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1	Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender. In my most recent experience she was very conservative and independent. She wanted to have an equitable relationship but nothing she did lended itself to such a thing. After pulling back the layers she wanted for relationships that she had described as toxic which was counter to how she described her desired relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 04:01 PM
2	Women blame men who get rejected for having bad attitudes to avoid appearing shallow Cliff note: if you are good looking enough based upon the scale of the woman she will overlook a lot of red flags...if not she will make a convenient excuse to exit. I’ve overlooked red flags due to attraction knowing those red flags may later be an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 08:05 PM
1	Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men do In some regard women only get to select from the partners who are attracted to them. I’ve known many introverted women that would never make any suggestion they had interest in me but were. So for some they may never actually get what they want in a partner due to the fact they aren’t willing to act interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 02:03 AM
7	CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repaired The flaw in online dating is expectations. Once someone becomes a “yes” and continue to say the right things we romanticize this person we have never met in real life into this ideal mate. When we finally meet them there is simply no way they can meet the expectation that we’ve envisioned so they do not stand a chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 06:28 PM
1	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Accurate representation of many dates I’ve been on. More like job interviews...common friends on Facebook will be used as references.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 03:51 PM
1	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. It’s the idea that a date can only have one successful outcome and that is bf/gf that leads to marriage. When I got past the one outcome idea of dating I began to enjoy more of the dates I went on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 02:19 AM

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