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opinden/r/seduction28/11/19 03:56 AM
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Yhea I'm pretty outgoing, been at the same gym for a few years now so I know heaps of people there.
/r/seduction28/11/19 06:53 AM
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That's mad bro, well done. Thanks for the tips aswell.
/r/seduction28/11/19 06:52 AM
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I will bitch
/r/seduction28/11/19 06:50 AM
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This 100% OP
/r/askTRP20/11/19 12:51 AM
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This is the exact reason why I've been avoiding LTR'S latley, these bitches really ain't shit dude. Always remember AWALT. Try not to rationalise everything, it'll make you insane. Time to go monk mode and work on yourself. All the best my bro.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:32 AM
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Introduce yourself and ask for her name, talk about the subject (homework, assignments ect), ask if she wants to hang out / study together.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 11:34 PM
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Straight facts bro
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:30 AM
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+1. Highly recommend this book.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 11:52 PM
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Nice bro, keep it up. If she texts back that's cool, if not there's plenty more around. Good job brother.
/r/seduction01/10/19 12:19 AM
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TaySocial on YouTube
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:48 PM
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Been there and done that OP, enough drama for a life time. This shit will never end.
/r/seduction27/09/19 05:55 AM
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OP and all you other phaggots listen to this man, he's dropping knowledge.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:44 AM
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+1
/r/askTRP05/09/19 09:24 AM
1

Vetting is a waste of time? No worries let me just LTR a heroin addict stripper with daddy issues.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:47 AM
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"I'm not going to be your snapchat/instagram orbiter", this has worked numerous times for me.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:20 AM
0

Wait for her to text you. If she doesn't text you, message her a few days before you want to meet. "hey, you free on xx to go for dinner".
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:14 AM
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Agreed. The happier and more complete a woman is, the easier your relationship will be. Implimenting TRP in relationships like this will be effortless.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:03 AM
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Agreed. If he's looking for LTR material this is not the girl. Shes a plate, FWB at most.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 12:21 PM
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Codependency, trauma bonds, fear of being alone ect..
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:02 PM
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Take your time next time man, no rush. She seems to like you a lot. Play it cool next time you see her and ask her out again in person. Go for dinner, arcade or mini golf. Have some fun with her and she'll slowly work up to you.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 08:00 AM
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Daddy issues not even once OP, enough drama for a life time.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 05:52 AM
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She's projecting OP, keep your eyes open.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 11:30 AM
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OP please walk away from this chick. She's a plate at best. Sex should be effortless and fun with a chick. Never ever LTR a woman that uses sex as a weapon. If she doesn't enjoy sex now, she never will. It never gets better, it only gets worse. In 1 years time you will resent her for being a manipulating, self-concious starfish in bed. Been there, done that, never ever again will I LTR a woman who hates sex.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:58 PM
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Trust your gut.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:55 PM
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Mate, you summed it up perfectly. OP and all you other Gents on this page read this over and over.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:00 AM
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Good list man, would like to expand a bit on your final point. If sex is terrible at the start of the relationship (she's insecure, sex with clothes on, lights off, covers her tummy ect...) it's highly unlikely this will change regardless of how comfortable you are with her. Prudish girls most likely have an abuse history (physical, mental or sexual). Things will NOT get better.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:44 AM
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Stay home if your family is tolerable. I'm lucky enough to have a great family that doesn't ask me for rent or any amount of money, the only thing they ask of me is to focus on my studies. Living with my parents has allowed me to save a decent amount of money and not stress over having to pay rent, buy groceries or cook meals. They even let my ex LTR stay over as much as she wanted no problems.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:54 AM
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If you're wanting consent from her, don't ask if you can kiss her, simply tell her "you should hurry up and kiss me already."
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:47 AM
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OP you're nervous asf BEFORE you've even pumped her ass full of cum. Imagine how nervous you'll be AFTER you've done it. Wrap your lil man up homie, not worth the headache.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 07:26 AM
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This OP.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 07:19 AM
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+1. Hurts but it's the truth homies.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:21 AM
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Fuck what others think. I'd be down for it.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 12:09 PM
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Don't fucking do it bro, the feels might come back. She's probably seeking validation anyway and will leave your ass on seen after a few messages.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:47 AM
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+1 for the cold water. Also get a good exfoliating lotion and always moisturise.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:01 AM
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All the girls I've been with have always let me smash while on their period. Have you made her feel self concious about the blood?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:49 PM
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Straight out facts bro
/r/askTRP20/07/19 05:13 AM
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https://sharischreiber.com/borderline-waifs-and-unsung-heroes/
/r/askTRP20/07/19 02:04 AM
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Cluster B personalities stem from childhood trauma. You can't replicate it. Sure you can become a piece of shit who treats others like crap, but you'll never develop a personality disorder unless you've experienced poor attachment with your caregiver or childhood trauma.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:53 AM
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Most likely a BPD waif. You basically described my ex minus the MDMA part. Also, when people tell you who they are, believe them. She's telling you exactly who she is, it's her warning to you.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:39 AM
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OP listen to this man. It's a bottomless pit that never ends. You'll be constantly giving her validation and the clock will reset every few hours. Happienes comes from within, not from others. Pump and dump, don't LTR.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:29 AM
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Been there, done that. Walk away. Don't be her emotional punching bag, it won't end well for you.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:03 AM
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You're 20 and you're approaching girls and getting dates already? You're the man dude. Big props to you. Who gives a Fuck what threw her off. Keep doing what you're doing man.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:25 AM
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This 100%
/r/askTRP06/07/19 02:15 AM
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Great response bro
/r/askTRP03/07/19 12:41 PM
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"can't wait to see you on xx, you'll have to keep missing me till then"
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:14 PM
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This. Don't shoot yourself in the leg OP. Always wrap up regardless.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 08:06 AM
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Dude she's your Gf... Not some slutty plate that you pump and dump. Would it kill you to reach out to her every now and then to make her feel appreciated?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 10:28 AM
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It's still too early to have vetted her correctly. It sounds like you're already in the honeymoon stage without even being official. Take the Rose coloured glasses off and see the situation for what it is. I highly recommend reading/listening to Dr Shawn T Smith's book: The tactical guide to women. This will help you vet her correctly.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:02 AM
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Exactly this OP. Most girls on tinder need you to build rapport before they meet a random dude off the internet. Depending on your location, most girls on tinder may be looking for either hookups or LTR's. Where I live most girls are looking for LTR's on tinder.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:43 AM
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She's projecting OP. keep your eyes open.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:40 AM
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I've been in a similar situation my dude. If she's only been with one other guy then you need to understand that all this dating stuff is extremely new to her aswell. You mentioned she's shy, take it slow and keep doing what you're doing, if she's interested she'll make it easy for you. My biggest tip would be to not come off as being sexually aggressive with a girl like this, some girls get turned off by guys who give off the only wanting sex vibe, when she's ready she'll let you know. Take it …
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:37 AM
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I really don't think all women are like this... I really believe that if she's healthy, happy and secure with herself then she won't have orbiters around. Orbiters are very common around chicks with cluster B personalities though, this is due to the subconscious fear of abandonment. They're so used to people leaving them that they subconsciously believe all relationships will end and they can't ever be alone which is why they'll always keep orbiters around so they can slide into a relationship s…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:01 AM
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"she wishes"
/r/askTRP28/06/19 10:52 AM
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Don't fuck up a good thing. If she's putting out, green flags, loves you, respects you ect stay faithful in the relationship. Good women are hard to come by, look at this sub. Talking from experience, if you're having sexual thoughts about other women they won't go away. The longer you're in this relationship the more you'll lust for other women, we always want what we can't have. If you were to break up with your girl, bang a few chicks I guarantee you'll begin to lust for her again. Stay in th…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:46 AM
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Let it all out bro, I guarantee almost all the dudes in this sub have felt the way you're feeling. I know I did. You gotta feel it to heal it. It takes time but things really do get better. It's a really emotional time right now, best thing to do is honestly go NC. She might come back, or she might not and you need to accept that. PM me if you need to talk more bro.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:36 AM
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Low self-esteem is a bottomless pit. It never fucking ends. Dealt with it for two years. I had to deal with her saying shit like "omg I'm so ugly", "omg I'm so dumb" ect... It never ends and frankly it's the biggest turn off. Do not LTR this woman unless you feel like being a tape recorder and constantly handing out validation to make her have any self-worth. When we broke up she hit me with "you don't make me feel beautiful anymore", like my sole purpose of the relationship was to make her feel…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 02:50 AM
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Anyone got a link to an audio version?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 02:45 AM
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Don't be silly and wrap your willy. Regardless of her going on the pill.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:25 AM
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BPD is the spirit of Satan. Pump and dump and run far far away. Was in a LTR for 2 years with one, Jesus worst experience of my life. They're perfect for a long time, but once they split you black it's the biggest mind fuck, she will destroy your soul.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:05 AM
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All about the mindset my bro, keep lifting and staying on your purpose.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:26 PM
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