orangeoval Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Reaching out for support and insight It's not easy but start by trying not to look for and seek it out in his behavior and speech. The more you look for it the more you will find it whether it's genuine or not. Speech is incredibly important. That YOU statement thing is something I learned a long time ago. By saying I need this or that you force them to think about you and your feelings and needs.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/19 07:11 PM
-1	Reaching out for support and insight So nothing really related to redpill then. My advice is to stop worrying about the redpill stuff altogether and just talk with him. Set boundaries and make them clear regarding the disrespect and intimacy differences. Tell him what you want and need from the relationship. I need this and this and this. Do not say I need YOU to do this or I need YOU to change. YOU statements like those start fights by putting the person you are talking to on the defensive.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/19 06:58 PM
4	Reaching out for support and insight What problems were you having in the relationship prior to this discovery?	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/19 06:34 PM