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| 990 | What was that about being a lonely spinster? | QUEEN SUPREME | orchid447 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 06:14 AM |
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| 17 | Let’s hear your clever responses to “How are you still single?!”"It's grueling work! But way better than the alternative!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:20 PM |
| 77 | That’s all women are good for, porn genreGod I almost downvoted this out of disgust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 05:00 AM |
| 41 | Man claims he has gotten "absurdly hot" over the coarse of his marriage and now resents his wife....good god the AUDACITYHe's pretty whiny e.g. "I could be having sex with porn stars but my wife is fiercely monogamist :cryemoji: :cryemoji:" and he out of his own awful fingers did type the words "I settled for what I could get" when talking about their marriage, but he put in the work and got hot, right? Just kidding, if all he can say about being married for ten years and his wife going through multiple child births is how rough he has it because she's not hot you can bet your ass this is just another aspirational… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:15 PM |
| -2 | An oldie but a goodieWell you need the covid shot to live through a global pandemic... It's not exactly the same thing But yeah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 12:09 AM |
| 181 | This is why FDS says we shouldn’t act like wives until we’re married. Scrote asks for pre-nup after his live-in bangmaid mommy bankrolls his life and “builds” with him for nearly a decade.I bet she knew her boyfriend was a pos this whole time but reading FDS would have meant having to see it May she come back someday lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:30 PM |
| 13 | Bought myself a crown just bcuz I wanna celebrate the scrote-free air I get to breath for the first time after 11 years✨ ANY future scrote that makes me feel less than how I make myself feel rn is not worth it 👋But you'll get threatening messages for wearing a fucking crown instead of something that panders to their dimwit gaze 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 18 | He's 48, she's 19. They met when he was her tennis coach at 13 YEARS OLD. I'm disgusted and outraged for her and at him.Public perception on age gap relationships need to change and education needs to happen, that's it. Women/girls already growing up in this overly sexed up society just don't see how deeply this predatory shit goes until they've already been through it. That doesn't need to happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:34 PM |
| 13 | We have every right to be scared of men and take our precautions. Period.Hoooly shit that's dark | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:43 AM |
| 4 | An interview with a Narcissist Psychopath. Highly recommended if you know you dated or married one!Thank you for posting this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 33 | “sUB dROp” 🤦🏾♀️Thiiiiiiiiiis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:07 PM |
| 36 | Never be friends with them. A man befriends a woman working at a construction site. He kills her when he finds out she has a boyfriend. This is why I always just straight ignore any man who tries to talk to me if I don’t himThat is not an unfounded fear. I'd still rather have a gun and come out alive though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 9 | Women’s bodies are not put on this Earth to be bought and sold under an artificially created capitalist systemYep, false dichotomy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 15 | Women’s bodies are not put on this Earth to be bought and sold under an artificially created capitalist systemWow how did you relate learning and being able to financially sustain yourself so one dimensionally? I am impressed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:05 PM |
| 7 | If you have an mental illness - be extra cautious of men trying to manipulate you or gaslight youIf you don't know don't worry, they'll decide for you every step of the way! Lol but seriously don't do that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:07 PM |
| 43 | If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play.But never forget you're worth slowing down for!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:49 PM |
| 2 | A couple adopts 2 daughters and I just find this moment with the youngest daughter, her father, and big puppy so heartwarming. I’m glad the father didn’t push his daughter and let her take her time warm up to him. I really hope it’s a warm home for both of these little girls.Haha I'm tearing up! What a beautiful moment for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:33 AM |
| 150 | Block and Delete Him, Sis. Otherwise he will suck you back in or try to gaslight you.I get wanting closure, it seems easier than reading a whole-ass "Why Does He Do That" book. But that's exactly why that book exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:48 PM |
| 7 | Reddit: Feminism will destroy societies - Reality: Countries with a strong sense of gender equality have the highest standards of living, and even men are trying to escape patriarchal hellholes to live in those very countriesThis is really, really, reaaaaally unfair because the US/world super powers really fucked a bunch of countries and made them shit holes since like... Forever. Like we still doin it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:27 AM |
| 6 | “The way people talked about Britney Spears was terrifying to me then, and it still is now,” writes Mara Wilson. “Her story is a striking example of a phenomenon I’ve witnessed for years: Our culture builds these girls up just to destroy them.”Dm me too please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:30 PM |
| 67 | “The way people talked about Britney Spears was terrifying to me then, and it still is now,” writes Mara Wilson. “Her story is a striking example of a phenomenon I’ve witnessed for years: Our culture builds these girls up just to destroy them.”She also had Danny Devito as a producer instead of some asshole pedo like all the other child stars we're finding out about now. He and Rhea Pearlman took great care of her on set, which is so heartwarming considering her mom was in her final stages in the hospital with cancer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:52 AM |
| 4 | No trousers.Trousers??? Shut the fuck up Frodo Baggins get your hairy unwashed ass to Mordor and do something with yourself. Maybe then you won't feel the need to own women as slaves Why are abusers so fucking cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:10 PM |
| 32 | So truethe men who try to put their penis where it doesn't go The only place a penis doesn't go is where there isn't enthusiastic consent between consenting peers. That's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:29 AM |
| 174 | Never take a man at face valueNot sure how naive this sounds but I think it's well worth keeping your character by not stooping to manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:15 AM |
| 8 | I doubt it shocks anyone here that Evan Rachel Wood is calling out Marilyn Manson for abuse. He has been such a crucial normalizer of sexual depravity. Out your abusers. Let’s help end this libfem sexpos mindset.You don't hate tool? I can maybe change that for you (used to be my favorite fucking band on earth. But yeah I never understood why the fan base sucked so much. I still don't. I never will). It's an allegation, sure, but the details are too nuanced to be this made up I think. https://www.google.com/amp/s/consequenceofsound.net/2018/06/maynard-james-keenan-sexual-assault-allegations/amp/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 08:18 AM |
| 9 | What in the pickmeisha hell is this clownery? The only thing I’m growing are my plants 🌱🪴At least plants can create a healthy environment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:36 AM |
| 32 | These are the men who want you to be honoured they let you be in their presence.Could be that. Could also be him shit testing to see how much control you'll fork over your fork when he speaks to you like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:22 PM |
| 36 | Against my intuition and at the advice of the community, I tried Bumble BFF to make friends. My results.Genuinely asking, can that be called a genuine friendship or are you staving off boredom with a fleshy irl version of the Jerry Springer show? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:19 AM |
| 2 | "I love you too much to use condoms"Yup. Had an ex who to this day says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me give me a kidney infection (yes I peed after sex) and sent me to the ER with a 5k bill he let me pay off myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:00 AM |
| 53 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.Same. And I was stupid enough to be porn/bdsm/sex work positive for decades without ever deeply questioning it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Whatever His Kink, Arm1e Hamm3r Is an AbuserAbusing/grooming women is so utterly mundane that the internet just argued over whether him being a cannibal is funny or kinkshaming instead 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 11:32 PM |
| 12 | 'You see, what happens is that the moment you get a life, the moment the man feels that he needs to earn your time and affection [they love it], as their minds are wired to thrive on challenges. 'We shouldn’t be available to him all the time because then he will not value the moment when you areMeh, I remember a few months ago a specific woman of color who does the exact same thing she does said that when she helped her with her YouTube channel (helped her get it off the ground basically), the favor was never reciprocated and she got ignored entirely. I'll see if I can find it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 04:57 AM |
| 62 | Gaslighting, manipulation and mental abuse in 60 seconds. How much do we bet that he also expects his girlfriends to pay for his food and calls her ride or die when she forgives his cheating?The ancient Greeks (where we get our gov't & a large part of our philosophy from, etc.) absolutely did not care for women. In Athens they were at the level of slaves. As patients, if they ever sought medical care, were literally thought to be scientifically subhuman. Even as birth givers women were thought to do nothing but incubate, they weren't even seen as parents, but a vessel that the father chose. Edit: shit guys, they thought our uteruses wandered around our body and made us insane, and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:10 PM |
| 12 | Invest in yourselfYour biggest money maker is by roping other people in to sell the same shitty product. Otherwise known as a pyramid scheme. They're really shit/basic products with huge mark up preying on desperate people. If LVMs were a sales product they would be pyramid scheme products. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 27 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.And thinking on some level that it's actually possible to change their partner, if they just communicated enough. It's tragic to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:50 PM |
| 16 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.Found her YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/sydsnap It's not quite satire it's not quite attention seeking through being sexual, it's like.. I think she considers herself an honorary basement dweller? Like she seems like she's joking but.. I think she's doing that to cover how much she'd... Probably actually do it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:03 AM |
| 51 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospitalOnly until he doesn't have to do it anymore, then we'll go back to having it easy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 11:04 PM |
| 57 | BoundariesThat makes a lot of sense, a relationship is something you get to build; which is very antithetical to "going with the flow" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:01 AM |
| 30 | NoBoDy ReALLy uNdErStAnDs MeBeing a ride or die (in this bullshit society, give me the egalitarian pre-colonized Americas) is just giving yourself 200 lbs of mental illness. Fucking pass, never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 07:38 AM |
| 82 | Wow! I think we all know this deep down, but it really struck me seeing it written out so succinctly.My most malignant, abusive partner, hell, actually all the LVMs I've been with, were all sweet and very easy going with wait staff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:17 PM |
| 15 | I’m truly disgusted.That'd be the best case scenario given the situation. Who knows though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:20 PM |
| 88 | I’m truly disgusted.I feel bad for the little girl who has this pathetic manchild for a father | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 55 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.Given how you've handled what you've been through I don't doubt for a second you'll achieve whatever the hell you want now. Fuck that guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Thank you for the deprogramming!I love reading these stories | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | When a HVM messes upOh my god my heart, this is so cute! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:49 PM |
| 91 | What would you do if a NVM took you to a grocery store and gave you $50 on your first date? I’d take the money and go straight home.I like this. Not taking the money would definitely broadcast a bigger message of the disparity between us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | When I read this I knew it belonged hereYou're going to eventually collect thousands of perks. Keep it up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 55 | Popped up in my feed today- Unable to put up with LV nonsense, more like!Yup! Same problem, the exact same solution | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 25 | This poor woman 😭 RUNNot if you grew up/are otherwise very used to being abused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:40 PM |
| 22 | Just another manipulation tactic!Why put in the effort to change your behavior when you can just punish the person you already didn't respect in the first place? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:01 AM |
| 16 | This ultra-FDS woman is my new role model 😂Yeah idk if manipulating him to do chores is the mark of a hvm, he'd just do it when it needed to be done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 09:02 PM |
| 33 | Never underestimate the lies men will tell just to get sex. I hope this poor woman leaves.Plenty of men have happy pets and treat their own children better than they'll treat the woman they'll date. It's a nice green flag but ultimately meaningless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Imagine being petty with your child who made a decision when they were thirteen years oldReally liking the 'ex' part of that whole story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:04 AM |
| 6 | Hook ups and ONs are a touch overrated due to the influence of porn.How about : neither of those things are good Sex ought to be about genuine connection and shared pleasure, porn is male-centric by design and destroying how y'all relate to women period, in or out of the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 05:39 AM |
| 12 | ComebacksLol this is definitely the post that's gonna get this subreddit the ax | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Why do they compare FDS to other hateful subs?I don't think it's an even exchange though, there's no amount of money that ever makes up for the emotional destruction this kind of work brings comes with (unless you're a psychopath/sociopath). They're still upholding the same female-aimed abusive system regardless of the golden birdcage they let themselves be in. Getting paid to be objectified does damage just the same. That's why I'm saying girls in this industry pacify themselves with expensive things subconsciously to try and believe it's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Why do they compare FDS to other hateful subs?They don't get paid enough. Society gives no fucks about them as human beings and even less if they end up killed. Imo it's why the vast majority of them end up getting so attached to living an opulent lifestyle. It's pacification for the social attachments no one outside of their jobs care to think they should have. I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 19 | June 12th is known as "Loving Day" to celebrate the day laws against interracial marriage were struck by the US Supreme Court. Richard Loving sent this message to the court via his lawyer: "Mr. Cohen, tell the Court I love my wife, and it is just unfair that I can't live with her in Virginia".The tenderness between them is so striking in these photos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:12 AM |
| 24 | So sad...Thinking it's somehow empowering/freeing is the worst part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 36 | Famous Scrote demands 'swinging" lifestyle after he marries. Goes on to humiliate wife in Playboy interview. She divorces him. Scrote is shocked and confused.Nothing says happiness like trying to cover up your self-imposed exploitation with more shiny things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 07:40 AM |
| 12 | Contents of the Male brainI don't think the tiny brain means what you think it means. That's where the most basic life-sustaining human functions are located. Without that you don't get to have any of the higher brain stuff Totally agree with you in spirit though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Let’s hope she gets picked 🤡You might be right, but I don't know if self awareness is a fixed trait or if it can be expanded under the right conditions depending where LVMs are on that spectrum. I reckon the mindset most geared towards human evolution is to believe that it can be? But as of now I'll definitely extend the proverbial hand to pickmeisha ladies 😅. I think female solidarity has a long way to go and being more proactive about it wouldn't be the worst thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Let’s hope she gets picked 🤡I think they perpetuate the LVM mindset indefinitely (because of the 0 barrier to entry, why try to be better?), end up creating more LVMs for the same reason, and potentially strengthen pickme mindsets in their friends. I don't think this is good at all. I want more strong minded women out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:58 AM |
| 10 | Whats with men feigning weird eye health issues to excuse their bad behaviour?Unless they stand next to one of their paintings in a photo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:17 AM |
| 8 | nah we heard you the first time 🚯And that's how they sell "salesmanship" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 08:45 AM |
| 11 | That subreddit is pickmeisha haven 🤧She'll probably be flattered about it too 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 01:53 AM |
| 125 | Some Antique WisdomI love that her disdain for men gets her automatically labeled a lesbian🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 11:20 AM |
| 10 | Teenager Dressed as Spider-Man Beats up a Paedo.Are you kidding? Showcasing the types of things HVMs do is totally relevant😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Jhene Aiko: Why Won’t You Marry Me?? Big Sean: Shiiiiddd, uhh, it’s in the works 🤥🤥🤥🥴Wow when was this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:46 AM |
| 21 | MoodI just read the wiki of his documentary (haven't seen it myself so maybe I'm missing something), apparently the Department of Child Services and psychologists that interviewed the children concluded that the children were deceptive and seemed to be performing for their mother, noting that the youngest son "acted possessed" whenever he was challenged or was asked "questions that he did not wish to answer". Also not just the landlord but prior tenants to that house never experienced paranormal act… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 10:58 PM |
| 144 | MoodNah, Satanism is mostly about rejecting idealism. It's like a weird offshoot of humanism as a philosophy, but more eye-for-an-eye. Scientologists believe... Some weird, weird shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 09:52 PM |
| 98 | As if being single is a disease 🙄I took testosterone for muscle building purposes one year and while it made me feel more relaxed, I was still as considerate before as I was after... I think at least lol. I say it's male entitlement thousands of years entrenched into the social system. And idiots reaping the benefits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:42 AM |
| 80 | Ha!I never thought they'd be grateful but I thought they would want to see me for who I was a person and let me see them, and you know... love each other for who we each were. Lol god I was a clown. Pretty and ugly guys feel the same shallowness and objectivity towards women. It just presents in different ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:17 AM |
| 6 | Boundaries and outcomes: being decisive is self-preservationIntelligence/education doesn't have much to do with the likelihood of getting played, it more depends on how psychologically open/vulnerable/pliable you are, if you're the type of person who asks questions and doesn't just idly take someone's word about things. Abusers will talk to anyone and everyone who will listen to their bullshit or won't put up much of a fight. They don't like being fact checked. If you're easy going they'll test the waters with you to see what they can get away with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:10 AM |
| 4 | sneak peak into the realities of a pickmeishaThanks! I'll check it out Edit: omg it's everything ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:51 AM |
| 14 | sneak peak into the realities of a pickmeishaOh I enjoyed that WAY more than I thought I would 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 7 | How dare you deprive men of wives because you're in love with each other ?!Probably, what's your point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:46 AM |
| 20 | So ladies, there has been a lot of focus on LVMs but what is your definition of a HVW?As someone with an abusive and lazy mom it still shakes my whole world to read stuff like this and I love it! Thank you ❤️❤️ and sorry your dad's family is so crummy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 04:06 PM |
| 28 | JFC. Yes, reward him for bad behavior as well.Yep. From her in the comments section: This is helpful thank you. And I can add context in the post, but I am the bread winner, work a harder job, am the primary planner, and do the feminine chores like meal planning, food shopping, cooking, cleaning, and also the manly chores. I’ve hung every curtain and put together every piece of furniture in the house. He takes out the garbage and recycling but that’s it. I’ve been asking him to fix our leaky faucet since April 2019. It’s still broken. Maybe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:41 AM |
| 37 | JFC. Yes, reward him for bad behavior as well.Because women are brainwashed to accept this shit as cute and endearing instead of the massive failure that it actually is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:28 AM |
| 246 | Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blownSensitive shmensitve! I so commend you, shouting it from the rooftops, for listening to your gut all your life and being true to yourself. That's really rare; your lack of experience is nothing but a testament to how in tune with yourself you really are. Keep on keeping on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 12:20 AM |
| 27 | Watch out for these greasy men, ladiesI never appreciated aging so much before! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:57 AM |
| 46 | Why LVM gravitate to BDSM (particularly DOM) cultureThere's nothing to be ashamed of, ever. You didn't do anything wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 07:09 PM |
| 3 | I was reading replies from non-cheating married who were asked why they had refrained from cheating on their wives. The overwhelming response?Respect, obviously, but it's still a variation of their stupid incel vocabulary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 10:05 AM |
| 87 | Good morning, beautiful! She isn’t everyones’ favorite, but she sure is on point! Tales from the Mortuary: by SheraSeven1I've seen graphic medical amputation videos that aren't as gross as that situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:03 PM |
| 165 | Do not be that girl.I'm planning to go the other route : no boyfriends, lots of adopted cuties! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:50 AM |
| 9 | If he wants to be with you, he will.Obviously the bartender didn't want to be with you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:45 AM |
| 38 | But why, Pickmiesha?🤦🏾♀️Lol I used to be this level of cringe. It mostly has to do with being so psychologically abused where you think you owe everyone everything... All the time. Even non-abusive guys won't say shit, they love how you bend over backwards for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:21 AM |
| 50 | Never accept a relationship born this way.Don't want to drag women who've done this, because if you're not a psychopath you're probably doing this to cope with something really intense/buried. But omfg go find a therapist already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:54 AM |
| 16 | If your gut is telling you something might be off with him, something is off.Or to those who've been ignoring their gut for so long that at this point its barely even felt and you still constantly bulldoze through it for the sake of other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:15 AM |
| 10 | I Was The Best WomanWe've all been there <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:03 AM |
| 52 | Alabama lawmaker responds to abortion ban with mandatory vasectomy bill: 'It always takes two to tango'Just a queen doing queen shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:57 AM |
| 63 | From Gillian Flynn’s “Gone Girl”. Women have ALWAYS been expected to compromise their standards and identify to be a “cool girl”. And for what? Have you ever seen a man do this? No.Yep. Can attest. Saw this dream girl in the 90s/2000s and my friendless little self hating preteen self aspired to be her for decades to follow. I feel so sorry for my past little self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:27 AM |
| 15 | She had us in the first half nglListen to Megan Thee Stallion on repeat, it'll help channel some bad bitch energy and help you get over that struggle 😂 men ain't shit. Even the supposed good ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:30 AM |
| 52 | She had us in the first half nglBeing here for a few months really made me shift into this type of thinking... they're using us anyway, except they get to hide behind the plausible deniability of TrYInG tO bE fRiEnDs hurr durrr, lol get the fuck out of here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Stumbled upon this post in my feed. Has anyone heard of this? The rape sympathizers are strong hereoop 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:05 AM |
| 9 | Stumbled upon this post in my feed. Has anyone heard of this? The rape sympathizers are strong hereYeah but I want punishment, not a deterrent! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Stumbled upon this post in my feed. Has anyone heard of this? The rape sympathizers are strong hereSometimes when you're being raped you're frozen with shock/fear. I agree with everything else you said though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:59 PM |
| 10 | Man is about to get $1.4 Million dollars. Is already looking for a way to upgrade his wife.I think this post alone severed the last bit of hope I had left for finding a HVM. I think I'll just Megan-Thee-Stallion my life here on out (except not get with that trash G-Eazy) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 03:17 AM |
| 8 | “I’m only down with FMF threesomes” 🙄omg the truth bomb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 11 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowlol Imma throw both those men away. If you can't take care of yourself you do not have any capacity for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:19 PM |
| 24 | Former guy I dated when I was a broken/ abused pickmeisha apologizes and then asks for fwb. Trigger warning: Sexual coercionI think she knows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:16 PM |
| 18 | Ladies, men will DATE you and become your SO because you have low self-esteem, and will LEAVE you because you have low self-esteem!!You probably just saved me another couple failed relationships sis ✊ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:09 PM |
| 122 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.Yeah this is important. Never tell a man what your minimum standards are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:10 AM |
| 19 | Man sets his wife on fire, abandons her because she's not pretty anymore, and feels zero remorse. He claims: "I don't know what I'd apologize for." Ladies, watch out for and avoid sociopathic LVMs like this guy. They will literally ruin your life and not even feel bad about it.Someone needs to set him on fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:58 PM |
| 11 | I've been in a relationship with my (26f) boyfriend (31m) for seven years. I am the definition of a forever girlfriend.Wow what a parasitic little sociopath. I am so sorry for your cousin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Do not let men lovebomb you.Haha! Mine's "thanks my mom made it" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 09:03 AM |
| 11 | LVMs standards for women vs pickmeishas standards for menOh yeah true. Nevermind 😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:48 AM |
| -9 | LVMs standards for women vs pickmeishas standards for menWhat a shame too, if he'd just shave the neck beard and change absolutely everything about his personality he could easily be a 6. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:31 AM |
| 8 | LVM preparing themselves for another day of not being shitHow did you get all my exes in one picture 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 08:24 AM |
| 18 | Received this trash from a man with whom I've had a couple dates over the past year. All they have is audacity.Lol I took it for 3 months straight once and I didn't notice a shift in bitch shit behavior. Pretty sure it's all them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:35 AM |
| 31 | A QUEEN standing up for herself 👏🏻👏🏻As long as more women get to see this self respect shit I don't care if it's fake! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:24 AM |
| 8 | I admit I was in a bad mood already and my tolerance was in the NEGATIVE for even the most minimal of perceived manipulationsThey don't see us as people, but rather means to an end (money, sex, validation, food). So hurting us to get it is not a big deal, the same way you'd use a butchers knife to cut the meat out of a pig. Gaslighting is what they use. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:46 PM |
| 20 | I got this trash today lmfao. My profile has zero personal shit on it. It has very little info, but he's crazy as you can clearly seeM'lady | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:42 PM |
| 25 | Better to cry alone than reveal your pain to a scrote in HVM clothing.I had a guy do this (later in a relationship) just to deliberately traumatize me in the same ways. He even justified it telling me I needed to be hurt this way to learn my lessons because "that's what I'm used to". Some people like triggering you because creating emotional flashbacks for you weakens your boundaries and hard earned progress immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Pay attention to the things they do early on that show you how they perceive youHow does giving people a taste of their own medicine encourage them to be better exactly? Also rehabilitation for bad behavior I don't think has ever included punishment. Edit : this is the comment that gets me labeled pickmesha? 😂 😂 😂 Edit: it's back to newbie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Pay attention to the things they do early on that show you how they perceive youAgreed, and that's not what I'm arguing for either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:41 AM |
| 46 | Pay attention to the things they do early on that show you how they perceive you"When they go low, we go high" Some cool lady said that. Also I think doing little things like that permeates into your greater character over all. I'm not bashing your strategy though, there might be greater merit to it but I don't see it. I think encouraging people to be better or doing nothing at all eventually contributes to the greater good/a better society. Butterfly effect and shit.l | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:09 AM |
| 40 | They are so predictable..No she didn't/doesn't. She's out there but she's very aware of the things she does. Also come on. Let's not call women crazy, men do that enough as is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Husband Repeatedly Forgets Wife’s Birthday and repeatedly lies to get out of it. Oh but he got her some lingerie.I know!! Seems really unfair that it was, too. The post has already kindly been copy/pasted by u/ThinkTofu in this thread but here's a link in case you can't see it for whatever reason: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/erqyhk/husband_repeatedly_forgets_wifes_birthday_and/ff5lhbn?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:54 PM |
| 15 | Parrots vs LVMsOh for sure lol. I don't think most animals can top most politicians. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:51 PM |
| 32 | Parrots vs LVMsThis is so sweet!! I wouldn't extrapolate this to human behavior quite yet, plenty of other animal species are straight up ghastly and barbaric.. I'm looking at you penguins | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 11 | Husband Repeatedly Forgets Wife’s Birthday and repeatedly lies to get out of it. Oh but he got her some lingerie.Did you read her post? The issue is a lot worse than getting or not getting a gift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:54 PM |
| 16 | Husband Repeatedly Forgets Wife’s Birthday and repeatedly lies to get out of it. Oh but he got her some lingerie.If her whole life was spent with no one caring about her birthday, I'd place a million dollar bet she was systematically abused on a bunch of other psychological levels, mininum. That shit can mentally stunt you indefinitely. She needs a lot of love and kindness first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:49 PM |
| 32 | i am so tiredI just got that question yesterday! When I responded truth he asked "shaved, clean, or bush?" This was a 45 year old business man in a suit and tie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:55 PM |
| 25 | Stop listing off what he did. You are not his dating coach, therapist or ettiquette teacher.God what a shallow, sad existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 10:23 AM |
| 25 | Remember ladies - we can get porn sick tooSame! I don't know about anyone else but after stopping I've noticed I do it mostly to avoid some visceral negative feeling... So getting to the root of that negativity has become much more productive/rewarding anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 04:51 AM |
| -2 | ..... so you want a girlfriend but you don’t want to be in a relationship ok...this pic seems pretty innocuous tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:42 AM |
| 6 | LADIES - KEEP YOUR STANDARDS HIGH AND NEVER FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. READ: HOW MEN TREAT WOMEN THEY FIND UNF*CKABLE.I let that interaction take up more real estate in my head than I should. It's understandable though, what he said to you was dehumanizing and you didn't fucking deserve it. Plus who asked for his opinion, like it mattered?? I swear people love feeling important instead of actually being important. I hope you someday get mad as hell about it if you're not yet, and then as you level up never think about it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 11:45 AM |
| 7 | Woman fucks, marries her daughter's partner, who then cheats on her multiple times & leaves her for another woman after she is diagnosed with cancer. She tries to reconcile things with her daughter because "she needs someone to care for her". Daughter is called an asshole and takes it to Reddit.Narcissism knows no boundaries! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:05 AM |
| 20 | My Story.You deserve a happy ending sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:25 AM |
| 1 | That time a man made a clown out of me: lessons to learn from my personal experienceJust found this story sort of on accident. Thank you for posting this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:40 AM |
| 12 | TF is going on tonight; their ways of saying casual is evolving. Wasted my daily OLD 20 minutes!Ehh, people can't really help what their parents named them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:58 AM |
| 118 | If the (clown) shoe fits....I thought this was some stupid joke but SHE IS REAL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:42 AM |
| 49 | LVM hit me up after I posted a new pic to remind me that I used to be ugly."you used to look so shy and secluded!" I got a real predatory vibe here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 08:28 AM |
| 7 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.Good for you!! But in the mean time you still don't have to hold onto trash if you don't want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 08:04 AM |
| 18 | Seen on FB. My LVM ex used to make me give him my card/cash so he could look like he was paying for our date.I was one of those girls this year >_< | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 05:31 AM |
| 8 | Divorce is final on the 15th:You deserve nothing but love and hugs, oh my god. So sorry your dad is a piece of shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 01:03 PM |
| 10 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBUgh, at that point what else are they delusional about? I see it as a bullet dodged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 07:48 PM |
| 12 | Proud Newbie Moment: Rejected a LVM!Baby steps are where it's at!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 11:46 PM |
| 2 | A little late tho!You're utterly wrong, and it is not that simple. These victims tend to predominantly women who live in 3rd world country villages with few resources. The physical effects also go way beyond disfigurement, including death. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/01/20 01:22 PM |
| 11 | Polyana Viana, female UFC fighter who beat up a mugger in RioOooo I love the look on her face! Makes me want to get back into training now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:54 PM |
| 26 | His profile said he was 40 (too bad he was very good looking)The younger a guy is that tries to do this (or the wider of an age gap there is) the more proportionally creepier it gets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | ''Women lose value once they turn 30'' --menThey act as if the minute you turn 30, you are an old, wrinkly lady. Not that there's anything wrong with being an old wrinkly lady! Anyway, awesome post :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 10:37 AM |
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