onmyradar Archive

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2	My technique for getting her on the phone. Good/bad? Advice please! I usually just say "I can't talk right now, mind if I call you in a half hour or so?" She'll respond with something along the lines of "sure, that's fine!" or "sorry, I'll be at work" (or whatever reason to say no). When they say no, is when I can gauge the conversation. I might respond with "okay, no problem, see you around" and leave it (which is unfortunate) but if I'm interested enough, I'll text her in a few days and try again. Sometimes they are legitimately busy and can't take a call whic…	/r/seduction	29/04/14 03:54 PM
6	I'm successful with attractive women I don't actually "like". I'm unsuccessful with the ones I'd actually like a relationship with. Help? I hear ya mate. It's tough. Consider this talk on vulnerability. http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability. Skip to about the 9min mark for the good stuff. Hope that helps! Feel free to PM me if you want to talk about it more.	/r/seduction	16/04/14 08:00 PM
0	Getting numbers is the easy part. I have no idea what Models or The Ultimate Truth is.	/r/seduction	19/03/14 04:09 PM
2	Getting numbers is the easy part. Texting after getting a number is purely for logistical reasons - a way to make future plans, not for trying to further build attraction because it rarely works. It's comfortable to say things over a text that you might not in person and that is debilitating. Why? Simple, because it's impersonal and easy to form miscommunication (i.e when things are misinterpreted). Texting should not be used as a crutch. Try making your intentions more clear. Take the things you say over text and convert them t…	/r/seduction	18/03/14 03:23 PM
1	Sociaizing in general and adding value You're all over the place. You have no problem talking when spoken to, but in a group of your buddies you keep to yourself? Then when you go off to talk to girls which I'm assuming is what you're asking how to do, you feel like you're ignoring your friends?	/r/seduction	20/02/14 04:37 PM
10	What is a clever way to respond when a girl asks, "are you asking me on a date?" or "is this a date?" Yes.	/r/seduction	13/01/14 04:13 AM
13	Social life based completely on drinking. How to quit? No, it's fun.	/r/seduction	27/12/13 08:15 PM
56	Social life based completely on drinking. How to quit? Yet somehow I still manage to.	/r/seduction	27/12/13 04:09 PM
1	(FR) # close. Started off great but made a few glaring errors and would be interested to see whether you guys think she will flake. I'd say you did alright mate. I think you already know where you can improve. I wouldn't have gone for the hand-holding just yet though. Maybe a hand placed on the midpoint of her back directing her to go ahead and order first or something. Or lightly touching placing my hand on her shoulder if she said something that made me laugh, but hand-holding seemed too preemptive. Ask for her number earlier. In terms of slicking it up, there isn't much else to do. The only thing I can think at the moment…	/r/seduction	05/12/13 05:12 PM
2	Go to move when she's at your house? Foreplay. I don't know what else to say really.	/r/seduction	19/11/13 06:46 PM