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What kind of statement is it when they address "hate?" That's a very loaded term for any number of scenarios. If racism is an issue, any number of factors might qualify. I doubt that the other 3 cops who are about to be fed to the lions felt any "hate" for Mr. FG.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 02:01 AM
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Aha...perhaps we all need a push to suck less. The reason men are so horny- they have to be. Do you really believe that some vapid bimbo doesn't suck, despite having a pack of guys following her around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:28 AM
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Of course they are. The major repercussions come with the ever expanding number of births w/o wedlock....poverty and dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 08:03 PM
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Many developing countries are not as poor. Violent crime is lower in the US than in the 80s. That said, the number of kids who grow up in impoverished, single parent households continues to grow. The middle class is increasingly sliding towards poverty as the economic landscape changes. A college education, especially in the liberal arts, pays a lower return than it used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:49 PM
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ah...but you women have so much to contribute. You basically built culture, societies and the modern world PLUS you are pretty and can make babies. Hmm,,,ok well, at least I'm half correct. You go girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:13 AM
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"Men actually have no appreciation for a woman's personalities, hobbies , interests and achievements." Oh...ok. Then why do men often seem to have this appreciation for other men? They (w/ exceptions) don't even get the benefit of thinking they may get laid in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:01 AM
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well put. My time teaching in public schools bear this out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/20 11:37 AM
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When I hear these stories about women w/ high N counts, I envision 2 drastically different scenarios. 1. Some self absorbed hotty who strutted her wears and had little else to offer in a monogamous relationship 2. Some lonely, possibly homely gal who desperately wanted a boy friend and entered relationships with that hope, only to get used and tossed aside. Maybe they are actually the same person. The high N count doesn't tell me enough about the person. As an aside, I recall calling my first lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:21 AM
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When I look at how poor the op writes after 4 years of college, I can see her priorities were not on education. At the same time, I wish I'd had a bit more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:05 AM
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There's too many other sorts of cases where this wouldn't apply. It seems to portend a world where both sexes just sort of run around as singles w/o organization and alliance. Plenty of women who knew they were protected by fathers, husbands, brothers, etc. have said all manner of things to other men. OP's premise may hold some truth but it is also expedient.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:59 AM
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Honesty, discretion and tact are overlapping topics BUT not the same thing. This shouldn't be a polemic between lying vs crushing someone's heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 07:24 AM
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Das Hamster Wheel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 07:15 PM
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ah...I can see the flaws in this particular one. https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/ccpmvj/debunking_the_8020_rule/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:49 PM
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Oh...can you find me a link to this particular study? I'd like to see the specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:46 PM
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No one is going to convince you of anything. But do tell. Why was THIS study you mention, conducted so poorly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:54 PM
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OK... https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:58 AM
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Then why do I always hear "women don't notice 80 perc of the guys.?" I bet you the 20 perc they do notice are fairly redundant from woman to woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:40 PM
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BY demanding it, they, in a sense; are possibly just acquiescing to the inherent tension between male/female power and desire. Men are so horny and women are the objects of desire so "she wanted me to choke her!" is like "take me you fool," X TEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:14 AM
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WE like all living creatures, are vehicles for genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:39 AM
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happiness and pleasure overlap but are not quite the same.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 05:12 PM
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You are painting it very black/white. What man really wants to go to some 40 plus hour/week job, when they could be home? Most would not. I can't answer your last Q because neither situation says enough about the person I'd be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:09 PM
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quid pro quo. But women can fuck a man's paycheck?! Marriage or a LTR is a nice way to say "prostitution," I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:34 AM
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If a woman is jobless or lacks money, should she be dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:21 AM
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If you have access to weed, the right type is more erotic than booze w/out the blurry vision, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 01:22 AM
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Try being a man. Almost anything I get from a woman is a "hey there." The vast majority of women that respond to me make me feel like I'm pulling teeth to keep the conversation going. That said- the homely of either sex has it the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:35 PM
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fyi- neurobiology on violence and sex https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4176893/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:21 PM
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yeah...sorry. You raised some good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:17 PM
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Ah...lemme check. This may be an aside but there must be a discrepancy between events and actual damage, anyway. Most men recall having more incidence of fighting in their childhood...they just don't do as much damage. Extrapolating from that, I'd have to think there are few reports when little injury occurs vs semi-lethal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:08 PM
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My guess- domestic violence. Nothing like chronic closeness to create the tension for a blowup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:41 PM
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isnt caution based on fear? Id guess you meant unfounded fears or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:39 PM
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engaging in suicide and committing it, are overlapping but different. Men succeed more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:32 PM
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Not true for me...a man. I have always been able to interact with women platonically. It's not that I don't sometimes lust for them..but happy to say I can be friends. And if sex HAS to be part of every relationship one has with the opposite sex, the prospects for sustaining a healthy, long term relationship are not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:04 PM
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I'd say you are correct
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 06:03 PM
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hey there :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:52 AM
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please explain. what insult? that he's orange? Trump was wealthy and handsome and connected. He was a playboy and still is...without seeming to have much subtlety or charm.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 04:05 AM
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sure....they aren't mutually exclusive reasons
/r/PussyPass01/12/19 03:24 AM
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I don't believe you are capable of presenting a cohesive argument at this point. If the present reality is that it's lawful to approach someone on the street and talk, you take a draconian view and expect reality to change (for YOU). Then you attempt to make a case for what you see as the current status quo (the hegemony of the resplendent female who don't need men) and expect reality to stay the same again...(for YOU) Now it's up to others to "get out of the way," and say "it's not hard." Some …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:24 AM
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I don't think your thinking has evolved enough to have a meaningful discussion on this. "real world happening now...too bad...get out of the way...it's not hard" There are numerous inconsistencies in your reasoning which I suspect you will not notice nor admit to, if they are pointed out. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 01:58 AM
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Historically, most women derive most of their "power" by the simple fiat of being born with the parts for inspiring lust and carrying a baby. Is that something to be proud of? You'd be in a cave or hut right now without the contribution of men. Same for me. I'm sorry you take such a dim view of that many people who had no more say in how they came into the world as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 01:40 AM
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You use loaded terms like "manipulation" for a man approaching a woman and attempting to start a conversation. That's not my style unless I am just being friendly or there is some pressing issue. I have sympathy for women who get tired of it...but until that person knows it's not what this particular woman might not want, they should get the benefit of the doubt regarding their motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:53 AM
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Are you saying they generally don't? I don't like catcalling/harassment but as long as we live under a government that values individual liberties, both men and women "could listen to each other." If you are that much of a magnet for unwanted male attention, I'm sorry. I can identify to some degree as I received my share of unwanted female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:45 AM
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Surely you get the point...I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:35 AM
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This burns in my craw because of my experience as a public school teacher. When I was young and cute I was the darling and rarely had to deal with students or parents making accusations of sexual impropriety towards me. Within a decade of that i was so arthritic I had to limp. I had gained 40 pounds and my hair had fallen out. Voila....I'm a creep. I wasn't able to use discipline or vindictive students might accuse me. You may be a decent man or woman who is considerate or you might be on the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:23 AM
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True. If this is a discussion on morals, virtue and cruelty, it is the low value men and women who get crapped on due to the behavior of the elites. Frustrated lovers who lose to them often end up condemning the entire gender once they've sunk to socializing with the outcasts. It's really inhumane
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:58 PM
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Men well fuck ugly fat girls but won't date them. Women lower their standards and would date a fat ugly guy if he's nice or has money. How many men do you see do the same? No...men will lower their standards and date a poor, imbecile if she's pretty. How many women do you see do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:54 PM
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Is persuasion a form of manipulation? Are you harassing us here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:49 PM
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"Relationships will not cease if men can't approach women" Well...they WILL never begin for those particular men, will they? I guess that leaves them the option of being in public and hoping they get noticed and approached by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:46 PM
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Maybe she could attempt to be a big girl and "use her words."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:38 PM
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Maybe Chad doesn't need TRP AND didn't/doesn't need to figure anything out. He's elite enough to get enough attention from ladies w/out having to have too much self awareness, or even awareness in general. Our current orange president is an example, perhaps.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 09:10 PM
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Beta- being a utility w/out the dignity.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 09:06 PM
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Yes...undeserving women often play the cards they are dealt as well. The polemic is multifaceted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:00 PM
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the oak tree that used to be a sapling is still the same tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:34 PM
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Yes...a pretty face and curves work just like currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:54 PM
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Have you heard the theory concerning polygamy and advent of agriculture?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:43 PM
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shows how close to polygamy we truly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:35 AM
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If a guy with a big wallet is "help," I suppose you are correct. Now that men have built the civilization you inhabit, I bet you can get to starbuck's on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:32 AM
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Los Invisible Guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:23 AM
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agreed....I like your line of inquiry and have been on the same sort of quest myself. Stepping back even further, I suggest reading some EO Wilson on organizational behavior. I take an biological evolutionary view of this circus we inhabit. There is inherent tension between the idea of the individual vs the organization. I start with the premise that we are vehicles for genes. Then I consider briffault's law -and idea of eggs being expensive and sperm cheap. I know men and women are prone to lap…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 09:47 PM
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Interesting...but at a quick glance, there is something "off" in some of the charts. IE morals vs truth. Perhaps "objectivity" vs "subjectivity"
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 08:37 PM
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the more likely scenario is a man scores a thin beauty who changes rapidly after childbirth. There is nothing as enchanting as a beautiful woman to most men...but without tempering this, you will forever be hungry for "one more shake." There is some middle ground between the 2 poles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:00 PM
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I can agree up to a point but "meritocracy" and "better" I find dubious. Why? Because musicians like taylor swift win accolades for overproduced pop vomit about her puppy love trysts while there are superlative musicians of both sexes living close to the poverty level.
/r/PussyPass28/11/19 09:23 PM
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Because men worked themselves out of a job, in a sense. When there is enough order and prosperity, safety becomes more taken for granted and perspective becomes narrower in terms of problems that must be dealt with. Hence "mansplaining" and "manspreading" become fodder for thought. The prevailing narrative becomes increasingly female focused. Life in a war torn country is hell, of course, and it's not surprising that the narrative is male oriented. Lest one think that this is just a simplistic w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:04 PM
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I do,... to some degree. I bet many men would like a break from the emotional hamster wheel. But women just look so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:41 PM
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BBBut if you care about your nation and society, national socialism must be worth fighting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:12 AM
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Show some interest in something outside of the social sphere...like natural history, mechanics, gardening...
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 04:41 AM
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which is why "winners" like donald trump always have a beauty on their arm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:55 PM
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The man should say : You"re the real misogynist. I want you to live past 63.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/19 10:59 PM
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Ok. Avg. woman- have become somewhat shorter since the 1970's- maybe due to immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:31 PM
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Are you talking world wide? or in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 04:43 PM
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Probably true today for both genders re/ shape and weight. I believe the average woman now weighs the same as an avg man in the 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:11 AM
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"time, money and effort..." I think they go after slightly different targets as I alluded to earlier. Most men are not going to find hours shopping for clothes and makeup or trying a new hairstyle as meaningful compared to being in good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:07 AM
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There are slightly more obese women than men in the US. But why don't you cite some of these claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:30 AM
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on the other hand....why are men so horny? because they HAVE to be for coupling to occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:00 AM
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That may be, but they tend to be more active and less obese than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:35 AM
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most men opt for working out, playing sports and being in shape and probably wish more women did too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:30 AM
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of course- this is parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:34 PM
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I can see some of the thinking on cause and effect: 1.young man dislikes women 2.young man approaches woman and his hate for the woman is evident. 3.woman sees the hate and rejects the young man 4.young man becomes ugly and joins incels
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 06:23 AM
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Caring about appearance is not binary. Most men would probably prefer a woman who ate right and exercised enough to remain thin over an overweight couch potato who spends an hour painting her face on every day. It seems like many women prefer a guy who wears a uniform or something that denotes status while I suspect men could care less about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 11:19 PM
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hilarious...luckily their poor muscle development, hand eye coordination and body kinesthetics prevent them from doing much damage.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 01:15 AM
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The be all and end all for so many is mating and raising children so its anathema to go against that grain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 01:06 AM
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mother of mulva.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 06:43 AM
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A "loser" is akin to being a "slut." A man that cannot compete with others to procure resources for his woman and offspring is a bad bet, just like a man coupling with a promiscuous woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:11 PM
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Institutionally oppressed? Like having to put your life on the line in the military, dangerous jobs; or not earning enough to win a bride? Look up briffault's law. Eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap. It's not a miracle that women are as safe and powerful as they are today. It occurs in modern societies that men had a large hand in creating. Men and women benefit in these arrangements. It's true that we assume many women are losers- or it's just not part of the lens in which they're viewed; be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:54 PM
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How many women are called "losers?" You paint with a very broad brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:46 PM
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anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:18 PM
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you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:10 AM
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well put. I think people have a tendency towards "archetypes," and the "lover" looms large. When something is most important to us emotionally (like finding a mate), we tend to revert towards a more primitive part of the brain-maybe more limbic. So when one's heart is broken by someone of the opposite sex, the recoil in their brain will revert to a primitive one size fits all response where all women or men of a certain age are now assholes or jerks or users. As a possibly overstretched example,…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 05:10 PM
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I think I know where you're coming from. I'm telling you that this is more than just some premarital sex in college. ..of which Im guilty. I'm almost 60 and am no bible thumper. I used to be a sex educator/counselor for planned parenthood too. If you are open to discussion, I think I can show you some research that might plant the seeds for a shift in perspective. Right now...gotta go. Thanks for responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 09:31 PM
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seriously?! You have to go further than "premarital sex" is now acceptable. Ghettos are created, in part, when loads of children are born out of wedlock to poor single mothers and sperm donor dads who can't support them. These boys who grow up w/out fathers create some of the most violent cultures around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 08:56 PM
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when women marry for money..."he's so interesting and such a leader."
/r/MensRights07/09/19 08:02 PM
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Of course they are not completely separate. I'm talking about the interactions between 2 people in the pursuit of romance. If motivations vary for a huge variety of reasons, as you say, then I'd think trying to apply some generally applicable rules is futile. As for competitions, I can agree to some extent. I bet you many of the most desirable people out there don't even notice the "competition" because they are the object of desire and have access to plenty of partners. It's like asking george …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:05 PM
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It occurred to me today that there are 2 separate spheres in which men and women interface. One is the platonic sphere and the other is sexual. The sexual one is going to be more "primal" for any number of reasons. I have seen perfectly decent men who were friends behave like wolves in the sexual realm. If you consider that some of our prime memories of the opposite sex are through the pursuit of a sexual partner, is it that surprising that men and women might have a view of the dark underbelly …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:17 PM
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for what it's worth, I don't swallow all the red pill hooey. I'd prefer a woman with ideas and an intellect, etc. But I have seen so much doublespeak and grandstanding from them I'm not going to believe all the "sugar and spice and everything nice," either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:42 PM
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sure...the distinction is that they are shitty in different ways. Take a step back from much of the rhetoric and see if you don't see the patterns. Much of the "talk" that happens after an "action" is a rationalization that would have us believe there is not much animal in our human psyches. In reality, the human provides a narrative for the animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:28 PM
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Fairly accurate. It makes sense that someone who believes the idealized version of women that exist in the BP, will also presume that all those incel jerks started out that way and THAT is why they are now "undateable." It's the converse of sour grapes- might as well hate them since they have been siphoned off the bottom and are no use to anyone in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:09 PM
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which says much about women in the "looks" department. Men are horny..because they have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:23 PM
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special ed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/19 06:05 AM
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I'll give you my take. I used to work for planned parenthood and considered myself a feminist...like mom. Rape is terrible and anyone who says otherwise is deranged. An ex gf who is still a friend was raped 2x. One issue I have with the way rape is handled is that it polarizes people. It's easy for men to only see themselves as victims of false accusations while women can start to see any nuance of sexual overtures as a preface to assault or rape. It's tempting for both sides to inflate the stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 11:14 PM
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Yeah...they'll take non-liquid capital if green backs are short
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:19 AM
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It looks like most of the time, there is not enough evidence to make a case. We don't know whether rape actually occurred or if someone thought it did, but it didn't, or it really did, etc. around one quarter of the total accusations lead to arrests, and only a quarter of those cases go to a prosecutor and even then a half are convicted and usually go to jail. BUT you presumed all these cases were bona fide rape, while we can only guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:43 AM
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http://www.datagoneodd.com/blog/2015/01/27/how-to-lie-and-mislead-with-rape-statistics-part-2/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:35 AM
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RE RAINN stats- sexual assault is lumped in with rape so far as I know. A woman who reports a guy for slapping her ass while riding by on a bicycle is in there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:34 AM
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Not that young actually. Rape and sexual assaults are incendiary topics as you know. People take one side or another for personal reasons when there are some sick people on both sides. Whatever the "truth," I 'd hope decent men or women can expect to be treated as innocents on an individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:26 AM
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You are off on alot. Everyone has biases. "Only 4 in like 1000 rapists go to jail in the US and men are more likely to BE raped than falsely accused of rape." You really believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:12 AM
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Study from 2004. Have you seen the penalties according to gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:58 AM
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If you look hard enough, you can probably find any sort of social custom in a few societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:19 PM
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I don't think its been done to perfection. Change? Who is going to pay a semi educated person that gets a clerical job, the same as an engineer? There are lots of single people in our society who are provided for. Usually they have rich parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:01 AM
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Is that ever true?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:54 AM
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Shame single motherhood vs shame single mothers. Unfair? Yes. But its life. The population of single mothers is not just comprised of women that started families and got screwed over by some cad. Their kids do not do as well on any number of metrics. I care. It has major implications for the future of society. Even a well meaning responsible mother is often overwhelmed with stressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:53 AM
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know any gay men? just kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:45 AM
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You make your point...but it's logic is not all encompassing. You frame it as a polemic between 2 points as if there are not other factors to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:43 AM
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I believe choice plays a part and that people have free will. I don't believe we all have the same amount, by a long shot. A century ago, "lazy" would describe me now. In my 20s, I was 160 lbs and could run like a hound. Within 10 years I could hardly walk due to arthritis in my hip. I was so fatigued from narcolepsy I can no longer work and write this from bed. Now I'm 200 lb and not bad for a 57 year old, but I come across the aging bloated faces of the dying and all but forgotten and I feel s…
/r/PussyPass19/08/19 12:37 AM
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Being an ugly woman anywhere can't be too wonderful....although certainly easier in 1st world.
/r/PussyPass18/08/19 05:41 AM
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yeah....talk about an echo chamber unwilling to grow. Feels like female hysteria is rooted in the hive mind where consensus trumps actually acknowledging problems and solving them. It hit me how different women are when I say a post w/ pics. A woman had tiled her shower and bathtub. I've never done the task but have done a bit of tile. There were thousands of upvotes. What sort of man is going to do that?
/r/MensRights17/08/19 07:12 PM
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So tempted to post stuff like this on twoxxchromosomes to see the reaction. It's full of posts decrying unjustice where men are perps.
/r/MensRights17/08/19 05:27 PM
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The over investment is not the issue, so much as the form it comes in. Time spent together on practical activities and play or housework or travel are often replaced with material crap and more social media junk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 12:09 AM
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Go back to evolutionary theory. The genes are running things behind the scenes. It doesn't care about monogamy or morals. Promiscuity is simply part of "the grass is greener," for people who have been together awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 02:45 AM
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There are so many euphemisms for that. "Be free, Learn who I am, See the world, Make new friends, Travel, Have some "me" time. ..."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/19 02:39 AM
2

Point is that, in summary, I'd prefer being someone with real skills rather than someone who gets a pass due to some inborn trait. Usually that defines the male reality vs female.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:45 PM
0

If you were shooting baskets would you rather see yourself make them or miss and have people tell you they were good? Easier isn't always preferable.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 09:02 AM
1

I'd have to think that as dating swings from the road to a LTR or to hookups or visaversa, the way these things are perceived changes. I suspect they see a woman dating younger men as a short term, physical contract rather than the more traditional one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:11 PM
1

Get the pet rock instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/19 09:23 PM
2

If you also add that plentiful porn makes the comparisons worse between fantasy and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 02:15 AM
1

genes and the hardware for procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:48 PM
2

briffault's law
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:04 AM
2

Think of them as polygamists and maybe it won't seem so despicable.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 09:16 AM
0

They say monogamy is the result of humans move to agriculture. Why? Wealth was created and a rich man with all the women would leave alot of angry young men with little access to women...and conflict was inevitable.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 09:12 AM
1

Maybe men should be even more considerate and stay off the streets at night so no woman feels potentially threatened. Yes...it's reductio ad absurdum, but it fits the analogy of some sacrifice made so that even the slightest possibility of threat is eliminated. "Considerations" like most other behaviors don't exist in some binary vacuum. They set precedents that may eventually become expected norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 09:46 PM
1

This article also mirrors some of my points. https://www.rt.com/news/461606-metoo-keanu-hover-hand-photos/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 09:35 PM
1

"It’s an example of vulnerable parties being forced to change their behavior due to risk." This may apply to either gender and being accused is a risk for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 09:28 PM
1

There is not much substance in your point. Joe Biden is one of a number of prominent males who have been accused of being too handsy with women, of late. Even a decade of this is not a large span of time. The fact that you'd use "considerate actions" demonstrates how subjective your view is. They ARE considerate but they can just as easily be called "precautions." They could even be labelled "placating," depending on the context. Women (and many men too) are rightfully cautious in encountering m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:14 PM
1

complaint? How noble of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 04:48 AM
1

how about a point with substance? I bet no one has ever changed your mind on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 04:47 AM
1

I am listening. And yes, according to this study, men cheat 20 % more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:39 PM
1

20 % of men and 13% of women means around 16.5 % of all married people end up cheating. It does not mean 1 in 3 (or 33%) are cheaters. Everyone makes mistakes...this one is yours. No biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:10 PM
1

Not true. Notice that men like Joe Biden and others have been accused of being too "handsy" w/ females in photo ops. I just saw some pics where keanu reeves is photographed with his hands out and off the females in plain site so we know there's no impropriety. The goal posts get moved all the time. When I taught Jr HS, I recall all kinds of precautions male teachers were expected to take to steer clear of being accused of improprieties. I had a camera I had used often for filming classwork until…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:03 PM
1

And before someone gets on me about the math: according to that article, 13% of women in marriages cheat compared to 20% of men, for a total of 33%. sorry...this is incorrect. 13 perc and 20 perc avg at about 16 perc. There is no total of 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:33 AM
1

https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:29 AM
2

What you call considerate eventually becomes the status quo, and then the man who doesn't cross the street gets accused of threatening a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:14 AM
3

Attraction is a powerful drug. He's a heroin addict whose just been informed he has to go " cold turkey." We can laugh at it to keep from crying. Most men will see some of themselves in this AND should remind themselves of the depths to which they could possibly sink.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 10:52 PM
2

Sounds like you sort of get my point since you responded to it first. I see plenty of examples of that from women in online dating. I can't speak to the male side of things to the same degree, but my female room mate is OLD and it's rare to see a man put "Must not be under 200 lbs" or "D cup or lower. " If you have to have a man who is over a foot taller than yourself, or a woman who is under 115 lbs, you sound pretty shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 09:01 PM
1

https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/do-men-cheat-more-than-women-infidelity-data/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 08:52 PM
5

Perhaps sometimes, but I suspect it's worse when she is 5' 2" and 230 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 08:50 PM
1

Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 01:30 PM
2

I dont get your question. All humans are a product of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:16 AM
1

why then...what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:13 AM
1

what are you talking about? I never said anything of the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:12 AM
2

true,,,but for most of human history it was not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:09 AM
2

Maybe because status means group support and survival for the weaker of the 2 sexes, who might have the added vulnerability of small children. Compare that with a male who might be out and about, and have more than a few women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 07:44 AM
1

I'd say there is truth in what both of you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:38 AM
1

You mean that wasn't also a point? Hmmm...I'll have to check back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:37 AM
2

You have heard how the term has been incorporated into all kinds of terms that women use to increase their victimhood stock. So I'm not surprised the other side has tried to weaponize it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:32 AM
2

Yet you don't have to do much to get attention on tinder if you are XX.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 04:51 AM
1

Huh? You do know something about his life if you believe what he's saying. Do you really believe wanting to find a partner is a binary off/on switch? The man is saying he's done this and that and it has resulted in little difference, so far as he can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 07:27 PM
1

On a general level, I find posts like these, somewhat unbalanced. Specifically, because they use terms like "improve themselves" to cover the superficial traits a woman might like on first impressions. I'm not against LOOKING like I'm masculine and well groomed, but to use "improve" for what basically comprises advertising is a shallow perspective. The rules of biological nature also encompass what a person thinks of themselves. To me, there is nothing that sexy about an immaculately wrapped gif…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 07:17 PM
2

The goal posts are being moved. Wait 2-5 years and watch hover hands become the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 04:41 PM
7

He loses nothing as an individual. But in the long run, men lose out because this sort of behavior becomes the accepted model. When there are deviations after that you will hear the war cry from the aggrieved. Why would I believe this? I was a jr hs teacher. We were to never touch our students. Even a hug could be potentially dangerous to our career. By the time I left teaching even "looking" in the direction of some of the girls would be turned into a complaint. Predatory behavior by some men I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:35 AM
2

seriousness is a little man's affectation of bigness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 01:14 PM
1

does that disclude masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 04:43 PM
1

I'd say it's other way around. Women are not interested in men who make less...as a general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 02:44 AM
1

I believe you said something to the effect that boomer drs wouldn't marry their female counterparts due to the idea that marrying a higher earner was intimidating. By 1970, only 1 in 5 physicans in the US were female. I'd say that the lopsided ratio meant that few females were even available to have this happen to a any large degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 06:23 PM
3

ok...trying to wrap my brain around your central pt. I agree. Socio-economics means different things. Live in a university town with highly educated people who barely make it while I know working class folk who seem to have enough to afford the latest gadgets and their minds are still in ghetto. Life perspective and attitude plays a big role in this with money aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 02:50 AM
3

The Boomer doctor married a nurse because Boomer men refused to marry women who could ever possibly outearn them. What refusal? How much choice did a boomer DR have when it came to this? Close to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 02:40 AM
1

Maybe it's necessary to breakdown vocab. "caring" doesn't ask "how much caring means." Can say men care. But maybe they also care about the scent of their bath soap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 02:38 AM
3

Dont forget being killed by police, arrests and incarcerations.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 09:19 AM
1

The only caveat is, possibly, that the cheaters are slaves to their base desires. Getting off with the latest novelty might create momentary escape, the way the next possible unsampled flavor of milk shake makes one say "ok...now I'm satisfied."....until a new flavor comes into view.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 01:23 AM
1

Yes. I do understand your point here. A women runs the gauntlet between "prude" and "whore." Many men will condemn a woman who has slept around at the same time they are angry she is not "sleeping around" with him. I get it. My take-people may have sex for a variety of reasons. Libido, affirmation, insecurity, manipulation, a bargaining chip, revenge...I had a gf years ago who was a virgin, same as me. She was a big dick tease imo. I thought that I'd have had more respect for a girl who'd even s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:57 PM
1

Ok...let's try it this way. Can you explain this statement you made? "you cant get mad with a girl with a low sex drive if you wanted her to have a low body count."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:36 PM
2

You are being deliberately obtuse here. Look at what you wrote to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:17 PM
1

Go back to your original statement. Let's just say it's high. It is beside the point anyway. My point- having a healthy libido should not necessarily mean a woman becomes a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:11 PM
2

You still don't seem to understand my point. You are basically saying high sex drive = being promiscuous. Why would anyone get into a monogamous relationship, IF they had some sex drive, under this mode of thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:28 PM
2

Because you cant get mad with a girl with a low sex drive if you wanted her to have a low body count. I'd guess you believe anyone with ample sex drive should not be/cannot be monogamous. BS excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:14 PM
1

Dont marry. Become a banker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 07:06 AM
1

I don't think they see advantages to anything if it doesn't involve money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 06:57 AM
3

Of course....you don't deserve a happy life. Oh ...you do? Well then stop listening to that thing inside you that shits on your picnic. Remind yourself to keep it up too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 11:01 PM
1

Thanks for asking. I think it's potentially helpful to almost everyone. There was something in your writing style that seemed almost like an "alpha male." I think it seemed so direct and linear. Intuitively, it felt a little mechanistic, as if you might have some internal issues that therapy might put you in touch with. I know it's just conjecture on my part, but I appreciate you asking. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 03:10 PM
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I'd focus on getting into therapy, possibly.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 08:32 AM
12

The illusion for me when young- Being alone and seeing an attractive woman ("if I only had a love like her, I'd be satisfied." ) But not long after I had her ("she doesn't appreciate me as much as she should." OR "this one looks better.") I didn't realize that there were millions of years of "promiscuous monkey" running the show behind the curtains of my consciousness. I still have to live with my own conscience at the end of the day but the patterns I've seen in some of my own behavior lead me …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 06:07 PM
3

castration might be easier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 02:34 AM
2

man here- he might not know what you mean to him until he has to make a sacrifice of sorts. Dont make it too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:57 AM
1

he's wearing eye liner...i think
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 07:24 PM
1

You should check out this thing called "porn."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 07:21 PM
3

makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 08:03 AM
4

Once they know you are wrapped around the finger, their paradigm shifts from thoughts like "wonder if he thinks about me?" "Will he bang and bolt?" to ...... "oh...phase 1 over. Mission accomplished"...and then..... "Oh...hmmm...ya know...he could be a liability." Actually both sexes engage in this thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:37 AM
2

A lawyer? But what about morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:30 AM
0

There is a nexus re/ signs of fertility and youth. A girl who is too young isn't fertile, and woman too old to procreate are genetic dead ends. So the optimum (inborn) signs are all the neonatal stuff that push things towards the "youth" end...ie kitten face, small nose, thinness AND on the other pole, the indications of "maturity," ie. extra fat around breasts, hips, etc. Maybe there is a "sweet spot." I do notice some guys are more predisposed towards the youth end and others, to the mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:09 PM
1

That's a broad brush there. But I'll have to bring it up at our monthly "cisgendered men keeping women in shackles" meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:53 PM
2

Feminism has improved the trad living standards for both sexes about as much as the church improved the balance of good and evil in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:48 PM
1

I'm loathe to say that the issue has become somewhat divisive for a few reasons 1. The big todo over the scientist that landed the machine/camera on the asteroid a few years ago turned into a battle of the sexes ( or fringes) over the outrage due to his garish shirt which some chose to see as "sexist." 2. Some of the cherry picked examples that have been used to "empower women" might get drift into hyperbole on occasion. The journalists looking for these types of stories are probably not well ve…
/r/MensRights11/04/19 10:44 PM
12

Well...that leaves us with "sailor" or "maori warrior."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 06:30 PM
3

Single motherhood perpetuates itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:01 PM
1

Nothing illogical about the double standard. Men aren't always sure who the father is. Many women who are treated like queens are the equivalent of male "losers" in terms of what they "bring" to the table but that term is usually reserved for males.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 09:11 PM
3

The same women who think looking at them is harassment, are the one's who get bent that they can't wear whatever they want, any ware.
/r/MensRights04/04/19 08:19 AM
1

So...it doesn't preclude me from caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 06:56 PM
3

I care about living things in general. Also, because, despite their unusual behavior, they may still be decent, even interesting, human beings. Why would you "not care?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:01 AM
5

I care about paranoid hermits and I'm not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 04:51 AM
3

A friend had to clean up after one of his "shows." OMG
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 08:32 PM
3

True. The guy was mentally ill.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 08:31 PM
9

"You just treat me like a sex object..." 'I agree...sadly...Then why don't you improve your personality?" ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 08:26 PM
1

Ever notice some women who married rich men saying "Yep...I wanted the easy life and the bucks." It's "oh he's so interesting and he makes things happen...he's a captain.....etc."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:50 AM
1

pitcairn islands
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 08:48 AM
3

Not often
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:00 PM
21

"Why not nurture female sexuality instead of shaming it?" Why do people use "sexuality" for "promiscuity?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:25 PM
1

I think you are correct. It seems like there is a little monkey keeping score and adds to the idea that we are vehicles for genes. Like self driving cars with the ability to navigate the freeway but still at the mercy of the driver who decided on the destination.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:25 PM
1

kind of funny. The dogs are human by proxy.
/r/PussyPass01/03/19 04:12 PM
36

I have heard that men fall in love quickly and out of love slowly. For women, they fall in love slowly and out of it quickly. How true that is, I can only guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:48 PM
3

That's a broad brush. I'd think there are plenty of "low value" men out there making babies because we see them and their offspring on the streets and in the schools. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:11 PM
2

one possible factor. "crazy" often means you can't relate through normal modes of dialogue. Which leaves the feeling of communion to the physical. The fact that it's only physical sometimes feels pleasurable because its unadulterated lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 09:55 PM
3

At the end of the day, we all go to bed with ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 09:47 PM
3

sometimes I forget that this is a forum populated by 16 to 80 year olds. That might account for some of the myopic, solipsistic commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:18 AM
3

wth do you see that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:09 AM
1

You are correct. I'm thinking of having seen twenty somethings doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:08 AM
5

Yes...The primitive brain experiences a breakup as a "death" in many respects. So you have to go through the grieving process. The amount of time and sacrifice you've invested is something the brain doesn't forget either. If you feel somewhat depressed, that's only natural. Try and fill your time with pursuits because left to itself and unstructured time, you end up ruminating and becoming more down. I'm a man of 56 and recall having some female friends made it more bearable as I still felt an a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 09:11 PM
6

Men will do it in a different manner...make fun of the land whale as she walks by. But it is a minority in either sex who are that unaware and callous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 02:46 AM
3

playing another dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:18 AM
26

havent you notice both sexes will go after the physically attractive ones and use the not so attractive as a proxy to shit on the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 12:24 PM
1

This is someone using a movement for a different purpose imo. I dont care for feminism, but especially what it has morphed into. Here's a painted lady in her prime who probably has more options than most , making her statement about not giving a shit for the people that built the world she lives in.
/r/MensRights19/02/19 12:11 AM
10

I have my share of run ins with crazy women in my life. One time I told a gf to give me back car keys and she wouldnt so I chased her down where she struggled so much that I gave up. An hour later I had to deal with cops. I am aware of the possible pitfalls in this, but I have called cops a few times. I do understand it's a bit of russian roulette but of the 5-8 times it has happened, I feel it's worked out favorably.
/r/MensRights19/02/19 12:06 AM
37

what about calling police? just wondering how it got so surreal.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 10:12 PM
0

compare similar sites subscribers. Way more women mocking men by 10 or so times more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:21 PM
2

I see your point but I think you are using the term "sympathy" in an intimate very specific way. Most people feel sympathy for innocents who are murdered, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:21 AM
2

Agree 100 percent. This is someone with no moral compass who cares more about a few minutes of pleasure for themselves without considering anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 09:08 AM
1

I would be tempted to say "but you're only 4 foot 5...when you lay on your back."
/r/MensRights18/02/19 07:15 AM
2

to live with a clean conscience...also consider that the sort of man that puts up this is a slave to his nuts. What's going to make him stay with this person when some other offer opens up?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/19 10:13 AM
2

Do you hear the term "loser" applied to women that often? It's the converse of the female "slut."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 08:18 AM
1

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 08:09 AM
1

oh christ...proof is stranger than friction...brilliant
/r/MensRights17/02/19 08:01 AM
1

Flip it on its head. Remember "thelma and louise?" There might be something out there that is a men's "thelma and louise." There should be. If there isn't, there should be. Can anyone think of anything approaching what I'm asking for?
/r/MensRights16/02/19 08:10 PM
3

If I hadn't cared as much, I couldn't have tolerated how much I hated it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:22 PM
2

no you are not...and you didnt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:46 AM
1

well...this will be the fullest extent of that association.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:45 AM
2

Actually, I just find your comments to be those of someone I don't care to have any association with. I don't care if your genitals glow with gold....or what gender you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:44 AM
2

I'm glad we left you alone too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:40 AM
1

slow it down...brain throws up red flags when to much change happens too soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:02 AM
1

maybe the inverse for the same reason you don't run from a lion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:50 PM
3

living indefinately might be a curse
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 04:18 PM
6

Be careful what you wish for.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:41 PM
1

consider the way people often think on this. They don't start to worry you're getting too close until they have your heart. NOW you are a responsibility...a possible liability...and the escape door appears. I feel for you. I've been through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:27 AM
62

I love that he put the top back on his pringles before resuming things.
/r/PussyPass13/02/19 01:33 PM
8

heres another one covering it. https://www.truthrevolt.org/news/marie-claire-woman-cheats-boyfriend-her-rapist-reclaim-identity
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 04:49 PM
1

my take- women's nervous systems are more wired for fairly straight line activities while many men are wired more for adrenalin and emergency. They tend to get bored more easily but also come to life when chips are down.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 11:21 PM
1

porn kills sex...dead sex kills love?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:49 AM
1

wish you were a man so you might see what it looks like from this side of the valley. Women don't have a monopoly on love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:48 AM
-1

no past = slept around?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:23 AM
1

Im no fan of sjw's either. I also think people need to take more individual responsibility for the consequences of their behavior. I agree with you on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:26 AM
1

You dont seem to be able to have discourse without leaps of logic. I am sometimes speaking for what I think men in general do/believe and other times its personal- and I think I'm specific enough for most to get it. I can and have changed in many ways over time. My ultimate goal here is not to find a partner yet your comments appear to reflect otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:17 AM
3

maybe supports the idea that men care more about how a woman looks and woman care more about how their lifestyle looks. I'd shy away from using "proof" so often. No one with a dissenting opinion is going to buy your "proof." They will come to a conclusion separately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:07 AM
1

you think seeing paradoxes and contradictions is hypocrisy and then I need to discipline myself? I dont think so. I'm not sure you understand the terms I used. I also don't think this is a pity party either. No idea...can only guess how old you are or what you are after but best of luck with your hypergamy party.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:56 AM
0

Maybe you should have some empathy for these people. They may not have your intelligence, awareness or resolve. People who dont learn from mistakes will have a tendency to rationalize things away and continue to be trapped in a cycle of suffering. I will say I think we are all trapped in the "human condition" Bullshit. Dont project other people's weaknesses onto me. You mean to tell me you don't relate to what I'm saying? I don't think one can simply fight this. Life is full of paradoxes and con…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:04 AM
2

maybe you're right. I don't see how any marriage built around little more than sex could sustain itself. But I bet you there are plenty out there that won't take the medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:39 AM
1

Sorry to say you seem to have little sympathy to begin with or maybe you are frustrated with the opposite sex for reasons pertaining to finding love. I can only guess. I will say I think we are all trapped in the "human condition" to some degree. I used to consider myself a feminist and tended to put women on a pedestal. I am not proud of having this part of my psyche but also don't think I can simply deny it. I'm writing in the abstract. I'm aware to some degree of my inborn tendencies. Anyway,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:34 AM
1

"should"?! no. Please reread it. I'm speaking in generalizations, not wholly quantifiable terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:20 AM
3

That's their "fault." Yes. I suppose so. But they are bucking millions of years of evolution in doing so. I guess it's also a woman's fault that she has to have a guy over 6 feet so she can wear high heels. People like the taste of sugar salt and fat...usually they pay the price for this inclination if it's not tempered with awareness and the ability to delay gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:17 AM
1

yes...I received a reply and commented in turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:01 AM
3

I have seen this "bloodlust" from the sugar and spice brigade. I see it as nature's way of rationalizing the marginalization of genetic "dead wood." I notice the response of some of these sorts to any excoriation is to remind them that their "not getting any," as if the "be all" and "end all" for every man is to couple up with a woman.
/r/MensRights06/02/19 12:59 AM
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I'm not sure that many men want to have kids. I agree love needs to be friendship and sex, I'd also say that many a man is so mesmerized by the visuals that they will try and accommodate raving lunatics. On the other side, there are plenty of women willing to have a go with a rich asshole . Where is my exaggeration? I doubt most men give 2 shits about a woman's earning power if she seems attractive and has a personality that keeps him interested. Or...the men that make this their top priority ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:53 AM
3

If many men made personality their top priority, a good portion would stay single and hang out with their buddies. To make sex and looks count for little might be akin to asking a woman to choose the unemployable with the nice smile. Granted there are couplings like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:42 AM
0

of course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/19 12:17 PM
2

The nice guy part demonstrates a positive with the more rational human side of romance. But he still has to tickle her primal, inner monkey in some way or it's still just a foot in the door.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/19 12:12 PM
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All these make him feel like this is NOT a person he's truly sharing a mutual and invested experience with in a LTR. Ego is ancillary. All of these speak to the cynical idea that women are possibly undevoted branch swingers and cuckold makers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:02 PM
13

In some respects, men have "worked" themselves out of a job by making the world safer by organizing civil societies. Men are less appreciated in such societies because things like "personal safety" are taken for granted.
/r/MensRights04/02/19 10:39 PM
5

What do women tend to look for: a provider. So imagine the affable nice guy asking her out and then paying for her dinner. He finds out she plays guitar and offers to lend her one of his.... This behavior may not elicit a sexual response but it's a foot in the door because it shows 1.he's interested in her 2.he's has resources and 3. is willing to share them. Any woman who takes him up on the offer should know that. If she doesn't feel the same, the least she can do is try and bow out gracefully…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 10:19 PM
1

But who, with bpd, is told they have bpd; by a specialist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:10 PM
10

aren't spheres curvy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/19 07:59 AM
9

I looked up the details. https://www.loudersound.com/features/felix-pappalardi-meets-a-tragic-end
/r/PussyPass01/02/19 01:35 PM
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Not too much. I just wondered. I am not casting judgements one way or the other.
/r/PussyPass01/02/19 01:23 PM
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I hear he was a womanizer from a friend that worked with him. Is that the reason for her killing him?
/r/PussyPass01/02/19 11:51 AM
3

I still recall my first love saying I was nice "because you have nothing else left to offer." That explained alot. F her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/19 12:26 PM
12

They did an experiment with some funny looking male mouse and manipulated things so it appeared he was a "player," and they all went for him.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 10:42 AM
1

I feel for you. It does have a genetic component. I could see it in my niece. She hit her grandma as a 3 year old. Very angry.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 09:59 PM
2

Yep...I've seen it in ore than a few women. Tragic..talk about being your own worst enemy. My brother just took out restraining order on his daughter due to her bpd behavior. It feels like she should have a warning label on her.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 09:55 PM
2

borderline personality disorder?
/r/MensRights29/01/19 09:51 PM
1

The "disposable sap."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/19 09:56 PM
3

But notice the crowdgasm when the beatles used to play in concert halls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 09:55 PM
1

These were 14 year olds. But thanks for the ear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 01:08 AM
1

yes...one mother even called me a creep in the phone when her daughter wasnt getting the A she expected. Funny thing about it...I was older and uglier at 50 then I was at 30 when I started teaching. Back then I used to hear so and so had some crush on me. I have to think that played a part as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 09:18 PM
1

I taught jr hs and a group of girls and their moms circulated the idea. It still makes me sick to think of the malice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:48 PM
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I was always nice...at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 05:51 AM
2

watch oleanna together if Gillette doesn't do it. jk
/r/MensRights18/01/19 07:00 AM
1

"women who don't play men's games" Like who? Ellen Degeneres?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:29 AM
1

Very tough...I;m sorry. Consider this: Rec drugs work because they mimic chemicals that make us happy or swoon. We are wired for love because of the high. You were/might have been high on love and now you've got to deal with cold-turkey. Is there a saving grace? Maybe. You can try and remind yourself that there is this cold anatomical model, but you will start to heal in time, as your body recovers.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/19 07:57 AM
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I'm sorry you feel this way. I think it's not too uncommon and I wish I had a possible solution. One thought- we are wired for coupling. As hard as it may be, try to keep yourself from hoping to hit the homerun out of the park in terms of happiness. What I mean is try and keep yourself occupied with the things you can control even if they are not as thrilling as matching w/ some prince charming. I wish you the best in finding love, of course, but if that's not a sure bet, may you still find the …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 08:22 AM
1

one of the female aliens captn Kirk slept with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/19 07:07 AM
1

Why would I lie? Anyway...I am not pretending anything. I suppose you think my comment doesnt pass muster. My point is that you talk about "building this empire" with a dr you might marry as if the empire is mostly a product of your joint efforts. It's like saying marlon brando and the guy who played his personal assistant made some great movies. You possibly think the occupation for the man you choose is more important than the actual human being. What did women like you do before agriculture e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:01 AM
2

So...what else to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 01:12 AM
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Feminists blame the patriarchy and incels blame gynocentrism. Great match! I'd say a litmus test for the feminist template might be looking at angry incels who blame the system. Do we find many feminists empathizing with them in their commonality of marginalization?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 09:16 PM
1

"He gets into a hvac school, and she starts supporting him. They move in together. She’s paying rent. He gets rent, sex, housework, and cooking from her. Next, he becomes a repairman. Once again, she supports him. Now she is pregnant! They have a baby and she balances doing all the housework and childcare and cooking and making money. Her salary helps to dramatically reduce his student loans. She spent the time “building an empire” with him. Now he is making $80k a year as a 42 year old technici…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 07:21 AM
1

Jabba the hut's daughter
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/19 08:16 PM
0

I used to work for planned parenthood and identified with feminism. Glad that is long gone. These days, I meet strong, independent women who embody what feminists purport to be; and few of them wear the label on their sleeve. The one's that do, tend to be overweight, couch potatoes with a few tatoos, and possibly supported by a trust fund.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:21 PM
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Thank you for your well formed arguments. You have taken the words out of my mouth...and I didn't have it in me to write an essay at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:06 PM
1

"Meanwhile, the foundations of Nazism have remained quite static, and its 'adoptability' is drastically limited by a series of strictly-kept gates, making it a much more broadly useful descriptor when it comes to evaluating a person based on that categorization alone." Have you not heard the word "Nazi" bandied about in the last few years, to mean anything from Hitler to the potus to any redneck flying a confederate flag in their bedroom? Of course, calling oneself a nat'l socialist is different…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:03 PM
1

I love arby's
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:45 PM
1

OK,,,do they deserve the chance to learn something from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:44 PM
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genetic diversity...probably partly wired from birth. Small tribes often traded off their women or men for coupling. Also other reasons I see mentioned.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:02 AM
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Once you said restaurants...nope. A "buddy" pays their way. Not GF material. Save yourself as early as you can.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:56 AM
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Yep...I got a psych degree.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:50 AM
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You move from a fairly probable start (dress), move slightly afield (makeup), and then onto a leap (finding other women attractive). There are plenty of women who are not OK with their man finding other women attractive. You can learn actions like dressing alot easier than learning to feel a certain way when your significant other possibly follows his promiscuous inclinations. It's all good...I won't add anymore. Paz
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 06:48 AM
1

They have to eat cake if all the bread is gone!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 06:19 AM
1

"we accept!" Anytime someone describes half the human population in such terms, I'm out. This is a parody piece, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 06:14 AM
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I agree. You can hone yourself and be machiavellian about fnding "love," but don't lose your basic humanity because of it. Now...if the guy's such a blob and slacker that you find his presence off putting just due to his basic spirit, I can understand that. Bottom line- You have to live with your decisions at the end of the day.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 09:23 PM
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That they are like cats with the approach avoidance thing. If you live a long ways away some of them are MORE likely to interact because actually having to meet face to face or become part of a LTR is scary. They may not even be aware of this...but get their high off simply being adored.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:10 PM
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You might consider the idea that "affirmation" for many women in SMV is almost akin to "sex" for men. IOW they get off on being pursued. So the closer it cuts to the chase the quicker they find you aren't their "type."
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:02 PM
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I was a virgin until 23. I never hid it either. I didn't give 2 shits one way or the other. I never thought too much about it...other than being horny alot. Getting laid once doesn't make that big a difference to that anyway.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:36 PM
1

I say you are fishing in the wrong pond. Not that there's anything bad about it. If you have reasonable smv, your biggest issue is not having a space where you might have more one on one encounters with people that interest you. Do "meetups" or even online dating or take a class at the community college, etc.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:15 PM
2

goes back to finding the herbs or fruit in the woods, I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:21 PM
1

Don't forget that the deceiving part applies to themselves and not just others. Equal opportunity deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:19 PM
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read emotions on faces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:52 AM
1

yes...oompa loompas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:27 PM
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These debates are really at their best when there is more illumination on being somewhat chained to our sexuality. I know there are those who see the whole as a way to "game" the system and have more access to possible mates or LTR partners or sex buds and to sustain these possibilities, but it's not why I find them valuable. I like them because they tell me about the human condition. This is somewhat akin to knowing that meat is murder and still drooling over a hamburger; that there are dispara…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:49 PM
1

aha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:55 PM
1

sure. But you do see the dichotomy, do you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:46 PM
1

Have you ever seen "little man fever?" Talking the talk is not walking the walk. Acting as if one is competitive is only realized if one acts competently. Look at the guy who manages dunder mifflin. He's a buffoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:18 PM
1

you win autisma
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:13 PM
2

well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:41 AM
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my point is that choosing to call oneself a feminist is NOT a neutral state. You spout this stuff about "equality of the sexes" so why don't you call your selves "egalitarians?" "But women get the short end of the stick on....." Women have some difficulties with their treatment, I agree. But they basically have the same rights as men. Continue to recite me some pages from your encyclopedia britainica. The teacher gives you a B for effort. You are dancing around what you said and I called you on …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:30 AM
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Ha...laughable. Your claim is unfounded and then you say I'm off because some of your quote is not being referenced. I used a stretch of the truth to make my point easier to see. I know plenty of men and women that would also agree with THAT statement you added, including myself. But what a group purports to do and what it does, do not always coincide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:51 AM
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"Someone calling themselves" .... a ....Nazi.. "...is the same effectively, as someone calling themselves a Floridian or a tennis player. They could have lived in Florida for five months or their whole life; they could be Serena Williams or a fifteen year old who went to a birthday party that involved playing tennis one time." Do you really NOT understand that feminism is far from what it represented itself as 50 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:57 AM
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To answer your last sentence= The qualities that are labelled "toxic," such as bravado, aggressiveness, competitiveness...just happen to be winning hands for the men that possess them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:50 AM
2

The reality that "she's the prize but he isn't?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:34 AM
2

good points
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:45 PM
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Because my brothers will discover they impregnated reptiles from another planet. And also ...I'm not going to leave much inheritance to the children of couples who bothered to get together with me once in a decade. They disgust me.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 02:03 PM
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My brother's wives ratcheted their entitlements a few notches after they had now become ..MOTHERS. They hardly interact with my side of the family since then.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 11:28 AM
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Guys are the same in many respects. We all should know that 2 different parts of ourselves are battling it out when we think "trouble ahead." Everyone usually wants some predictability and utility when it comes to being a mate while also being intrigued by beauty or mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:33 AM
2

Here is her blog .... https://amyhorton.net/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 02:18 PM
1

Yeah, yayyyyy...freedom!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 02:16 PM
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her site. https://amyhorton.net/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 12:22 PM
3

here her flag gets taken down... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZrjQJntuBs
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 12:14 PM
1

Outsiders will say "get over it...not worth your time." But consider another perspective. 1. We are wired for mating. The brain's pleasure center is punched. 2. Your brain keeps us thinking about these people long after we rationally "know" its just hurting us. 3. The brain keeps score of how much time we spend obsessing and often we'll do things we know are bound to fail simply because the brain says "I put all this time in...what's it worth if not acted on? Get down to business." So any major …
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 01:27 AM
1

its january 1st...not april yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:15 AM
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But fat women don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:36 PM
3

I say the same about feminists who complain about MRA's. Look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:24 PM
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that works too.
/r/PussyPass31/12/18 05:38 PM
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Ugh...estrogen hell
/r/PussyPass31/12/18 09:25 AM
1

It might also be said that he's quite wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:21 AM
1

consider this difference: women can only give birth during a window of time vs a man. Both are looking for signs of good genes with this caveat: A woman's body has to be part "baby factory" (so that's a crucial period). A man looking at an older, post menopause woman might say "I can tell she was beautiful once...but so what? She might have good genes but the window is closed" while the woman might be more inclined to see a man of similar age and bite, since he's still capable of providing good …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:46 PM
2

"Dating" really includes more than the date. Much of it is "how the other sex interacts with me.etc" "Do I get attention?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:58 AM
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Not sure how old you are but...I'd take this as an opportunity to also learn more about the brain "on love." It sounds like you really had it for this girl and were on an endorphin high. Was she your first love?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:30 AM
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I recall having a Paraguayan gf while in the peace corps. The spinster neighbor told a friend, "You know what she does? She gets on the back of his bicycle and he pedals her down the path," as if it was scandalous. After that I started thinking about intrasexual competition as an arms race. I recall being somewhat pissed at jerks who slept around while I was like some altar boy and I suppose the spinster felt the same way. I imagined being a woman in a place with severe mores re sexuality who ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 10:27 PM
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Come now. This is your ideological bias. Everything on this suggests you are a woman and liberal feminist since the female villains are "victims of the ....PATRIARCHY."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 10:18 PM
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I see women post all kinds of sexy pics w/ revealing clothes and sultry looks and nothing else. " I want a keeper. Someone who loves me for my inner beauty. Tired of men messaging me for FWB and hookups ." ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/18 10:18 PM
2

"Are YOU strong enough, to be MY MAN?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/18 05:04 PM
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That makes perfect sense on it's face, but then why do people who bang 3 x a day break up a year later? My point being that it's understandable that finding out SO used to have more sex might seem like they settled w/ you in the attraction dept., BUT it's also quite possible that age,hormones, interacting meds, high stress work, etc. are really at the root of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 02:43 AM
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I guess I could have been married a few times but didn't. It used to be that divorced people were stigmatized. But I recall hearing that a gf's mom asked if I'd been married at 35. "No." ​ "what's the matter with him?" ​
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 02:25 AM
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Yes sexual assault - and other forms of cruelty are wrong. Between 2 and 8 percent of accusations in the US are proven to be false; while upwards towards 50 percent of accusations may, or may not be false; but do not go to trial due to lack of evidence. I'm glad to have these conversations. Anything that pushes our society towards being more caring and just seems good to me. Hopefully, sexual assault can be minimized, and in most western countries, the rates have dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:22 PM
1

citation svp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:16 PM
0

Then they will probably remain so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:45 AM
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money...money...money...support...money...career. Don't reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:05 AM
1

You are correct. I'm sure he wasn't a charmer. But I find the idea intriguing. I know I'm jaded too. I'm trying to think of someone fairly untalented who had throngs of women after them and the inverse. Help me out if you would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:49 AM
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yep. I'd also venture to say that "improvement" is somewhat misleading. There are lots of quality men (and women) who aren't chosen because of superficialities they cannot change. I find it funny that Van Gogh was mostly an unheard of, loner. His paintings now are some of the highest priced in the world. If he'd been rich and famous his doting harem might say "Oh he's just so creative and interesting." ...but take the money and status away... and he's a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 10:18 PM
1

ha...love it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 08:30 PM
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like Satan did on South Park.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 03:30 PM
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I have a 22 yr old niece with bpd. God she's a frustrating person to interact with. I used to think "Oh please...someday some guy will hitch up with her and then it's his problem." But now I think she ought to come with a warning label. I feel for any suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 04:08 AM
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https://www.theonion.com/if-im-so-crazy-then-why-do-people-keep-having-sex-with-1819584594
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 07:10 PM
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I agree with you. Knowing why tells us more about ourselves...or a segment of ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 03:21 AM
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what made it obvious she went w/ another guy? tldr
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 01:04 AM
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I'm 56. Never cheated. Good chance your hubby cheats if you go looking for gold. If you find him you'll have to compete with the other miners even after the ceremony. Don't fly too close to the sun lest those wax wings melt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:41 AM
1

...and that's winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 06:23 AM
9

kneeled for the pledge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/18 03:41 AM
9

My dick is 6-2...here's a pic
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 08:57 PM
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when I looked at the subscribers at 33k, I thought "wow...what a hate fest." It's a disguised forum to rid the gene pool of dead wood while still believing it's a virtuous -protector of damsels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:51 PM
3

Research suggests the human brain is geared more towards creating consensus than finding the truth. IOW, having group support > being factually correct. I'm male and still find females somewhat enigmatic. Example- I don't tend to give much power to reddit pts. I have posted all kinds of well thought out arguments to this and that on various forums. Usually there's little response. A week ago on xx chromosomes I ask the simple question "what is the difference between implicitly believed vs believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:06 PM
3

Yep....nuts is the new normal.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/12/18 07:38 AM
4

winning? winning more money?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:40 AM
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That "ownership" is male disposability. Nature is full of examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:42 AM
3

what sort of work?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:25 PM
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She's a warrior. She's battling common sense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 05:56 PM
2

Maybe because there's only a small sliver of very wealthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:22 AM
2

true. Id venture to say that many recreational drugs would not exist if it wasn't for the brain mechanisms that respond to pussy. I've seen men with addictions, and have to include it in the pantheon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/18 05:04 PM
2

I think the stigma against lying is not as great in some places there. Not that I have the highest opinion re/ honesty in my home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 06:19 AM
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Yes. S Americans are warmer but you don't know whether to believe some of the stuff they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:36 AM
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good question. It's hard to say. It's been 10 years since then. At first I was just red hot angry over the events. Time has softened the memory and I'm left sleeping most of the day away, so the medical condition is the winner. Thanks for asking.
/r/PussyPass16/12/18 01:07 AM
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What burns me up with this: I lost my career as a male jr hs teacher, mostly because a cabal of little girls pushed the idea that I was hitting on them. No. I wasn't fired. I resigned (which is what the district prefers). But not before I was driven to the point of a nervous breakdown and suicidal thoughts after a few years of it. I have narcolepsy and had severe arthritis in my left hip so I could hardly walk anymore. Getting an education with the narcolepsy was a day to day struggle. So...year…
/r/PussyPass15/12/18 09:54 PM
2

Validation for women is like sex for men...or close to it. Validation MEANS you are wanted and that indicates you will have a reasonable number of males to choose from and your security is more assured in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 11:57 PM
1

cool. I mean andy kaufman the comedian, won the worlds intergender wrestling champonship. Real strength of character, which is domain of both genders, is not as easy to write into a story vs someone physically kicking ass. Thanks for reference.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/18 11:21 PM
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I was being sarcastic. Its ridiculous how often you see women beating the hell out of men in movies, etc.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/18 08:34 PM
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I'm 56 now. I still remember my first love had dated Earl, a year behind me and on football team. I didnt play until senior year and there was Earl starting in front of me, even though I know I was was quite a bit quicker and had better skills. I used to hear her talk about him as a "football player" with this glow in her smile, and it irked the hell out of me since my team experience had been so irritating. When I finally said something about it she responded with the idea that I was a "nice gu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 07:44 PM
1

There's a zen to this. Do not get sucked into putting an inordinate amount of time into the first thing that gives you a boner. Put your eggs in the self basket and create interests and cultivate them-make yourself more interesting and attractive and see what starts to come your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 07:36 PM
45

BBBBBut I watch tv and see movies. That's not what happensssss to strong female leads.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/18 07:25 PM
2

5 ft 9 and 260 #. Doesn't understand why he's uninterested. The horror...the
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 06:23 AM
2

what the world revolves around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 04:51 AM
1

the hamster can drag a lot of its bedding with it when it gets on the wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 12:50 AM
1

pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 12:47 AM
2

Id think its often the root too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:25 PM
2

very smart ....for a duck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 08:06 AM
1

Lying to oneself frees one from confronting aspects of their personality or character that don't align with their self concept. There are certainly some dishonest, greedy, cruel people out there, but how many admit it to themselves? How many people run around rubbing their hands together and cackling "ha ha ha...I'm evil."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 06:25 AM
107

what gets me is that it's not the least bit funny or creative. Someone trying to get clicks and profit with least amount of effort.
/r/PussyPass12/12/18 02:56 PM
12

Karma- You were being used and you went forward despite knowing this man was taken. Get out now and ,learn. I sense your anxiety about being mate-less might play a role in having you hang onto to something you know will just create more suffering for all in the end.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 09:42 PM
1

May I quote you? I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:31 AM
1

Preach Buddha Preach!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:26 AM
17

Ive never heard this before...and yet...it's refreshingly familiar...for some reason.
/r/PussyPass10/12/18 01:36 PM
16

yes...it's evident that she's "very ambitious." as she describes herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/18 02:14 AM
5

this person seems like a bona fide narcissist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/18 01:11 AM
2

You bring up an interesting point. I know this may sound archaic and old testament- If the default sentiment re/ female sexuality is that its primary mode is based on the virtue of mutual affection and the building block to creating family and society, then a slut is someone who has forsaken this and profits materially from it instead. Now she is wielding it as some sort of tool for personal gain. A virgin who's a dick tease is somewhat similar in the sense that they are advertising their wares …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:45 PM
0

why this then...? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-bejeezus-out-me/201406/whats-really-behind-slut-shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:33 PM
6

she sounds like most guys....but most of them arent plastering it all over social media.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/12/18 02:50 PM
1

keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 06:00 PM
2

I suppose if you don't see the misogyny...you aren't a card carrying feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:49 PM
1

I think these guys are amused at how entitled and deluded these women are...despite having fewer options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:47 PM
2

I did. I don't see it as openly misogynist. I haven't seen anything showing rejection...yet. It's women asking for x y and z...and seemingly being oblivious to not offering much in return. ie. https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/a2rex8/she_has_old_school_values/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 02:07 PM
2

I used to tell my students that I couldn't lay a hand on them in any form...BUT I could bore the daylights out of them for an hour at a time. I know as a young man I'd have often preferred a smack over sitting through the drudgery. That is telling imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:41 PM
2

I taught in public schools for 2 decades. When I considered the breakdown of the family, I realized that it was essentially single mothers running the show. Some of my students seemed to have had little exposure to interacting with men...almost like feral children. The schools end up mirroring the values of these women, to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:39 PM
6

yeah... subscribers: nice guys 678 k vs where all the good men 19 k. 33 x more subscribers. But what I find interesting is that YOU have to add the last bit. You just couldn't help yourself....schadenfreude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:25 PM
3

I did write "have ever" vs saying this is the present demography. I suspect it is higher today but I don't know the present numbers. You tell me what it is then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:18 PM
2

If engineers made next to nothing and fast food workers made alot, I bet it would change. Follow the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:35 PM
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only 40 perc of men have ever procreated vs 80 for women. Men have always been the outliers and women are hypergamous. Nice guys, was partly a creation of women looking for a rationalization for rejecting the losers. The glee with which they chime in on the topic on reddit is telling. I doubt you'd see thousands of men doing a circle jerk over "fat chicks."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:19 AM
3

I think most of us have a switch that seems to go "on" when someone clicks with us. Face it- our body "wants" to feel love because it feels so good when it's returned. I even recall having my heart broke because a woman I had a crush on was moving away. First I thought "well...a year from now it won't hurt so bad as she fades from memory." But then I felt like I'd possibly even feel worse simply because being enchanted is soooo reinforcing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 02:53 AM
2

The opposite of a "slut" is not a slutty man. It's a "loser." Many women would rather breed with the slutty man so long as he is able to procure resources. The cuckold risks putting his time and energy into someone else's brood, while the wife of a "loser" risks losing everything if she follows him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:48 AM
1

What is it...1 in 20 of us are sociopaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 09:26 AM
3

Women are always sure where the baby comes from. Not men. You can call them uptight, but you don't share those concerns, in the same way. Funny to hear an advocate of promiscuity mentioning "red flags." True...The men who don't keep themselves pure but expect this from their partners ARE hypocrites just as women who call men "losers" for not having a lucrative occupation, while offering little more than a warm body, are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 01:49 AM
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I meant intrinsically: they don't seem to care as much about grades or pleasing adults, etc. If they do get interested, they can take it to the limit; but if not, they won't plod on the way many girls do. Granted, this is a big generalization. Yes..like role model(s). I think there is not enough of a critical mass of these at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:21 PM
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Not sure...I guess they tend to be more kinesthetic and boisterous, in general. It may be that they are more intrinsically motivated at that level whereas girls may be more emotionally mature and are better at delaying gratification. But socialization has such a big impact, Id suspect that one could move things in one direction or another by creating enough models that represent what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:53 PM
1

Mostly 7th. This was for a jr hs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:32 PM
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When I started teaching in the early 90's, the focus was on "how to help girls succeed." because their "needs weren't being met." Since then they've overtaken boys but I still never had any trainings on how to help boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 03:51 PM
3

I agree with "most." But as a man on plenty of fish, there are a reasonable share of them that request a man over 6" taller so she "can wear high heels."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 12:02 AM
7

How would you feel if someone was a huge glutton stuffing their face with chocolate bon bons most of the day? Maybe that's the way someone with a 50+ N count appears.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 02:29 AM
2

"Slut shaming" was an unheard term 40 years ago. Our culture seems bent on exorcising "shame" while touting "pride" and not realizing you can't know what pride is if you also don't know what shame entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 10:34 PM
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I don't think so. Interesting premise but men are more libidinal. Most women don't have to do too much to get a man off while they are younger. Many younger women don't even know what is going to help them reach O. So...does that mean that a man who doesn't orgmasm is that way due to a woman not being that good at sex? I don't hear that very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 10:13 PM
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Good point...although there HAS to be some link between behavior and societal norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:22 AM
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Im almost 60 and taught history. You're making some stretches there. People have almost always talked about sex when the time and place was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:20 AM
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So are you inferring that more draconian social consequences for unwed mothers created the dynamics for less promiscuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:42 PM
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yes...that is a true response to marriage in the "literal" sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:36 PM
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Yes...illegitimacy is still around 4 times higher than it was in 1970. But back to original premise re baby boomers choosing wrong partners- "Young people are having less sex than their parents, who were the sluttiest and most irresponsible spouse selectors in American history. That's a good thing. The last thing we need is another batch of baby boomers." Re sluttiest- Later generations are more accepting of promiscuity even if their number of partners has now returned to about the same levels a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:12 PM
1

Worst spouse selectors? Why is it that the divorce rate and single motherhood is higher now than 50 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:22 PM
1

Oh yeah. I've read him. Very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 01:44 AM
1

Let me fix it so you can understand. Yaweh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 01:29 AM
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please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 01:28 AM
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of course humans are animals but there are different facets of our character. The brain stem is very animal and is overlaid with more complex structures that make us more "human." Example- road rage can take a logical,rocket scientist to the point of trying to pursue and smack someone that cuts them off in traffic. Everyone who's experienced road rage knows there is a battle going on in their mind between the logical "ignore it, get on your way." and the more primeval and brutal urge to annihila…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 06:19 PM
3

Ahhh..."I am only advertising for the sexual attention of men I WANT to attract." You make it sound like a little modesty is just too much to ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:28 AM
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My personal experience as a "creep." I taught jr hs for 20 years. When I started as a cute 27 year old, I had occasional issues with students/parents but there was never anything close to what happened towards the end of my career as an out of shape, arthritic, aging, bald man. A cabal of girls and their mothers made my life hell the last few years. They used the "creep" stigma as a counter to receiving low grades or discipline...and they flaunted and gloated in my face on an almost weekly basis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 09:45 PM
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it was a joke to begin with. I think the whole highlights who does the choosing in the quest for sexual pairing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:59 PM
2

How would you propose we stop women from thinking someone is creepy? By being taller and more handsome... as well as rich and famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:50 PM
2

Please tell us how you would "restructure" things so that fewer "me too's" occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:14 PM
1

watch your dongle!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 02:41 AM
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Noted. I agree with most of what you say. However, people change for each other all the time. We have various components in our own psyche struggling against each other as it is. If someone wants to point out something off or devious in the other's behavior and can do it reasonably well, they might create some change in thinking. Recent example- I'm on a dating site and messaged a woman. We exchanged 3 or 4 short messages and then there was a lapse of a few days. I asked how her weekend went. "g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:56 PM
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Allegedely, 80 perc of females reproduce while 40 perc of males do..historically speaking. Men are the disposable sex and their success is a bit like throwing spaghetti at the wall to see what sticks. Women tend to be insular in cliques and groups (not that men are that different) and seem to find cohesiveness in their mutual disdain for the "losers." These losing outliers are the tribes "dead wood" who are not viewed as offering anything of value and therefore need to be expunged. So with enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 06:19 PM
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That's a cop out. We are vehicles for genes and the game is one of the ultimate reasons we struggle to live and find happiness. If the game is "love and sex," you're practically suggesting they "hate" a major reason for their continued existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 06:04 PM
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If you consider that the "unconditional love" many mothers bestow on their offspring, reeks of bias, you can see the root of "the hamster." I used to see it as a jr hs teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 01:02 PM
2

Jared Diamond says the move to monogamy came with the growth of agriculture , materialism, and the stratification of culture. Without that, there'd be too many young angry males who would wreck the project. It makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 12:46 PM
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I'm from near the Bay area...and I can relate. I am open and friendly, for the most part. I sometimes come across someone in that age range who seems like what you described. Sometimes I think "You seem to act as though a random communication between strangers of the opposite sex is sexual." I find such people to about as evolved as a cat in heat. On the other hand, it could be that they are sick of being picked up on, and that's their coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 05:17 AM
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I used to teach jr hs soc studies, etc. and it occurred to me that many of these kids had almost no adult male interaction during their preteens. This meant that it was woman who drove change in the elementary schools rather than both sexes. My classes were often interupted by students from the office bringing balloons and cards to whomever happened to have a birthday that day. If you wonder why our society increasingly churns out quasi-illiterate adults as effete sheep or toxicly angry males ra…
/r/MensRights15/08/18 11:11 PM
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When I was a teacher, I watched myself get accused of being a perv by students and parents as I became older and more wretched.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 01:55 PM
1

avg man is stronger than almost all women.
/r/MensRights29/07/18 04:52 AM
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Naturally there is some slippery slope, where inconsiderate people will try and use this as cover for their own callousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:25 PM
2

Thats' no woman...it's a dood
/r/MensRights11/07/18 01:19 PM
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This should be in more places than just r/MensRights.
/r/MensRights06/07/18 06:07 PM
3

maybe it trivializes picking the woman you despise the most and giving them your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 03:57 AM
1

Less men in college! True. But they are still the majority in the hard sciences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:32 PM
2

I suspect the difference between a loser and a mgtow loser is that the mgtow has consciously decided to stop attempting to find a woman's love or sex. So I suppose they are free of putting the investment into a losing venture. We're vehicles for genes, and most women will reproduce. The same can't be said for men. They know they are more expendable to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 06:32 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1OQl89ewXvc
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 06:12 AM
1

so clint eastwood couldnt be a chad?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 04:18 AM
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Perhaps because being treated attentively, triggers a response in her that says "he's being nice and trying to win my affection because he out of his league and desperate." She rejects him. When that doesnt occur...the kitty cat just has to find out why..."aren't I good enough?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 04:20 AM
3

yep...my two married brothers. Their wives run their lives. Disgustingly one sided.
/r/MensRights09/06/18 04:26 AM
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Have you considered the idea that you might be placing too much emphasis on the "highs" of mating? Yes...it is one of the most important decisions you ever make. But I get the feeling many people put too many of their eggs in the "coupling basket."
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 06:36 PM
1

I care. Unattractive people get shit on as it is. Superficial things mattering is reality so why blame it on "shit personality" when it was really about their physical appearance all along?
/r/MensRights27/05/18 05:37 AM
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Males are the disposable sex. Sperm is cheap. Only 40 perc of males who ever lived procreated. Female hypergamy and emotional irrationality is such that most men are invisible to women except for the one's that make them tingle.
/r/MensRights27/05/18 12:40 AM
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She's allowed to say all manner of things...whether she believes them or not. But I notice some people will find all kinds of reasons to match with pretty people despite their "shit personality," while the homely get ignored and rejected "due to their actions," when it's just cherry picking by someone who is not honest about their own superficial inclinations.
/r/MensRights27/05/18 12:36 AM
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Here's a thought...If you're an ugly ass neckbeard, a woman who thinks she's out of your league will say it was your shit personality.
/r/MensRights26/05/18 05:49 AM
1

Consider my sister in law. She withholds attention from people she wants to alienate. She never says a cross word...I'd prefer she punched instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 05:29 PM
1

By normalizing the idea that single mothers are simply another, acceptable version of a functioning family. It's about as normal as dining at the 7-11.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 05:21 PM
1

"It's pretty clear when someone wants or doesn't want to have sex. " I think it usually is clear...but i think it's more complex than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 12:52 AM
0

But the roots go back to single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:53 AM
2

Yep....it' s like hearing that "brilliant red roses and scarlet macaws make themselves beautiful for my eyes."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 08:44 AM
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men are nature's experiment....true...the spaghetti that gets thrown at the wall to see what sticks.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 04:47 AM
4

agreed. Maybe it applies to men as well, however it seems to me that there is a naive solipsism in many of the sorts of women who post the "where are the good men?" drivel, and only cherry pick the anecdotes that fit their infantile worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:20 PM
1

Yes...I suspect she's bpd. She mentioned she "went through hell" in one post re/ relationships with men and women, and then told me she was never abused. The only way I can imagine both of these to be true is that "hell" is what's going on inside her hamster wheel. Very strange and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 08:19 PM
1

well why bother reading or commenting on such a sub while simultaneously making it clear you have no need for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 01:11 AM
1

Hmm...I didn't realize this was a misogynist sub. Furthermore I don't say anything or respond to anything remotely close to "banging sluts." Matter of fact I hate that sort of predatory behavior. As for my cliches- Cliches exist because they describe something common/popular. You can do what you want with what I say. But notice how you seem to go for some sort of deflation of my self esteem...obviously I'm dense, inarticulate, unoriginal...and "unworthy of a woman's love"-ala your sarcastic "god…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 01:02 AM
1

sorry but some of this just doesnt make sense- a woman who basically dislikes men as a group, AND spends her time discussing relationships between the sexes, BUT wasn't abused while HOLDING tightly to a mantra as harsh as "no one gets a free pass...no one gets a second chance." The current bitterness may feel better than having trusted and being burned but I doubt most would call it "liberating." Perhaps there were "daddy" issues, and that explains no memory of abuse, etc. I dunno. Wish you the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 12:29 AM
1

It's simple deduction. You aren't avoiding males by being on the forum. You get right down to brass tacks re/ your issues with them. I'm not even suggesting you "give men a try." I've met my share of asshole men...and women. The difference is usually the way their motives and lack of consideration plays out. The other dynamic is that it's much different being a friend from being a romantic partner. We ask things of the opposite sex, we wouldn't ask from any of our friends, and therefore there is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 11:49 PM
1

Sure...tell yourself that. It's obvious because THIS is what you spend your time doing. You allocate a portion of your days to these particular types of forums instead of volunteering at the animal shelter (because you like to think of kittens and bunnies), and then your harsh angry, scorched earth, tone sticks out like a wart on someone's face as you blather "I don't care." to every passer by. You care so much about sisters and their "marginalization?" Why don't you start an all women... anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 07:50 PM
1

You know nothing about my occupation, talents or inclinations. I'm sorry you are so full of anger at men. It's so obvious that you yearn for that missing part of union because you hang out on this forum spouting such overflowing black disdain. I am disgusted by people that use each other or perpetuate cruelty, and I assure you men don't have a monopoly on it. If you need to hate read because that's what's in your empty heart, I can understand. I hope it can heal in time. You will know you are he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 07:13 PM
1

I can assure you I don't believe I'm a catch. Do you understand conjecture? Funny that you can blame men for bringing the mess into the world using tech made by men, in a dwelling made by men, etc. You ate some of the apple too, eve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 07:35 AM
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True...they are "choices," but choice is somewhat misleading as it appears to be on the other side of the "choice/ no choice" polemic. Anyway, I do agree that if a man complains that he can't find a mate because he chose to be a low paid nursery school teacher, he is not much different than a female who complains about the wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 10:39 PM
1

A man will partner up with a woman who might be a rocket scientist or a barrista at starbuck's. Many women will not consider doing the same if the man makes coffee for people, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 09:41 PM
1

ha...."the mess?" What a joke. We'd still be living in little mud huts without men. Men built the world and its mess for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 09:37 PM
2

Been saying this awhile. A "nice guy" is somewhat akin to "loser." He is considered a bad investement as a partner because his weakness will leave his children vulnerable. The other side of this is the female "slut" because her lack of faithfulness might mean her male partner is supporting a child that is not adequately cared for or not even his.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 09:29 PM
2

Like saying "Do NOT Milk a cow with 4 teats."
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 08:01 AM
1

fell out of love AFTER having spent some time with this other guy. Funny, how that occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:44 AM
3

yep...consider that women can be as much of a drug as heroin. Afterall, opiates are just mimicking what your physiology already does, and getting hooked on some girl is a prime example of where the body goes into rapture.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 06:21 AM
2

a research experiment was done where an unusual looking male mouse was female bait. They (somehow) manipulated the females into thinking all the other chick mice liked him. What do you know? They all wanted the weird guy...maybe that explains how some of these goobs in boy bands became so sought after.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 06:11 AM
5

She sounds toxic to begin with. I doubt anything of lasting value would come from rekindling anything. Sounds like you can move on too.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 05:59 AM
1

These truisms above are overly simplistic imo. We are individuals and part of society at the same time. It is fairly abnormal NOT to care at all what others think. I suspect this is very true for females who were traditionally burdened with offspring and depended more on the group for survival than some rogue male. Feeling like we belong somewhere where we are accepted or have fairly like minded associates is evident by all the political conflict that occurs between the left and right- because i…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/17 05:06 AM
1

Last night he finally said I should meet him at his house in his city and we could watch movies etc. I, however, don't want to meet him in his house and possibly hook up with him and get put into the casual zone. " He likes you enough to drive to your vicinity. Why shouldn't you do the same? If you have the will to not "hook up," and keep it pg, I'd think things were moving in a positive direction.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/17 04:59 AM
2

yes....Maybe alot of this is about "poor boundaries."Sorry to hear you had t o go through this. I won't blame it all on females, but they played a reasonable role in breaking me as a person, when I taught. I wish I had never been exposed to such dishonesty, vindictiveness and casual cruelty.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 09:50 AM
2

My mom was not typical imo. But I attempted to teach in those female dominated spaces- and hated it. I should have framed my assertion more contextually. I agree that many of these mothers treat their own role as mentor and nurturer as a passing fad. I was thinking specifically about all the times their precious cargo made problems in my classroom and then attempted to weasel out when the consequences arrived. All of a sudden,mommy was the champion of her angel that could do no wrong. That's whe…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 07:29 AM
2

and did you know that historically, only 40 percent of males ever reproduced vs 80 perc for females. I believe nature experiments most with males given they have the broken X chromosome and tend to fill out the extreme ends of the bell curve for intelligence.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 05:54 AM
5

yes...essentially, men have worked themselves out of a job. Most women in the US take their safety and security for granted. That is apparent when their crusades focus on catcalling and manspreading. I agree.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 05:51 AM
6

I can agree on some of this. I've had my share of lumps from lying females. Christ..I was a jr hs teacher and watched a little cabal of bitches ruin my career with the "teacher is a perv" rumors. I do think the pendulum has swung too far to one side. My "pregnant and discarded" was meant to imply historically...These days things are different.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 05:52 PM
2

yes...and that is why monogamy became the norm in agricultural societies. Otherwise, there was going to be chaos.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 02:31 PM
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There is a middle ground or something closer to it then this machiavellian, pig rut contest that's bandied about. I have met a few women that had similar interests, but I can relate to what you say. People are multifaceted and their is commonality between the sexes even if their genetic strategies are not parallels. Read "the red queen" by matt ridley, perhaps. Understanding that all living organisms are vehicles for genes and we're stuck for the ride, is a useful template imo.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 02:11 PM
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Generalizing-men offer support...women offer their bodies. Women get lied to and become pregnant and then discarded. It's ugly at the bottom.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 01:53 PM
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I agree with you on this, and I will expand a bit. Everyone with any introspection knows there are different facets to our nature...or maybe "natures" is more apt. It did occur to me that being the bearer of children- and having to stick by this, often crappy little thing for 15 or so years, perhaps makes women more inclined to "self delusion" and rationalization than men. I think that many of the worst one's truly believe their own shit, and can spin it anyway possible to continue the travesty.…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 05:24 AM
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I understand what you mean by "nature," but keep in mind that there is usually a struggle that goes on inside us. There would probably be a lot more violence and cruelty if we didn't rise above our baser nature. My point is that we should attempt to integrate the 2 sides of ourselves for own sake as well as society's.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 01:32 AM
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You assume alot. How would you know "they think just as deeply" as I do? You are really omniscient.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 01:17 AM
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People on here will use the tern "hate" when perhaps "anger" is more appropriate. "Hate" is an especially loaded term. And if one is angry about something, it can be a motivating force. It might be part of the process involved that opens one's eyes to what is going on under the surface. Frankly, I am happy to say that I couldn't give a rat's ass for what some of these shallow women do, except feel somewhat alienated from the general population. And...that includes shallow men as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 09:56 PM
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a surprise? to someone playing the part in the world's oldest profession. Females were doing this long before we were even humans.
/r/MGTOW28/03/17 07:00 AM
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ugh...idiot is immune from seeing her own hypocrisy
/r/MGTOW28/03/17 06:57 AM
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Her tone changed when she found out he wasn't as repentant as she'd expected.
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