PPBs do in their free time overseas. You know. As travelers and tourists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Why are Passport Bros against sex tourism?Why are you so determined to conflate PPBs with sex tourism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Why are Passport Bros against sex tourism?Well, it happens. Idk how true this is, but some PPBs say the PPB communities overseas are so small it's not really noticeable to the locals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.Maybe, but it won't happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.You can't avoid dating apps anymore https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/s/4ew3xBNBrq | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Every man should live the fuckboy lifestyle if they can at some pointThe men that fantasize about it, definitely. People who "always wanted to" can be likely to do it later or take it out on their partner otherwise for "missing out." Might as well get it out of the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:32 AM |
| -2 | Every man should live the fuckboy lifestyle if they can at some pointAgreed. You learn a lot about women from dating and sleeping around. Definitely more so than from what they say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:29 AM |
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