oolitegrove Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How you even get a date after college? Yeah, you're right. Sometimes the act of trying can be so tiring and affect your physical and mental health. And, to be honest (I'll probably get slated for this) you can be the most attractive man, but women are still damn hard work, haha! Two marriages, plenty of casual, and a handful of short-term relationships later, there's one recurring theme: complexity!!	/r/seduction	12/07/18 06:41 PM
1	How you even get a date after college? Women love the aged rugged look on the older guy. You've still time to shine yet. Keep at it. :)	/r/seduction	07/07/18 03:12 PM
1	How you even get a date after college? I'm considered ugly and introverted. And believe you me, confidence only increases with age.	/r/seduction	07/07/18 11:08 AM
2	How you even get a date after college? Talking to foreign women over here is a joy. I find the Polish, Russian and Chinese women a lot deeper and open about themselves than the UK women.	/r/seduction	07/07/18 06:46 AM
-2	pay attention less to what girls say and more how they act Sounds like she's just being friendly with you and teasing a little, under the impression that you can take it because you said you dgaf. If you want to know if she's really interested, ask her on a date! It really is that simple.	/r/seduction	07/07/18 04:51 AM
3	How you even get a date after college? Yeah, I've never used Tinder, it feels very superficial to an older guy like me. I've had plenty of success on pof over the years though. I don't use any particular technique. Every single woman I'm interested in, I simply send a message saying, "Hi, you seem pretty interesting, so I thought I'd shoot you a message (insert a short comment about something in their bio). Then if I get a reply (maybe 1 out of 20) I normally try to inject a little humour to rouse interest, make her feel comfortable,…	/r/seduction	06/07/18 08:43 PM
5	How you even get a date after college? Confidence.	/r/seduction	06/07/18 07:51 PM
27	How you even get a date after college? Dude, I'm a wrinkly 42 year old fuck up with hardly any teeth and verging on a prolapse, and I'm going out on dates. Get yourself online and go for it. X	/r/seduction	06/07/18 12:19 PM
3	Is it not normal / detrimental that I never 'chase' women? Ed's releasing a solo album soon :)	/r/seduction	05/07/18 04:39 PM
2	Is it not normal / detrimental that I never 'chase' women? Splooosh!!!	/r/seduction	05/07/18 04:38 PM
14	Is it not normal / detrimental that I never 'chase' women? They'll probably admire you for not chasing them like a desperado, but when they get in touch again, it'd be advantageous to you if you continue the cool image, don't call them out, and get out and enjoy yourself.	/r/seduction	05/07/18 04:24 PM
30	Maximize your chances of winning before you even open your mouth If she's attracted to you and you act like a normal human being, job done.	/r/seduction	03/07/18 03:47 PM
2	Being introverted is no excuse to live in fear As a 42 year old introvert, I've never had any issue talking to people, asking for a rise, dating... all the normal things that we do in life. I'm not scared or cowardly, that's not what drives me to enjoy my own company more than prolonged periods with other people. But I do get tired very quickly... social situations drain me, and I'm still not sure why, it's how it's always been. If you're scared of socialising, I'd say it's more a shyness and/or anxiety issue, which both introverts and extro…	/r/seduction	21/05/18 02:10 PM
1	Is it weird to complement a girl on her hair via Tinder? No problem with it at all. Just be yourself and follow your feelings.	/r/seduction	29/03/18 02:13 PM
43	Is it just me, or is this sub saturated with questions and motivational advice? Let's share actual openers, negs, techniques, etc. My first opener, after hellos: "you look younger than you do in your photos." They love it, it relaxes them.	/r/seduction	27/03/18 06:58 PM