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orange234/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 05:42 PM
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Here are my answers, mostly just one guy's experiences. I've been married a long time and overall I'm very happy with how things turned out: The statistics say that married guys, on average, have sex significantly more often than single guys. Think about it: you're hopping into bed with a girl who (hopefully) finds you attractive just about every night. The problem that most people have is that they work hard to attract their boyfriend or girlfriend at first, but once they have been married, com…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 01:33 PM
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Yep. The flashlight/vibrator "double standard" is almost exactly the same as the "double standard" about promiscuous women being sluts, while promiscuous men are players. There's no point in whining about it being unfair, it's that way for a good reason. Everybody understands that a man is going to jack off from time to time, but if a high SMV guy masturbates, it's usually just a sideline; most of his time/money/commitment is spend on relations with women. The fleshlight signals that the guy is …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 09:37 PM
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Also Cena's amused mastery and confidence is coming from a place of actual mastery. She's on his turf, and he's competed against elite (male) athletes for years, in the gym and in the ring. He's among the best at what he does, and showing confidence -- and not taking shit from anyone -- are literally part of his job description.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 06:52 PM
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I understand your need to keep trolls and clueless people from clogging up the comments. But: Thus, any TRP ENDORSED persons (or any of the other Flairs they assign on TRP) posting on MRP may contact the MRP moderators requesting TRP ENDORSED, MRP APPROVED, or HARD CORE RED Flair. I don't think I'm ever going to send a note to another man asking for his validation that my comments or opinions are good enough. And I'm certainly not going to ask for permission to pine a special colored flair to my…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 01:40 AM
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Here's the opposite: an old-school rap song that was red pill before The Game and before The Matrix: Bust a Move This here's a tale for all the fellas Tryin' to do what those ladies tell us Get shot down cause you're over-zealous Play hard to get, females get jealous
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 06:47 PM
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Totally blue pill; the writer was a college student who was afraid to approach a woman who he thought was out of his league. On the other hand, the first stage of improvement is seeing yourself as you really are. I agree with you that it's empowering if you look at it from that perspective: I've got a lot of work to do, and I'm getting started today. Unrelated (alpha) story about this song: the lead guitar player of Radiohead, Jonny Greenwood, hated "Creep" when he first heard it. Those sudden, …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 06:42 PM
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Yes. And to the same woman. Here's the thing we have to accept as men: Life isn't easy. Life isn't fair. Life sucks and is a pain in the ass sometimes. Nothing worth doing is going to come easy. The cards are often stacked against you. Etc., Etc., Etc. Waaahhh. Boo-fucking-hoo. You want to be in charge of your life, you've got to take on the challenges, even when they are tough. And marriage (and raising children) is tough. Damn tough. But guess what? It's tough to become a CEO. It's tough to ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 03:12 PM
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OK, you want to encourage her attempts to be more open and fun about sex, but you don't want to be seen as timidly presenting a coupon for permission. Plus, you want to have fun with it, because why not? Here's how I'd play it: When you "find" the coupon, smile devilishly and tell her okay, this sounds like fun, but here's the deal: once I give this coupon back to you, prepare yourself, because it could happen literally at any time. Might be a few moments after you see it, might be hours later, …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 07:44 PM
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It sounds like he doesn't know that there are better options out there. Marriage can be challenging even under the best conditions, and if you're in a relationship where one person is actively trying to use and take advantage of the other, without mutual respect, it's not going to last. Are you and your wife doing okay in your marriage? If so, you might want to go out with him for drinks, maybe with a couple of other guy friends who are in good relationships, and talk about what a "good" marriag…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 11:08 PM
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And please, teach him to sit in the bathroom if there is no urinal. I know it is not popular amongst males, but certainly the more practicable way + respectful towards our female joint users. HELL NO. Guys have a penis that points forward. That means the piss comes spraying out in front of you, not down like for women. Sitting down doesn't make any sense, because your dick is literally facing the opposite direction from where you want the piss to go. You've got to teach a little boy to piss like…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/15 07:48 PM
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It is possible to be classy and debonair and still kick some ass, though. You can be a charming rogue; you can be just as comfortable playing tackle football in the mud as you are in a tuxedo at a dinner party. You can be known as a friendly, charming, self-confident guy, but also known as a guy who doesn't put up with any shit from anyone. Remember that the idea of chivalry came from the fact that the medieval knights were literally stone-cold killers, and they wanted to elevate themselves from…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/15 07:39 PM
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Depends on the quality of your local troop, I guess. I see a constant undercurrent of "take charge, man up, don't make excuses, be self-sufficient, learn to lead other guys" in the troop near us. What aspects of Scouting have you seen going downhill?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/15 02:50 PM
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I'm not with you on that one, man. I want my wife to have sex with me often because she wants to, not because she has to. Obligation sex is boring as hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/15 12:50 PM
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Hey, congratulations on the baby. Kids are the greatest part of your life, and biggest pain in the ass, all at the same time. You're in for a great ride. OK, just to get the "take a piss" thing out of the way first, that does seem to be a strange way for a little kid to talk to a teacher. It may be accurate, and no big deal to talk that way among friends, but there is nothing wrong with children (of either gender) being taught to speak politely to adults. To your main question though, it mostly …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/15 12:41 PM
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I don't know, man. That video is about porn addiction. Are you saying I shouldn't have a beer on a Tuesday night because some people are alcoholics? Also, I can see how the NoFap thing might make sense for single Red Pill guys, with their next-ing, abundance mentality, and spinning plates. But we've decided to be with one woman for the rest of our lives. Are you really willing to give another person complete control over when, where, and how often you have an orgasm?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 04:49 PM
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Irony and sarcasm are my triggers, so I hope not. :(
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 04:43 PM
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Trigger Warning Ah, no. We're men, here, not fragile hothouse flowers. We don't need to be protected from grown-up talk, haha. You can go ahead and say that you used to jerk off and now you don't, and you fuck your wife better now. We can handle it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 03:29 PM
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You should have a job that you like, that challenges you, that offers opportunities for advancement. You should have a hobby that does the same. You pick them, based on your interests. It sounds like you really want to do the EMT thing, so why not go for it? Just be sure you're doing it for you and not out of some abstract sense of impressing people or increasing SMV. Remember that a huge part of a man's SMV is being confident in himself, and being comfortable with who he is.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 02:40 AM
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Step 1: marry a woman who is so insecure and needy that she will bang you to make up for some minor, imaginary transgression Step 2: be a dick about little, unimportant things -- chuckling and cackling to yourself like a mental patient as you congratulate yourself on your "craftiness." Step 3: Success! You get to bang your own wife!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/15 09:21 PM
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Field report: How to deliberately be an annoying, petty, pain in the ass for no good reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/15 12:37 PM
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I'm better looking, fitter, make 2.5x her salary and I have $400k in savings/inheritance. I chose her because she's nice, cute, low maintenance and generally ticks the RP boxes. Uh oh. That doesn't sound like the basis for a long-term relationship. You say you're divorced -- why would you want to tie yourself to another LTR, especially if she's just a "nice girl who generally ticks the RP boxes?" By all means, negotiate the housework, it sounds like you are in a strong position to get her to agr…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/15 12:31 PM
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Her: "Can I get a kiss?" You: Sure! Come over here, I'll give you a kiss... (leans on bedroom door with devilish grin) If she gets up to get the kiss, you pull her close, crotch to crotch, give her a firm kiss with one arm around her shoulders and the other hand on her ass, leaving her flustered. If she won't get up, well, I thought you wanted a kiss, I'll be in the bedroom if you change your mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/15 09:25 PM
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First of all, if you've decided to do x, y, and z, you do them at a time and in a manner that makes the most sense to you. You've decided to do these projects, you'll make sure they're done well, but you'll do them your way. Second, NEVER lie. Ever. Even for little things -- hell, especially for little things. It's not just weak, it undermines your position as a man of character. Lying is a lose-lose: it sends the message that you care more about pleasing her than you do about your own honor. St…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/15 09:15 PM
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... a guy who wants to be with one girl, but reminds her that he could be dating and sleeping with other women any time he wants.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 04:36 AM
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Great article. Anyone who doesn't like being called "wife" or "husband," who isn't proud of it and happy about it, shouldn't be a wife or husband. One other thought on this, though. I've always thought that the best marriages have a balance of, on the one hand, knowing each other and being comfortable around each other -- and on the other hand, keeping the relationship fresh and new in a boyfriend-girlfriend kind of way. There is a way that people sometimes use "wife" that sounds weak, trapped, …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 10:33 PM
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If you say, okay, if you're so smart, then why don't you just do it yourself, you might be sending the wrong message. I'm in charge of this project, but if you challenge me, then you are invited to take charge. Do you really want to give up control every time you are challenged? Depends on the situation, or course, but in general it's better to say, I'm doing this right now, appreciate your suggestions, and this is how I've decided to do it. Add a little amused mastery and she will realize that …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 01:47 PM
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If a man believes marriage is purely a lottery-type gamble, then I agree that he should avoid it. Lotteries are for suckers. I see marriage more as a challenge: like succeeding at a career, being a good father, or mastering a sport or hobby. The payoffs are great, but there is a lifetime of perseverance, good judgement, and, yes, some good luck that are required to make it a success. That's what /r/marriedredpill can be: a forum to discuss "best practices" of how to make marriage a success for t…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 01:34 PM
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I don't think most guys here are big proponents of the current institution that we call marriage but we do have one thing in common- all of us were stupid enough to enter that flawed, femcentric institution. I'm a fan of marriage if you do it right. Marry the right girl, treat her with respect and expect the same in return, be proud to be a man and act like a man, try to be more like boyfriend and girlfriend than husband and wife. Nothing's perfect but being married can be great for the man as w…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 03:48 AM
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It sounds like you're having fun! I cringed a little bit as I read, though, because it sounds like you're asking for a "treat" before you run off and do what you're told. Also she doesn't seem to be doing it out of a genuine desire to please you, just rolling her eyes and putting up with your shenanigans. How about next time, you take it to the next level? Assert your authority with actions, not just words. Wife: can you take out the trash? You: Sure! But I want to tell you something first. (com…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 01:38 AM
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Maybe I would feel differently if I knew what your wife did that was so awful, but in general I find the whole "waiting for an apology" thing to be whiny and pouty and a waste of time. If someone does something awful and they recognize that it's awful, and they respect the other person, they would explain themselves, apologize, and try to fix the situation. If they don't, it's either because they don't respect the other person, or they don't know that what they did was wrong. If it's the first c…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 01:20 AM
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It is a sign of strength and confidence to admit it when you fuck up. There is a big difference between calling attention to your mistake, apologizing when you know you were in the wrong, and being "forced" to apologize just to keep the peace when you know you didn't do anything wrong. The first is coming from a position of strength, the second is coming from weakness. We all make mistakes sometimes. Owning up to your mistakes, versus hiding from them, sends a message that you are okay with your…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/14 10:11 PM
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If they actually are helpful suggestions, and it's only for minor stuff, give her a mildly positive response, with amused mastery, like you would if your niece suggested a new flavor of ice cream: "Cool, thanks!" "Oh, yeah, good point." "Huh. Interesting!" And then go ahead and load the dishwasher, or nuke the veggies, however you damn well please. You're the one doing the project, you listen to any reasonable points she wants to make, and then you make your own decisions. Why? Because you prefe…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/14 09:56 PM
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Good for you, man, you handled it just right. By the way regarding: "A simple sorry could put this all behind us... I guess I am not the stubborn one in the family." My response would be: "I've already put it behind me, but you can have as much time as you need."
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 10:55 PM
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First: Let's get right to the main topic: can you make her come? If you're just having sex and not making sure she has an orgasm, you may not be thrilling her in the bedroom. You need to get to know her well enough sexually, and spend enough time on her, that that you can give her a "rock her world" orgasm when you want to. Second: Do you know her fantasies? Do you know what she thinks about when she masturbates? If she tells you, "I just think about you and me" or "I don't masturbate" then eith…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 10:24 PM
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Is she willing to give you a blow job (or at least a hand job) on demand? If so, seems like a fair deal. She can let you know when she wants a back, shoulder, or foot rub, and you can let her know when you would like a massage... for your dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 08:54 PM
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The answer to both questions is that you need to be honest and straightforward with your wife. She genuinely may not understand the situation from a man's perspective. And since you've made a long-term commitment to each other, you will be better off if you understand and accept each other's needs. You can tell her a little bit at a time, not necessarily all at once in one long speech, haha, but you need to let her know. Something like this (change the details as necessary): "I like to have sex …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 03:05 PM
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