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Edu./Occu.orangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights09/06/19 11:46 PM
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False AccusationorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights10/10/18 09:08 PM
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Social IssuesorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights19/09/18 12:18 PM
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Social IssuesorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights27/09/18 03:02 PM
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Marriage/ChildrenorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights04/02/19 04:49 PM
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Social IssuesorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights16/01/19 06:11 PM
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FeminismorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights24/01/20 06:06 PM
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Social IssuesorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights21/09/18 01:39 PM
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orangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights15/10/18 03:40 PM
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orangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights05/10/18 07:12 PM
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Social IssuesorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights25/01/19 06:33 PM
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Marriage/ChildrenorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights28/06/19 07:52 PM
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orangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights11/07/19 02:49 AM
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Social IssuesorangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights20/02/19 06:43 PM
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orangeLILpumpkin/r/MensRights28/06/19 05:07 PM
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There was actually a lawsuit similar to this. Instead of taking the sperm from a used condom, the woman took it from her mouth after a BJ. Snippets: Dr. Phillips argued that his ex-fiancé took his property, his sperm, without his permission to conceive a child. Dr. Irons countered by asserting the sperm was a gift: Dr. Phillips delivered it to her with the intention that she keep it because if he really wanted to retain his semen, he would have put on a condom and “kept its contents”. The court …
/r/MensRights12/08/20 08:12 PM
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It's only hypocrisy if you believe that men should get something out of a relationship. This woman clearly believes that the only purpose of a man in a relationship is to give. She isn't alone.
/r/MensRights12/08/20 08:04 PM
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Since 97% of alimony payers are men, it seems like there's probably not a lot of merit.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 02:55 AM
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You sound like a guy who doesn't leave the house and get in his pickup truck without his Make America Great Again hat on.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 02:52 AM
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LOL. She's only been married 4 years? She'll be fine. Might have to split some assets - which I actually think is fair. But then she's rid of him. She'd be unlikely to pay any alimony or child support in any jurisdiction.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 02:46 AM
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I guarantee most men would love to work fewer hours and spend more time at home Well then do your work more efficiently and get it done in the same amount of time that woman can. Why should women be punished for working efficiently? Sincerely, Feminists.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 02:40 AM
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the surprising poll results showed Nice media bias there. There is nothing "surprising" about the results of this poll.
/r/MensRights04/03/20 02:40 PM
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"rapes"
/r/MensRights02/03/20 03:11 PM
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Because women count things that aren't rape as rape?
/r/MensRights02/03/20 03:09 PM
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My guess is that if varies from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. But at a minimum, you're making the mistake of thinking that biological parenthood and legal parenthood are the same thing and defined the same way. They aren't. So if you were going to go to court, you would have to argue that you were not the child's legal father. Simply proving that you were not the child's biological father would not be sufficient.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 08:57 PM
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The honest answer is that we don't know. You say you were blacked out. If you're using that word appropriately, that means you have no memory of what actually happened (but I would question that, because how would you know that you fucked for 3 hours). Accordingly, you have no idea whether you consented or not. Hell, for all you know, you were the aggressor and had to talk her into having sex (not saying that's the case, just saying it's a possibility since you don't remember). If a person conse…
/r/MensRights26/02/20 08:53 PM
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So, by their own definition, feminism would be failing then, right?
/r/MensRights26/02/20 08:50 PM
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There is likely some accuracy to it, but I don't know that it is necessarily a women's issue. Lots of people discovered things and got written out of history. Creating something is only part of the "battle". If be recognized for your accomplishments is something that is important to you, then you have to make sure that you are advocating for yourself and getting that credit. Certainly, at some point in history, that was difficult for some minorities. If a black slave had invented the cotton gin,…
/r/MensRights26/02/20 08:49 PM
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Men don't have that choice. Men can choose to try to get a woman pregnant. Everything beyond that is legally out of their hands.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 05:15 PM
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There isn't one legal definition of rape. It caries country by country, and even state by state. Correct, and none of them include "took off a condom" in the definition of rape - which was my original contention.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 03:49 PM
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Rape is a legal term. Feminists trying to change the definition via "normative conversation using common parlance" doesn't actually change the meaning of the word.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 02:59 PM
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I think you misread. She's 20 now, he was 13 when the sexual relationship began and she was 17. She's 4 years older than him. 13 year old consent to sex every day in America and around the world - typically with other teenagers.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 08:55 PM
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"In their universe women are not responsible for the parties they attend, the men they flirt with, the choices they make to further their own careers, the hotel room invitations, the plane tickets they accept, the jobs they ask for help to obtain," Rotunno said. "What are we doing to women? Women have choices," Rotunno said to the jury. Uhhhh.... clearly she hasn't heard about feminism
/r/MensRights25/02/20 07:12 PM
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Like the U.S., it appears the U.K. also needs to do away with arbitrary age of consent laws. She continued having unprotected intercourse with the child on average twice a month for a year, is charged with five counts of having sexual activity with a minor, three which were said to have taken place while she was aged 17 years and two while she was 18 years old. Prosecutors told how the boy, who cannot be identified for legal reasons, had later said to police in interview: 'You are supposed to ha…
/r/MensRights25/02/20 04:18 PM
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Where are men being oppressed? My biggest thing: permanent alimony still exists and 97% of alimony payers are men. That's a problem. You can get a college degree in 4 years. Alimony, if it must exist at all, should be limited to 5 years. One year to get over the divorce and 4 years to get an education if you don't already have one.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 04:06 PM
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Why is so? Because too many who call themselves MRAs are afraid to take on feminism. We see posts here all the time about "we need to just advocate for men's rights and stop criticizing feminism". No. Feminism is advocating for continuation and expansion of male oppression. If we ignore feminism, it'd be like the civil rights movement ignoring the KKK. A group can expand it's rights while a stronger group is fighting to take those rights away.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 04:05 PM
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Is that Wiki sourced? Because there isn't a law on the books (anywhere in America) that convicts a person of rape in that situation.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 12:45 AM
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it is very possible that people stay in touch with the person who assaulted them for an extended period while processing the magnitude of the interactions. If someone had non-consensual sex with you, you know that while it's happening (assuming you're conscious, haven't been blindfolded and someone else came into the room, etc.). You don't need an extended period of time to "process the magnitude of the interaction". Your statement reeks of the typical feminist bullshit where a college girl goes…
/r/MensRights25/02/20 12:44 AM
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holding a woman down while she tells you not to Neither of those has an analogy in your story - at least not the way you wrote it. removing your condom and ejaculating in her wouldn't be sexual assault or rape? Correct, it wouldn't.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 12:14 AM
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They aren't wrong about it being a gradient where there can be consenting sex surrounding non consenting sex. I dunno man. I guess technically that's accurate (i.e., a person could jump out of the bushes, violently rape a woman, and then the woman decide to start dating that person), but I just don't see it as being practically accurate. If you are a legitimate rape victim who had sex with someone against your will, you're going to be pissed at that person and hate that person. You're not going …
/r/MensRights24/02/20 10:10 PM
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That is sexual assault in my opinion, I disagree.
/r/MensRights24/02/20 10:01 PM
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In B4 "but women try to commit suicide more, they're just not as successful as men because they try to do it nonviolently".
/r/MensRights06/02/20 09:15 PM
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Had a chick in college come into my dorm room when I was sleeping and feel me up. I didn't "speak up" other than to tell her she was a piece of shit. I didn't speak up because it didn't have an impact on me and there was nothing really to speak up about.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 09:09 PM
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When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 09:06 PM
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What scumbag thing? Cheating on his wife? At a minimum, yes.
/r/MensRights29/01/20 12:32 PM
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Like 99% of other cases, there is simply no way to know whether this was rape or a false accusation; so why try? Hell, Kobe's own statement even points out that two people can agree on the series of events, and one will call it consensual (and therefore a false accusation) and the other will call it rape. If the parties involved can figure out what it was, how the hell are other people going to figure it out 17 years later. At a minimum, Kobe did a scumbag thing. It's up to every individual whet…
/r/MensRights29/01/20 01:21 AM
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Cool to know OJ didn't kill anyone.
/r/MensRights29/01/20 01:17 AM
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https://textio.com/team/ Dude was likely thinking of the Co-founder who is CTO. Or, he misread the sticker as Texaco and though she worked for a real company. Unrelated, but I'm also curious why Ms. Snyder looks like she's 24 in her LinkedIn photo but looks 54 in her headshot on their website.
/r/MensRights24/01/20 09:38 PM
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Shhhhh… The HR folks might be listening. 90% of HR folks I've ever met think they run the organization.
/r/MensRights24/01/20 07:36 PM
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I contend that your analogy is off. I think that very few women outright make up accusations of sexual assault. Rather they convince themselves (or are convinced by others) that something that wasn't sexual assault, is sexual assault. So it would be more akin to going into a bank and seeing the teller hand a black guy some money, and then calling the cops because you assume that the only reason the teller would do that would be if the dude was robbing the bank. In your case, I'm sure that this w…
/r/MensRights15/01/20 08:46 PM
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Women make up the majority of Canada's population. Pander to the majority and the expense of the minority is a path to democratic power.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 04:18 PM
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So you never actually say what happened and how/why you were falsely accused. You say that your accuser was facing a lot of trouble in the military, and that this accusation was made to deflect that. But you don't even say whether you had a relationship with her and it's a he said / she said as to whether it was consensual; if she just made it up completely and you don't even know that woman; of if it's somewhere in between. You're getting a lot of sympathy and advice in this thread, and maybe t…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 03:58 PM
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Feminists demand... Women would like... You're talking about two different groups of people
/r/MensRights13/09/19 02:40 PM
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Is it just me, or she kinda ugly?
/r/MensRights05/09/19 03:28 PM
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Notice the way he touches her chest when he attempts to hold her back? Most kangaroo courts would support her in a sexual assault allegation.
/r/MensRights05/09/19 01:15 AM
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Jocks to the rescue. Way to fight those stereotypes.
/r/MensRights04/09/19 08:52 PM
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Will you Lot have the same energy? wut?
/r/MensRights27/08/19 03:24 PM
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Alimony recipients: 97% women / 3% men
/r/MensRights27/08/19 02:49 AM
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How the fuck do you make a list like that and not include the elimination of lifetime alimony? And nothing about gender equality in post-conception reproductive rights?
/r/MensRights27/08/19 02:46 AM
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People tend to use the word "respect" differently and there seems to be somewhat of a gender divide in how it is used. Some people consider "respect" to mean admire. Like one might admire a distinguished professor or musician. Other people consider "respect" to mean "treat with dignity". One should "respect" their elders or their boss or the office of the President. When the word respect is used in one manner and interpreted in the other manner, conflict ensues.
/r/MensRights27/08/19 02:44 AM
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You've got to really craft the syntax of your questions carefully on both /r/askmen and /r/askwomen. They are quite particular about what they allow and what they don't. And anything blocked by the bots won't get overturned by mods.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 11:41 PM
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Do men not put weight requirements on their profiles? I've been out of the dating scene for 20 years, so I never really got a shot at the online dating thing. But I did dabble in AOL chat rooms in the late 90's. It was nothing in those days to ask girls how much they weighed in the first few minutes of conversation. If I were to get divorced and put up a Tinder profile, I would absolutely make it clear that I liked smaller women and that fatties need not apply. Of course I'd probably say it more…
/r/MensRights19/08/19 12:45 AM
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I never understood peeping over the top of the stall. You're not going to be able to see anything.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 05:24 PM
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We're just about equal rights for everyone. Don't really care if you're male, female, gay, straight, transgender, black, white, etc. We should all have equal rights.
/r/MensRights17/08/19 06:36 PM
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Jokes on here. I think she wants to sleep with me regardless of how she treats me. And if she doesn't want to sleep with me, she should. Her loss.
/r/MensRights17/08/19 06:34 PM
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As a family law attorney, I would think you would realize that alimony is a function of marriage, not a function of parenting.
/r/MensRights17/08/19 01:24 AM
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Statistics show that men overall end divorces in a more financially secure position, whereas women end up in a much less financially secure position. Skewed Statistics. Of course if a woman has been sitting on her ass being financially supported by a guy for 2 decades, and they get divorced, she's going to be worse off financially because she now has less access to the earnings from his labor. But take that same woman who is unmarried and has sat on her ass for 20 years living off of government …
/r/MensRights16/08/19 11:46 PM
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Seriously, you'll get a ton of responses covering the gammut. For me, let's just tackle 2 issues and I can get over the rest: Eliminate lifetime alimony and make alimony a maximum of 3 years regardless of the length of the marriage or situation. A woman can get a job in 3 years. Get hella closer to gender equality in post-conception reproductive rights.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 11:39 PM
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But that can't be true, can it? Isn't the only possible outcome of such a scenario that the man would think she was flirting with him, ask her out, get rejected and then violently attack her? Or are /r/TwoXChromosomes been lying to me?
/r/MensRights16/08/19 11:37 PM
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When did it happen? How many men? Were you sexually active before the assault? Did he ejaculate? Feminists: UGH! Can we stop with the victim blaming and just believe women?
/r/MensRights16/08/19 05:08 PM
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And guess what happens every year other than those 8. They have babies, leave the workforce, and live off the labor of a man?
/r/MensRights14/08/19 08:13 PM
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If you're going to try to change child support, you need to understand the theory behind current child support laws. Let's start with this: Why does a Fortune 500 CEO pay $10,000/month for one child while a janitor working for that same Fortune 500 company pay $250/month for one child? Surely, the "cost to raise a child" isn't drastically different between the two mothers of those children. Child support isn't designed to provide the custodial parent with sufficient funds to raise the child. It …
/r/MensRights12/08/19 01:24 PM
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When a woman needs to shoot someone, she calls a man to do it for her.
/r/MensRights08/08/19 12:00 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/cmbpgn/why_do_you_think_so_many_young_american_men_are/
/r/MensRights07/08/19 02:12 AM
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But why are men so angry?
/r/MensRights07/08/19 12:08 AM
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And all this time I've been told it was all the raping and sexual harassment.
/r/MensRights06/08/19 12:10 AM
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I personally believe he's a racist. But I understand that other's may think that he just makes racist comments as political capital for his base. I have not evidence to suggest one over the other (except that I just don't think anyone can fake being a racist that well), so it's hard for me to declare definitively that he's racist.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 01:53 AM
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Trump being an asshole and likely a racist is something that I'm able to conclude, quite easily, simply by watching video of Trump with no commentary from anyone. It has nothing to do with what anyone tells me. If you don't recognize that he's a raging asshole, you're simply not paying attention.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 12:29 AM
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Showing clips of Trump speaking and acting isn't lying.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 12:24 AM
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Defending, much less aligning with, Trump is not a successful approach. Agree or disagree with his policies, there is no denying he's a raging asshole and likely a racist too.
/r/MensRights04/08/19 11:43 PM
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I've always said that no one can really know what it is like to live someone else's life. And in particular, we can't know what it is really like to live as the other gender. But I feel like that disconnection is much stronger with women thinking they know how men live than vice-versa. I think men can appreciate the challenges that women face. Even if some of their fears are irrational, I think we can all appreciate that, irrational or not, fear is real and it sucks to have to deal with it. Whet…
/r/MensRights04/08/19 06:30 PM
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Why did they include a picture of Harvery Weinstein instead of Lena Dunham?
/r/MensRights04/08/19 12:38 AM
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Yep, this was a result of bullying, not of a friendly dodgeball game.
/r/MensRights02/08/19 12:14 AM
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It wasn't so much "that's not true" as much as it was "that's not true if you don't count the wages we don't want you to count".
/r/MensRights01/08/19 02:38 PM
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I feel like we should stop calling the KKK racist and instead just start calling people who aren't KKK members racist. You are either a normal person or a racist.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 03:50 PM
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So what are the USWNT members that have been calling for equal pay going to do now? Are they in favor of cutting their own wages or increasing the sages of the USMNT members? Because either one will move us towards equal pay.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 03:49 PM
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Amekyras is correct. Abortion is an excellent example that demonstrates that men are not equal to women in the eyes of the law. Women have the right to post-conception reproductive choice, men do not. That's not equal.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 12:13 AM
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But it IS time to pay men and women the same amount for the same job, and the same work. That's what is happening in this time.
/r/MensRights29/07/19 12:20 AM
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Well let me clue you in: Dating is like that even without dating apps (and before dating apps existed) too. Now you know.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 02:06 PM
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You didn't realize that this was how dating worked until you overhead the women in your office discussing it?
/r/MensRights26/07/19 12:22 AM
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more likely to get hits if they have a masters degree in business or engineering I'm past dating, but wouldn't it be easier on everyone if Tinder just had a direct link to guy's bank account balance?
/r/MensRights26/07/19 12:21 AM
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Just get rid of the archaic concept of alimony.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 05:55 PM
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TwoXChromosomes welcomes everyone! I'm not sure they understand English.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 05:52 PM
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She's not as hot as she thinks she is.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 05:50 PM
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that doesn't justify him being tackled to the floor. To be fair, he did tell the guy to attack him.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 01:39 PM
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Also This: Everybody has a breaking point. People can only take so much humiliation and ridicule before they break. Some people are fortunate enough to never be subjected to the humiliation and ridicule that gets them to their breaking point. That wasn't the case for this guy. And everyone deals with that breaking point differently. Some lash out with angry words like this guy did. Some become hermits who rarely leave the house and have no social life. Some would breakdown and start crying in th…
/r/MensRights11/07/19 01:38 PM
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Here we go down the slippery slope. What other lies change consensual sex into sexual assault? I love you. You're the only guy I'm sleeping with. I'm on the pill. Yes, this cool car is mine. I won't break up with you.
/r/MensRights04/07/19 09:42 PM
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Gotta say that I'm impressed that she came back for more after getting popped. That normally doesn't happen.
/r/MensRights02/07/19 06:48 PM
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I'll add that feminists think that "false allegations" are limited to those that are done with malicious intent. They fail to recognize the frequency with which women are confused and think that something was nefarious when it wasn't ("he kissed me without asking after I had two glasses of wine!", for example). And they fail to recognize those "confused" false allegations because they don't agree that they're false. They believe that if a woman regrets or feels badly after an encounter, then the…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 07:26 PM
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I don't understand what the big deal is about accidentally decapitating a baby inside the mother's womb. Isn't that just an accidental abortion? And isn't abortion something that reddit generally supports?
/r/MensRights01/07/19 07:15 PM
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Any context on this?
/r/MensRights01/07/19 07:13 PM
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I would have straight up broken up with her right there For all we know that's what he was doing that cause him to be assaulted.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 07:13 PM
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I lifted her up and pushed her against a wall and in an angry and serious tone Lucky to avoid jail on that one.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 07:11 PM
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Why is there a need to cancel women's student debt? They'll just marry some dude, get pregnant, quit working and he'll pay it off for her. Problem solved.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 11:50 PM
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Can't we just let them believe that it's Fat Her's day and let them be happy?
/r/MensRights18/06/19 06:45 PM
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Hey Mildred, when was the last time our Insta account checked the "Feminism cares about men's issues too" box?
/r/MensRights18/06/19 06:42 PM
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Actually I wouldn't even notice those 3 chicks cuz they fat.
/r/MensRights13/06/19 07:17 PM
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Any story behind this? The pic alone makes the dude seem like kind of an asshole.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 11:22 PM
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I've been in a variety of companies, both profit and non-profit, as an employee and consultant for over 30 years. It isn't limited to a single industry. People attracted to HR just aren't very professional and aren't very good at their jobs. If you have the talent to be professionally successful, you move to operations or finance - you don't settle for HR.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 11:20 PM
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anything you do is an excuse to escalate the situation Have you tried just telling them to calm down? That usually works.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 11:15 PM
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LOL, talk about entitlement! That chick must think she's a hellalot hotter than she is if she thinks she can get away with treating a dude like that. It's so obvious he's out.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 11:14 PM
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Companies alone will not give a shit about you. Not if you don't have skills they value.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 11:12 PM
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Keep your government out of my private contract with my employer, please. If I want paternity leave, I'm perfectly capable of negotiating it myself.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 11:11 PM
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Who is this woman? I see she's got the blue checkmark.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 11:10 PM
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I trust their professionalism. It's nice to have that luxury. I would venture to say that in 30 years in business I've yet to meet an HR person who I would label as "professional".
/r/MensRights10/06/19 11:04 PM
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So you're saying that your HR team is made up of mostly men and they promote International Men's Day while ignoring International Women's Day? MMmmmmmkay.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:59 PM
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LOL. How many people are in your HR department? How many of them are women? How many "men in the industry" events does your HR team encourage employees to participate in? How many "women in the industry" events does your HR team encourage employees to participate in? Your HR department may be atypical.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:36 PM
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LOL. She's already one of the 20 most powerful people in the House.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:35 PM
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Not so much.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:34 PM
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They're not likely to lie to management, they're likely to lie to their feminist allies in HR. They're also frequently risking a $40,000/year job by lying while I'd be risking a $200,000/year job by being falsely accused.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:33 PM
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she’s in the service industry I think everyone reads these threads with their own personal experiences in mind. Yes, I think sexual harassment is rampant in the food service industry (basically working in the kitchen in a restaurant). Sexual harassment is infrequent in professional offices.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:29 PM
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I like her for her passion. Sometimes her passion is misplaced, but at least she has passion and is doing what she thinks is right. Not many politicians do that anymore.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:28 PM
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There are also a lot of those asshole managers who treat their female employees exactly the same way they treat their male employees. When they treat their male employees like that, they're assholes. When they treat their female employees like that, they're sexual harassers.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:27 PM
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But is this because there isn't a risk, or because you've always mitigated that risk? I'm in the same boat as you in working with a lot of women over the years. But I've always been "aware" of the risks in professional associations with women and have modified my behavior accordingly to mitigate that risk. There are some women that I work with that I completely trust. This is in part about knowing them and their personalities. But it is also about knowing that others in the organization have see…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:25 PM
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What's not to like about it? It's just a utopian idea of things that would be nice to have. What that is actually in the NGD do you not want? Remember, before answering that, there is nothing in the NGD about the costs of achieving the NGD.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:19 PM
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Look at their LinkedIn/FB/Twitter Too late, you've already been creepy now!
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:12 PM
-1

AOC is fucking brilliant. She knows exactly what she's doing.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:10 PM
24

Be fucking decent. If only that solved the problem.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:09 PM
4

Exactly. AOC is actually pretty brilliant - especially politically brilliant. I actually respect her for her passion; I just don't think a lot of her passion is in the right place.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:08 PM
5

Like /u/HNutz says, for some people it is. But it isn't because they're malicious. It is because they've been misguided by feminist propaganda to think normal human behavior is "wrong".
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:06 PM
1

Yeah, I like the way that the only person interviewed in the article was Sheryl Sandberg. Who better than a female CEO to tell you how and why men feel the way they do?
/r/MensRights10/06/19 08:54 PM
1

LOL. TwoX apparently didn't like where the discussion on this article was going. They locked their thread on the article and the majority of the comments are [deleted]
/r/MensRights10/06/19 08:52 PM
19

It’s not hard. Except it was... that's the whole point.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 06:42 PM
17

"I was hoping you'd help me out with that" is the only valid response.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 06:42 PM
-42

I actually don't disagree with this but it applies to all genders. Cheating is the cause of a bad relationship, it's the result of one.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 06:32 PM
16

It's like these people don't realize that the sponsor of the Alabama abortion bill was a female senator and it was signed into "law" by a female governor. Just keep blaming those damn white men! Carry on!
/r/MensRights17/05/19 07:31 PM
1

It is spelled r-e-a-l-i-t-y, not n-a-r-r-a-t-i-v-e. Also, if the potential of being forced into unwanted parenthood is a reason for a sex strike, shouldn't it be the men who are striking?
/r/MensRights14/05/19 08:09 PM
1

Where is the "Cardi B raped guys" coming from? I thought she drugged them and then stole from them. How is that rape?
/r/MensRights30/03/19 02:33 AM
-2

Am I the only one who feels like these guys should have known what they were getting into going to a hotel room with Cardi B? #VictimBlaming
/r/MensRights28/03/19 02:09 AM
5

They're too far gone: "I had a woman bring her daughters in today and when she came up to the till and saw our gorgeous vulva stones and our period sticker packs she beamed, thanked us for what we were doing and said "what a beautiful place to take my daughters"... I swelled with pride," the cafe wrote in the Facebook post.
/r/MensRights27/03/19 05:14 PM
-1

Unfortunately, he's still the best chance to beat Trump.
/r/MensRights27/03/19 05:08 PM
1

If someone can say, "Yes, I want to have sex." then it's consent. Maybe they just froze!
/r/MensRights25/03/19 01:37 AM
4

"no means no." Uhhhh....... that kind of mid 1990's philosophy is how you accidentally rape someone in 2019, bro. You're looking for an enthusiastic and ongoing yes here, bud.
/r/MensRights24/03/19 08:01 PM
2

Based upon your quote about Mrs. X, you clearly do need to be taught how to not rape. This isn't 1985 anymore Mr. Kavanaugh. There's more to rape in 2019 than holding someone down and having sex with them against their will. You need to learn to not have consensual sex with someone who will regret granting that consent. That's how you learn to not rape in 2019.
/r/MensRights24/03/19 07:57 PM
0

I tend to believe the disinterest from the cops had more to do with him being a "MAGA person" than with him being a dude.
/r/MensRights18/03/19 02:11 PM
1

their 100k/year salary is only $25 an hour because of how many hours they work. That's like 80 hours / week for 52 weeks per year.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 09:06 PM
3

Why would any woman need to buy a book? I think they're pretty much born with the knowledge of how to do this.
/r/MensRights05/03/19 07:48 PM
-5

What if it was a homely 13 year old girl and the teacher looked like channing Tatum and she was hot for his cock and saying shit like this, "I can't get enough of your dick bby", would that be ok since she didn't sound like a victim? There's no victim in that case either. Gender is irrelevant.
/r/MensRights28/02/19 09:02 PM
-9

The boy replied: 'I want u bby. (sic).. when can we f**k again?', this time adding two red heart emojis to his message. 'I want to f**k you so bad baby those times weren't enough,' the boy replied to her The words of a victim.
/r/MensRights28/02/19 08:47 PM
15

More like now the rapist knows where all the ladies will be.
/r/MensRights10/02/19 03:50 AM
3

he was walking away from her in a threatening manner Learned from the cops
/r/MensRights09/02/19 09:09 PM
55

Wait a second. What do you think men's rights is about? Maybe I'm alone, but I think it is just about men and women having the same rights and responsibilities. You can't point out the inequalities that exist unless you demonstrate the unequal treatment of men and women. So you could post an article about a man getting 40 years in prison for possessing child porn, but how is that, on it's own, a men's rights issue? Or you could post an article about a woman getting 3 months of probation for stat…
/r/MensRights01/02/19 04:06 PM
3

Post conception reproductive rights Also, don't forget legal obligations that men have that women don't; such as registering for the draft.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 03:14 PM
9

Is this that toxic form of femininity that I haven't been hearing about?
/r/MensRights29/01/19 03:12 PM
3

If you have one cheeseburger that kind of tastes like crap, that doesn't mean all cheeseburgers taste like crap. If you meet one guy who is a bit of an ass, it doesn't mean that all men are asses.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 03:10 PM
16

Kelsie Schmidt, 22, is said to have sent the pictures to a 17-year-old student in her maths class at Beulah High School, North Dakota, USA. I am not alarmed.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 03:04 PM
4

10/10
/r/MensRights29/01/19 12:23 PM
1

I can't believe how casually he just called his ex-girlfriend - a woman who he allegedly loved and cared for at one point - a "bitch" repeatedly. Such misogyny!
/r/MensRights29/01/19 12:37 AM
61

This hits really close to home for me. Just last week I was reminiscing on reddit about some past sexual activities I had participated in with women. Next thing I know, I was jumping out of the bushes and raping someone! One thing leads to another. We can't deny it!
/r/MensRights29/01/19 12:32 AM
6

You can't want to be raped though. By definition, if you want (consent to) it, then it isn't rape. If feminists really wanted to end rape, they'd start teaching women to always consent. If women always consented, no woman would ever be raped. Rape wouldn't exist.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 06:32 PM
9

Not necessarily. Simply giving both of them the legal right to choose to not be a parent would create equality within the constraints of biology.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 04:04 PM
1

Completely disagree. I think one of the most important role for legislators is to identify and consider any unintended consequences of the laws they are considering, and to modify the law to avoid any unintended consequences that aren't wanted. For example, we don't have laws that simply say "it is illegal to kill another human being". We have laws against murder, and those laws provide for situations where killing another human being is legal. That's because, at some point, legislators realized…
/r/MensRights25/01/19 03:50 PM
7

The only abortion laws that I support are those that are gender neutral and work to give both mother's and father's as equal rights as possible within the limits of biology. This law seems to fail that test.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 03:17 PM
1

or get seriously injured from it It is only a matter of time (my guess is not much time) before "I will be mentally damaged by having this baby" is argued to be a form of "serious injury". And at that point, it gives women the right to abort in the 9th month because they changed their mind.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 03:15 PM
6

I always laugh about boycotts. Remember when we were going to boycott Chick-fil-a because their founder opposed gay marriage? Drive through lines wrap around the building all day every day. How's that boycott going? I guess liberals aren't a market worth keeping either.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 09:36 PM
3

Where are all the homeless women? That means for every 3 homeless guys I see on the streets, I should see one homeless woman on the streets, right? I don't know how it is where you live, but where I live homeless women certainly aren't visible.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 05:17 PM
-15

Accepting this relationship is not the problem and therefore does not require a solution. The problem is that we condemn 18 year old boys that are in loving relationships with younger girls. That's the solution we should be seeking.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 05:12 PM
2

this is for women in their 30s with teenage sons. Pbbbtttt… too late. I'm sure all of us had a few rapes and multiple sexual assaults under our belts by the time we were teenagers. Once you taste that sweet, sweet privilege, you can't really be taught to forget it.
/r/MensRights18/01/19 04:00 PM
4

Really Gillette? Is that the best you can be? You can do better.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 12:50 AM
6

Not that I know of, but he's a man, sooooo..... He just needs to do better.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 12:02 AM
17

Seems to me that rather than telling other men how to behave, this guy should just stop raping women if he wants to make the world a better place.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 06:25 PM
19

Man goes into a female locker room and one of the female athletes feels uncomfortable (justified or not), and the man is the perpetrator while the woman is the victim. Woman goes into a male locker room and one of the athletes makes that woman feel uncomfortable (justified or not), and the man is the perpetrator while the woman is the victim. What a time to be alive.
/r/MensRights02/01/19 09:00 PM
11

Wait. So all it takes is for one guy in the locker room to not consent to a particular reporter or reporters coming in, and they are banned? I'm not sure I believe this.
/r/MensRights02/01/19 08:58 PM
3

There's a few issues that cause this problem. The first is that very few people see themselves as extremists. So no matter how extreme someone is, the see the more extreme person as the extremist. The second is the old adage: When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. I've never met a feminist who hated men, thought men should have a curfew, or thought all men should be killed. That's what "typical" feminists think of when they think of "extremists". I've also never met…
/r/MensRights21/12/18 03:08 PM
1

Yes. Another read: 'I wish you could've stayed after with me.' The student then replied: 'Me too. I wish I could just hang out with you whenever we wanted.' And After one of their trysts, the boy sent Zamora a text saying he wanted to have sex with her again Yes, it broke the law. Yes, she should be punished. No, there is no victim. No, this guy isn't going to be traumatized by anything other than people telling him he should be traumatized.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 04:24 PM
-11

Meh. Nice money grab for the parents against the school district, but there is no victim here.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 03:59 PM
5

And feminists will argue two things: "Well the pay gap still exists! Men still earn more than women and that's a problem!" In other words, they'll just move the goal posts. "We need to understand why women make the choices they do that result in women earning less money". Of course, the reason is that they don't need to work for money to the same extent men need to work for money, because women (and society) are fine with being financially supported by someone else's labor.
/r/MensRights12/12/18 08:30 PM
0

As necessary as something like this is from a man's perspective, they seem really dangerous from a woman's perspective if she is with an actual rapist (and, therefore, seem like a pretty dubious tool that could be used by an actual rapist). Put yourself in the mind of a rapist (I mean, we're all men so it's easy, right?). You've got a chick on video consenting to sex. We already know that a lot of rapes aren't reported to begin with. How many are women going to report if they're on video consent…
/r/MensRights06/12/18 08:33 PM
3

Guys, guys... she has to put the penis in her mouth enthusiastically! Consent isn't hard! /s
/r/MensRights12/11/18 04:54 PM
29

Let's remember this the next time we hear about Trump sticking up for men's rights. Don't let us forget it the way we've forgotten the Central Park 5. Trump stands up for whatever helps him in the moment and attacks whatever offends him in the moment. He has no principles regarding men's rights or anything else.
/r/MensRights08/11/18 09:37 PM
2

Yeah, they should probably "start" monetizing men too.
/r/MensRights17/10/18 11:20 PM
5

It could go both directions. "With Alexa, you can nag your husband even when you're not home".
/r/MensRights15/10/18 11:42 PM
6

She was shouting the words “move, you never paid for two seats” then went on to push him and shout more abuse. Well, well, well now MRA's. The truth comes out doesn't it? Do you even read the articles you post? Because the thread title is disproven right there in the linked article. The guy was manspreading which is a form of sexual abuse! Thank god this woman was able to continue her train ride without being forced to share a carriage with her abusers!
/r/MensRights15/10/18 11:34 PM
3

This is the only reasonable action when we #BelieveWomen.
/r/MensRights15/10/18 11:28 PM
6

Very less jokes, smile, greetings, hangouts. This is progress to the advocates of the #MeToo, #BelieveWomen and Feminists movements. You can see it every day. When men complain about being worried about false allegations, Feminists tell them "it's simple, if you don't want to be accused of sexual assault, don't sexually assault anyone". These same feminists, however, considers jokes, greetings, smiling and hanging out to be sexual assault or harassment in any situation where it isn't wanted by t…
/r/MensRights15/10/18 07:39 PM
10

I've had, maybe 5 or 6 times, a woman say something along the lines of "wanna have sex"? But I interpreted it more along the lines of "I'm willing to have sex with you if you want to and just haven't asked yet" as opposed to getting my consent for sex that they were actively seeking.
/r/MensRights15/10/18 07:34 PM
1

I really wonder if there are any publicly traded companies based in California who don't already have multiple women on their board of directors. I'd be surprised if there were any, and certainly not any whose name anyone would recognize.
/r/MensRights12/10/18 12:26 AM
1

because of what is between her legs I'm also curious about the extent to which corporations are required to verify that their token woman is actually a woman.
/r/MensRights12/10/18 12:22 AM
1

I saw this there and didn't bother to comment. They clearly don't understand the concept of false allegations. Nothing, literally nothing, can protect you from a false allegation.
/r/MensRights11/10/18 02:36 PM
4

And then they'll complain that they're the ones being sexually harassed when your dick gets too close to them. Are you sure they are women, or are you just assuming their gender?
/r/MensRights11/10/18 02:34 PM
4

If a woman looks uncomfortable being touched, stop touching her. That's great advice. Unfortunately, to many feminists, the sexual assault has already occurred at this point so stopping doesn't really do anything to eliminate the accusation.
/r/MensRights09/10/18 12:20 AM
3

But is it any less damaging for a woman to get drunk, come on to you, initiate sex with you, and then post on Facebook that you raped her because you had sex with her when she was "drunk an unable to consent"?
/r/MensRights09/10/18 12:10 AM
5

Nah, that's all me. That post goes into a bit more detail that I typically do. Overall, I think there needs to be a distinction between a malicious false accusation and a mistaken false accusation. They can both cause similar harm to the accused, but eliminating/reducing them requires a different approach. When it comes to mistaken false accusation, a lot of it goes back to feminism. People here frequently whine about MRAs being anti-feminist rather than advocating for men. But as feminists cont…
/r/MensRights09/10/18 12:09 AM
68

"False claims" is starting to be as ambiguous as "sexual assault". We need to work towards better and more concise language with meanings that everyone will understand and agree to. When someone says "I was sexually assaulted", we don't really know what that means. Assuming they aren't outright lying, we know that something happened to them that they were uncomfortable with and that they considered that "something" to be of a sexual nature. But we don't know if someone accidentally brushed again…
/r/MensRights08/10/18 03:35 PM
18

This is ok because centuries of brutal oppression by men, of women, has made all women delicate flowers who must be continuously reminded that they are capable humans because otherwise they would never know.
/r/MensRights08/10/18 03:24 PM
4

It probably could make sense to change the language from "ruin" to "damage". Just like being sexually assaulted or raped can damage a person's life, but actually ruining the person's life is atypical. Brett Kavanaugh, like Clarence Thomas, will forever be known as "accused attempted rapist, Brett Kavanaugh". Whether or not that ruins his life could be debated. Whether or not it damages his life is not debatable.
/r/MensRights08/10/18 03:21 PM
7

LOL. YouTube comments: "You can't hit a pregnant girl".
/r/MensRights05/10/18 03:31 PM
4

Or..... If you give her sperm, she'll take your money and keep your child from you. If you giver her a house, she'll divorce you and live in it with some other guy. If you give her groceries, she'll complain that you never take her out to dinner. If you give her a smile, she'll slap you and call you a creep.
/r/MensRights05/10/18 03:26 PM
2

Doesn't matter how badly anyone annoys you yep. I don't understand where feminists get the idea that they're entitled to not be annoyed.
/r/MensRights05/10/18 01:13 AM
3

Why are female teacher's looking at their male student's bulges? I think we know why, don't we?
/r/MensRights04/10/18 08:17 PM
27

MRAhollywood Thanks to the SPLC, some people think that advocating for men's rights is hate speech.
/r/MensRights04/10/18 08:15 PM
7

I'd be interested in a study of emotional abuse by gender as well.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 03:03 PM
3

Women and girls have abused me emotionally There is precisely zero sympathy and empathy for men who discuss being emotionally abused by women. Men are told it is their fault and a problem with them.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 11:55 PM
1

Feminists will spin this as "it's scary for them because they're afraid (a) they'll be outed by a woman they sexually assaulted in the past or (b) they can't sexually assault women any longer".
/r/MensRights02/10/18 11:50 PM
1

It it were a male who did this no one would question it. yes I would
/r/MensRights29/09/18 10:58 AM
0

archive
/r/MensRights29/09/18 02:57 AM
3

The Republic of Gilead
/r/MensRights29/09/18 02:52 AM
-9

If the gender were reversed and all the people would agree that it was rape It would still be rape because that's what the law says. There would still be no victim.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 08:17 PM
-6

Ok. But there is no victim here.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 07:55 PM
-2

Prosecutors said Johnson had sex with two men while working at the House of Commons, a court-mandated, state-operated substance abuse treatment center in Mason. The men claimed they were not victimized by Johnson, but her status as a Michigan Department of Corrections employee meant that the men were unable to consent to the illicit encounters, Ingham County Chief Assistant Prosecutor Lisa McCormick said. There is no victim here
/r/MensRights28/09/18 05:28 PM
0

I frequently distinguish between malicious false rape accusation and mistaken false rape accusations. I personally think the former are quite rare (and frequently obviously false) while the latter are quite common. I think mistaken false accusations are becoming more common as feminists continue to lie about the definition of consent. I think it is important to distinguish between the two if we want to try to change public perception, because fighting against a culture of malicious accusations i…
/r/MensRights28/09/18 03:04 PM
1

What does it mean that a subreddit is quarantined? Obviously different from being banned.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 02:57 PM
9

I don't even know when I first started coming to reddit. Maybe 6-7 years ago? At that point, the whole idea behind reddit was that it was a bastion of free speech without limits. Anyone could set up a subreddit for any cause they want and moderate it the way they wanted. While ideas may have been silenced from certain subreddits, no ideas were silenced from the whole of reddit. That started changing when /r/creepshots was banned and /u/violentacrez was doxed. It's been continuing ever since. We …
/r/MensRights28/09/18 02:52 PM
5

Only women are never believed when it comes to rape allegations. Feminist Solution: Never believe men when it comes to rape denials. And so it goes....
/r/MensRights27/09/18 06:51 PM
-16

This relationship and crime is the quintessential example of there is no victim here.
/r/MensRights24/09/18 01:24 AM
4

This is a stupid debate because there is simply no way to know the percentage of rape accusations that are false. Even if everyone agreed on the definition of consent, there are typically only 2 people who actually know what happened. And if those 2 don't agree, it is virtually impossible to determine whether that even goes into the "rape" category or the "false accusation" category.
/r/MensRights23/09/18 02:23 AM
8

THIS IS NOT NEW. I was in college 30 years ago and the fear of someone regretting consenting to sex and crying rape was front-of-mind for every guy in the school
/r/MensRights22/09/18 08:41 PM
-1

No
/r/MensRights21/09/18 11:07 PM
1

delay delay delay so that it might be possible to get to the midterm elections so that one party can block the nomination I don't disagree with their objective. But their tactics are pretty transparent.
/r/MensRights21/09/18 08:07 PM
17

Your best bet is to go to your college's Title IX office and report that you have been sexually harassed by this woman. The first to report is the victim, the other is the perpetrator.
/r/MensRights20/09/18 12:40 AM
0

No.
/r/MensRights19/09/18 09:03 PM
3

Here is a great tool for sorting what you should be reading. Thanks, but requires a login. Its a AI that analyzes natural language to decide the quality of what you are reading. Bias doesn't start after the article written and read. It starts when deciding what stories to cover in the first place. how much harder it is to justify your beliefs What are my beliefs?
/r/MensRights19/09/18 07:43 PM
6

You read straight news from real journalists. Doesn't exist. (Assuming your claim is that this provides you with news without bias)
/r/MensRights19/09/18 07:29 PM
3

Why do people watch both Fox News and MSNBC? I realize you likely don't and would prefer to live in an echo chamber, but lots of people prefer to hear multiple viewpoints and express their own viewpoints with people who both agree, and disagree with them.
/r/MensRights19/09/18 07:21 PM
5

You are attacking the nominee's accuser. That is far different from defending the president's nominee. But you are implicitly admitting you say shit that is so indefensible that you could be harmed by people knowing it. Shit dude, if you don't realize that you could be harmed by people knowing that even post on this sub - much less what you say - then you've got a lot more faith in people than I do.
/r/MensRights19/09/18 06:00 PM
2

She's from Hawaii. That's a pretty blue state. Unlikely she's in any danger from Republicans.
/r/MensRights19/09/18 05:55 PM
2

It's really weird to hear Joe Biden say this because he ass raped me when I was just a little boy.
/r/MensRights19/09/18 05:53 PM
1

I just wish feminists could walk a day in my shoes. I'm a 50 year old dude. The number of times some other guys without a clue explains something to me that I already know better than him is unbelievable. It has nothing to do with her being a woman and everything to do with him being a douche.
/r/MensRights19/09/18 05:52 PM
6

Call me a bad MRA, but I start a new account every few months to clear my post history. Don't need to get doxed Where have I defended the president's nominee?
/r/MensRights19/09/18 05:38 PM
10

I just don't see the point of an investigation, and especially the accuser requesting an investigation. You go. You testify. You tell the truth. What does an investigation do? It isn't going to change the truth so it shouldn't change her testimony. It sounds to me like it's "let's investigate this and see if you can prove that I'm lying before I testify under oath, because if we do it in the reverse order, I'm getting charged with perjury".
/r/MensRights19/09/18 02:12 PM
3

Nicely selected photos to accompany that article.
/r/MensRights14/09/18 07:21 PM
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