TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

oooo020201lfl Archive

View 0 posts and 460 comments by oooo020201lfl on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

incel boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:51 PM
1

You’ve obviously never been on a college campus then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:40 PM
3

That’s nonsense - I’m what you would call far-right and I’ve dated extremely liberal girls. If you have to change ur worldview to appease women that’s pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:20 AM
1

Younger women are also less likely to be ran through , that’s a big part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:53 AM
-5

Coworkers? Lmao where tf do u work ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:26 AM
4

How did you conclude that from what he said?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:25 AM
-2

Violent men usually have no problem landing women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:22 AM
1

It’s not really a class thing though. Plenty of rich kids that get into drug dealing and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:42 PM
-10

Violence against other men, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:32 PM
–

I wasnt the one making a claim
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:12 PM
7

How are you defining bad personality? I’m defining it as abrasive, narcisstic generally acting with disregard for others, etc. And I’ve never seen those types struggle with women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:16 PM
4

So your premise is wrong. A bad personality is not an obstacle to sex and relationships while a good personality is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:19 PM
12

I don’t know any men with bad personalities that are virgins. I do know some with good personalities that are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:59 PM
2

No but once a year might be worse than none at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:40 PM
3

Similar story here - I can remember fraternity brothers assuming I fucked a lot when at that point in time I was still a virgin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:50 PM
1

Is that the truth? Because I’m mid 20s and I tend to date early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:48 PM
2

Yeah but the ability of the human male to provide has been handicapped by artificially inflating the workforce with women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:44 PM
5

You really have no idea how frequently they had sex, so you can’t say they “probably” did it a number of times
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:40 PM
3

I don’t know what the exact numbers are and it’s probably impossible to know, but it’s so obvious to anybody that’s been to college that a small swath of men is bagging a large number of women But there’s also a factor where the same women are getting basically passed around. I’m eskimo brothers with a ridiculous amount of dudes I know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:10 AM
9

What you’re saying is that a guy who had sex exactly one time in a year is in the same category as a guy who lands new pussy every other weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:46 PM
–

Don’t throw your life away man. I’ve been to jail and it sucks If you want revenge you should focus on becoming abrasive and cocky and adopting a zero fucks given attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:48 PM
2

Men have external pressure on top of the internal pressure. We have to worry about making money and paying bills since we can’t just have someone else pay them like a woman might be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:02 AM
2

Guys in their 20s aren’t serious because they see that the women aren’t serious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:30 AM
–

Why wouldn’t a man who had a hard time get a pass for being promiscuous? If somebody grows up in poverty and gets rich, people don’t look down on them for enjoying the fruits of their new life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:12 AM
10

That’s a ridiculous statement when so many men don’t do that at all and are swimming in it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:04 AM
2

I would prefer a bisexual girl. Been there before and I feel like I’m chasing that high again
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:30 PM
1

Well a lot of dudes develop bad attitudes and embrace degenerate behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:38 PM
1

What systemic oppression are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:36 PM
1

No I don’t “know it isn’t.” Male circumcision is absolutely painful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:35 PM
-2

FGM is something that occurs in select cultures and is universally condemned outside said cultures. The same can’t be said about male circumcision
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:23 AM
-5

Then why was it on society to fix (some) women’s grievances?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:59 AM
5

What I’m saying is that telling men to figure it out doesn’t necessarily mean you’re going to like what “figuring it out” entails
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:56 AM
2

And men kill themselves in large numbers. So it’s obviously not a utopia
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:52 AM
-6

“Figure it out” at the cost of a lot of pain and suffering and likely developing attitudes contrary to what would sustain a society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:42 AM
-6

It’s ridiculous to talk about FGM when circumcision has been around forever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:37 AM
1

I don’t work hard for women, I work for fast cars and drugs and partying with the boys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:47 AM
1

It’s happened to me several times
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:48 PM
2

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:34 PM
1

Part of my problem with the way things are is that whores are everywhere. I should not have to assume that any girl I like has a colorful past and I hate that I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:45 AM
–

Lol I knew plenty of dudes that went to the bar just to drink and never went home with anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:21 AM
7

I worked at a bar and you would see the same dudes going home with different girls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:32 PM
-1

I want a girl who will treat me right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:34 AM
2

Hey well if it makes you feel any better I’m over 6 feet and have an attractive face and I’ve still been treated like shit by women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:16 AM
7

Yeah my shitty attitude is a direct result of how ive been treated by shitty women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:15 AM
0

Lmao fr. Women taught me that being a decent person gets you shit on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:00 AM
0

I’m still young and only getting better with age
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:25 PM
1

Life isn’t a video game dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:14 PM
3

I haven’t changed much physically (I actually used to be pretty fit and now I’ve got a beer belly) all that changed was I started drinking and doing drugs and built up some confidence lol I would like to be in shape again but I just don’t feel the urgency as I started getting laid when I was in the worst shape of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:44 AM
2

How is a guy who doesn’t get laid gonna improve himself in sexual behaviors? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:37 PM
1

I know just as many women who got a degree just to work retail or some BS as i do guys who never went to college and now make great money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:31 PM
3

As a man I’m only getting more options as i get older
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:13 PM
36

Women are privileged. News at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:00 AM
–

They’re small and soft and nice in comparison to my hairy brutish self
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:37 AM
1

You’re nuts lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:57 PM
2

You’re crazy if you think the average grown man pursues 10-15 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:59 AM
1

It never occurred to me till a girl asked for it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:34 AM
4

Yup. Not even just romance - hypersexual music. It was like torture hearing that shit on the radio when I was a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:07 AM
2

Either way it’s a disgusting belief on the part of women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:00 AM
5

So all the girls that wanted me to choke them in bed were pornsick?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:24 AM
12

You’re telling me choking and BDSM isn’t common ? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:06 AM
12

Yeah exactly. I never wanted to choke a girl during sex until they literally started demanding it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:04 AM
11

Women decide who gets pussy or not and that directly shapes what type of man a guy aspires to be. If that means being an inconsiderate douchebag then so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:34 AM
3

Name some then or you’re full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:33 AM
3

Nah you can have status but if ur not getting any ur gonna feel like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:42 PM
4

Man when I’m on a dry spell I literally see a hot girl somewhere and think about fucking her lol. Involuntary reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:40 PM
3

Women are not really shamed for being hoes. It doesnt really carry any real social penalty Being an inexperienced man on the other hand does
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:39 PM
4

Don’t think it’s socially constructed at all. I was late to the game and I’m paying for it now. I get a really bad feeling whenever ppl talk about having sex in high school and it makes me feel like a loser despite all I did to try and make up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:30 PM
4

Hoes will talk about choosing the bear and then go fuck drug dealers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:55 PM
–

Nah I’ve worked too hard to settle for a whore. Been there done that, don’t want it again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:09 AM
1

I can’t see myself getting married anytime soon. Wasted too much of my life on academics and I’ve been playing catch up ever since
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:21 AM
2

How about I do whatever the fuck I want. I’ve had girls pay for my shit and I’ll do it again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:15 AM
0

Women aren’t as horny as men yet they insist on showing as much skin as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:41 PM
2

What I’m saying is that nice girls still go for the same guys that “bad” girls do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:56 AM
–

As a man you are better served being an inconsiderate asshole than anything that could be construed as “he’s nice”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:11 AM
3

Because nice girls still get used and abused by douchebags just like any other girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:01 AM
1

They shouldn’t accept poor treatment. I’ve been treated poorly by women plenty of times and I’ve learned how to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:32 AM
1

I mean I’m tall and handsome and have a degree in a high-paying field and think of myself pretty highly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:08 PM
1

Ain’t got time for a frigid bitch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:39 PM
1

What’s wrong with that statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:38 PM
2

Lol wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:13 AM
2

They’re “desirable” in the sense that I know they’re gonna let me fuck them ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:09 AM
1

All cool until you want to have children
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:30 PM
1

Well yeah, i have high standards because I’m a high quality dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:30 PM
4

We’ll just going by my own experience i have friends that have slept with dozens of women and friends that slept with 0 or 1. Im in the middle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:31 AM
1

Well the overwhelming majority of men disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:45 PM
3

Yeah I don’t understand that argument at all. We’re already there. Most men live miserable lives
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:35 AM
1

Of course you get what you want out of it, you’re a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:27 AM
1

When I wasn’t getting laid the last thing I wanted to hear about were my female acquaintances disgusting sex stories
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:13 AM
0

Dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:09 AM
9

No amount of friends makes up for lack of romance bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:59 AM
–

Yeah it only gets worse as time goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:39 AM
1

Dating being difficult makes the rest of my life difficult. Hard to progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:28 AM
2

I’m mid 20s and slept with girls 4 years younger. Never been an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:41 PM
7

I wanna get exploited by an older lady lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:14 PM
–

Highly illegal & dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:27 PM
–

I don’t Trust a girl who hangs out with “guy friends” I’ve been the “friend” before and know what’s really happening
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:22 PM
3

I’ve always been nice just because that’s who i am. I can’t help it. Despite my best efforts to be a douchebag im still way too nice than what I feel I should be. So I try to make myself more of a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:20 PM
–

Nah dude. It was about getting laid. And there’s nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:53 PM
10

Yeah it’s kind of disgusting really. Have even had girls I’m hooking up with talk about unattractive dudes and saying they look like incels and shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:58 PM
0

Have you seen the kind of jobs women tend to do? The average man still works harder than the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:37 PM
41

Yeah the trope of bald seething manlet isn’t accurate. Men of all kinds get treated badly by women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:08 AM
3

Needless to say I don’t trust women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:36 AM
2

I thought I knew what toxic was and then the girl that never struck me as toxic fucked me over worse than any other girl ever did
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:35 AM
1

Every tattoo is 4-5 bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:39 PM
–

Dude holy shit you’re so right It’s unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:06 PM
3

Most transgender people are MTF and it’s pretty obvious it’s because they recognize that women are treated better by society
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:08 AM
4

That’s precisely my problem. You can call it a bad attitude but I’ve been really soured on the women in my area
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:26 AM
2

Very few dudes are out there spinning plates. So what you’re proposing would just worsen gender relations immensely as men would be forced to adapt to women’s damaging behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:20 AM
3

West Elm Caleb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:17 AM
1

A hoe is a hoe is a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:46 AM
4

This but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:43 AM
9

Yup. What really disturbed me one time was a girl I hooked up with for a while telling me how when she was a young teenager , how her and her friends would go to house parties with 20+ year old dudes. Boys at 14 are already competing with grown men for girls their age. It sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:41 AM
3

Being broke has never stopped me from dating. Girls would pay for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:37 AM
0

That’s absurd. I’m your daddy not your dad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:09 PM
2

The solution then is to be more of an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:28 AM
9

Yeah exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:11 PM
6

Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:05 PM
2

Also when something like this happens don’t freak out and dump her. Just downgrade her to fuckbuddy status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:37 PM
1

Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:37 PM
9

France only has the highest fertility rate in Europe because of immigrants. Their native population is not reproducing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:30 PM
4

Obviously. Look at third world nations. Poverty is no obstacle to fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:29 PM
1

Perhaps movements like that are replacing religion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:31 AM
2

Well people can do what they want but if you collectively choose not to reproduce you will disappear as a nation and be replaced by another culture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:28 AM
0

Yes it is. If you’re a man with normal testosterone levels that’s just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:58 AM
0

It would be logical for South Korea to have pro-natalist policies given that their birth rates are cratering. Why is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:06 PM
-1

Of course women are going to be more in the domestic roles - they are the ones who birth and raise children It’s like getting upset that grass is green
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:59 PM
1

That’s not patriarchy that’s just biology
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:59 PM
0

Could you say it was my fault for never using a condom, perhaps. But there’s an aspect of trust that was broken
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:34 PM
1

Wrong. They gave me STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:34 PM
5

Yeah I doubt truly desirable women are going that way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:32 PM
9

And they’re gonna literally cease to exist as a nation because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:30 PM
0

Have fun dying alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:29 PM
1

South Korea, like other developed nations is a matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:28 PM
1

How on earth is South Korea a patriarchal state? They have mandatory military service for men, while women get to go to college
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:28 PM
-1

https://m.youtube.com/watch/J7QNw1LRJv4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:45 PM
-2

What does fighting against it entail? That’s all internet hogwash. You can’t fight the zeitgeist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:48 AM
1

Quite simple
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:51 PM
0

Childish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:45 PM
2

Yeah the last two paragraphs are so true. So many times I could see myself losing a girl and knowing it was because I was too nice, but I couldn’t help it. We’d fuck like rabbits for a while and then one day she’d be like ur a sweet guy but bla bla bla
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:37 PM
2

He identifies as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:29 PM
3

Yeah it’s always curious when a chick talks about her friend that’s always mysteriously gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:03 PM
2

if 2 or more women decide to be in a poly relationship with a wealthy man, that will create more incels How is that not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:59 PM
2

Because society tells them that they are worthless if they don’t get pussy. So it’s only rational men would feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:57 PM
1

What if you’re trying to figure out what kind of person she is? If she wants to be in the “date” category she needs to speak up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:05 PM
4

Thank you. You don’t have to act like everything is fine, because it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:02 PM
2

And even if it was legal that’s a stupid argument. I would kill myself if the only way I could get pussy was a brothel
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:15 PM
2

Prostitution is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:14 PM
1

Idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:19 PM
1

Let’s say your point is true. Women still shouldn’t complain because men don’t have the luxury of sex whenever they want, and they also don’t have a guarantee it will be enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:36 PM
-2

Men absolutely need sex to function
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:31 PM
0

Your proposal would require ending immigration. That’s why wages and jobs are shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:32 AM
1

Being a man is so much harder than I ever expected
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:12 AM
1

Excuse my French but why in the fuck would a man think he’s attractive if he gets zero attention from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:40 AM
1

Dude I’ve known so many dudes who are like 5’8 who get more pussy than me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:34 AM
4

Yeah but when it’s a 5’4 girl telling a guy taller than them it seems really stupid. Especially when I’m 6’3 observing the whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:29 AM
0

Some of these guys in question have had a lot more sex than me is the funny part. But the attitudes still impact them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:25 AM
2

I want to meet my grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:28 AM
8

They’re like 5’8-5’9 btw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:12 AM
9

I have several friends who are shorter and have literally been told by girls that they’re too short to talk to them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:12 AM
4

There’s no desire to improve yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:59 AM
6

I’d argue there’s more low quality women because they still receive validation because men are desperate for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:59 AM
1

I’ve had lots of female friends but I’m not interested in hearing about their sex lives so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:49 AM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:42 AM
2

How often?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:41 AM
2

How are you supposed to know what type of woman is attracted to you? Much easier to just work on being a jack of all trades
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:26 AM
2

Listen to what she says too, they tell on themselves a lot. Ignored a lot of red flags because good pussy and it always came back to bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:59 AM
1

*impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:32 PM
2

It might seem mathematically possible but how can you have so many guys with double triple digit body counts and yet the average guy supposedly sleeps with like 6 in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:32 PM
1

What happens if there ain’t any wife material left
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:26 PM
3

Even fat woman can still get with men much better than themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:43 PM
3

Holy shit that’s a great way to say it. It’s all about social clout and how much you can lie / exaggerate to boost it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:34 PM
1

Nah it’s a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:32 PM
1

I’ve seen/experienced things you wouldn’t believe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:42 PM
1

Me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:42 PM
3

No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:39 PM
3

Man I’m in a group of these type of dudes and I’m telling you now that being a pathological liar is what a lot of us have in common
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:25 AM
1

Yeah man you sound kinda similar to me. Never went to prom but if I told someone about that now they’d look at me like I was crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:48 PM
1

What do you consider promiscuous for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:46 AM
5

The average woman gets much more sexual experience in youth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:00 AM
1

I take an issue with the idea that loneliness will force men to self reflect to become better men. I am absolutely not a better man compared to before I started getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:07 AM
4

I take an issue with the idea that loneliness will force men to self reflect to become better men. I am absolutely not a better man compared to before I started getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:07 AM
1

Well lonely young men have it a lot worse than lonely old women. The latter at least had a chance at life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:36 PM
1

I have friends who just lie to chicks and otherwise treat them like trash, but it works. I personally wont do that. Do i get less action because of it? Yeah probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:42 AM
1

Women and gay men are probably on about equal levels of difficulty. Straight men have it easier than gay women - just look at how many bisexual girls date men, speaking firsthand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:22 AM
2

Yeah I’ve had girls pay for all my shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:15 AM
1

Good thing I’m not an average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:42 AM
6

Yeah see I’ve been fortunate to always have a large circle of friends to fall on and we support each other when shit is tough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:31 AM
0

Ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:52 PM
1

Suit yourself buddy. I’ve been burned badly too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:42 PM
1

Funny enough around the time I made a tentative deadline (years ahead) to where if I didn’t lose it I would kms, and then like a month later it happened
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:16 AM
1

Ok it didn’t “just happen” but it wouldn’t have happened if I didn’t suddenly decide to grow a pair of balls and take a risk i hadn’t taken before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:14 AM
1

I was a pretty late virgin, especially considering I was in a fraternity at a party school. And nobody knew it. I definitely fell into despair a lot and that probably set me back further because I was just drinking and drugging myself out so much. But one day it just happened and then it’s never been a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:13 AM
0

If she isn’t jumping on your shit by like the 2nd or 3rd time you hang then keep looking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:04 AM
4

Lost mine at 20, nobody knew that they all thought I just had chicks falling into my lap bc I’m tall and above average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:59 AM
3

You’re fine dude. Worry when you’re closer to 25. What you don’t need to do is fall into despair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:58 AM
7

Dude I lost my virginity to a very experienced bisexual girl and she never knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:55 AM
1

Who really cares what anyone thinks as long as it gets you women One of my good friends is a pretty troubled dude and kind of an asshole, like think stereotypical fuckboy but he gets girls like no other. And I’ve still seen this man simp over certain girls like crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:32 AM
3

Look dude women will always have more options but that doesn’t mean you don’t. No point in dwelling on it Just gotta work on maximizing your odds
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:25 AM
1

Yes actually. I was in a fraternity in college and there was a guy in my pledge class who was clearly autistic or at least extremely socially impaired, but he was a legacy. Very nice guy. Through the fraternity he got setup with dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:23 AM
1

Drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:33 PM
2

if woman are ok being manipulative then I’m playing a losing game by having morals 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:48 PM
1

Watching him effortlessly lie to girls over the phone over and over like bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:38 PM
2

One of my friends gets more p***y than anyone else I’ve ever known. Like it’s actually ridiculous. And he’s also a pathological liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:37 PM
3

When you spend time around guys like this you understand how the two go hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:00 PM
2

Yes. The most prolific womanizer I know is also a shitty dude in general
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:59 PM
5

I’ve known plenty of less than attractive dudes who still manage to hookup. It’s not that clear cut. Rizz matters the most
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:17 AM
-3

I don’t buy the idea that women aren’t as horny as men. I would actually say the average woman today is hornier than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:05 AM
1

I’ve never had a full time job though so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:09 AM
1

Speaking from experience, Ive always had chicks willing to pay for drinks and stuff. Like i would be broke and they would pay for us to go out. But I know that’s probably not what most dudes experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:08 AM
0

Doesn’t matter how bad it gets, you gotta keep going
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:03 AM
13

And yet they still make poor choices all the time so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:50 PM
1

Imo you’re better off being a bully than a nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:01 PM
1

This is what I’ve been thinking for a while. Stop saying that shitty men are shitty - if it gets them women, then I think we need to redefine what good and bad mean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:01 PM
1

Are you gay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:44 PM
1

It’s not “ok” as in its not good for you in the long run but I definitely kinda degenerated over time until I started getting lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:05 AM
1

I’m a very charismatic dude and I’ve noticed how people respond even when I’m not saying anything remotely of substance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:45 AM
–

Just live for yourself. Embrace selfishness. Everything I do is for myself and my goals
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:43 AM
–

I don’t think I can trust a woman enough to cut myself off from other options. You invest so much into her and then it turns out she’s seeing someone else, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:19 PM
3

Start doing c*ke
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:36 PM
7

Have you been in real life lol. The amount of dudes I know dating girls under their pay grade vs otherwise is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:57 AM
2

It’s more like one dude has multiple girls he can call on to hookup. This isn’t uncommon at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:18 AM
0

“A few more than average” lmao In my circles it was common to fuck 5+ girls a semester in college. My current roommate is a mid 20s virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:12 AM
10

Yeah man. I had a roommate who was a fr manlet (I’m 6’3) and he fucked a lot more than me. Granted they weren’t even in the same realms of attractiveness, but he was surprised I wasn’t bringing back more girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:23 PM
5

No I’m saying it’s absurd that in the year 2024 that you really believe that the problem with dudes not getting laid is that they’re all shut-in, unhygienic nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:50 PM
4

It’s hilarious that you think those things matter…..the #1 thing that separates me from before I started getting laid was developing a carefree, arrogant, doesnt-give-a-fuck attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:40 PM
1

Yeah I’m going to do everything i can to ensure my sons had a better time in teenage years than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:34 PM
2

I’ve never used condoms and I’m chilling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:55 AM
1

Don’t watch what they say, whatch what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:25 PM
1

No just invited her over to smoke a j
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:23 PM
7

I didn’t see this but I knew a bunch of girls in college that had sugar daddies or were seeing dudes in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:51 AM
1

I’m a heavy drinker but I’ve hooked up with multiple girls thru inviting them over to smoke weed if that counts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:33 AM
4

Not really quantifiable. Start with learning to talk to people in general. Talk to everyone you meet, whenever you’ve got an opportunity to talk to a girl even if you aren’t attracted to her, do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:35 AM
2

Yeah I think so and it happens naturally. I’m mid 20s and last few girls I’ve been with were early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:24 AM
6

I lost my virginity to a bisexual girl who wanted a threesome after. Just go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:58 AM
27

Yeah this guy put into words something that most dudes understand but can’t articulate properly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:58 AM
–

It’s not an intrinsic trait of women. They have the most relationship options, they’re usually the ones approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:10 AM
1

Why would a dude introduce their friend to single women when they could just have them themselvws
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:31 PM
3

Machievellian gets you more pussy than integrity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:46 PM
0

Well any kind of intimacy really. I don’t see a point in balling alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:53 PM
0

Yeah sex is basically the only reason I’m still motivated to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:52 PM
2

I know multiple dudes just like this. They have a roster but simp over one girl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:43 PM
-3

That’s not a valid representation for young men today. Who gives a fuck if 80 year old men are in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:56 PM
0

Well i know plenty of losers who get laid that dont know a single thing about any of this shit. So is it really a meaningful distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:57 AM
1

So they’re just supposed to lay down and die?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:45 PM
–

Working in the service industry ive met a lot of creepy older dudes who will be like checking out some girl my age’s ass and be pointing it out like I’m gonna be like hell yeah dude. I always find that off-putting, even tho I myself totally will check her out too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:05 AM
-3

You’re literally reinforcing their point/behavior by saying that they’re “all losers who did not get laid.” Do you realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:32 AM
-1

Under socialized redditors call it “spinning plates”, dudes in real life call it having a rotation. The behavior is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:26 AM
3

Yeah I used to be a really good student and I was hopeless with girls. Then in college I decided to focus on partying and shit and my grades fell off and I almost failed out but it was worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:47 AM
1

Nah I knew plenty of average dudes in my fraternity that did fine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:57 PM
4

If every man is wealthy then no man is wealthy. Do you expect the average man to make six figures
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:04 PM
1

Yeah I still resent my parents over this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:19 PM
1

Bro this chick is so dense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:46 PM
1

What’s the incentive for a man to be the whole package?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:46 PM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:44 PM
–

Yeah but speaking as a tall dude I’m not really that bothered by some chick grabbing me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:19 AM
3

I don’t identify as redpill but for a while I was very emotionally closed off after some bad relationships and stopped believing in love for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:49 AM
3

Nah I’ve seen enough creepy old dudes from working in the service industry to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:48 AM
1

You can blame yourself to a certain extent but there’s much bigger forces at work beyond anyone’s control
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:14 PM
19

Lol when I compare myself to girls exes I’m like damn how did she get with that loser
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:58 AM
1

When you walk in and it’s a pigsty you know it’s gonna be good pussy ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:03 PM
6

If they live like a complete pig. I’ve seen some really disgusting apartments
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:58 AM
0

Pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:13 PM
-6

It’s all down to rizz. Doesn’t matter if you’re a manlet, tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:51 AM
5

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:20 PM
8

They have negative value to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:41 PM
1

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:33 PM
1

Are you me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:33 PM
-2

Straight men can’t get STD/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:30 PM
1

Who is “you guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:05 PM
14

Same. There’s literally no reason to say anything about it. Also it’s really not hard to please a woman so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:18 AM
3

It’s not true. The girl I lost my virginity to had no idea (or didn’t say anything) and we ended up having a threesome together lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:08 AM
9

Getting numbers doesn’t mean anything. Dates don’t mean anything. It only matters if you sleep with her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:38 AM
3

If it gets you more pussy, who’s gonna tell you you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:36 AM
0

Yeah but it doesn’t make sense. I was in a fraternity in college. Hooked up with a lot of really good looking girls. Yet when it comes to trying to maintain a relationship I just don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:42 PM
1

Nah I pretty much have decided that I must have some form of mild autism. Despite being tall and handsome I’ve struggled holding on to girls. No problem getting my foot in the door, it’s what comes after.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:06 PM
3

Well now I do but until a couple of years ago, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:57 PM
3

I was a virgin still in my friend group and nobody knew because I was still tall and handsome and outgoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:42 PM
4

I’m eskimo Bros with a lot of my friends yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:42 PM
4

So a hypothetical situation justifies the current, real situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:21 PM
1

Just years spent of learning and observing what kind of traits women look for in dudes and attempting to conform to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:14 PM
3

Hell world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:16 PM
2

Get pussy or die trying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:28 PM
3

Nah I would not survive. I’d probably end up offing myself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:28 PM
5

They’re not wrong though. Obviously every male who is sexually successful isn’t a sociopath but women are still going to prefer the sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:22 PM
6

My current roommate is a virgin and will probably remain so for the foreseeable future. Nothing wrong with him other than being a minority and focusing on work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:00 PM
4

Well that isn’t really a stretch from my experience. The nicer / less outgoing dudes I knew growing up got nothing. The loud and abrasive dudes clean up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:59 PM
9

Eh i was in a fraternity in college and it was normal for a dude to be stringing along multiple girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:52 AM
2

Nah it’s more like a constant tension underlying everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:51 PM
4

What does having a job have to do with anything? Being employed has never been a requirement to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:15 PM
4

Sometimes you get a dash of hope and then you get knocked back down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:53 AM
1

Yeah but muh dick
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:15 PM
2

Sink or swim.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:28 AM
–

My experience in college says otherwise. Dudes either wise up or flounder
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:37 AM
0

I’m diagnosed ADHD. I’m tall and attractive and my experience with women is chaotic, I attract BPD women for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:32 AM
0

This works but I would say there are safer routes you could take before
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:25 AM
–

The idea that the problem is men being “immature” is lmao. The average young woman is 50x more immature than the average young man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:06 AM
–

Just talking about how she expects all this extra shit out of a potential husband
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:28 AM
3

Except she wasn’t self aware lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:49 PM
3

Literally had a girl say this out loud basically word for word last night
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:49 PM
29

Drugs just barely keep me content
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:49 PM
–

I’m in my 20s. When was I ever the focus of anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:41 PM
4

You will die mentally / psychologically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:36 PM
5

Yeah, late bloomer here. I don’t think I’ll ever fully recover
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:08 PM
–

No I’ve struggled a lot with chicks that’s why I’m saying it’s not as simple as if you struggle then you must be a neckbeard basement dweller
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:06 PM
3

Yeah this is why I come this subreddit speaking as 6’4 and above average looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:11 PM
4

Most girls ive dated were far more experienced than I was and talked about stuff like this or banging guys for drugs and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:10 PM
1

I can’t imagine life without so I try to center most of what I do towards bettering myself in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:25 PM
2

Well it depends on how badly you want the pussy or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:24 PM
11

You may not want to but you might have to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:14 PM
1

Yeah this part is what gets me, I would like to have a wife one day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:06 PM
11

Yeah the kind of behaviors and attitudes I’ve encountered from some girls is insane. Like you are not nearly attractive enough to be doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:29 PM
2

You can’t compare experiencing one of life’s basic pleasures to being a millipnaire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:24 PM
5

Yeah can confirm. At times I would skip songs / movies / whatever because they reminded me of that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:24 PM
1

The rich get richer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:22 PM
2

Some dudes are getting a lot of pussy, most aren’t getting any
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:22 PM
0

I’ve been turned off by so many girls I was initially interested in as soon as they opened their mouths
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:51 PM
0

You have no way of knowing that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:22 PM
8

Women in general talk far more about sex and sexual matters
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:14 PM
0

This is so obvious I don’t know why it even needs to be stared
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:36 PM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:29 PM
1

Not true actually, I was in promiscuous circles well before I ever lost my virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:36 AM
7

Yeah. College (especially being in a fraternity) opened my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:19 PM
2

I knew some girls in college dating older dudes but they were also full of issues so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:12 PM
6

“Vaginal nonsense” LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:21 PM
1

Why waste the mental energy on being “empathetic”. Do I think single moms are all bad people, no Am I going to date one? No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:17 PM
5

Yeah in terms of “treating women like shit” the behavior I’ve seen from dudes I know who slay vs who don’t is night and day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:59 PM
0

I would argue that the conventionally more masculine dude IS better than the nerdy effeminate smart guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:58 PM
–

Just remember that the average person doesn’t even know what Reddit is, much less the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:10 PM
–

Embrace “toxic masculinity”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:51 PM
1

Yeah glad I’m not the only one who thought this. I come on here to try and change my views and then I read what women are saying and I’m like…..oh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:24 PM
1

I also lost mine relatively late, but I never told anyone and because I’m conventionally attractive everyone I knew assumed I was slaying lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:37 PM
-1

I’m 6’3 with a conventionally attractive face and wide shoulders, etc. 400+ matches on tinder I lost my virginity after one of my manlet roommates that is not attractive in the slightest and was an alcoholic retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:11 PM
2

You let other men sleep with your girlfriend/wife dude .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:57 PM
1

I have sympathy for them as I know what it’s like to go long periods of time without any kind of intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:53 PM
4

You’re in an open relationship. Not someone to take advice from
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:59 PM
2

Maybe because men spend their entire lives growing up being told that their value depends on them getting their dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:15 AM
3

Women have high standards for appearance but low standards for personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:05 AM
5

I like having money to buy booze and drugs too though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:04 AM
2

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:04 AM
10

They just need to accept that no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:18 PM
–

Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:10 AM
1

Doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:39 PM
2

“Women inherently got more value than men” Opinion discarded
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:38 PM
–

I think it’s more about being raised with a certain set of morals / idea about how people should treat other people, and then being confused when that doesn’t extend to the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:21 PM
–

Yeah the world finally broke me recently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:05 PM
–

I tried to deny it for the longest time but it’s the best possible lens to explain my experiences so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:47 PM
-6

Are you a man? You never got in fights growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:50 PM
-4

If it’s a man on man thing I agree, but just personally speaking as a tall built dude I understand my capacity for violence and I would never lay hands on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:49 PM
-14

I don’t care who initiates it, as a man you should know that you have to restrain yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:08 PM
0

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:49 PM
6

No it’s called hierarchy of needs. It’s totally rational to prioritize sex if you’re lacking it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:29 PM
3

I don’t see why it’s so hard to understand this for some people. It’s clear as day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:01 PM
2

One of the most insightful things I think I’ve actually gotten from reading this stuff is just how invisible the average man is. Like we just thoughtlessly watch war movies and shit of dudes getting mowed down in droves and think nothing of it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:24 PM
10

“Society has uplifted straight young men for centuries” LMFAO What societies? Where
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:56 PM
3

Social media isn’t the problem here then. Are you suggesting that limiting access to information will make men more compliant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:46 PM
6

This is absolute bullshit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:38 PM
3

I don’t consider myself red pill ive just had a rough time with women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:49 PM
6

Well that’s why I’m here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:09 PM
7

Yeah people want to meme about the “magic sky fairy” and then look at ppl like Dylan Mulvaney and say yeah that’s a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:09 PM
6

We got rid of religion and now people like you probably think a man can change his gender
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:11 PM
7

I’ve banged girls that will talk shit about dudes they perceive as incels lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:46 PM
1

It’s already over
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:29 PM
1

That’s the conclusion I’ve reached
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:29 PM
9

That’s actually what’s happening with the LGBT/transgender movement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:38 PM
2

Not be disgusting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:50 PM
6

That’s bleak
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:04 PM
1

Pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:58 PM
1

You can lie but the insecurity is still there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:20 AM
2

Speaking as a dude who got shit on by friends and fraternity brothers etc for losing it kinda late, I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:36 PM
2

How? Being a virgin or not is something you can control. Being fat is something you can control also
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:33 PM
3

I’m on medication and go to therapy, still feel an all-consuming urge to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:51 PM
4

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:01 PM
1

I fumbled a lot of good girls because of underconfidence/insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:31 PM
7

Yes, but speaking as a tall attractive guy who has had roommates talk about being jealous and how easy it should be for me, yet they never knew my struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:41 PM
6

It’s more like, by the time I figured out what I was doing wrong, the opportunities had mostly passed me by. Like if I understood what I do now but 3 years ago I would have a triple digit body count
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:06 PM
17

You’ve seen the statistics, there’s more and more disgruntled men by the year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:00 PM
–

You can be swamped with attention and also not know how to handle it. Source: 500+ tinder matches and almost nothing to show for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:34 PM
6

It’s not enforceable and now the whole thing is collapsing in on itself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:10 PM
1

I understand that you value religion but maybe you need to start prioritizing your happiness above all else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:56 PM
7

Sounds like hell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:56 PM
82

Late bloomer here. I’m still pretty young but still deal with a lot of regret about the choices I made (or failed to make) in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:00 PM
1

None
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:19 PM
2

One of the reasons I stopped lurking was because I would be earnestly trying to read some of this stuff and lining it up with everything I’ve seen irl and then some woman comments on here with something confirming everything you’ve come to suspect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:44 PM
0

For a girl that didn’t do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:42 PM
3

You can’t be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:33 PM
1

Joining a fraternity in college would go a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:32 PM
-1

Yeah this guy has no idea what he’s talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:44 AM
18

Given the way fertility rates are trending, perhaps there isn’t a way to fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:32 AM
5

Yeah it kinda sucks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:50 PM
3

Thankfully I can afford to have high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:24 AM
7

You either improve or you stay brewing in resentment. Life as a man mostly sucks. No choice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:01 PM
1

What do you mean? I’ve always had girls starting sexual conversations very early in getting to know them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:00 PM
5

You’re not a serious person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:54 PM
7

The only way I’ve found is just trying to hook up with as many girls as you can until you don’t feel that way anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:47 PM
1

Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:58 PM
2

They may not be interested but they end up being that in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:38 AM
1

Night and day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:16 AM
2

It’s more like recognizing the distinction between a spineless / beta dude and a confident man. Your actions influence every part of how you carry yourself and live day to day. Same thing with a girl who gets around a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:16 AM
2

Yeah like I literally did not care when this girl I dated would tell stories about hooking up with girls (I mean we did that together also so lol) but mention another dude and it’s just an instinctual turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:12 AM
2

Not giving a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:11 AM
-1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:41 AM
–

Yeah I understand but like for me I understood that even though I am very intelligent that girls like me for other reasons. So I leaned into my looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:52 PM
1

Can’t speak for everyone but growing up / in college it was understood that fat / ugly girls were easier. Dudes will fuck a girl they find repulsive if they really feel like they need to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:40 PM
4

Why does it not feel good to know that you’re only being chosen due to genetics? Your genetics make up who you are. You should just be thankful for your good genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:43 PM
1

Ok yeah but I’m talking like I’m a tall guy and I have a ton of short friends who did way better than me for the longest time. Because it’s all in the way you carry yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:06 PM
2

If you’re a man get your testosterone checked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:46 PM
3

Right, but it all depends on where you’re at. Being in Greek life at a party school meant most of my experiences were with a certain kind of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:30 PM
2

Really bc I look around and see an ever growing number of broken miserable people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:01 PM
7

I was literally in a fraternity at a party school lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:07 PM
5

Yes, but when you’re talking about college campuses there’s actually a lot of casual sex. Why do you think fraternity parties have a ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:56 PM
2

You sound like a toddler who thinks he should be able to stay up past bedtime and eat candy for breakfast
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:40 PM
2

Well yeah I mean if you’ve had girls throw themselves at you like that you obviously want it to keep coming I realized one day I was approaching girls the entirely wrong way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:29 PM
2

Because it’s not just “bitter virgins” that have problems with hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:59 PM
1

Why isn’t it It’s all arbitrary If someone wants to demand $1000 a month from the government, why can’t someone else demand $2000
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:33 PM
3

Speaking as a guy who’s never been low on options but had a lot of trauma to deal with, I consider myself a late bloomer. I lost my virginity pretty late to a girl who assumed I was a player (as did everyone else) When people assume you’re like that, they make interesting topics. Do you know what it’s like to hear a girl you’re hooking up with talk about loser dudes and incels and shit and it’s like, it would probably break your brain if you knew who I really am
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:31 PM
5

“Women who are against patriarchy are just doing it because they aren’t the ones getting to vote”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:30 PM
4

So what you’re saying is that men should aim to fuck a lot of women, because they’re going to be hated regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:28 PM
4

Sounds pretty low T to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:30 PM
6

What if you were just raised in a normal traditional family and expected that you would just meet someone naturally based on commonalities but instead get thrust into a hookup culture that you didn’t ask for Every girl I dated in college was far more experienced. And my whole experience there transformed me into something I really am not entirely comfortable with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:25 PM
15

Sorry but this hippie “live let and live” attitude is childish and it’s not conducive to an actually functioning society and culture
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:13 PM
3

I don’t think guys are really wishing for this situation / dichotomy so much as noticing that it exists and trying to take advantage of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:07 PM
5

Yeah that first paragraph is a big one. So many of my friends have fr said they wish they had started being an asshole sooner after seeing how it worked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:03 PM
5

Well the difference is you have a lot more inexperienced men at a younger age, so they see their female counterparts getting around and get jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:55 PM
0

Nobody I knew at 20 was looking for a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:43 PM
2

Parents, grandparents, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:37 PM
8

This isn’t what’s happening and you know it. There is no correlation between effort and sexual success
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:30 PM
12

Yeah in particular I was raised with the messaging that academics / career was the most important thing in life and that the rest would fall into place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:28 PM
1

Nah I’m horny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:16 AM
3

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:24 AM
2

I was in Greek life. The way it worked was you had a handful of dudes who really cleaned up. Like 10+ girls a semester. Others still hooked up somewhat often but not like that. The guys who talk the loudest aren’t actually doing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:21 PM
0

You’re proposing chemically neutering people instead of fixing the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:50 PM
13

It was so obvious in college that the majority of dudes weren’t ever getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:48 PM
6

As a younger dude, I remember hearing all kinds of anti-male BS from teachers and kids in high school. So your comment is really not surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:41 PM
1

That won’t fix the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:31 PM
1

Is it overindulging in sexual media? Because my actual experiences in college opened my eyes to just how hypersexual the world can be. Hard to go back when you’ve had a girl you just met want a threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:52 PM
2

Masturbation is a pathetic excuse for the real thing. No self-respecting man would choose it over sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:49 PM
1

Why wouldn’t you attempt to fix the conditions that lead to this situation instead? This is like plugging a hole in a sinking ship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:47 PM
1

This is a disgustingly evil idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:39 PM
0

Brave New World. I will not take the soy pills. My dick stays hard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:36 PM
1

I’m not suggesting taking hormones. You can get your T up quite a bit by eating red meat, taking Zinc, Vitamin D, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:30 PM
1

If you’re a man and you’re low libido you just have low testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:08 PM
1

Go flex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:09 PM
2

I started on an antidepressant recently so probsvly yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:22 PM
3

Ok internet dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:39 AM
1

Having women throw themselves at you =/= not lonely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:34 AM
2

Don’t think you understand how lonely it is as a man even for a highly outgoing and attractive individual like myself. Dudes are ultimately out for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:45 PM
4

Wish I could answer that. No amount of friends is a replacement for that intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:20 PM
7

I’m a very extroverted person. Was in a fraternity in college. I’m tired of being around dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:14 PM
7

I’m not happy when I’m not seeing a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:26 AM
1

Look up the rat utopia experiments. “One-third emerged as socially dominant. The other two-thirds turned out less socially adept than their forebearers.” The most bottom percentile rats gave up on mating entirely. Eventually, the rats began to spend all of their waking hours grooming themselves and eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:54 PM
3

The part about sticking around I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:38 PM
3

Not even true unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:38 PM
49

When it rains it pours
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:34 PM
3

Have some self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:27 AM
5

Why would somebody who is not fat be ok with fucking fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:27 AM
2

Chance at
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:53 PM
3

Yeah. How many times have you watched another dude throw his boys under the bus for a chance pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:52 PM
4

Enjoy the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:22 PM
2

The only thing I care about is getting my needs met
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:49 PM
2

Why wouldn’t they be jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:44 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter