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that looks interesting. sauce?
/r/seduction27/07/14 05:28 PM
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He is giving social value to people by genuinely interacting in people around them and care about their life and story. In return, he is attracting more people, not just girls. With more people around him, he made himself more valuable. This is a good lesson to learn. Be interested in other people's lives.
/r/seduction14/11/13 11:27 PM
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thanks for this insightful post.
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:08 PM
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apologize for bring that up.
/r/seduction17/08/12 09:27 PM
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I am shy and get tongue tied when I'm around attractive girls. I had fear about getting rejected and they don't like me. But you know what? I rare occurs. I'm being more active and outgoing doing things I enjoy. I met different girls and that fear is subsiding. I talked and joked around with them. Even when I get rejected, it doesn't really sting as bad as I thought it would be. Try not to live your life in other people's standard. Set a better or maybe different standard for yourself. It's live…
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:43 PM
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congrats on going out of your comfort zone and trying to meet people. there's no way to avoid the awkwardness but you can feel less awkward by separating your ego from your self. Your ego is always trying to "protect" the self. When you got the feeling of hesitations, just reply your ego with "Really?" About your walk: If you know you're going to see the person again, you can use some situational humor. Tell them you're trying to walk around the world. Every time you past by them, tell them how …
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:21 PM
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Just like what the Mythbusters said, "Failure is always an option."
/r/seduction31/05/12 07:45 PM
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From what you're saying, PUA literature are just references for troubleshooting your mistakes. It gives you alternative fixes for your problems. Important thing is still going out and try.
/r/seduction10/10/11 08:04 PM
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Approach guys and give them compliments about some unique items they have on. Both men and women always want affirmation and approval. Say something like cool watch, nice shoes, what is that? Men thinks the same way too about being judged. Don't go in to an interaction thinking you're being judged. You will act defensive. Don't mind too much about the outcome. You are there to be your bubbly self. Smile more would help too.
/r/seduction08/10/11 05:51 PM
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Good story mate! Since you're not outcome dependent, you're more relaxed and you're having a good time. Those are some attractive traits. Keep it up!
/r/seduction08/10/11 05:25 PM
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If you don't think anything will come of this, at lease you know what caliber of girls you can attract. Gaining experience and confidence sure helps. But it never hurt to text her. You can tell her to add you on facebook and keep in touch.
/r/seduction03/10/11 08:18 PM
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you guys have a lot in common and are comfortable around each other. it sounds like you are falling in to the friend zone. [it's never hurt to have her as your wing] try to create some sparks between you two. with the brownies threads you have for example, you can tease her by telling her that she have to earn her brownie points. how you want her to earn it is up to you but be fun and creative. girls dig that kind of stuffs. good luck with everything
/r/seduction23/09/11 08:48 AM
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"Being your best self" is a better way of putting it. It helps and pushes to be a better me.
/r/seduction19/08/11 08:52 PM
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If a bunch of guys talk to the girl, the girl might get choice fatique and wind up making no choice at all. It's also tough for a girl to be right out to say no to suitors. These former suitors are just floaters to these girls.
/r/seduction25/07/11 07:46 PM
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Don't look down on yourself. Maybe that's a reason you lack confidence and selling yourself short. Your situation opener sounds a little negative. Remember, you can have the best opener in the world but if you can't transition it to peak the girl's interest in you, it's useless. For example: After you said "Did I get ripped off?" Don't wait for their reply with a yes or no. You can follow that up with your comparison of taxi services in other countries you've been. BTW, I'm planning to go to HK …
/r/seduction14/07/11 06:18 AM
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I got a chance to watch DJ Fuji's lecture on pickup. He describes how bars/clubs are just an illusion and you're just out to practice your skills. So don't take it too seriously. Just relax and have fun. The girls you approach will feel your positivity be be positive to you in return. Seriously, if you approach a girl nicely with a "Hi, my name is Sithyiscool," She wouldn't be rude to your in return. If she's rude to you, that's not a girl you want to spend any time with. Just watch the DJ Fuji'…
/r/seduction27/06/11 11:31 PM
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Don't get too goal orientated. That's why you're feeling desperate. Reddit linked me to a 3 hour lecture video from DJ Fuji. Other than the game, he stresses about checking your ego at the door and these bars/clubs are just an illusion. The first night I went out after watching the video, I applied some of DJ Fuji's ideas and it actually helped. I no longer worry about if the sets like me or not. I worry more about if I'm having fun or not. The result of the night was a few #Close. I also can't …
/r/seduction27/06/11 10:29 PM
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Usually Asian girls are in a large mixed groups. It's difficult to approach the girls directly. Try to chat up with these "just as friends" guys with some guy talk. Do the opinion opener with the guys about whether your friend should get a luxury car or a sport car. Asian guys like to talk about cars and their performance. Then tell these guys you want to get a female aesthetic opinion about it. Once you befriended a guy in the group and got introduced to the girls from their friends, you can ju…
/r/seduction17/06/11 05:55 PM
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Dog is like the one interesting item Mystery preaches. If a girl asks you for the dog's name before asking for your name, I think you're getting beta by the dog. Don't get a dog just because you think it'll help you get girls. Get a dog because you love it as a companion. A girl will be more attracted to your passion for your dog then your dog. That right there is a good frame to set. BTW, What are you studying in Calpoly? Arch Alumni Here. Go Mustangs!
/r/seduction11/03/11 09:46 PM
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You should have Eye of the Tiger blasting as you're trying to psych yourself to get your look
/r/seduction06/02/11 05:25 AM
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i think they gonna keep okcupid free BUT only match.com subscriber will get the premium content. they might just restrict the the usage of freeloaders.
/r/seduction02/02/11 05:58 PM
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Good FR. Glad you gained some confidence and insight about who to approach. The racial barrier can create a huge AA for asians but it's mostly social.
/r/seduction01/02/11 08:53 PM
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Good point regarding transition. There's no perfect opener but we have to find our own openers that we can transition to a DHV conversation. It doesn't do you any good to search for that perfect opener but just to go out and work on your transitions. Sure, a good opener does diminish AA but poor transition leads to awkward silence.
/r/seduction06/12/10 12:55 AM
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I like your advice about defining our boundaries and edges. We often are so unsure about them in relationships. If one side of the relationship defines it, the other side can react to it. Good tip!
/r/seduction05/12/10 02:06 AM
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you can play it off by complimenting her dancing skills and giving her couple of dance swirls.
/r/seduction01/12/10 07:37 PM
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