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I don't think poli sci is lame, but as someone who hires young people, the major attracts folks who aren't as savvy about the world as they think they are. But that's more about my field than political journalism. The ones who become journalists or lawyers aren't the ones I'm talking about. Like anything in life, There are smart and dumb people everywhere, regardless of where and what you study.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:19 PM
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Most people I know who studied art history have a fascinating and unique job in the arts. But then again I live in nyc and went to a decent art school before I was an engineer. The bland as f people who have worthless degrees are cognitive science, psychology, poli sci, IT, economics --- they have middle of the road jobs and fields of interest in the world. People who study art know more about the world than economics majors do, I see it as a manager with my staff as well. If someone tries to ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:58 PM
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It's just so wrong and foolish. Like anyone who has any lived experience would laugh at this. It's so unsophisticated as a criticism that it makes the speaker sound worse than who it's making fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:13 AM
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I understand all of these except the art history degree? I work in STEM and studied engineering but I also went to art school before engineering. In my lived experience, no one I know who who studied art lives in the suburbs and is a mom. Most art history majors are childfree women who live in cities and are single or are queer. Was OP born yesterday?What kind of low end Midwest art college did you go to? Studying art and living in the suburbs are the antithesis of each other. My head is spinnin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:14 PM
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I can't relate to any of this because I was never allowed to date or have a boyfriend when I was in highschool. I'm a thin blonde woman. I would still date an Asian guy, and have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:51 PM
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But you actually believe someone telling you that? Men lie all the time about sleeping with women they've never even shared the same air in a room with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 12:04 PM
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How do you know she gives the 9 guy a 2 date wait and the 6 a 90 day wait? How do these guys know this about this woman or any woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 04:54 AM
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We were all raised on lies. Disney, Hollywood, romance novels, religion, and even Instagram. All of these places are full of artificial love and artificial partnerships, and depict men who don't exist. It warps our views as children, falsely believing we will be treated well by a man someday, that love and respect from men is possible without lying to oneself, and that society is fair. Men want objects. Men lie to get anything they want. Very few men see us as human beings. We've been deceived b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:37 PM
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Beginning a relationship at long distance is a bit of a red flag IMHo and experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:17 PM
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None of these kinds of men even want to be "providers". Because if they were truly dominant, in control, masculine and "alpha", they wouldn't need to advertise submission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:16 PM
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This is why the USA needs better sex education. This moron actually believes himself. Can you contact a lawyer? He literally admits here that he was informed he had chlamydia and chose to ignore it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:54 PM
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Personally, I think saying you're high value looks really low value, to be totally honest. There are things you could've said to put him in his place but I think going around claiming you're high value looks really bad. It's like a niceguy claiming to be a "nice guy". There are ways to have more impact in these situations but claiming you're HV looks soooooo desperate. I would also suggest for women to be careful using openly the language of FDS because it's growing in the interweb for places pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:54 AM
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What did the relative react with when you showed hem this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:49 AM
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Why does he decide you're going to meet? Block him !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:45 AM
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Or they have serious abandonment issues and want to be in control all the time. I can't help but think all of the women in these couples must be the bossy controlling ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:15 PM
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And just how old is this man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:14 PM
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Oh no. I was. Not now, hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:41 AM
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Case in point. PUA go after low hanging fruit. I know because I was a target for PUAs when I had acne and was uglier and was a bartender. Now that I work in tech in well paying job I am treated better by men everywhere, and the men who do show interest are better behaving men who do not use PUA shit with me but are actually trying to get to know me in a intentional way not focused on sex. It's all about how men perceive you within society that will dictate your treatment, and pickme culture come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:28 AM
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The issue isn't about the men themselves being high value or low value, but rather about the societal phenomenon that disabled women are objectively at more of a disadvantage of finding a mate if they are straight than disabled men are. When women get sick divorce rates go up. On average, Men can't handle it when they are faced with the realities of human frailty. Also a part of this is also why men are more reluctant to go to the doctor themselves, they are in constant states of denial. More pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:09 AM
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Holy fuck wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 09:34 AM
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These men are looking for objects, not human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 09:08 AM
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Spoken like a true LV girl. Saying that guys their own age are LVM is beginner pickmeisha IMHO. These are naive girls who don't realize the wool is being pulled over their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 09:07 AM
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And those men won't actually find a decent woman to procreate with. They eventually will settle. Any young woman in her 20s who dates an older man 15+ years older is usually low hanging fruit with low hanging fruit. These 40 something men want to have babies with 25 year olds, but no one healthy, educated, and high value who is 25 is going to do that with a guy in his 40s or 50s. It's the lower hanging fruit that will. These men are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:42 PM
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The sub r/relationship_advice is full of these kinds of stories!! It's hilarious and amazing. I love that it makes men feel terrible because they should feel terrible for what they did to themselves and their relationship. These idiot boys need a kick in the face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:00 PM
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Not even a sex worker would do this for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:37 PM
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I've had IPL and laser genesis and blue light therapy. None have worked. What laser works for you? You know that most lasers can't be used on active cysts, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:06 AM
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Fingers crossed! I'm worried it won't work for me because pcos can sometimes be resistant to Accutane. But there's still hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:20 AM
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YIKES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:24 AM
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I am also going on Accutane too this January! Just signed iPledge on Friday. I can't ducking wait. And I've had the same thing with relationships and my face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:10 AM
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Thanks. I haven't consumed dairy in over a decade. I stopped consuming dairy years ago because it aggregates my eczema. My cystic acne never improved by eliminating dairy. But thanks for your opinion. The only thing that works is spironolactone and tretinoin topical. I tried taking vitamin a supplements but they caused severe leg pains. I once collapsed while walking after taking these supplements for about three weeks. Intense pain. Ended up stopping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 03:02 PM
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Disagree. Actually men do care about blemishes. They just don't care about blemishes if they are hooking up with you or are a FWB. But if you want a relationship, acne will impede that. I have struggled with PCOS related cystic acne for over ten years. Men have said to my face they'd never date me seriously because of how I look, but they'd happily fuck me. Men want trophies they can show off to their families and friends. Very few will ever take the chance in someone they actually like -- they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 01:51 PM
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Yes!!! Congratulations on asserting your self worth!! PS everyone, please remember: virginity is a construct. It doesn't really exist. You didn't give him your virginity, you gave him the idea that he has some intangible sexist object designed to shame you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 06:54 PM
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