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oprahsghost/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:08 PM
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Yes this is normal. This becomes abnormal if she begins meeting up for drinks or displaying strange behavior like locking her phone when you're around or hiding things. Then it's worth at least asking about or looking into.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:31 PM
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The only correct response here lol. Congrats OP on cheating on your GF because a bunch of 17 yr old internet stranger's terrible dating philosophy encouraged you. Do your GF a favor and break up with her so she can have sex with other people.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:29 PM
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Bear in mind that having a cold looks like weakness. Best to tell her something came up than show you are ill. Imagine being so insecure you have to lie about having a cold.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 06:58 PM
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Having feelings for someone doesn't make you a "beta faggot" If you can't make amends to make a LTR work with your ex then it would be healthy to move on for good. I'd imagine you are in a state of limbo right now seeing other girls and thinking there is some opportunity with your current ex.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:07 PM
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Weird place to ask this kind of question. Not sure what answer you want. This will get downvoted here but to increase her confidence tell her she looks good in xyz clothes or that the bag looks great on her. Don't have to go overboard.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 04:21 PM
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This makes the most sense to me. Thanks for the response.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 12:52 AM
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What did you do for the two days that she cleaned your place and blew you? Like specifically?
/r/askTRP26/06/16 09:12 PM
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OP there is some absolute shit advice in this thread. Anyone giving you things to say is a culprit. No one can tell you what to say for the actual reasons to respond to her. Apex9 had good advice. Your young. If you like her and see a future together then enjoy the ride and stop stressing.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:07 AM
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Mistakes happen. As long as she's not inviting you over and ignoring you routinely I'd let it slide... Sounds like some basic miscommunication. You guys should hang out if you really want to. Sounds like she tried to make it work but had a derpy moment.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:03 AM
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Personally I'd give it a couple more dates max. Don't sweat it though. Keep talking to other girls. Raise/show off your SMV and keep the idea in her mind you can leave at any moment. If she doesn't care then she doesn't care and you can move on in peace. Otherwise she will probably have sex to keep you.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 09:10 PM
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Just another/easier way to communicate sometimes. From my experience some girls don't go on the app all day, are planning to delete it, or only use it on wifi. So texting/calling is more convenient.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:12 AM
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So you're saying she cancelled for the date you had planned (from the original post)? Did SHE reschedule the plan? If she did and said, "oh sorry family emergency can we do tomorrow at this time" then that's alright. If you had to bring up another date then I'd say it's best to move on. That's a lot of cancellations and at this point a bit annoying. Regardless I'd probably start to be a bit more busy if I were you and maybe move on to other girls as she seems a little occupied regardless of the …
/r/askTRP21/05/16 08:32 PM
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Depends on the excuse. A lot of ppl here seem to see things in black and white. i.e. she made an excuse = she's not into you/she's sucking chad's dick. You didn't mention what her excuses have been. Could be that she's busy with work. Had to study, already had plans. Granted a girl who is actually interested will usually cancel or arrange to meet you despite obstacles I still don't believe her not making a couple of dates means she's over it or something. Just feel it out. If she gives a kind of…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:57 PM
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Yes text her tonight with the plans for what you guys are doing tomorrow. Lead her. "I'll pick you up at 6pm tomorrow for dinner!" This shows you are on your shit and doesn't give her an excuse to bail. I'm sorry but texting an hour before isn't a good look. A girl is gonna wonder if you forgot (not a bad thing) but then it will turn into (is he retarded?) if you don't even follow up about plans YOU made. The text an hour before is also a good out for her if she wants to bail. "Oh I thought you …
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:24 PM
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How long has it been since you texted her last? Maybe give her some more time to respond before doubling down?
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:19 PM
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Sure. In other words don't get into a LTR because you can't stand the thought of her having sex with other guys and you simply want to have her for yourself. A LTR means she will be treating you like a boyfriend which means she'll get upset at boyfriend related problems. These are a lot of things you won't want to put up with because you don't even like her in the first place. If you actually do like her, she's cool/fun to hang out with, smart, you guys get a long great/good chemistry (and becau…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 01:59 PM
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Others on this sub (and on the sidebar) can explain better but essentially your mission is what your main focus is in life. So like your career, your family, being successful. I interpret it as doing what makes you happy but also being productive. Smoking weed and playing video games might make you happy but it's not a path for a fulfilling or happy life long term. The basic idea of what this sub teaches is... Live a successful life and women will be attracted to it/you. Note you aren't doing an…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:59 AM
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It takes time and can't really be forced. You have to kind of "learn" it for yourself if that makes sense. Might be her proving to you that it was just your turn. And the next girl you look to have a LTR with won't be a big deal because you learned your lesson and you're focused on your mission. Personally, I try to focus on things that make me happy and also my mission. It helps kind of put the LTR in it's place of importance in the grand scheme of things in your life.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 01:48 AM
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Humans have emotions. Guys and girls. Everyone processes them differently. Personally, I've gone the route you're going in that I dated a girl who was most likely fucking other guys and I got the oneitis. It happens. Ask yourself why you feel this way. Do you feel threatened by other guys? Do you like her or do you just not want her fucking other guys? That's an important one. Suppressing your emotions isn't a long term solution. That's a good way to be in a therapist's chair in 10 years. Consta…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 08:04 PM
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Sorry but I've got to call bullshit. If you approach a girl, aren't trying anything and she starts talking about her boyfriend to you she's trying to say "don't try anything" in a round about way. There are many ways girls try to make themselves attractive but telling a potential guy she could sleep with that she's taken is not one of them.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 09:29 PM
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You sure do get to the point here. OP it is true. It's an excuse because you can lose weight and still lift. If anything you'll gain experience and set up a nice base for when you decide to bulk. Do the starting strength program. It's for beginners and helps you create a good foundation for a hypertrophy program later on. Basically build strength now and size later.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:21 PM
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Like others have said, this guy will make his own decision. I have a friend who ended up marrying a complete bitch who was controlling and manipulative. Me and his other best friend sat down with him and talked about why he had a shotgun wedding and brought up reasons why it didn't seem healthy and he was just in too deep to see the truth. Your friend could hear the most well put together argument from the greatest team of debaters in the world but it won't change his decision even if he knows h…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:18 PM
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Told a girl I didn't want to be exclusive after a few times having sex. She said "me either" but expressed concern because she didn't want me to "feel like I could just choose who I wanted to have sex with whenever I felt like it" I simply replied, "you can too." She said good point and all was well.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:07 PM
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I don't think being alpha really means you need to be a dick/asshole at all. Being alpha can mean you're a guy who attracts girls because you're funny and care free and know how to have a good time. You can be confident but recognize when you're being a prick. Nobody wants to put up with someone who is a non-self aware asshole. It's also a good way to lose friends.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 12:09 AM
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Dated a girl who was kinda immature and played the texting game like that. Kind of matched how long I'd take. I never placed much importance on texting so I'd take awhile to respond but quickly noticed if I took an hour she'd take 2 hours. If I took 5 minutes she'd take 10 minutes. She ended up being interested but I think was trying to show she wasn't. We fucked a lot then. Turned out she got annoyed that I took so long.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 09:36 PM
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AFPJ advice is good. Also make sure you are doing things that make you happy. Simply doing all of this so you can sleep with women is great until it's not actually making you happy.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:24 PM
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But wouldn't it make sense that her "leaving" was a massive shit test? Considering she came back the next day after I broke up with her.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:34 PM
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I might not have the perfect answer here but I think that "confidence" alone is an attractive quality. Being somewhat carefree but most importantly being comfortable in your own skin especially if you aren't great looking is very attractive. I don't know that it gets you laid like Chris Evans but it will attract many people around you to want to be friends with (or more) if you don't seem to let being a little less than perfect looking stop you from living life how you want to. Seriously though …
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:21 PM
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