orangecatspajamas Archive

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32	If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows. Poor woman, her husband doesn’t even like her enough to care that she is happy to see him after being apart for the day! My ex was like this. When he got home he would resent you speaking to him until he wanted to dump all this drama from the day on you. But if you wanted to share anything, then suddenly it was “not the right time” or “why don’t you let me relax after work?” Men don’t want a full person as a partner they want an appliance so they act out when their partner acts like a real perso…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/22 04:49 PM
21	One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run! So he expects her tasks to increase over time and his to stay the same or decrease? “A little lazy” indeed. If he can’t even handle one small task like making sure the lights are turned out then that tells you all you need to know. What would happen if the doctor prescribes bed rest? Or when she needs to heal after birth? I bet it was his idea for her to stop working, making her dependent on his income. Add the pregnancy to that and he felt like he has her fully trapped so he can let the mask sl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 06:58 PM
40	STOP BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR ABUSERS WHO BEND YOU FORWARD AND SCREW YOU. She is so fortunate not to end up like Gabby Petito, yet she still wants to be accommodating to her hobosexual ex who ousted her from a van in another state. The AUDACITY. I really hope she does not give in and hand deliver it because this scrote is trying one last gambit to exert control and he might not let her leave. You can also expect that he would make her meet him alone in a remote location to further isolate her. This whole thing is concerning because now she is also now relying on literal strangers for a place to stay.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 05:45 PM
76	Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental health This describes my ex as well! All men want to do is complain “that no one cares” but when the someone does care and offers valid solutions they don’t want to put in the effort. My ex would moan about how he worked so much and never had time for himself…. He set his own hours and could easily fix that. Men created their own hang ups on mental health so of course they have to whine that FeMaLeS don’t care. It’s a cheap excuse that appeals to some people’s caretaking side.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 02:10 PM
7	Let’s talk about choosing not to block The most fun I’ve had in a while was going through and blocking every friend and family member of my ex on top of blocking him. They are all social media addicts and would still watch my stories and like and comment on my posts. They don’t deserve to have access to what I post. I care about myself too much to leave the door open for future disrespect. I’d rather go wild blocking people connected to my ex than to risk having them keep tabs on me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/22 11:21 PM
7	Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?” Yes! My ex would just tell me what I wanted to hear and that would kick the issue down the road. Rinse. Repeat. Then when we would have the same conversation the next month and the next month I would suddenly be a “nag” because we already cOmMuNiCaTeD right?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 06:08 PM
11	Update: Saw My Ex on OLD. Yes! You deserve a man who puts in effort and it will be easier to weed out the LVM now that you have a set of clear standards to apply. If they fail to meet them or won’t meet them, move along. A friend of mine sent me screenshots of my ex’s profile and he is using solo/cropped photos from our engagement shoot from 4 years ago, and is suddenly 2 inches taller. Scrotes really just paint themselves in the best light on OLD and hope we don’t notice the BS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/21 10:00 PM
27	"HURR DURR I FEEL CONFIDENT IN MY APPERANCE I ACCEPT MYSELF" a tale of mediocre life coping The bare minimum of basic hygiene is still too high of a bar to clear for most men. Meanwhile women are not allowed to age and must look 20 forever or be invisible. I’d rather be invisible to most men if that’s the case 💁🏼‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 09:35 PM
5	Just a few dating strategies: I’ll be saving these for sure. Implementing number one has been so helpful, it really simplifies who I give my time to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 03:50 PM