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| 16 | The critical importance of favors and how people become the unsuccessful "nice guy". | Outer Game | option_no1 | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 06:35 PM |
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| -6 | Halloween advice? costumes, routines, and tipsI get your point, but in my scenario I have established something to continue the conversation about without being to bound by if she agrees or disagrees. The conversation is flowing. And its about the tongue in cheek delivery not to come off as snarky. I feel that yours could fall flat if she says no and even yeah. But it's just my way of how I would socialize. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 07:20 PM |
| -6 | Halloween advice? costumes, routines, and tipsI think that that kind of a line is very risky even with good delivery, especially that early in the conversation. It could be that you went as someone whose persona would make that question appropriate which could make calling someone slutty work (i.e. rockstar etc) I would establish some connection first like Me: I like how girls during Halloween always leave half their costume at home and come as the slutty version of it, as if it wasn't already very skimpy to begin with. Her: [something abou… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 07:05 PM |
| 13 | Halloween advice? costumes, routines, and tipsI cant believe no one mentioned this before. The best costume is a costume which will look flattering on you but most importantly something that will give girls a reason to touch you. Look at this guy http://i.imgur.com/EyG53.jpg from http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/syegu/peacocking_am_i_doin_it_right/ He could go as an earl/sherlock holmes/king of Sweden whatever. The pants stand out and everyone wants to feel the fabric and the costume is flattering on him, i.e. doesn't hide his fac… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:16 PM |
| 1 | The critical importance of favors and how people become the unsuccessful "nice guy".The section states the importance of doing favors, not to make one believe he or she can stop themselves from being pushovers by never doing anyone favors. The rest of the post explain why and how to use favors to your advantage, i.e. prid pro quo. As well how not to let yourself get taken advantage of and similarly the importance of showing that your time and work is valuable as you yourself stress. I agree that the post isn't mentioning the importance of having priorities, i.e. yourself, caree… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 05:23 PM |
| 6 | 20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'It depends on how big of a nice gesture it is, how often, your relationship with the person and if the person reciprocates your favor. Remember not to disturb the balance of mutual respect between you and people around you. If you buy people something and they don't reciprocate that favor, like buying you rounds after work, then they just took advantage of you. And if you keep it up you will become the guy who tries to use his money to gain affection. If you want to make someone feel good, that … | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 09:49 AM |
| 1 | 20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'I don't really understand what you mean. But if you say that you get personal satisfaction from doing selfless deeds then my answer is that you will soon change that satisfaction into regret. People will use you and show that your favor was taken for granted and you will know that you brought it on yourself. Just like what happened to the girl you helped move. You felt devastated and humiliated, but it wasn't her fault. You could have gotten a nice dinner out of it, an invitation + free drinks a… | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:48 AM |
| 1 | 20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'No! Don't say that you want to be selfish, you are missing the point. You are going to realize your own self worth and the value of your own time. You are valuable and so is your time, which means that you don't work for free. If you work for free i.e. do favors expecting nothing in return you signal people whom themselves value their time that your time isn't worth anything and they wont respect you for helping them. You will lower your own value in their eyes since your time and work is worthl… | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 10:51 PM |
| 3 | 20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'I think that you are afraid of them not being interested in you unless you can offer them something in terms of favors or money. When it comes to women I offer them a interesting and amusing company which eventually if they are interested leads to sex and if they aren't we stay friends. I NEVER HELP or buy a woman something unless we agree on what she will offer me in return beforehand. You try to please them outside the bedroom, helping them with something that you never should have unless you … | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 10:33 PM |
| 7 | 20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'Don't try to get approval or build friendship by doing favors without anything in return. It might seem altruistic and a good deed from your point of view, but it signals people that you can be taken advantage of. Realize that noone expects that you can be taken advantage of until you do things without asking something in return before doing the favor. People wont see you as mean, they will treat you with the respect you deserve because you know your self worth and the value of your own time. Ot… | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 10:11 PM |
| 6 | 20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'You don't attract selfish friends, you let people take advantage of you which makes them seem selfish. Just start saying NO when people ask you to do something. Don't be friendly and do favors expecting someone to be friendly and do favors in return. Realize this and switch the order. People have to do you a favor before you do them a favor. Your reciprocating favor should NEVER exceed their favor. Build friendships on mutual respect, not that people can use you for something. Don't try to pleas… | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 10:03 PM |
| 5 | 20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'I can really empathize with the seeking approval and putting everyone's needs above your own. I realized something really important that changed me completely. People don't expect that you will go above and beyond to help them. When you do, people will see it as an opportunity to take advantage of you and your time. They will see you as helpful and friendly, but they wont respect you since you agree to do things they in return wouldn't agree to do. Additional problems arise when you eventually c… | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 09:49 PM |
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