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| 0 | [FR] #-Closed the BartenderI stopped reading once I read that the bartender was asking about him to his friend. Hahaha. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Worst Date. Of. All. Time. (Advice?)Generally speaking it's not a good idea to pay for things. There are exceptions, but generally it's a way to lose value very quickly. Think of it like a rich kid paying for things for his friends, would they be his friend if he didn't buy those things? It can indicate that your presence or charm or alpha status isn't good enough on its own and you need to supplement it with gifts to get laid. Never buy a drink for a girl who asks for it, I almost never offer to buy a drink for a girl at a bar (s… | /r/seduction | 05/02/14 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Worst Date. Of. All. Time. (Advice?)I think you're getting down voted because of the paying for everything part. That is supplication. | /r/seduction | 05/02/14 03:27 PM |
| 2 | OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further?It's a logistics question. Don't ask if she's free, ask what she's doing, if she has to get up early it lowers your chances of a close. Always ask: Who are you here with? Where do you live? What are you doing tomorrow? | /r/seduction | 27/01/14 06:11 PM |
| 3 | OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further?That's actually how I generally consider a make out. If it happens on the dance floor or near the bar, rather, out in the open for everyone to see, I usually just move on. Especially if it's around her friends, they will kill your game really quickly. If I come across her again later, great, if not, who cares? I generally only makeout/escalate in seclusion somewhere rather than out in the open. Pull her to somewhere her friends won't see you escalate and you can kiss/push/pull/push to build tens… | /r/seduction | 27/01/14 05:02 AM |
| 3 | OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further?I agree with you, it does depend. Generally, as long as you continue with push/pull, it's fine. Push/pull is what builds the tension, not the make out. So in my opinion if you are going for the full on make out, ALWAYS be the first to break the kiss-- this is just harder to do with a really hot girl. | /r/seduction | 27/01/14 01:37 AM |
| 25 | OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further?You'll probably get downvoted for this but I tend to agree in most situations with a hot chick (hotter than an 8). A small/short kiss is okay, but a full on make out generally leads to LMR/a blow-out if you're going for the f-close on the same night. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 07:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How I Escaped the Friend ZoneTruth. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 05:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How I Escaped the Friend ZoneWell considering how sorry this sub has become the last year I'm assuming everyone is upvoting this as a prime example of how NOT to behave. That or everyone here has become a chump. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 05:19 PM |
| 3 | How I ask girls outIn my experience it has worked on everything from college aged girls to women in their early 40s, it's a universality and I think that's why most of the community (not necessarily /r/seduction) takes it as gospel. | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 04:15 PM |
| 5 | How I ask girls outYou had a great write up and I agree with most of what you said, but at my age (29) I stopped asking girls out a long time ago. I'm glad you've progressed a lot and understand the psychological underpinnings of attraction and seduction, I just wonder why you would ever frame anything like a question instead of a command. I learned that quite some time ago and it has served me very well over the last few years for several reasons: 1) It shows you are leading. 2) It gives little room for a girl to… | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 04:13 PM |
| 4 | How I ask girls outHow old are you? | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 03:58 PM |
| 2 | How I ask girls outThis is great and all but I can't be bothered. How about instead of ASKING a girl out, you say something like. "Hey I'm going to this thing, it's awesome, you want to be awesome, come join me." Effectively, make it a command instead of a question. If she says she's busy, you didn't get blown off. You try again after building some more attraction. "Let's go to the beach this weekend, have a few drinks." You notice how you said "When are you free?" and she didn't respond, and then you said "Let's … | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Quote from Home Alone 2I'm with you man, what the hell is going on in this sub? Hahaha. | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 05:31 PM |
| 23 | How to start the Tinder-dateGreen light? Who looks for a green light? Don't look for a green light. Look for the absence of a red light. In other words, escalate accordingly. | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 05:14 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I agree with this partly, but try to convince her emotionally, not logically. And afterwards, I'd frame it like it was something that happened once, and that it was a mistake, and it'll never happen again. It always happens again. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 07:30 PM |
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