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No. Rape has a clear definition and that isn't it. Rape of a woman involves at least a slight unconsented penetration of the vaginal canal.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:25 PM
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I think the right response to their being riled up is to rile them up further. Agree and amplify, anyway amplify. Make their hamsters run harder. But be calm while doing it and watch every word you say, so you don't say anything they can hold against you. They'll try. Have fun watching them become even more bitter and angry. They deserve no better.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:24 PM
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heh that would mess further with her head, not bad.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:59 PM
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Not sure about that at all. Why give a hamstering girl an option? Let her hamster on a bit. This invitation came too easily. I lol'ed at it, but still ...
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:18 PM
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You saw a great example here. Push-pull by the asshole. "He was nice to me for a moment and set my feelings back ..." This guy is probably 80% push, 20% pull.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:17 PM
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The way I think of it, the vagina makes these decisions, and that's the part they lack control over.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:14 PM
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If that's true, he failed the shit test right at the end.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:06 PM
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So you enter yourself into the competition? Did your last line (which I lol'ed at) get you anywhere? If not why give her the option?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:05 PM
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To this extent I think TRP overshoots. Once you internalize game to the extent of losing your beta cues (which is not all that game has to offer, but it's the most important and essential thing) you have reached the most important milestone and you will have success. From then on, you can improve and try new things. Do you want to spend half your life in the gym making bigger muscles and saying that you're improving yourself. That's TRP improvement. Do you want to read and try new conversational…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:58 PM
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This week's FR where the hotter girl destroyed the flower he had given to her less hot friend was outstanding! But that's a game technique.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:56 PM
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Women don't play the market very efficiently. Once they are one on one with you and you stimulate attraction, their attention is focused you and the market is irrelevant, as are your physical defects and pretty much everything else.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:55 PM
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Why become handsome? For one thing, you can't fix the most important things. You can dress well if you choose. Far more important than this is the attitude that you get. Don't give a fuck, no beta cues.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:53 PM
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Personality is extremely important for men in the short term. How do you think you're going to get the woman into bed? With your game, your personality, your lack of beta cues. And after that, men don't have much to worry about. Once you have sex, the woman will usually stay around a while because she's bonded to you. In the very long run, physical attributes may matter more. Will a woman be less likely to frivorce a tall guy than a short guy? I read that's true. The short guy will always have t…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:30 PM
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On that topic ... Beta provider status is useful as long as you're not married and not actually spending the money to provide. Use it as a tease. Wear a thick gold chain, don't give them an expensive ring. Have a car you enjoy, don't pay for fancy dinners for them. While they're with you, you have plenty of time to build attraction. They will probably give some shit as you change the nature of your relationship with them. Just more shit tests, fuck it and fuck them, don't give that any respect. …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:26 PM
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There are many things that not every man can win at. Some men can win at only a few things. But women is one of the easiest things. Sorry ladies, I know they try to be hard, but they have weaknesses that any man can learn to exploit. OP, I think maybe you should stop reading so much of this sub and learn some classic "game". Lately I've seen a concerted attempt here to discredit it and put it down, including trolls in threads that report real interesting results with "game" techniques. Get some …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:19 PM
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Beta is attitude and actions. It has nothing to do with height. Now granted, getting results as an alpha is easier if you're tall in many contexts. Lose the beta. For me, the main thing that required was just to stop expecting women to be anything like my mother, or at least for my relationships to be anything like the mother-son relationship I had. Once I realized that women had to have attraction and that I should not expect or want any "mothering" from them, I started to do OK. In fact I got …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:15 PM
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Asian girls tend to be the right height for you. You are below average but not that far below, by Asian standards. Whether Asian, white or whatever, I find it's nicer when I am taller than the girl. And there are plenty of girls shorter than you. But for that matter, I know an Asian guy (with money) who married a tall model-like Asian woman, at least six inches taller than he is. He's happy with it, they have a good marriage with kids, so as long as he likes it, great.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:09 PM
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From this attitude I think you are really in bad shape psychologically. I am as short as you but I never considered myself a loser. Because I win at some thing, height not being one of them. The good thing for you is that girls do not know if you're really a winner or not. They really don't know much at all. They are like police interrogators in that they get you to tell them about you, via body language, response to questions, shit tests, etc. So just rehearse those things and then FAKE IT til …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:06 PM
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More practically, if you make money until you're 30, you'll have a pretty easy time after that. Until then, I can't say that the 20's are easy woman-wise unless you're a lot flashier than I was then. But then, it took me that long to get the right attitude and lose all the beta.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:01 PM
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Some of the big leading men were gay. Mickey Rooney didn't have all the girls on screen, but he had them off screen!
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 12:59 PM
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Good point, avoid sex for a while, don't fuck her until you see her having her period.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:38 AM
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I don't know what your "emotional tampon affair" involved but if it involved fucking other women, then all your wife has done is to get even on that, and I certainly would not break up the home of your 3 kids for that. In fact, I would probably not leave anyway. Your kids did not do any terrible thing wrong. You stay with your wife for the kids. That's what I am doing. Granted she didn't cheat, but the emotional abuse for the past 10 years has been pretty bad -- but that's no time for me to cut …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:36 AM
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Cheating implies you made some promise of monogamy. If your girl you're dating is also dating another guy, without a promise of exclusivity, would she call it cheating? Part of TRP is getting rid of the idea of protecting women in ways they would not protect us. Not our job to protect them any more.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:23 AM
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He used the five bucks to make the hotter girl insecure. Also it was a sympathy flower for the other one rather than an admiration flower. Advanced maneuver, doing something that's normally bad, but that just fits here. This guy's got natural game as long as he's drunk enough that he doesn't inhibit it!
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 02:51 PM
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Buying them all flowers is TERRIBLE advice. You got away with buying one flower because it was a neg to the other girl. Buying them all flowers is obviously beta and puts them on a pedestal. You would have been despised and learned nothing, and had no interesting result like the destroyed flower.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 02:23 PM
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TRP has something to offer, but why try to get him away from PUA techniques that work? Are you trying to protect women from PUA techniques?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:13 PM
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The hypothesis that this was not exclusively jealousy is non-falsifiable. It's bad science and bad logic to try to discredit such an interesting experimental result that way.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:12 PM
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Heh. I've heard of throwing out your flower. I've not really heard of throwing out someone else's flower. I've certainly never heard of DESTROYING someone else's flower! It's a great FR. OP, don't doubt yourself, you done good. I learned something, and it's unmistakable, what happened is not random. This one is so good, I think you have made a contribution to game itself here.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:09 PM
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No, you ran classic game and it worked. What's wrong with playing games? Have a scientific mind about this, use that male ability that women lack.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:07 PM
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No he's making a valid point. What is peacocking if not going to a beach and announcing you're so buff that the women snuck peeks at you, but you're not going to talk to them? I've done it too, but I am not buff. All it takes is confidence. In fact I am not sure whether looking like a diagram of muscular anatomy is helpful or not. If the woman believes you've done it for her, won't she be sort of unimpressed and feeling powerful up on her pedestal? I bet there are women who love reading and infl…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:01 PM
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Relationship game is the hardest. I am 20 years married myself, with kids. The first 5 were the best. Then some really rocky shit. At critical moments I held frame. I wouldn't have bothered except for the kids, to keep their home intact. So many men say things go downhill after 5 years. I also think that kids do that. The mother's attention (that is, your wife's) switches from you to them. Here we still are, and things are a bit better than they were a couple years ago, probably thanks to my rea…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 10:43 AM
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What is fakeness, though? All you need to do is say what you want. "I don't give drinks to girls I haven't kissed." and mean it. Not angry, and with a smile. Why a smile? Because your line is a win and you shut down her shit test, so you're enjoying it. Girls are usually good about admitting defeat and doing the grovel, which in this case is to give the kiss. Don't think about "genuine". That's a mind game against you. Say the line and expect to win. There's a wide variety of ways you can say th…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 10:33 AM
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And whenever someone posts an example of PUA stuff working, it gets removed or trolled to death. Sometimes I think the women are running this sub. If you were a woman wouldn't you just love a bunch of guys all cheering each other on to improve themselves to make them hotter? The only thing better than that would be to manipulate so it becomes really braindead and prevents any other techniques useful to men from being discussed. The Reddit definition of "redpill" is too narrow at least lately. It…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 10:22 AM
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I'm right there with you, brother. Don't be sure you won't get at least 50% custody if you fight for it. If your daughter describes her tantrums to the judge, it can make a difference. Becoming a better man to shut down this behavior would strike me as enabling and rewarding it. Then you're nervous about whether you're a good enough man to keep things together. A marriage should not have such concerns. You do whatever you see fit, which if you've each chosen well, is consistently pretty good stu…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 01:10 AM
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There was some study I heard of the other day, saying that abusive women (as in relationship abuse) never become non-abusive. And guys in relationships, like me, all seem to confirm there is at least some ongoing level of shit in their relationships from the woman. Seems to me the solution is NOT to man up. That would put this abusive person on a pedestal. The solution is to realize she is what she is. Don't try to maintain such high smv that she's always lusting, man that's impossible. Have con…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 01:07 AM
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So what should a man do when a woman tries to use him? There's an interesting thread about that, here: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/740905
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 01:01 AM
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Actually, help them less. They're supposed to be helping men. Men are supposed to be leading. Got it? Isn't chivalry the behavior of knights of yore? Well knights are pretty low ranking guys around the court, the ones who are hired to be willing to get killed in battle. They have to give and give and in return they are connected to the court. I see no reason to copy this behavior. Was the king, or the earl, or the prince chivalrous? I don't think so, he was commanding.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 01:00 AM
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I disagree with all the soul-destroying comments in this thread. This is a perfectly good FR and hottie did the jealous thing. Maybe she explained it to flower girl in some way that made her (hottie) look protective, but that's because women lie all the time, to each other especially. If hottie were just trying to protect flower girl, she would have gone together with her to talk to you. Come on, women are not that difficult. She tore the flower up because she was mad. Why was she mad? Because s…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:45 AM
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I am sure you did attract some interest. Some of your attributes can be acquired by hard work, others (broad shoulders) cannot except slightly by making the deltoid thicker. That said, I think the most important thing you got from the whole exercise was confidence. I see women looking at me because of my level gaze, even though I am short and not so built at all. And it's unfortunate that the women were below your standard. What's the point of attracting all that attention if you would never do …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:34 AM
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I deeply respect George Will for this. It's a possible career ending move, and he knows it. He's willing to end his career on this, to take the right stand.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:28 AM
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If she doesn't know (what to do or say), that sounds like her problem. I don't see how it's my problem. She's the one who is feeling desperate because of the real, actual problems that I refuse to shield her from. (I am not a human shield.)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 11:46 PM
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But promising it will be OK when the problems are beyond your control too is foolish imho. Then she really has something on you if things go sour: you're a liar, you misled her, you didn't carry the load you promised, etc. I prefer to expose her to all the risks and explicitly refuse to make it all better for her. Women hate it, but isn't game partly about taking women off the pedestal?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 11:44 PM
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Why is chump the opposite of metrosexual? A guy is rough, he dresses for comfort, he doesn't give a shit, he is a young man of achievement and wit but comfortable all the time. I don't see how that's a chump. Seems to me it would cause a wet pussy.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 11:37 PM
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I'm a man, I grew up in a 2 parent family, I always expected to raise my kids in such a family, and I am doing that. Maybe I am missing better opportunities, and it does suck sometimes, but I would really miss my kids if I were not here with them. (I traveled for work for a time, been there, done that.) It's not clear whether this advice is to keep fucking AF until the last moment while keeping BB on the side ready for quick rescue when the crow's feet start to appear, or whether it's more like …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 11:25 PM
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Yes in person looks don't matter much. I think the female algorithm is that if she notices a guy, she starts out being sexually attracted. Then if he betas it up, she stops being attracted and files him in the friendzone. If he's noticed and doesn't give beta cues, he's in the fuckzone. Nowhere in there did I say the guy is good looking. OP you're not that handsome. Neither am I. We need to be more alpha than some other guys to make the right impression. But we can do it. BTW lose the pleasant s…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:50 PM
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TRP would certainly advocate doing what you want to do. We're not going to tell you to add a specific plate or not. Congrats by the way. You mean your ex just started sending you more and more stuff, more and more interesting stuff, and you never once sent even a single response? I thought she'd give up after three or four.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 05:44 PM
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France is better? From the stories of riots in the "banlieue" it seems like black Africans.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 05:38 PM
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They're threatening the families of these girls that they cannot do the procedure on their own daughters in their own (non-Sweden) countries. When the girls return to Sweden, they won't deny them entry, they won't keep them out of school, but they will try to go after the parents in a foreign country! That is nuts. Perhaps they should stop children from countries where this happens from enrolling in school in Sweden. But they should not try to make everyone in the world comply with their ideas o…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 05:34 PM
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If you have health insurance (and with Obamacare I guess everyone is supposed to) go to a psychologist. Seriously. Pay a few copays and unload your shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:38 PM
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But lesbians cannot maintain stable relationships for any length of time and they often degenerate into violence. So, which sex is blowing up relationships? Females.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:33 PM
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Sad but very credible. My best wishes to you and your daughter.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:30 PM
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And in Argentina the woman would stay around because she's connected in a larger family and would be ostracized if she left. As it should be.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:27 PM
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I don't scream. Just remind you that you've said above that you have a really good physique and that marriages don't tend to break up in Argentina anyway. You haven't proved that you know more than any other guy. I suspect that your white knight tendencies would put your relationships at risk here, despite the physique. We'll never know for sure, but I don't see how your opinions have any credibility against those who really have fought the wars here and lived to tell about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:24 PM
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So not only are you tall and buff, haven't been married very long, you live in a society where women generally bond and stay bonded and behave themselves. That's great. I wish US society were like that. I sometimes wonder why I was born in this super-competitive country, where I must compete and play games to survive and "prosper". But here I am, and I have succeeded. As the old Frank Sinatra song says, "if I can make it here, I can make it anywhere." But how do we know YOU have any knowledge to…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:14 PM
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So learn how female bitchiness works, and male game. Beat her at the mental game. That's not outlawed. Women won't give another woman much slack if she claims her man outgamed her.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 08:13 PM
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If you don't have marketable economic skills, the advice to women was to find a beta provider. You can still learn jerkboy alpha game. Can't say I have but no reason you can't. One outcome might be that you get a female provider. Men, the world won't pay you much welfare. But once you're at a MGTOW level of subsistence at least, you have the freedom to pursue this game and that with the many females that will always be around.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 08:12 PM
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Someone downgraded this without comment! Manginas are about.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 07:41 PM
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This medical information should be no more privileged than when I get a tooth filled. Why all the hamstering that this particular offense is so terrible? Yes it's an offense, no it's not such a big one. The effect is that people may conclude this girl is a slut. Because the conditional probability of her being a slut, given this diagnosis, is much higher than it was before. But it's no worse than if some of her ex's had talked. Women are not especially entitled that their sluttiness should be a …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:56 PM
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When she puts you down, embarrass her in some way. It doesn't have to mirror what she does, it can be different and a bit worse. You want to embarrass and scare her. Not scare her physically, which will get you in trouble and make you vulnerable. Scare her as in making her wish she hadn't said the offensive thing to you. Win. When she puts you down, she has already started a confrontation. Win it. That can even create attraction to you (if you're a guy which you don't say) in her and the other f…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:48 PM
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I think the key is recognizing when you are already in a confrontation. She had already started a confrontation with you, by bothering you so much you had to interrupt yourself. Within a confrontation, one behaves strategically not nicely. (Some think that sociopaths treat every moment of every day as a confrontation.) In this case it made a lot of sense to throw shit back at her and embarrass her in front of her client. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:46 PM
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The woman didn't respond when he said he wanted her to write an article on rape culture to help men see the problem. She didn't respond. The guy assumes it's because he is supposed to figure it out himself and it's all his fault. He's supposed to hamster. Actually he failed her shit test, she despises him for agreeing with such crap, and when she thinks of him her vagina gets a feeling of dry rot. That's why she doesn't respond to him.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:24 PM
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Girls are easy to deal with if you don't try with them. Give no more than you promise. A day on the lake is ... a day on the lake.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:10 PM
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I downgraded this, not because it's blue-pill (still plugged in), but because it's simply wrong. Some RP men do get married.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:36 PM
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In my case it took about 5 years and 2 kids. But attraction is still there, just not as automatically. And surrounded by a fair amount of psychotic behavior, but that's MY lifestyle issue (and the kids') not my wife's :/
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:34 PM
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Taxes matter esp. if you're not poor and you have W-2 income.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:32 PM
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Or, be a slacker economically in the marriage. Marry a chick that earns more than you do and has a healthy uterus, and whom you like too. Then you can't really be raped in divorce court if it comes to that. And it's more likely that the girl isn't looking for a provider so I would guess divorce court is less likely. You know, half of all marriages DON'T end in divorce.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:31 PM
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They never say "to have kids?"
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 04:58 PM
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Hey I don't quite agree. Sure it's good for women to keep their SMV high. Don't fall for the advice of your female "friends" to let your self go or get that "cute" pixie cut. Don't join the pro-choicers. But my idea of a good woman is a healthy non-overweight girl with a high IQ and a constructive attitude. Kids will inherit a lot of their intelligence or lack of it from mom. Don't be hard on women with independent minds and unique personalities. As long as they are firmly out of the misandry ca…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 04:57 PM
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I am married almost 20 years and am a man of the red pill. I figured out enough of it before there was a movement, to help me find a (overall) decent wife. I think there are plenty like me, men who want families with decent women. But we'll have to be convinced that the women are decent. I remember a girl I met when I was a teenager. She was talking to me almost conspiratorially, saying she just wanted a family and to raise kids. I was too young to be ready to receive that message, or to know ho…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 04:50 PM
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The same attraction hormones that keep her with you, create an unstable monster. I'm to the point where women are too much trouble. But I'm a father with a family so I wait til the kids are launched
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:48 AM
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The thing is, women don't get past the fronting stage.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:45 AM
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Especially because a female is very hard to get fired.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:42 AM
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I've got that from teachers and administrators at my kids' schools. That really sucks. It takes a strong kid and a strong parent to maintain frame in the face of these real authority figures.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:42 AM
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Is it really bluffing if it's practically guaranteed to be effective? In poker, bluffing always coexists with a risk you'll get caught and at least lose your wager. In showing confidence, a man will consistently get more attraction from women, and I've never heard of a man "getting caught" in a way that costs him.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:40 AM
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Who cares? A man doesn't have to be physically attractive to attract women. A woman does have to be physically attractive to attract men.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:36 AM
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The holy texts tell the women to be helpers to their men. They never say that women lose their female weaknesses. You seem to have a feminist interpretation of the scriptures. Try just reading them for yourself, I suspect you have not. Or else show me where the "strong helper" idea is supported.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:32 AM
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Maybe the same thing as I've observed -- the better looking they are, the more normal and nice their personalities are. Hence their femaleness (including the weaknesses) come out, at least to a man she cares about. She may be much less willing to show that weakness to other women though.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:30 AM
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You have to be clever in how you do things. Bulls can be controlled because they stand on all 4's, don't have opposable thumbs and have very low IQ's. You have no such problems.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:28 AM
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Are you saying women aren't competitive with other women?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:24 AM
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We don't really need to know why, to know by experience that it's true. But my theory as to why is that women need the light of a man. Only men can bring fun, as someone said in another thread. When women talk to each other, they usually talk about men. They are just wired that way. See how much rarer a lesbian is than a gay man. The woman who doesn't want a man is extremely rare. The "fish needing a bicycle" analogy is just untrue.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:22 AM
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Amused mastery is good.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:20 AM
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What's this "decent human being" thing? Life seems to throw you situations where one doesn't just get to be a decent human being.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:15 AM
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Yeah I know, otherwise I would have said my mother is special and yours isn't!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:13 AM
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puaSenator, you're making a lot of inferences based on no evidence at all. But there's no way your inferences can be disproven either.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:08 AM
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That's just all relationships so far, man. And as a man, you get more and more chances.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:05 AM
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Based just on what you say here, I'd assign some of the blame to your father too. Fucking around on your children's mother isn't healthy for everyone either -- at least that's my view, others may disagree. As for relating to women in a healthy way, um, what's that? What I get from my own experience and reading from others is that there's the alpha way and the beta way, but there's not necessarily a healthy way.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:01 AM
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Yes.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 01:37 AM
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I don't think my mom consciously knew the tricks. She wasn't very tricky. She was not entirely naive, but she was never the party girl type, I am sure even when she was young. She was also somewhat leftwing and feminist, so there was some political reluctance to tell me politically incorrect things. But I can't describe that as wanting to throw me under the bus. She did a lot for me, things she would never have done for anyone outside my family. How does this have anything to do with my hypothes…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 01:36 AM
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It should be used sparingly so that it doesn't cost you too much in terms of her attraction to you.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:46 AM
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Neediness, at least in her perception, would be shown by doing all that shit for her esp. the love letters. What is that but expressing your need for her? So, that may be exactly why she had had enough. When you say you had become needy and insecure it sounds like she's the one who initiated the breakup. You weren't liking it any more because she wasn't the way you like any more, and indeed she left.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 10:04 PM
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The guy was fine to stay there and "chat" with her. Going inside would have been fine too, whichever he felt like. The only way he could have lost that would be to stoop to her level, or worse (physical attack.) Good thing it was filmed. I think from the nick that the commenter on youtube who tells the poster to "get a life" is one of the anti-men characters on jezebel or thoughtcatalog.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 10:01 PM
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As a father of growing children I've encountered a lot of females within the school system who have a quasi-maternal relationship to my kids. At least they are acting "in loco parentis" (in the place of the parents) while the kids are at school, and they tend to effect a maternal style with the kids. But they are not the kids' moms and you shouldn't forget it, depending on who it is they may throw your kid under the bus. I had that problem just recently with one at school, and as it happens we j…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:17 AM
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Because if she's mothering you, she is not attracted to you. For example, if you're expecting your LTR to continue and it's gotten to that point, you are at serious risk of her cheating or leaving you. The maternal treatment from your girlfriend / wife (make that ex/ex) is never very good, and it will ruin all that is good in your relationship and perhaps beyond. It can make the woman hate you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:11 AM
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Why? I had a good mom (she's passed on now) and writing about my own life experience, the redpill realization in the thread title was very important to my understanding and competent functioning around women.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:08 AM
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You'd be surprised.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:05 AM
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I commented on this above. There's an instinctual "kicking the kids out of the nest" that I got too, but it might be better replaced by a redpill explanation like this thread. Sure stay close to mom, but forget all that and keep your eyes open with all other females. This distinction can even help kids in their school years become players rather than objects of pity.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:04 AM
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I wasn't weaned very aggressively. I guess I finally weaned myself when I realized the truth in the thread title, years later and without the help of redpill literature (it was pre-redpill.) It's so much easier, less painful and (to my thinking) more effective to have a logical explanation, rather than some sort of "toughening up" process that can alienate you from your parents.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:00 AM
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Nice try, AgentSmith, but nope.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:44 AM
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Did she manipulate you the same way, or did you just get to watch her doing it to others?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:44 AM
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I think I have been able to make the differentiation you say is impossible. I am sure many other men have too, and I wish the same for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:39 AM
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It never went that far with my mom, but there were a few times when she suddenly turned tough and sour that confused me. I think that's what was happening. But she never, in any sense, threw me under the bus. Whereas otherwise, you pretty much always have to be ready for a woman to throw you under the bus if you're vulnerable to the point of losing her attraction.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:38 AM
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From what I read here and on other sites, men with difficult mother relationships tend more easily to adopt alpha behavior. Not like women with daddy issues, who typically become dysfunctional.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:35 AM
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Good question. Probably not maternal love, it would not be good if she did. But if she does have children, her maternal love for them will probably detract from the sexual attraction she has for you. At least that's been my experience. A few years in, with kids in the house -- and the old days of young love are gone forever. Haven't returned yet anyway.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:34 AM
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It's odd that you didn't mention any of the others you describe now. Congrats on being able to keep a woman attracted to you with all this attention and having a studly physique. I don't have that studly physique, certainly had kids already at 5 years in, not everything went smooth in other aspects of life either, and yet her attraction was maintained that long. So you may be an expert, or maybe everyone needs to grow a lot of inches and become buff, or maybe you just don't know much yet.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:04 PM
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See, they stay because they are attracted. This sort of thing weakens attraction. It's very simple. Another reason a woman can stay around is out of guilt or pity, but I've never actually heard of that happening. Women are too self-centered. The final and best reason is obligation. Especially if you have kids, you made a promise, and unless there's a damned good reason like infidelity, serious abuse, etc. you keep your promise. Yes, women too should feel bound by this obligation.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:26 PM
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Oh now I see this. I've lost all regard for you, red guy. Only 5 years into a marriage, no kids born yet, and you're the expert? lol
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:24 PM
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Many good points here, inspiring post. But you've only been married five years and no children born, yet. You have a big transition coming up. My marriage was never the same after kids were born and we got about 5-7 years in. Her attraction transferred from me to the kids. When (after that point) I did have a personal crisis, my wife was not particularly supportive. So good luck in the future I'm almost 20 years in now and the kids are growing well.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:16 PM
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More and more guys are becoming like me, though. :)
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:52 AM
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The funniest comments are the ones like this: "Unpopular opinion it seems here, but there is a difference between having sex with randoms you just meet for one night and never see again, and someone who you know and have previously flirted with, multiple nights in a row, probably in the same bed as your SO. One carries a lot more meaning, and it is odd he straight away chose her and they got together so smoothly, multiple times. I don't think it's purely a sexual thing between them two, chances …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:08 PM
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I think it's the most strategic thing she could say, hence good practical advice. And despite this, the bitch is saying Tory is being so unhelpful! Actually Tory is being a good friend. The women are still teaming up against the guy and his new girlfriend. But that means the women are against the new woman. Maybe it's more like they are against the man. "The enemy of my enemy is my friend" But hey isn't that misandry?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:54 PM
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Unfortunately she'll try to keep him from knowing this if she follows Tory's advice. Hope he can smell the circumstances. Or that he's got some feelings now for the new girl and is unwilling to abandon her.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:52 PM
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Maybe Tory wants her out of the way so she can compete for this guy too. He just became a hot commodity!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:41 PM
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She might still be useful as a plate.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:39 PM
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And now she wants him more, because he proved himself in the market. Before she thought she was settling for him, now she can't get him back and he looks like he was a catch that she gave away to that other girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:38 PM
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The slut understood that perfectly well, as well as her lack of attraction to betabux. Therefore, she trickled the truth, expecting that if she told all the truth, he'd dump her. Her expectation was probably right, and the guy has every right to do so.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:09 AM
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It's like it's her money already and he's cheating by walking away and refusing to provide it now.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:05 AM
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Lying is one thing, but the whoring is another, more serious thing. Even if she did come clean instead of trickle truth, he could have left her for that. What these women are screeching about is their fear or feeling that they hate that. They want guys to be unable to avoid former party girls. How dare the beta bucks wise up!?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:58 AM
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What does "real deal" mean? The guy who will provide my beta bucks? If so, it's almost a tautology. If he bails, he won't provide, hence not the real deal -- for her -- and she is still searching for her provider.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:51 AM
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Yes she's jealous the other bitch got there first. Women can be our best allies.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:50 AM
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But you understand that they guy could dump you because of it anyway, so you sort of calculate odds. It is lying, but it may work. Hopefully not though.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:46 AM
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Well you still could lose the guy anyway, and properly so. He has a perfect right not to want to support or comfort you after you've had your excitement with so many other men. So, as it should be, there is no way out. If you ride the carousel now, the guys will refuse their beta bucks later and you can enjoy a lifetime of many cats.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:44 AM
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But then when the shit does come out, the guy is entirely free to dump you for it. I hope the guy dumps her, she wanted his betabucks.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:33 AM
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Bossy says he can't "wipe away" the image of her 3somes by requiring some with him. Why not? What makes her think she knows that?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 04:46 AM
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The guy surely dumped her, after all this threesome was 2 guys with her, so she fucked another guy in front of him. That can make her non marriage material for sure. She keeps him as a "good friend" because she's in his friendzone, not vice versa. And he has no respect for her, not protecting her from his new gf's comment. So another interpretation is that new boyfriend / fiance is less turned on by her because she's fucked so many guys, and also because she got dumped. Why can't guys be hyperga…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 04:44 AM
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Yes, when I don't want to be rejected.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:06 AM
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What reverse? RP to BP conversion? BP being better than RP? I don't understand what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 12:37 PM
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You call THAT equal?? Only in the USA. He outranks her by at least 3 points out of 10 by any reasonable standard. Probably the reverse 20 years ago, but that weight looks terrible on her.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:25 AM
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What do you mean by "hold her accountable"? Dock her allowance? I don't give her an allowance.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:57 AM
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Yeah, but sometimes she won't.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:34 AM
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You and I have the same experience of "finding the inner man and letting him out." I haven't seen it expressed that way by many. Congratulations. Have fun! I'm a bit more constrained because I'm married and we don't cheat, but I get plenty of opportunities where I need to be asshole too.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:31 AM
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I have a son who could easily go to an elite college but I am thinking maybe he would have a lot more fun in a program at a state college in a nice warm climate. :) That's a few years away though.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 09:20 PM
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You misunderstand the "natural alpha" at least as I understand it. You don't need muscles, or height, or a certain facial structure. Sure I suppose they help, but I don't have them. It's just a lack of beta. Lose the supplication. Lose the niceness to women. If an old or crippled woman needs your seat, give it to her same as you would for an old or crippled man. If a perfectly healthy woman does, ignore her and her glances toward your seat. For one tiny example. It's just about losing the beta. …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 09:03 PM
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She has free speech. She used it to prove she's an ass. I think a lot of women would agree with me. So, don't date her and let her grow old with her cats. Problem solved. :)
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 01:36 PM
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My wife frequently lies about things that happened in the past. If I don't catch her at it, she goes ahead. I think I am catching her just about every time. Somehow I have the ability to do that, but it gets old. And she seems to keep doing it, undeterred.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 11:14 PM
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The Roman Catholic Church, at least in the USA, is about favoring hispanics at the expense of the whites. The Spanish (hispanic anyway) Inquisition continues. Anyone who's actually been in the church has seen this, the money collected from whites spent to construct bilingual this and that which then negatively affects the people who more-or-less were forced to fund it. The only way out was to quit the diocese.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 05:41 AM
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A lot of people who love the liberal arts really love it more because they cannot pass STEM classes. That's the filtering mechanism. If you majored in women studies, you announce "I am unable to do a useful major." So of course they don't hire you.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 04:01 AM
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It is possible to study science or math at an Ivy league school. Even engineering at Cornell. If you want an engineering degree, every state university has them. And they're a lot easier to get there than at MIT. Now, going to an Ivy and majoring in some unemployable non-STEM field, that's a mistake. You're someone who could have done several employable things instead.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 03:11 AM
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Well timed too. When she came after him, he negged her hard.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 04:32 AM
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In this case, I suspect dinner was just the get-to-know-you phase, and they weren't to be thought of as fancy dinners to impress, but high-class dinners at places where wealthy people go to get away from the hoi polloi. "Hey let's get a bite at 21" -- 21 is a very established restaurant in Manhattan. Not becase 21 is great but because 21 is where he often grabs a bite, just habit to go there. Of course since he's not actually rich this is just an act. But convincing acting is all that's needed. …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:44 PM
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It might be necessary with a hot chick with experience around rich fashionable men, whom you're telling you are rich and famous and has been to the trendy places, to drop a few bills around her to be convincing in the role. As for restaurants, rich and famous people probably go to places where they can get preferred, private seating. They won't go to Burger King because of all the annoying attention they would get.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:42 PM
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A lot of people, esp. women, consider that understanding itself to be misogyny! Because in some ways it is very uncomplimentary about the nature of most women.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:38 PM
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So the way to come across as rich and powerful, especially to a young kid swept up in those games, is just to say you're "rich and powerful". I like! Now I understand. This kid knows she has no brain and is not worthy to be taken into your business affairs. The principle is to keep her at arm's length, and what better way than to give no information at all, just say "I am rich and powerful." Every so often drop a few words about some rich powerful event that happened or thing you did. Be creativ…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:26 PM
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Asking women the question you think is forbidden, or doing the thing that feels like it's forbidden (say, touching her there), is fun and productive. Do what you shouldn't! I guess we all have a built-in beta, and we should learn to listen to it explicitly -- and do the opposite!
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:21 PM
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Hm, maybe Daoism which I have read is at the root of my frame. I can tell you, it's a frame independent of worldly accomplishments.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:18 PM
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Nope. The girl can't tell. She's not some sort of genius or mind reader. All you have to do is eliminate beta cues. As for real accomplishment, do it for your own sake, and you have no obligation to discuss how this is going with a girl you're just on social or sexual terms with.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:14 PM
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What a hodgepodge. For one thing, this thread is about a particular technique advocated by the thread starter. It's hardly representative of all of RP. If you want to debate the value of RP generally, start your own thread for it rather than hiding it down here in what is probably one of the weakest threads. Weak in my opinion, because I disagree with the premise of this thread. Don't think you are better than everyone else. Just stop caring about how you compare, or what you "should" so. Most i…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:10 PM
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I am married with kids. I stay in the marriage, and don't consider cheating, because of the kids. For guys who don't have kids with a woman, even if they are legally married, if they want to cheat I just think the relationship or marriage can be dissolved. There's little point to marriage (for the provider at least) without kids, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 02:32 PM
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I don't understand how OP treated her like shit. He bought her a drink. She gave that drink to another guy. He reclaimed it. If you think he's treating her like shit, you have an inner white knight you've got to extinguish.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 02:28 PM
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She tried to throw water in your face because you didn't provide her a free drink? Call the cops, accuse her of assault.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 02:25 PM
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The actions and reactions of the girl are entirely believable. The only thing harder to believe is the very high level of skill shown by OP. Heck whether he actually pulled that off or not, I want to act that way next time if I am in a similar situation.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 02:23 PM
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Short cruise, maybe you never see her again, not many nights available for fucking her anyway. Leaving is always OK and is often the best, but what OP did is more masterful and much higher degree-of=difficulty. The rule is, don't pander to the girl. Usually by staying you are somehow pandering to the girl. There's no pander in what OP did.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 02:22 PM
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If a woman in your LTR is taking your stuff and giving it to other men, I'd say you can do whatever you want at that point, the LTR is no good and she's earned whatever she gets.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 02:03 PM
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What did he "Do to himself"? He gave her back what she gave him. I applaud him for it and learned something from this thread. The idea of taking the drink back from goofy guy is just right. And then he brought two drinks to the floor, got some girl to dance who was probably expecting one of them as her free drink, and did not provide. Masterful.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 02:01 PM
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My fifth and sixth grade female teachers hated me. But the female principal saved my ass at that moment. Later on a female teacher gave me a very good break (and was proven overwhelmingly right by my subsequent performance.) But back when I went to school the quality of women in teaching was better, and men in teaching were scarce. I am having to play a lot more politics with the school system to salvage my kids than my parents ever had to for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:26 PM
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Male! Though the second one was probably taking instructions from his female boss. A lot of the men in school systems seem more feminine than the women. They have really bought into the "religion". Not all, but many.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:23 PM
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If you give her something personal, it means you put thought into it. That's good unless it's such a bad pick that it's offensive. You can buy her something to show provider-ness as long as it's cheap, mainly symbolic that IN THE FUTURE you will provide. Then you can get her to look forward to that. If you actually spend a lot now (say, give her a car) then she's got that and feels free to move on to other men. Plus, it costs you too much. Even if it's practical. Do not solve girls' problems. On…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:38 PM
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Yes. And take that skeptical attitude. If you do that, it's hard for the psychological bullshit to get to you. It's all theories after all, not necessarily real life. Which in my educated opinion is the right attitude about pretty much everything in life. Even game. Most of it works, some may not, it's all experimental.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:31 PM
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When you get to HS, unless your parents are academic stars, who is going to teach the math, science (with lab), foreign language, etc? The way to escape the political correctness in college is to be a STEM major. That means you need to graduate with at least precalculus. So learn that math! If the school hasn't ruined you by then, you can start getting real education out of school in HS.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:59 PM
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My younger son is gifted in school, and the schools (esp. administrators) have tried to fuck him up in 100 different ways. So far, two principals have been fired who gave him trouble. Maybe something we did? :) Document, document, document everything. Yes they really did try to screw him up and depress him, and keep him from the point of realizing his own abilities. It's been a war.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:36 PM
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Well done, remember this for future female drama. handclap
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:30 PM
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Her tune might not change. You don't have to confess how things are going with the college girl after all, leave some mystery whether it's going well or not. You can let her think she still has a chance. And after all this time probably Tiff will miss you, especially after that fuck. Oxytocin, baby.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:22 PM
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So keep seeing them both. Then everybody's in a fluid situation, it is what it is. Versus you sit out and let everyone else have fun.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:20 PM
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You learned what stimulates female attraction. To a large extent, it's fear and competition. But the college coed might be the same way. Are you sure she'll be so loyal to you without the competition of Tiffany? Don't blow off Tiffany altogether. How do you know the college coed isn't fucking some other guys, and even if not, you don't have to give exclusivity unless you want to. Get to know them both in the new situation, and enjoy them both sexually. Of course there's an urge to get back at Ti…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:17 PM
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Not sure there are any legal implications. What are they? Impersonating a cop is bad because cops have powers to arrest people that others do not. Impersonating a doctor should be OK as long as it isn't a medical situation and you're not suggesting any medical treatment.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:26 PM
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So, what would be alpha behavior? "Next!" Or else taking legal risk by trying to compel a resolution.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 06:37 PM
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Or say you're a woman and upvote yourself on Lulu.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:48 PM
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If the woman's response to discussion is nonproductive (I've seen it so much in my marriage) then he can go on communication strike. If her communication is abusive, don't communicate. It's not a great option but may be better than anything else he or we can think of.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:35 PM
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I just went over there and chimed in on a thread where a woman living at home is having a problem with her grown sister also living at home. And suggested that the woman with the problem read some redpill and grow a backbone!
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:33 PM
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Do "redpillers hate women who manipulate men for whatever reason"? Really? I think some manipulation is cute and enjoyable. I do like interacting with women and their way of being. But I think I am a redpiller in that I try not to succumb to bad manipulations. I don't see what your comment has to do with my response and simply refer back to it.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:31 PM
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They want it. Unless it's rape that is.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:03 PM
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Redpill is about (1) knowing and acknowledging the truth, and (2) strategies to exploit this for one's own and the greater good, e.g. keeping a family together so kids will have a "normal" family life for their one and only childhood. If you're not willing to be your most masculine self in front of your woman, I predict a lot of difficulty for you. If it's manipulative, so be it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:15 PM
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Thank you, this sounds like a great approach.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:11 PM
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For your own peace of mind, decouple your attitude from your actual success. "Doomsday" did not just say that you have to go create an offsetting success. He just said you have to act like it's no big deal, even if it's a very big deal that ends up affecting both of you very negatively. For maximum survivability of the couple, the man should be able to enlist the woman's help at tough moments, both pulling together, etc. However the woman's moral hazard prevents that. It's entirely fitting that …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:09 PM
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Good idea, put her on the defensive.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:06 PM
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That is not my experience. In fact, the act of saying he was not good enough puts the man at risk. Are you trying to get men to open up about this?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:06 PM
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Also she was measuring your performance. (Did anyone else get funding?) If you provided a name, she might become interested in that guy. Just in the back of her mind, for future reference you know.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:04 PM
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How can we avoid "tolerating" it? Leave such women? It's a reasonable option. Just know that the next woman will probably have the same tendency. Avoid serious relationships and always be ready to move on? That's great unless you have kids.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 05:00 AM
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But if you DO have good male friends, they'll beat her female friends every time. She can't get much support from those competitive relationships.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:54 AM
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It helps that they have several types of affirmative action.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:51 AM
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Now that you see the pattern, don't expect to change it, but I hope you can stop getting pulled into the emotions. I get tired of refuting my wife's "facts" over and over, but I find I can do it dispassionately time after time. And if I couldn't, as long as I kept an attitude, it wouldn't matter. Women are all about trying to dominate you. Don't submit, don't supplicate, be cold and distant once shit starts going downhill (because it will be her fault) -- and you get all that is possible to get …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:49 AM
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When my parents died, I found that my wife became a bit tougher on me. Yes at that moment when I was overwhelmed, I had to be on my guard with her. It made me hate her.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:41 AM
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Because attraction doesn't work that way. And a male-female relationship without female attraction is likely to feel awkward to the man.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:37 AM
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With a female "friend" you are either in charge (she'd fuck you but you haven't given her the opportunity) or she is (she would not fuck you and has friendzoned you.) The first relationship can be useful. She'll probably be very open with you. You may think she's just friendly and normal, but this level of openness is very abnormal. Nobody else gets it, neither guys she's friendzoned, nor most or all of her female friends. Her really close BFF female friends may do almost as well -- almost. This…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:33 AM
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Also, a lover and their mother fill totally different roles. People grow up being dependent on their mother who willingly protects them. They take this as a model for a relationship, because they're used to it, or because this is the future mother of THEIR children ... Doesn't work like that. Maternal love is just for the kids. Don't expect it from your wife. If you drag it out of her, she'll hate you for it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:27 AM
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"I have a problem..... here is what I am doing to fix it" What good does this do? You get no advice or help from her. She'll sit back and watch, and if you succeed, she'll probably try to claim some credit. And if you fail, God help you. I am married 20 years, this shit is getting old, but it is very real.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:25 AM
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Interesting theory about the "two become one" phase at the beginning of a marriage. It was definitely there before the kids. After 5 years, gone forever. Wife made it intolerable for me to hold onto that so I let it dissolve. 15 years further on, we're still married but that hasn't come back. It might have been the love of the kids' souls.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:07 AM
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Then they just see those high earners as the winners in the competition. At any rate that competitive success (or their imaginng it) gemerates a tingle.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 09:21 PM
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Chicks have been like that forever. Remember Madonna's hit song "Material Girl" and the economy was pretty good then. Guys should hint present or future material wealth, or just state it, but not lavish it on the girl. Let her think that's what she gets if she stays with you. Same as she (many women anyway) lets you think you get sex if you buy her fancy dinners.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 09:19 PM
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Very good comment. If you ever study economics, try to take a course in "game theory". It explains, well, just about everything one sees in the world. Also, being old, I remember the 60's and 70's. Those free-love "idealistic" types were nothing more than small minded little pricks and pussies. Very average intelligence too.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 09:15 PM
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No problem man.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 07:58 PM
1

I certainly don't understand why someone who is born to be dominant would want to be submissive. I get RP immediately, I don't get this at all. I don't see how one can coexist with the other, and it's interesting to me that you aren't too sure either even though they are coexisting, or trying to, within you! RP is about doing what you want, and if you can maintain the direction while letting her be dominant according to your wishes -- that's so complicated but I guess if it works for you it work…
/r/askTRP06/05/14 07:40 PM
3

She was fucking rude, you don't need this. Next. And I mean hard next.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:47 PM
1

I am older and my life tests involve being smooth and confident. As such, I usually try to fuck or at least fap shortly before such situations. And come. None of this edging or denial for me. But if I still had to make my mark in life's earlier tests, I suppose edging could help for the right person.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:26 PM
1

agree, I am turned off by a ripped female. A female should be smooth. I like them with skinny hips. That does not make them look like boys, there is an obvious difference, or many, whatever I never mistake one for the other.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:18 PM
1

Didn't you just about repeat the same thing I said? Anyway I think we agree.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 04:58 PM
1

He's not getting advice like that from everyone here. Some of us have made better suggestions, like lawyering up and starting legal objections. It's a legal matter now, feelings are gone. And he'd better hurry to maximize the possibility of revoking this outrageous "transaction."
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:15 PM
2

The woman is an evil bitch to bring him to this state, also to accept this unwilling "gift" from him. An evil bitch. I am not mad at her because being mad would accomplish nothing.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:13 PM
2

The proper reaction to such attempted trickery is to try to trick her instead. I don't know exactly what to suggest, but she's no longer entitled to fairness after such a proposal. She's announced it's each person for him or herself. Wish guys did this more often. A few successes and we'd have some dread for them to worry about when trying this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 02:29 PM
1

You sound like me. Actually you are a natural alpha. You realize you are full of beta behaviors, well maybe not so much now that you see them. All you do is stop them and what's left is just alpha. Your firm grip on basic rightness is the clue. Not all men are so clear on that.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 02:26 PM
2

Similar shit between me and my wife. For the sake of our kids, I did not give in. I think part of it is that when women get away from regular exposure to your body, your smell, they have more chance to be free of the oxytocin-caused bond to you. It's not so easy for women to cheat, but women know this and try to accomplish the conditions for it. You need to spend time next to her every day to keep her locked in via oxytocin. It's non negotiable.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 02:12 PM
1

He has a son. We don't know if she's the mother of his son. If she's the mother, then they are sort of tied together. If she's not the mother, then he and his son can kick stepmom to the side.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 02:07 PM
1

Go away for a few days but have a private investigator monitor what goes on in the house, or install a spy system yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 02:04 PM
1

You don't want to show her she's special, that's the opposite of correct. But showing her you will be a beta provider can be a useful trick as long as all you're looking for is to pump and dump, and you think this sort of "comfort" game will work with her.
/r/trpGAME06/05/14 02:00 PM
2

You were too beta with Girl 1 by following her instruction to make her feel special. Girls get hot when they are dominated (verbally, physically, whatever) not when they are put on a pedestal. You'll have to have a change of personality with her to make it even worth your while continuing. Otherwise she is, indeed, using you. I'd get her alone and make her feel special. Girl 2 should still be dtf. So you can't get it up once, she's not an idiot, she knows that is not a reflection on your manhood…
/r/askTRP06/05/14 01:32 PM
21

Congratulations, seriously. You took lemons and made lemonade, bigtime. You have a sexual slave at your disposal. You despise her because of her behavior and that's fully appropriate. She is what she is. Are you enjoying her company and submission / surrender to you? Then keep enjoying it if you want. She's strongly attracted to you at the moment. Surrender does that to a woman. But that other guy is still in her mind, she's surrendered to him too, and he's got a longer history with her than you…
/r/askTRP06/05/14 01:21 PM
1

The midwest isn't so conservative and is not immune in any sense from bad cultural influences. In fact the intensity of the indoctrination may be highest there, organized effort to break white American culture. I have lived in the midwest. Feminism is very big there. Muscovite party girl -- may not have had as many dicks (or parties) as you think. There's a man shortage there. Girl doesn't need to know how to behave when consuming fancy meals and limo rides. that can be taught. For this, raw phy…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:36 PM
1

Where in northern Mexico? I've traveled thru there and don't remember the hot women, on the other hand I was a child and wasn't looking for that either. So it would seem that you want to meet them and keep them as plates. I too have noticed that people from south of the border become "entitled" quickly when they move here. Whereas people from Asia still consider Asia their home and their culture.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:29 PM
0

Assumes you don't want kids. from page 3: (Kids? We don’t want one of those $1M+ walking liabilities) Heck then it's obvious. If you don't want kids, of course you should not get married, unless she's much wealther or hotter than you are, enough to make up for her sexual market value declining much faster than yours.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:20 PM
1

Absolutely no single moms. You'd be crazy to be stepfather to another man's child.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:13 PM
1

By then if all goes well she will be at home with your 3 or 4 kids and sufficiently attached to them that she is thinking somewhat less of sex. Not to say that kids make things easier, they don't. It's very hard to maintain "frame" when you have to adjust to the realities of raising kids. And her attraction for you goes down as she pays full attention to the kids.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:11 PM
2

A reasonable point but so far down the list of what's important I would not consider it in making a decision. Of course you will each have to adjust to the particulars of the other person and their friends and family.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:08 PM
3

More important than (2) in my opinion is (6) Comes from a family with a long history of stable marriages, preferably with traditional raising of children. Her parents and grandparents should have lived lifelong monogamous marriages. I don't care so much if that was in the ghetto or Appalachia or Beverly Hills. Kid's expectation of life comes from what they see at home growing up. If their parents made it work, they'll expect to also. At least they'll have the right tendency.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 11:05 AM
1

If the guy is expected to maintain full sexual performance and "game" even in middle age, that's crap. Maybe possible but way too much expectation on the man and he may need drugs to do it. Would you get married on the expectation you have to drug yourself to meet, effectively, your wife's standards? Fuck that. I am married 20 years now, have kids and overall it was a good transaction. But if that were required, I would give a different answer.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 10:56 AM
-1

Get used to that estrogen cloud. It's a part of living with a woman. It's a part of why the woman wants to live with you, she needs relief from it!
/r/askTRP06/05/14 02:41 AM
2

See a lawyer, try to revoke the real estate transaction if there's a period for reconsideration. Do it RIGHT THIS MINUTE, if there is such a period it might be like 3 days. Time is of the essence! Or claim insanity, you would have to be out of your right mind to give your share of a house away just in the hope she'd be nice to you. You must now say firmly to everyone involved that it was a mistake and you want to take that back. She may be willing to go along with it. If not she is simply heartl…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 01:47 AM
-1

I am upvoting this comment. If you have this problem without kids in the picture, things are not strong enough to withstand kids.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 12:26 AM
3

I disagree. TRP is about valuing yourself and your pleasure, and knowing that that will also lead to her attraction.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 12:20 AM
1

There are all sizes of vaginas. You're probably plenty big for petite girls. Anyway I don't see what dick size has to do with redpill. Redpill is an emphasis on reality, an unlearning of beta behavior, stuff like that. What does that have to do with dick size?? Nothing, RP isn't even about confidence. If you lose the beta behavior cues you'll appear confident, whether you are actually confident or not, so a girl may think it's about confidence but it's not.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 12:18 AM
1

Never heard of ADHD being associated with going limp. Got a link or anything?
/r/askTRP06/05/14 12:16 AM
1

Thread winner. This is the right answer.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 02:50 PM
0

Why punish yourself with nofap? You like to have an orgasm. If a girl is handy that's great. If not, your right hand is handy and is better than nothing. There's nothing to fix. You'll do well enough if it comes to an unplanned fucking opportunity, and if she becomes regular for you, there's no permanent "residue" longer than a few days from having been a fapper. Whereas, having no sexual need can make things go much easier and, more importantly, can help you enjoy your life more.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 02:47 PM
1

If it temporarily nulls out your hunger for something you cannot have (good sex with this particular girl) that is a good thing. It's a defense mechanism for you. Don't worry, your natural libido will return soon enough with proper conditions.
/r/askTRP05/05/14 02:39 PM
-13

Well it's certainly a lack of respect from her. You could try touching her sexually, that would change her frame and emphasize your dominance. And/or you could make some new female friends, that will focus her mind on you faster than anything. But you know as well as I do, trying to solve this constructively is not the right way. Surprise her, and enjoy.
/r/askTRP05/05/14 02:31 PM
1

Your rp behavior should be creating opportunities. Maybe be more aggressive. On the other hand, maybe this isn't the right relationship. It's still not too late to divorce and start over. Maybe too late for her but for you, certainly not. So consider dread game in terms of getting her hot. As for you, 30 seems too young to be losing it. You need to spice things up, with this girl or a new one, if you want to continue your family line. Or is she on birth control or infertile? Maybe this is your b…
/r/askTRP05/05/14 02:22 PM
2

Woodrow Wilson won reelection in 1916 on the slogan "He kept us out of the war." Then right after he was reinaugurated he instituted a nationwide draft of young men for WWI. Obama probably lost in 2012 but so what? And Romney looked like it was all part of the act when he made his concession speech. Yes we're sliding rapidly downhill. Men have an urge to stand against the tide. I did that for a while, and then I decided I had abused myself too long. Don't stand against it. Enjoy it, participate …
/r/askTRP05/05/14 02:12 PM
1

Maybe you don't have to defy authority. What authority is telling you not to be abrupt and demanding with women? Nobody is following you around at school anyway. It took me a lot of years to realize that my relationship with girls had to have nothing to do with the way I would treat my mother. A woman's maternal love is never available to her boyfriends or husband anyway, don't look for it. If the woman is healthy it will appear if and when you have kids with her -- and it brings its own issues,…
/r/askTRP05/05/14 02:06 PM
4

'2 of her friends that had stopped talking with her reunite and they have a "girls night out". ' Really? That doesn't sound plausible. Girls don't reunite, the just keep hating each other. Never really heard about girls reuniting after a fight, that's something men can do, not women. More like, she contacted 2 friends she hasn't seen in a while because she was feeling too locked down and wanted a girls' night out. Have fun with this. To make it up to you, have her take you out with those friends…
/r/askTRP05/05/14 02:01 PM
2

OT comment: I am a white American guy, not an immigrant, but as a HS nerd my first girlfriend came to me. She met me in the computer lab. Don't be sure you aren't good hookup material, esp. if the girl admires your academic accomplishment which is much greater than what she can do, and sees a potential provider. What you do is flaunt provider potential while not actually spending on her (there can be more than one "her", that increases their excitement.) Make her "work" for what she gets. As in,…
/r/askTRP05/05/14 01:51 PM
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What is there to be tense about? That she'll break up the relationship? I think if you ask yourself that and become outcome independent with respect to that or anything else she could do, she will run out of ways to create tension. You just won't care. Just don't start becoming outcome dependent if she tries to get you more "invested" in the relationship on the rebound. Learn from this. The degree of difficulty goes up by 100 if you have kids, then there really is something to care about. Then h…
/r/askTRP05/05/14 01:41 PM
1

Yeah I think he should just file and let her try. Especially if they live in a no-fault state where there is no disadvantage from being the one to file. He should certainly quietly visit a couple divorce attorneys and figure out how to protect himself. She started the ball rolling with her remark, he has to figure out the legal logistics from his side. Quietly.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 11:22 AM
1

It wasn't so easy then either. Your dad was quite successful in the dating market in that case. But then, the fathers are usually more successful than the sons -- their having sons to begin with is a sign of their success. The son has to be relatively successful just to equal that achievement. You can probably learn a lot from Dad about the real nature of women, if you can get him to teach you. I hope he does, and that you listen with both ears, for your family's sake.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 11:17 AM
1

Alpha is where you don't cover up your true feelings, certainly not to protect the girl from them. That protection is the "nice guy" that women despise. All it takes to be alpha is to lose the beta / supplication / protection the girl from what she should have to experience or you want her to face. Don't do that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 04:28 AM
2

I just thinks she wishes she could have you, but she knew she was losing you so she acted first to try to make herself feel a little better. There's nothing you can do to make her not want you, so just hope time and another boyfriend takes care of it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 04:19 AM
0

Just because she tells you that the other guy's nothing to her, why would you believe it? Not that it should matter, but this is hardly reliable information. She doesn't even realize how she feels about him, likely. He'll text her, and if she likes him at that moment, maybe based on what he texts, then she'll answer. If he doesn't text or call, she'll wonder what she did wrong!
/r/trpGAME03/05/14 09:17 PM
1

To my way of thinking, alpha is easy. Just lose the beta. In fact don't even think about being alpha. Just think about dropping the beta stuff. Don't give her things (unless she's earned them, but that comes later), don't cover her weaknesses, don't comply unless YOU see a good reason to comply with something she asks. Don't even think about alpha. And guess what, women will respect you as an alpha. Because alpha is the natural thing that's left after one is cured of beta.
/r/trpGAME03/05/14 12:31 PM
0

I'm a white American male, older, also a STEM nerd type but I've had years to normalize my personality. It takes time. I think as an Asian you probably have additional challenges and not many relative advantages, dating wise, vs. my situation at your age. It's ridiculous the situation you are in. You are a world-class catch. Out of a billion single women in the world (picking this number out of thin air) probably 500 million of them would dream of getting a bright, educated, stable guy like you.…
/r/trpGAME03/05/14 04:30 AM
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I have to disagree about having to stay "alpha" all the time. All that's required is to lose the egregious beta cues. It's not that you don't care about women, heck they are human beings and enjoyable (mostly, for men anyway) and sure we like them. We are just leaders. It's that simple. You want to tell a woman what to do don't you? Sure you do, because you're a man. Well then do it, don't ask her opinion except for fun, and for example it's better to ask her to talk about something (giving an i…
/r/askTRP02/05/14 06:15 AM
0

Agree. As with affirmative action for race, the "beneficiaries" will have to demand that their breaks be taken away, before I'll respect them. I expect that'll happen shortly after hell freezes over, but so be it. Nobody can make me respect them.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:48 AM
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And it really increases the politics and hurts the quality-of-life at work.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:44 AM
0

Is that some general principle, that it's OK to have whatever affirmative action thumb on the scale, because game changers won't be much affected? Or is that only for engineers where we're supposed to tolerate it to this extent? Engineers already have to tolerate and never fight back in so many ways. Ever heard of an engineering strike?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:43 AM
13

No, it's because of their mediocrity. Been there, seen that. The one boss who didn't give a woman "a break" was a woman herself. That was refreshing.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:40 AM
8

Yes the betas suck, basically engineering is an environment where you should not think about sex or gender. Do your social life elsewhere. Don't be the white knight that helps the female because it feels natural or to get face time. But some other schlub probably will. You'll find more interesting girls, from the girlfriend perspective, anywhere else. Overall, because of this and the easy ride the girls get, the presence of females makes the working environment much less pleasant. Nothing person…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:33 AM
-1

Having had a career in engineering and seen all this nonsense, and other nonsense that's just intended to prevent engineers from making too much money, I think engineering is a good thing to learn as a basic education. But don't make it a career, use it to get into med school or work in finance or something.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:20 AM
1

Heh thanks. It's not very touchy feely or vague is it?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 12:27 AM
1

In my experience, there is a God that is none of the above. He'll speak to you if you listen, esp. if you ask. Consider this comment spiritual not religious. I am not affiliated with any of the organized religions but am just relaying my personal spiritual experience. Don't mean to be oppressive.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 12:25 AM
1

Wow, my post is at -2 points! Are there that many readers who think that fathers really are just sperm donors? I mean you can do that, it happens in the black community a lot, and it can be an effective way to avoid financial responsibility. But it is not the man's only choice. A man can be in the kids' faces (they'll love him for it) and in the mother's face (she may hate it but so what) too.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 12:23 AM
1

I upvoted that, but add that RP contains important information they don't teach in school about the psychology of women. You don't deal with a woman just the same as a man, even though you can exhibit self respect and confidence to both. Generally speaking, you show respect to men, humorous and friendly condescension to women. That's my take anyway.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 12:16 AM
1

The difference is, for the sluts it worked (until they hit the Wall and it didn't, and they a few years later they even noticed that it wasn't working.) For the betas it never worked. Einstein supposedly said that stupidity is when something isn't working and you keep doing it. Why shouldn't bitches do what they do as long as it works? (Note that I expect very little morality from them.) But if YOU can generate tingles, that will make her forget the betas. Save her from hitting the Wall and bein…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 12:12 AM
9

It's a crappy line, it (the second sentence) sounds tired and butthurt and forecloses future opportunities. Won't generate tingles! Guilt her and hurry her up instead. "Do it on someone else's time. I don't have the PATIENCE for those kinds of games."
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 11:23 PM
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My response: "Do it on someone else's time. I don't have the energy for those kinds of games." Lose the second sentence. You are full of energy. Or, say "I don't have the patience for those kinds of games." Offer her a second chance right then and there, something that advances your agenda like coming to your place to watch a movie on TV. Now that you've said you're impatient and put sex in play, she'll be in the right mood.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 11:20 PM
1

Guilting a woman can work. You do want to stimulate emotions, they need the drama. I think it was embarrassingly wordy but the right idea was there, so it was successful enough. No unrecoverable errors here.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 10:58 PM
1

EE here. I agree with mustache rider that you don't explain things to women. Even technical things if you can avoid it. It doesn't help the interaction -- generally helping women is not what you want to do. They'll think of you as helper (beta provider) not alpha. Do you really like going to the gym with her? I might start being less reliable on this. It was a shit test and you passed. You pushed her shit back at her. That's the main important thing. You wrote way too many words, even more than …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 10:55 PM
14

Cosmo is sold to women. Women want to see an article like this and show it to their boyfriends as "inside information from women" about how to appeal to them. So the purpose of the article is to please women, and it's an example of the rule that you should not get your advice on relationship / sex matters from women. Get facts from them and everywhere else, do your own analysis or use our analysis. The title is not a lie. Do those things, you will please her and make her feel powerful. She might…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 10:46 PM
1

Or, try converting one of those hot babes into YOUR wife, take her right off the market. She's hot because your innate understanding of female health and reproductive fitness tells you "hey, fuck that one, she'll make beautiful babies!"
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 12:39 AM
1

Third position: ballet? violin?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:59 AM
1

You are intentionally gaming the laws. You need expert legal advice on whether you can get away with this, without one party (probably the wealthier one) running the risk of being screwed economically.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:57 AM
2

It's also a mutual lock-in to protect the kids you plan to have together. Although now that practically every state is quickie no-fault divorce, there's no lock-in or not much anyway. If you're not planning kids, I don't see the point at all.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:56 AM
1

"The population will be taught to read and write, it will be taught science and math, it will be educated in the greatest works of culture that the mankind has produced. " A population like that would be nearly ungovernable, a population of geniuses. Too bad we don't have that population. It's not that they don't try hard in school. It's that most people cannot achieve that level of intellectual maturity.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:51 AM
14

Sounds like a whole bunch of people who should be nexted. Drama queens come in all colors.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:48 AM
3

So she was told the same thing. You two should have a conspiratorial laugh about it and get to know each other better.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:25 AM
1

No, it's more like finding pussy that isn't expecting to be on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:18 AM
3

Exactly. That's a beautiful RP moment.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 04:06 AM
3

So hiring managers are like the "material girls" that we have to play game on? Sounds about right.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 03:57 AM
1

Southern Brazil is a white place, northern (equatorial) is more of a brown place. Eastern Germany is nice, Dresden is beautiful. In Munich you can drink many beers. Russia is interesting, St. Petersburg is stunning and sort of the intellectual capital. See the summer and winter palaces, they are unbelievable. Germany has no equivalent. It really is a great city. If you speak any of Portuguese, German or Russian you could go with the one you understand and can read. Certainly bring a dictionary a…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 03:51 AM
1

I know that my dick is the only one that visits that place. I can def. see the problem if that's not a given.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 03:15 AM
1

So are you spinning plates on the side even now?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 03:11 AM
4

Suppose there were a very average looking girl, say about a 5, who was getting older and desperate to tie down a man. Her family was at least as desperate as she was. This girl has some ongoing issues, like borderline alcoholism, that make her continued viability in the workplace questionable. She needs to settle down and have a man pay her to raise babies. How would they go about it? Well, the family might make a short term investment to downplay her economic earning issues. Giving her a cheap …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 02:59 AM
1

This is another piece of the puzzle. She may be playing a maternal role to you. WARNING! This is not sustainable, it's not right. Her attraction to you will dim and she'll change into a totally different hostile person. Don't have kids with her if it's like this, because she'll keep them and you will be ordered by the court to be a slave and send money. You have got to make sure you are in the masculine role. Otherwise, it's not a good relationship. And this has nothing to do with SMV scores or …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 02:04 AM
1

I don't want him to offer a logical argument. I want him to make a logical argument to himself, to support the best possible decision. Another reasonable strategy is to put this girl on hold, just say you want to meet some other people and decide. Totally honest. Of course she can disappear from the "market" or just decide she won't have you back, but RP says that rarely happens as long as you are making the break while she still desires you. Keeping her waiting for fun is unfair. Keeping her wa…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 02:00 AM
1

Your family supports her, which makes it hard to try new things. But I'd focus on that "dumb as rocks" thing. If she really is, then probably leave. If maybe she is actually quite smart and you just argue over the aliens etc., then maybe stay. Because your children will inherit a lot of their IQ from the mother. There's a theory saying that your kids inherit IQ from the mother and looks from the father. So if a dumpy genius man marries a fashion model who is dumb as a horse, their kids are dumpy…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 07:33 PM
1

Which cultures are those? Just asking, because I am not an expert on cross-cultural sexual psychology. More importantly, does anyone think it creates feelings of un-stimulation or revulsion in the woman?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 01:34 PM
10

Put all the assets in your (woman's) name, all the debts in his (man's) name. Put a small fireproof safe in a cluttered closet and stash money there, he won't find it in event of a divorce. OK guys watch out for stuff like this. Women usually know the house much better than men, so sometimes have a look around in various closets etc., you have a right to know what's in your house.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 01:32 PM
1

Sounds like she's at least tending to alcoholic. This is not something that you can necessarily fix via a firm hand. Or maybe you can. Is this the woman you want to marry and have bear your children? If yes, keep her and get her pregnant fast, she doesn't have much more peak fertility left, but she has enough if you start very soon. If no, move on and give her a chance to find someone else who wants to keep her. It is not your responsibility to rescue her. Does she have some really strong attrib…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 01:16 PM
2

I'm married. I got married and had a choice because I figured out enough redpill stuff, back before it was on the 'net. Let me say that from where you are, where I was once, you should concentrate on the masculine "alpha" aspect. The beta stuff can wait. You don't need any of it yet, and don't use that a crutch to avoid the absolutely necessary start of alpha behavior.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 11:18 AM
3

Heh yes I replied to that post over there. She's talking redpill, that's what she's doing! I just pointed that out. The other posts aren't that good though.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 11:12 AM
-2

She loves her children that way, and yes they are HER children you are merely the sperm donor. I certainly know the difference, I just thought your post wasn't sufficiently clear. A man should not buy into her idea nor give it any respect, ever. If she tries to get you to leave the house, guilting you with whatever, do not go. Your children need you, and if she's doing that shit, they probably need you more than they need her.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 07:44 AM
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I think the godly aspect is that God may put you together with a woman, for you to love and protect. But honestly I think it's misguided to look for God in a woman. When you form a partnership, the God relationship is especially your responsibility, and you are equipped to fill that role. A woman is a wonderful creation of God, but she is not closer to God than you are. Don't take the ideas of a woman as commands. If you let her override your judgment, you will likely regret it, seriously. I hav…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:19 AM
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Men are not just the sperm donors and are very important when the children are 10 years and older. Some women act as if the men are sperm donors and the legal system treats us this way, but that doesn't make it true or right. The legal system is a risk you take if you have children with a woman in the USA.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:10 AM
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Exactly. Another part of it is that bluepill men are thinking of their (usually healthy and close) relationship with their mothers as a model for a girlfriend or wife. Forget all that. A woman has a special maternal love for her children. You received that from your mother. You will not receive that from your wife. You are no longer a child and you protect your family, not vice versa. Maybe your parents, siblings, etc. can offer some help. Really at this point you report to God and can get your …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:54 AM
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Pro: stable home for children. I don't see the point of marriage otherwise. Marriage is a lock-in for the sake of children. I am a married father with children. However, given the legal risks due to unfairness of family court, I am aware that other models of having children (single-mother model like the black inner city, for example) have some advantages too.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:41 AM
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Hate the things about women that are hateworthy. Love the things that are worthy of love. "Don't hate" is a useless command. Nobody is entitled to a guarantee that they won't be hated.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 04:46 AM
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Welcome.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 04:44 AM
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I will, maybe it was a nice one, free and clear. You know how long it takes to earn $500,000, after taxes and living expenses? Half a working lifetime for most people.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 04:29 AM
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consult a lawyer. You want the best financial strategy, to avoid paying her alimony, and if possible to have her on the hook for alimony. This marriage is over, you just want it to end on favorable material terms. And you can't go fucking other girls until you end it, otherwise you weaken your position, but confirm that with your divorce attorney. Thank God you got out before there were kids and any possible child support obligation. If she suddenly claims she has your child, get a paternity tes…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 04:25 AM
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But it would hurt her worse if she is your unwitting social proof and keeps losing out to the other girls you attract. Once she gets too mad about it, just cut her out of the social circle she helped you create.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 09:18 AM
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You did well, you used your status to find a girl liked, then you moved on. I do not support perpetual adolescence. Use whatever you can to get a girl you want, then ... you're done!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 08:59 AM
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Yeah it's totally different. BG is just bitching about having to pay the cost of on the job training, a normal expectation and it's only money. This is quite different, a potential wife is not fungible. Her only purpose now is to temporarily and unknowingly increase your abundance until you next her.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 07:52 AM
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No, too much trouble. She could treat it as a sort of victory lap. And how could you hold it together that long, do all that work? No way. You might keep her around as you prowl for new girls. Let her be your social proof without being able to avoid it even if she knows.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 07:48 AM
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Some asshole recommended he tell the bitch that the guy had bullied him, to pour his heart out to her. She didn't deserve that. All she deserved was a closed door. It will be a bit harder for the guy to heal, because he was weak again for her. But hopefully he'll flush it out soon anyway, better women await.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 07:46 AM
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Guys are cats, girls are dogs. (Personality and "natural vibe" wise.) So if you're a guy, game is "cat" vibe, independent, unattached, the opposite of "man up". It also explains why older women get cats. They are guy-substitutes. And guys get dogs, harem-substitutes.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 04:29 AM
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In other words she is learning the concept of SMV but still overestimates her own. Given any filter that eliminates some information, there will generally be a lagged response. If she realizes that her recent experiences are better than her future ones will probably be, she may rescue something from the situation. Does she have the IQ for that?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 03:19 AM
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Counting on the opponent to make a mistake is a bad strategy at chess. Is it better at dating?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 03:17 AM
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The question is whether any guys are available who will pass her filter. They used to be, but if they still are, they are vanishing quickly. If the filter is working as intended, she may and probably has the wrong goal. Her goal should be to get this guy attached to her and try to convince him to marry her. Maybe even to get pregnant then use that as a motivator. After all, she should hurry to have her babies if she wants them.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 03:09 AM
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So what? It's still true that her choices are diminishing, she has no offers from those FWB to convert to relationships or else she would have accepted. And whether she knows it or even he knows it, his choices are OK now and increasing. Maybe this sort of thinking they are smart is why women pass the wall without knowing it. Caught in the intrigue, lost sight of the goal.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 03:06 AM
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It's not clear that there is a good solution at this point. The solution was for her to get off the carousel well before the wall. It's not a man's problem to rescue her.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 02:09 AM
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I would rather have a LTR (marriage) with Jane. She gives 10 years more of hotness, 10 years less of other men for comparison and memories, and 10 years of her best fertility and young energy for being a young mother. Extremely easy question.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 02:07 AM
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The weekend house on the lake isn't very big either but it has a dock. Hamster bait she won't be able to verify in time. She deserves it for that question.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 01:59 AM
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I am certainly not trying to redirect people's attention from the carousel to older women. I am only suggesting that people give the young girls a way off the carousel. Be the change that you seek! :)
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 01:51 AM
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I've been out of the market for 20 years or more, but has anyone tried proposing to these 20 year old hotties? I bet some of them accept. Even if you're so impressed, some of them know that their hotness is perishable. It's a good test, give them a chance to pass it.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 01:48 AM
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I'll support you here. In an ideal world there is just not that much premarital sex. Instead there is maybe a little, but pretty soon if you have a good relationship, OMFG you get engaged and married and then fuck and make babies and raise the next generation. Rather than extending your adolescence for 30 years and discussing how to make THAT work.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 01:46 AM
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I would add that a girl of say <25 is "taken seriously" because of her sexuality and, to the more rational men, her wifely and genetic potential. A woman of >35 is hard to take seriously except in her role as honored wife and mother. Current wife, not future wife. Of course she may be taken seriously in the corporate or professional world, but that's not what I am talking about. If a woman of >35 a single mother men know to stay well clear, so they may honor her as a mother but avoid her as more…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 01:37 AM
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It means that a woman won't really get to play the field very much. She should take each man seriously, and in return I think an honorable man would take her seriously, as a potential life partner. If he wants a FWB instead, that should be clear to both parties as well. All this endless experiencing and playing the field is no way to run a society. Marriage and procreation are serious and sacred, and it's important to do them early too. Grow up! Especially the girls, they'd better grow up. They …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 01:25 AM
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I think this is right on. I am trying to talk to some feminist types on a feminist man-hating blog and they simply don't read what I write. They just say I am a hater and all that, when actually my posts are very rational. Just one random shaming tactic after another is all I get from these women. Occasionally a woman will support what I am saying. And then they turn on her even harder.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 01:16 AM
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But you can skip the bluepill stuff if you want, because all you'll find out is that it doesn't work.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 09:25 AM
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Maybe she just wants a visa. Kudos to him though for looking outside our fucked up culture. Can a man give a woman some sort of shit test in this situation, something that will make it plain to him if she's not marriage material? What should that shit test be?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 09:22 AM
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So, discovering this surprising but important fact, he needs to get out now.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 09:19 AM
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Not so fast, usually it takes some years of marriage before she owns half of you. And sex isn't so easy for her after a certain point either.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 09:19 AM
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This was a seven year relationship before marriage. If she was at or over the wall at the end, she might have been well short of it at the beginning. I guess about midway maybe she was losing attraction but by then it was all or nothing. But now, the guy is still in time to divorce. "Irreconcilable differences" gets it done in just about every state now, a fact women have been using. But he'll owe no alimony or very little this early, and there are no kids. The time to get out is now. The marria…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 09:17 AM
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Still it's hard for me to believe she was able to fake attraction for seven years. She could have tried again with another guy, unless she was unattractive and unable to get another guy. I think that unattractive girls have more issues and are more risky than attractive ones. They are burying issues that will come out.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 09:14 AM
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I am curious to know how the new guy stripped her of any ability to act. The legal system has worked very hard to ensure a man cannot be in control any more than the woman wants him to be. But maybe there's a way to have some control, and I want to know it!
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 08:35 AM
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In other words, the unicorn is only in your head, and she's just letting you believe it.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 08:32 AM
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Is "head of household" the same as "married" for tax purposes? If so, that sounds pretty good (just make sure you don't move to a common law state.) I am married with kids, and I can see the advantages of the way you've done it.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 08:31 AM
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I think I understand why OP is disillusioned and depressed at this state of his knowledge. OP don't take this the wrong way, it took me years to figure this out ... You have been looking for your mother. Yes you had a good normal healthy relationship with your mother growing up, and you are looking for a similar relationship with the next important woman in your life, one who is auditioning to be the mother of your children. But women love their children more than anything. The won't love you li…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 08:07 AM
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There are societies in the world where women do not resist acting like women and (omfg) wives. Don't get too wrapped up in our society's twisted "customs" that seem designed to fuck up anything normal. Backrubs, cooking food, that's all so normal.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 07:58 AM
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I didn't read it that way, and my reading comprehension is good. He's not expecting her to be a mind reader. (If he were, that would wrong, we should not have magnificent expectations of women but pedestrian ones, that way they can meet them.) He just wants to get to a point where he can ask for things he wants, that are not essential but he still wants them, and that she'll almost always try to comply. I think he's doing fine in that regard and have nothing to add, other than not to start stati…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 07:52 AM
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Regarding 1, oxytocin is in her body not yours. It's the drug that attracts her to you and/or cements that attraction. It doesn't cause you to act beta. If you think you're feeling oxytocin ... you aren't. What you MIGHT be feeling is a search for the relationship you had with your mother. I think this is the cause of much beta behavior generally. Men are expecting their gf or wife to be something like their mother. But women love their children more than anything in the world, far more than the…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 07:40 AM
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That doesn't make a lot of logical sense, given how fast women mature emotionally. A 14 year old is pretty much grown up in a lot of ways, a young woman with a lot of social savvy and the same fears and concerns that she'll have for a long time to come, far moreso than a boy of the same age. I think that's why the age of consent in many societies is around there, or used to be before the population-reduction tactics of late. A 22 year old is highly desirable and might face major efforts from oth…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 06:57 AM
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Your reactions are entirely reasonable, and the responses give a lot of good information. My only comment that I am sure of is that one way or another, either as your relationship continues or as you dump her and move on, she has got to experience you being with another woman. She will not get this as a freebie. You could stay and just disobey her "orders" and get some strange, or you could formally quit first, but one way or another, you're going to meet and get physical with at least one other…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 05:49 AM
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This is not about shit tests. She was not shit testing him. She pulled him through it. He did a good job too and didn't back down from this celebrity. Maybe there's a little chemistry there. And he's cute, and she's getting older ... if not for her career, he'd be at least her equal. And she's had some nude photos come out, maybe she's feeling a bit vulnerable. What this IS about is that you should not be scared of any woman. If you want to talk to a 10 and you see one, go and talk to her. Guys …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 05:26 AM
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You think those are shit tests? Have you ever seen a shit test? She is being likeable, genuine (regardless of her actual opinions), giving him something to react to. And his reaction is great, got to give him credit too, I learned something about dropping in that invitation. She fielded it very gracefully. Now as to whether she ever goes there with that guy, she may not because he's not in her league. But in the interview she was generous.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 05:21 AM
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Imagine your relationship becoming even closer, to the point that you somewhat merge with each other. Then there are not two individuals but only one couple. The early years of my marriage were like that. It doesn't last forever, but it's nice for a while. In that situation, it's not a matter of selfishness but of leading the ship. you are on a ship together, and she wants you to be in charge. There are moments there when I was not, bowing to her immense pressure, but in retrospect I regret them…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:14 AM
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And you were building attraction by doing that, causing her to be naked and stimulating herself on you. I've had girlfriends interested when I play chess, or when I program a computer. They found these to be good masculine activities and were stimulated when I showed skill or mastery. They cared only about the competence, they themselves had no idea what I was doing (could not play even chess, or program a computer) or why I was better than a lot of others. But there were enough clues they belie…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:05 AM
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Well that's a bit more detailed, it sounds like you're doing the right things mostly (as I see it) plus some extra. I guess the extra is fine. I don't talk to my wife so much in bed lol. And always looking to teach something? Do you have that much to teach? In my experience, a woman wants her man to handle things, not teach her how to handle things. A little bit of the latter, but she's really reluctant to take stuff over and relieve him of any responsibility. Some women even say that. In one th…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 01:47 AM
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I am guessing you don't have kids yet in your LTR. The presence of kids puts an immense amount of stress on a marriage. Not only is there a lot of stress of money and time (which everyone knows about) but the woman starts to feel maternal love for her kids. It kicks in, fast and strong. That's what it's supposed to do. That means she can't fuck around any more with a beta boyfriend/husband who wants her maternal love. It didn't feel right anyway, but now it's absolutely not on. The scale of shit…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 09:49 AM
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What is this thing you believe a woman is capable of feeling for you, other than attraction? Well there are the things that come with lack of attraction, like revulsion. What else? Please be specific. I think you're imagining that something must be there, but actually there is nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 08:39 AM
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Yes, what you're talking about is a lot harder. Too hard. Maybe impossible, and if not, too hard and uncertain. A woman doesn't deserve that much. It's far more than she gives you. If you lose your job and don't get another, she won't give a shit if you are trying. In fact trying will seem worse, it will result in failure after failure. There may be no good way to keep things intact then, given her materialism, but the only possible way would be to build attraction another say, being more domina…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 08:36 AM
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No, here's the key point. Women love their children in a much stronger and more special way than they love their husband. They don't love the husband maybe even BECAUSE all their love is for their children. They need the guy to be dominant, then they will be attracted to him if all goes well. And that's it, that's the best the guy will get out of them.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 08:30 AM
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Truth. This is what it is to be a man. Women love their biological children. So you remember a loving mother, with high probability. A lot of men try to replicate that closeness with their romantic partner. It doesn't work, ever. A woman does not really love her husband, she is attracted to him. Once they're married and kids come, she may not even be attracted to him that much, because her attention naturally falls on the kids with all her maternal love for them. But if she's a decent woman and/…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 08:28 AM
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Identifying as African American is for the purpose of getting certain advantages of affirmative action. The ones who object have decided that these other people aren't entitled to those bennies. Since the whole a.a. game is just a bunch of bullshit, I say more power to them, shake up the status quo. Don't let the usual suspects decide who gets a slice of their special pie and who doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 08:21 AM
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I have no problems with black people from Africa. In Africa they are just normal people. There's no way a country could survive if everyone acted like African Americans do. It's a parasite culture that depends on the white culture to enable it. White culture = normal people, the sort of people who make a society work. So yes the Africans do act "white". They act like normal people.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 08:18 AM
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A very good point. 25 is already on the slippery slope to the Wall.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 02:45 PM
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And she'd be comparing you against all those other men, all those other sexual experiences. Now I'm probably not the worst, nor the best, in bed, but why do I need this issue? It's likely related to her inability to pair-bond. Sex should be a part of her marriage and a wonderful part of creating babies rather than an area of her professional expertise.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 02:30 PM
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What weakness within the man? Why would refusing such a woman be a weakness? Personally I think it's a strength.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 02:14 PM
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Girls are actually subject to harder brainwashing than guys are. For one thing, they are naturally group oriented, and there's enough social pressure that their group of girlfriends will tend to be very conventional (that is, PC) on these matters. If they get too independent, it creates social problems for them, they could be ostracized. The social controllers know that the women are thus the most easily controlled. And so the strategy seems to be that all girls will be controlled and men will b…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 02:12 PM
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I would make one additional point. Women don't actually have the standards they say, or think, they do. A fair amount of redpill is realizing what the actual standards are vs. what women say they are, and therefore doing what works vs. what women say will work.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 02:06 PM
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Women who sleep around are sluts. That is true because it's up to men to decide that. It's our right. We do not have to date used up party girls. I've never heard a feminist dare to disagree with that, when I put it that way. Men who sleep around are studs. That is true because it's up to women to decide that. It's their right. They can choose to date and sleep with guys who have been with their competition and to prefer them over male virgins. If women want to change this "men who sleep around …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 01:57 PM
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Here's a red pill fact that I thought everyone knew. Looks aren't so important for a guy. Sure it's great to look like a movie star, but it's not really all that important.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 02:22 AM
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Fake it til you make it, that's the way. It's like riding a bicycle, it doesn't feel comfortable for a while, then it does.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 02:03 AM
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I don't play this game, and I surely won't after reading this. It's all stuff I avoid. And yeah, the lez wouldn't beat me at chess either. (Don't you feminists just hate that I can say that?) So I don't need a game pretending she would.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 01:56 AM
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Disagree, because Reddit is a good thing, and helping your fellow men and women is a Good Thing. Nothing inconsistent with Red Pill there! But I don't see the need for a fork (as we would call this in the Linux world.) Forks are only justified when there is a disagreement about how to do something where there must be agreement, e.g. how to design a computer system we will present to the public. TRP can present multiple viewpoints and should do so. Fragmentation has few social benefits I can see …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 01:48 AM
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Your relationship with a girl must be completely different from your relationship with your mother. A woman loves her kids like nothing else -- including her husband. The only ones a woman truly loves in this world are her children. That is the love you received from your mother. It is completely different from any successful relationship you'll have in dating or marriage. Completely. This is the lesson Tupac described. The respect he had for his mother was just for that relationship, a relation…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 05:21 PM
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Definitely would not advise a guy to get close to a single mom. Pump and dump with a condom, at the most. The kids will always be from another man, and she probably frivorced her last man, and it's too hard to find out the truth. Anyway she had her man, if she wants a man, she should try to get him back. If the guy actually died and she is really a widow, then I suppose one might consider it, but I'd want proof that he is deceased.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 10:07 AM
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Actually some chicks say that, but a lot of women are not so concerned about it. Physique is only one of many ways to attract a woman. I am way under 6 feet. But my wife is shorter than me, which feels right to me.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 10:02 AM
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I'm not so perfect, I am a bit overweight myself. I like to indulge. I also like my woman to be slim. And she is, even though I am not. Who says life has to be fair? Presumably she found something she liked in me, actually she did. Remember, women are less concerned about a man's physique than men are concerned about a woman's physique. That's just how it is.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 10:00 AM
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Why not lie? Say whatever you want. If a girl is judging you by income or potential to decide whether to give it up to you, say whatever you find strategic. I only give honest answers to proper questions, and I get to decide what's proper. You're not under oath. The key is to have fun. Whatever comes to your mouth that you WANT to say -- say it! That creates great conversations with females. I wouldn't try it with males, but this is for females.
/r/askTRP05/01/14 09:53 AM
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Women don't like us because they refuse to believe their behavior in their 20s will haunt them in their 30s Or, similarly, they don't want men thinking this way because they are being rational, and they want guys still sniffing after their pussy in 5 years. They hate it because it's against their interests. Some things in life are zero-sum. This is one of them. Being against the interest of slutty bitches is almost sure to be in the interest of real men.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 09:12 AM
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I have some of those issues myself, married w/ 2 kids. But there's another thing that happens as well, where the wife transfers her attraction from the man to the kids. The only real love a woman ever gives is to her own kids. I think she might love sons the most, but if there are no sons, it would go to the daughters, probably above her husband. So kids can create tension in a marriage because the attraction isn't easy to generate any more. And kids create lots of moments where one should be su…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 09:06 AM
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Is "relationship counseling" just another way of pussifying the men and giving women what they say they want -- getting the men to listen and the women to demand? That's what I suspect, knowing nothing about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 09:02 AM
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"taking what you want/need in your life", that's it exactly. I would add, taking what you want, all you want, but not more than that. Don't use up 100 women, then that's 100 women that won't be attractive to your brothers any more. Sure, have relationships, have fun, fuck, win, but be a natural animal. In nature, one takes what one needs.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:59 AM
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In my humble opinion, redpill doesn't require you to play games. Basically you do what you want, express your personality, and thereby you are leading. She is naturally attracted to leadership, it almost doesn't matter what you do as long as you are deciding. If you're in an LTR she'll give you shit for it later, but she'll make up shit if she doesn't have enough real shit to complain about anyway, so don't let that stop you. It's just inevitable in LTRs, if you won't put up with that, stay shor…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:56 AM
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Swallowing the red pill means looking truth straight in the eye and not blinking (very much at least.) It should not necessarily mean giving up one's desire to have children. That's biologically hardwired in many of us. One is truth. The other is desire, opinion. Orthogonal. I agree that in our current western society, the legal entanglements are extremely risky for men. I am sure there is no good way to mitigate it, otherwise we'd know it. The system is designed to prevent mitigation. It's desi…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:50 AM
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Not meaning to give a flip answer, I am very serious. If you are looking for a godly way, ask God. Don't ask a church organization or even a blog. Get your answers direct. But he put you here to communicate with us other guys (and girls) so blogs like this give you a good earthly perspective. You just don't need us for the spiritual side.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:36 AM
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Excellent question. For the girls and women I've known, it would have a lot to do with how your personality benefits her. As for liking your personality itself, she doesn't react directly to that either, but to how it makes her feel -- which is described by redpill literature.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:42 AM
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A beta wouldn't understand, since he lives to serve girls. An alpha has self esteem. You don't see any girls disagreeing with me. They know what she did. Many (not all) have done similar things themselves, and they knew it while they were doing it.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 08:29 AM
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It can be hard to find a lawyer that will pursue reverse discrimination sort of cases. They play the percentages and they well know about the feminized legal system. But if you do find such a lawyer, I hope you win!
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:08 AM
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I think you were molested by this girl. That's why you feel you lost. She grinded on you, but she gave you this line about having been used, so you held off your normal response. I am not sure I would have done differently, but now after reading this and thinking about it, maybe I learned something and would. That if I let it get to the point that she was grinding me and getting in my space like that, I would expect consummation and be aware that she had issued an invitation. She can't do the ph…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 10:57 AM
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She says that if you're initially attracted but then use that as a jumping off point to learn more about her, it's reasonable. But if you just assume she'll fit a set of asian stereotypes, she doesn't like that. Can't say I disagree. One can have very tentative assumptions but then test them. She doesn't seem bothered by stereotypes, just by people who go no further than that. Should be easy to deal with. Just let her talk about herself, girls like to do that anyway and it gives you material for…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 10:25 AM
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She threw her husband out and got a good lawyer and as much child support as she could for as long as she wanted to bother extracting it. She thinks this is OK because her mom was divorced too. One lesson to learn: strongly prefer girls from intact homes raised by both their biological parents together.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 05:55 AM
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On her site she says she was married, the guy went overseas to work and got a brain injury, then afterward they argued even more than they had before, then he "left" and paid her child support for a while. No mention of how he's getting along or whether he sees the kids. Or why he "left". Just that he left. We assume she threw him out. Further, we suspect that the arguments were mainly her fault. We know women who argue and how they tend to love drama and cause the arguments. So we are not sympa…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 05:31 AM
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I don't see hate here. I don't even know what hate is. Pointed criticism is not hate. Even if it's too late for her to do anything about it, and its purpose is to warn other men from stepping in due to instinct to save a damsel in distress. It's warnings. It may feel like hate to her because it reduces her options. Oh well.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 05:14 AM
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She said that we should accept that we'll be divorced, and that divorce can be a financial and career launching pad. We don't know for sure that she divorced strategically but it sounds like that to many of us. We have learned to be unsympathetic, rather than sympathetic, to women whose relationships have failed. We don't trust them. I don't mind that she feels bad seeing the guy with another woman. That's life, that's competition. She was being honest about her feelings.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 05:04 AM
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