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19

Can’t tell you how many dates I went on where they mentioned just moving to my city
/r/TheRedPill25/09/24 02:58 PM
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We are still just hairless murder apes. We see muscles and beauty, we auto-lock on it. This is why the first thing we tell men to do is start lifting or get in shape - it’s the easiest way to posture as high value, and totally within your control. Edit: grammar.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/24 11:29 PM
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1.) No. 100% of women are fighting for the top 20% of men, leaving the bottom 80% of men as matchless and unattractive. This statistic always gets mixed up with the ‘easy to remember’ Pareto Principle. 2.) As another commenter suggested, you never know when you’ll be considered a 20% man by a woman on the app. Majority of my experience with Tinder has been “right place, right time”. I’ve often swiped on the same women, hoping to match but never succeeding. Then I’ll delete and redownload to rese…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/24 05:33 PM
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Attention is the coin of the realm. What happens when you finally get that million dollar paycheck? You want a million more.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/24 08:00 PM
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In other words, sidebar
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 12:04 AM
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Thanks for another post Unc. In regards to your lurker example, one of the first questions I ask when the “what are we?” conversation inevitably comes up is “were you fucking anyone else while we weren’t exclusive?” If that’s a yes, like with this guy, it’s an automatic no. Shows she was still juggling other dudes she couldn’t lock down and thought I would be the one to settle. It’s also nasty to think about me dropping her back off after a date and texting some other dude to come over and fuck.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 07:33 PM
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Or maybe I attract trash because women date up and since I’m above them I’m not trash? What is this?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 07:15 PM
60

Solid post. You outlined a familiar betatization story I’m sure we’ve all experienced, then followed it up with connections to red pill truths. This is the way.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/23 01:26 PM
7

You work in corporate. Play the fucking game and stop acting like you need to red pill every sperg you come across.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 09:55 PM
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You’re 40. If you’re in any kind of decent shape with some amount of grooming these single moms your age you find at the farmers markets will be looking at you. These women you’re talking about are around your age (you even say 50’s) and in once-a-month sex marriages. You’ve done nothing except be skinnier than their beta husbands. Congrats, you’re discovering the alpha-reinterest phase of a woman’s life. Keep on the path.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 01:05 AM
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This is also shit advice. This sounds like every feminist telling women to settle down when they hit 30. The only advice is to do whatever the fuck you want to do in life. TRP gives you the tools to not get fucked over. You want to marry a high n-count girl? Whatever you want man, but here are the consequences. You want to find a virgin angel and pump babies out? Whatever you want to do man, but here are the consequences.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 02:22 AM
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Remember this: not all women will, but every woman can - it just takes the right man to bring it out. It’s refreshing to see other men experiencing RP truths in real time, in real life. Peace be with you brother.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 11:23 PM
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A lot of red pill chair force here in the comments telling you this post is absurd with little compassion for their fellow men. In the real world this would ‘shock’ me too (and any man, really) on face value, but then I remember AWALT and the lessons I’ve learned in real life. Sounds like you’re learning another random red pill lesson in real life. Keep staying healthy.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 09:58 PM
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You should read the sidebar and put down that copy of American Psycho. Jokes aside, AWALT. Stay on path. That’s the only lesson here.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 09:34 PM
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Not sure who you’re talking about but the neat thing about life is you can live it however you want. TRP teaches you how to get what you want. That’s uhh…yeah that’s about it bud.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/23 11:19 PM
7

I’m in this exact situation. It’s been exactly 1 year since my significant breakup, and I’m still not willing to do another one after taking the red pill. Not saying I won’t ever again, but knowing what I know now it’s hard to find anyone worth it.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/22 11:31 PM
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You’re spoiling us with the recent activity, V. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 02:16 PM
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Who hurt you OP? Give me their username and I’ll make an angry post about them too! Christ this fucking sub
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 02:01 PM
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In other news: average Reddit user discovers biology
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 12:39 AM
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Everyone is disappointing once you get to know them
/r/TheRedPill08/09/22 01:32 AM
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Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Can’t wife up a hoe because she can’t pair bond, can’t wife up a virgin because she’ll get FOMO and bang the neighbor. Will we always be destined to spin plates? Do we settle for a high mileage woman, or one that pines for the Chad she never knew? Neither the cave, nor the real world look appealing anymore.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 10:16 PM
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Abundance solves this and 99% of all intersexual dynamics problems. Just recently had a plate ask to be exclusive, then 2 weeks later caught her chatting with other guys on hinge red handed. Promptly walked out and haven’t spoken to her since. A few years ago I’d be in a depression, now I’m filling her time with the 3 other plates I have spinning. It’s easier not to care when you actually, unequivocally do not care.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 07:15 PM
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Men must become. Women just are. Never settle.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 06:47 PM
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Good to see you here Stone
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 02:37 PM
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Wait does this mean…I, too, can become hypergamous?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/22 07:29 PM
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Finally the serotonin I’ve been waiting for on this sub. PS it’s just her turn
/r/TheRedPill01/08/22 02:04 PM
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I just want one decent post again
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 05:02 PM
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Feels like you wrote this so some internet strangers could pat you on the back for not caring about breaking up with your girl. I remember when this sub had actual substance. Anyway, AWALT I guess bro?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/22 07:24 PM
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‘Treating women like children’ is another way to interpret the oldest RP tenant: Maintain frame. Cocky and funny, passing shit tests, treating her like a child…all are the same tactic in maintaining frame. I’ve noticed when I have genuine desire from a woman, treating her/talking to her as if she was a child has helped in maintaining and growing that desire.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 02:05 AM
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Yes. I, too, use the red pill to justify fucking a child.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 04:05 PM
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Tomassi says it best: women love opportunistically and men love ideologically. Men are the true romantics, so we get hurt when we find out the “sweet innocent” girl is banging multiple dudes. They literally do not care about us, it is what it is. They will monkey branch to the next best thing. Moral of the story: be the next best thing, enjoy your turn.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 02:48 PM
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Imagine the devil laughing at you for offing yourself over some hoe. Be thankful you found this community at all, become cold. These women do not care about you or your struggles. Doesn’t that just boil your blood? It sounds like you have such a free life to be able to travel, and you make good money. Lean on that, have fun. Being invisible to the world is such a great thing.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/22 02:12 PM
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I’ve thought about this point as well. If they didn’t in the past, they will get fomo and do it in the future. I had an old FWB that was coming off a 5 year relationship and was getting ran through intentionally because she “missed out.” This fact about modern relationships always black pills me in a way. Haven’t met a woman that wasn’t recreational use only in a long time.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 06:58 PM
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Ah yes, I was looking for some good success porn to wack off to tonight TL;DR: read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill28/04/22 03:00 AM
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I can definitely see this. Would it then be kosher to infer that a “Blue-Pilled Alpha” be like winning the lottery for modern women? Looks, money, status, but completely in her frame and still believing in all the Disney fairytale bullshit?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 09:21 PM
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Interesting take, as many RP guys have continued to suggest that the marketplace is turning into a more openly hypergamous state, with women only wanting to exploit the AF side given they no longer need providers. Are you suggesting that instead women will become more hesitant to chase and sleep with the “Alpha” fuckbois? And put up less resistance for “Beta” men? I believe the evolution of game, but not sure if temporarily showing your beta side as you suggest is what’s really leading to your s…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 09:01 PM
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The cure for almost every “girl problem” that has been asked by newly RP aware men is abundance. You won’t even have a problem with a girl if you have 3 others to spend your time with. Just next and move on. It’s literally that easy.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/22 01:09 AM
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This is literally the quickest I’ve ever seen a man get oneitis. You were driving her to the club. She was dolled up. The streets were calling her name the second she stepped in your car, and you failed to recognize it. Take a knee and drink water, devil.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 11:26 PM
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Because then you’re tip-toeing the line between friend and relationship as sex is the difference maker here. This scenario is what a relationship looks like, and a lot of men (including me and the OP here) will most likely catch feelings even if they are trying not to. No sleepovers/ taking the out for brunch as to not catch feelings. If you have a chick as a FWB without exclusivity she is 10000% getting ran through by other guys and you shouldn’t be treating her as anything other than someone t…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 10:35 PM
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In other news, water is wet.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 12:28 AM
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That was a good read, thank you
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 11:16 PM
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This was my thought. Every girl that had a problem with this Caleb dude was at most shagging him for a few weeks. Women want to keep their options until they start sleeping with a 10% guy, who knew!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 11:56 PM
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I’ve never heard a better description of the type of attitudes these girls have, here’s an upvote
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 11:52 PM
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Interesting to see this unfold. Women have been keeping rosters and orbiters around way before this whole Caleb thing. Does this mean “chads” should try to remain “chads” under the radar? As we know by now, men are always the bad guys.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 10:59 PM
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Always be willing to walk away. This guy isn’t, a lack of abundance.
/r/MGTOW227/07/21 07:48 PM
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This comment single handedly made me MGTOW
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 11:35 PM
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The medium is the message. This is RP basics, don’t skip learning the basics.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:00 PM
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Assuming you’ve vetted properly, it just comes down to crossing boundaries. Draw your lines early, and if she crosses them we’re done. Even if she is apologetic and puts on her unicorn costume. It’s not about “what situation” it’s about whether she crosses even the smallest boundary you set.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:21 PM
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She always will. Hence, abundance.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:39 PM
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Not putting out after at least 3 dates typically means she doesn’t see you as “alpha” or whatever you want to call it. There’s no genuine burning desire to fuck you. You can bet your ass she has enthusiastically fucked someone she had genuine burning desire for after meeting him 30 minutes ago at the party in Cancun. Why give your time, money and resources to someone who won’t sleep with you, but will give it away so freely to others? It’s not necessarily about the notch count, although if you c…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:52 PM
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I’m hearing a lot of insecurities based on other people’s opinions of you. Why do you give a fuck? You want some actionable advice? You’re in high school. I guarantee you aren’t the only guy thinking these same things. It’s a weird time. It’s a weird place. You think the world of every little thing that happens to you. Pain is temporary, but can be permanent if you let it. These girls lose their looks in 10 years. Those dudes on the team will have beer guts and flunk out of their second choice u…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:27 PM
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A truly red pill man will have established such a frame that his LTR will never want to leave it. That being said, we are all human. I would hope you would be affected by an LTR of 10 years cheating on you. That sucks, and it feels bad. You’re right. If you follow the red pill, you would have an abundance mindset and realize there are thousands of more attractive women entering the market every day. That’s why we say wait until mid 30’s to LTR. When something like this happens you are so steeped…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 10:52 PM
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Always add “with you” to the end of her ultimatums. This same girl will sleep with what she considers a high value man 30 min after meeting him at the foam canon party in Cancun, but make you wait.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 10:47 PM
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Often we end up sacrificing things we used to do when we were single, when we are in an LTR. Rollo explains this in TRM. Easiest first step you can take is to start doing things you want to do, whenever you want to do them. She comes second. Why? She should add to your life, not be the focus of it. Oh she wants pasta for dinner and you don’t? She can cook her own food while you go for a steak.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 10:43 PM
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delete the match
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:58 PM
2

Walk soft but carry a big stick. Or something like that. Fuck if I know. Have it but don’t flaunt it.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:41 PM
2

Most of the time, yes. But not because they are looking to be in an LTR. They just want to make sure you can be kept on the hook, and you don’t have options other than them. This gives them the upper hand and they can be sure you won’t be seeing anyone else. Guess what combats this? Abundance.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:40 PM
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I’m a fan of setting boundaries, not ultimatums. What you need to do is think about whether this is a boundary for you or not. If it is, you just tell her “I don’t date girls who do this” and let her make her choice. If she crosses that line of her own free will, it’s disrespect of your boundary and a hard next. It sounds like you are trying to get our opinion on whether this should be a boundary or not. That’s something you need to decide - whether you can live with her following and interactin…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:30 PM
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No worries brother, I’m still learning as well. Just had a lot of these “red pill truths” confirmed to me the last year. And yea, especially the “with you” part. Stay safe!
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:40 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s a huge jump given the fact you made it clear you wanted oral and she denied - I’m assuming the only “hiccup” during the night. If she isn’t your LTR, why are you upset? There’s a reason why RP teaches abundance. Go find a girl who will enthusiastically blow you. You’ll naturally draw attention away from this girl. I can guarantee she loves blowing the right guy. Remember - when a girl says she won’t do that, always add “with you” to the end. Personally I’d soft next, especial…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:27 PM
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You never give her an ultimatum. Only set boundaries you yourself won’t tolerate. You have to decide whether your GF having lots of “guy friends” is your boundary. If it is, then tell her “I don’t date girls who entertain guy friends” and let her make her choice. If you can live with her having guy friends, then don’t be butt hurt and go be a normal human being and make some friends.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:10 PM
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You acted overtly. I would say this wasn’t the right move, although you got your point across. u/ClickKlakk said it best. You need her hamster wheel to spin and withdraw your time and attention. Let her come to the conclusion you won’t be with her unless XYZ happens by being busy. It’ll be fairly obvious why you stopped sleeping with her.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:01 PM
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This is the best comment on here by far. You have to always interpret and analyze what is going on. Not to an obsessive point, though. This example above is so common and has happened to me quiet a few times. Living alone and hasn’t been serious for a few years? Streets.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:15 PM
2

The Inner Game of Tennis. A great mindset book, over the backdrop of a tennis coach.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:08 PM
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Hypergamy is not a straight jacket, it’s specific to each woman. One woman’s high value is not the same as the others. Read TRM more closely
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:07 PM
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Think of it this way brother: You are so lucky, you just got real life proof of female nature, and solidified yourself in the red pill lifestyle. Lots of friends here, lots of us with the same experiences. Go and find your abundance now, and remember where you came from! Onward.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:23 PM
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You don’t put a bumper sticker on a Lamborghini
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 01:15 AM
2

A body count of 10 or more is used goods. Only worth plate material.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:51 AM
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6 pack abs, 6 figure income, 6ft tall, 6 in or more, 6 cars. Seriously, are you red-pilled? Hypergamy. High SMV. The basics man.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:37 AM
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Rule of thumb: a woman will only admit to 90% of guys she has slept with. So add a bit to the number she gives you. The one night stands in college she probably won’t count, so she doesn’t seem like a sloot.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:57 AM
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If she is asking these in-person, just answer with something exaggerated and funny. If it’s texting- go throw your phone in the trash until you ask her to an actual date.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:49 AM
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Why are you worrying about this one chick? If you had abundance you’d just be banging other plates and not giving a second thought to getting “played” or whatever the fuck happened. Abundance brother.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:48 AM
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I was in your shoes a few months ago. It wasn’t until I started a FWB with one of my plates that I realized “oh right, abundance” and realized there are MILLIONS of girls like this “one.” Abundance. This is the way.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:45 AM
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Hard next brother.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:43 AM
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There is good advice here below, but what they failed to mention is dread game - letting your partner know through your actions that you have OPTIONS in women. This is a staple of TRP. If your girl knows you have options and could easily sleep with that one girl from work, she will always be trying to keep your interest, i.e. her genuine, burning desire for you will always be there.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:40 AM
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There is a good reason this is an iron rule: it’s always true.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:58 PM
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Love this last one, it can solve a lot of issues on this subreddit. Make yourself your own mental point or origin. Everything you do should benefit your life, and if a certain woman doesn’t, it’s a next.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:56 PM
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Did you really need to ask this? Hard Next.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:15 PM
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“I’m just not a good texter/was busy with work” but is active on social media is the best example.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:21 PM
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When her words don’t match her actions.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 03:44 PM
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I was doing the same as you for awhile. I’m not saying go out and spend money, but I didn’t start actually implementing RP into my life until I bought a copy of The Rational Male and read it through. I would also suggest reading Rich Cooper’s The Unplugged Alpha - it just came out last week and basically compounds on Rollo’s book. Both great reads and good ways to spend some time.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:22 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi: If she makes you wait for sex, the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:10 PM
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That’s her politely saying no thanks. Move on - hard next and find more plates.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 05:41 PM
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Don’t shit where you eat
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:49 AM
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So I am also in your shoes. I think what a lot of guys get wrong about this whole “texting game” is the fact that it’s 2020. Guys and girls text 24/7. We all have our phones on us and texting through the day when you’re not physically together isn’t “bad” or a “red flag.” It’s only bad when you are trying to first get with a girl/guy and are trying to actively build attraction. You already have it. My girlfriend and I text frequently when we aren’t together and nothing bad or good happens from i…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 01:56 PM
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First thing is it won’t be an overnight change. It’s best to recognize when situations where red pill should be applied, and think critically about what you’ve learned and experienced, then execute. It’s going to take practice, and you’re not always going to get it right the first time. If you don’t know what to do, just be indifferent and stick to your path/ goal.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:40 PM
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Increase olive oil intake. Seriously. It’s about 120 cal per tablespoon.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:29 PM
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