ordealia Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
112	Pick me girl - you need to realise it’s not your job to fix his shitty mood.	NAH, SIS	ordealia	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/19 09:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How do I deal with my gift giving semi addiction? Just remember that if the relationship is successful you have years to buy him gifts. Treat the first Christmas as a trial to see if he reciprocates your level of effort	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 09:16 AM
1	Just watched American Murder: The Family Next Door It blows my mind that he destroyed something so seemingly perfect for sex with a younger more exciting woman. He didn't just leave his old life for someone else - he DESTROYED it. It gives you some crazy perspective on the limits to a lot of men's empathy and grasp on real-life-consequences when sex is involved....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 11:15 PM
4	Pick me girl - you need to realise it’s not your job to fix his shitty mood. I’d be much more inclined to make a post about my man bringing me pancakes and a smoothie then giving me a neck rub than I would if I felt I’d had to do all that for him. You should be proud of your man when he’s kind to you not when he reacts positively to you bending over backwards for him	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 12:54 PM
1	My panties just dropped 😍😍😍 This made my vagina curl	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 02:32 AM
3	Shallon on why YOU should be dating YOUNGER guys Girls a queen and I want to hear more from her! Does she have a YouTube channel anyone can share?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 02:27 AM
27	Pick me girl - you need to realise it’s not your job to fix his shitty mood. It’s not just men, there are women in that thread telling all, about everything they do for their partner to cheer them up. They’re all circle jerking about men’s mental health and their need for affection. IMO; In the same way feminism has gone too far in some aspects, it’s also gone way too far (with some people) in advocating for men. I totally agree we should all be looking out for eachother more, and that toxic masculinity needs to be dispelled by letting men be more emotional creatures etc…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 01:43 AM
58	Pick me girl - you need to realise it’s not your job to fix his shitty mood. Ultimately so sad that she’s framed it as advice or encouragement for other women to follow suit! “That’s all it takes ladies” She literally will have left the house and driven to go get him chicken, then to a store to buy beer... $10+ dollars later (idk I’m British) she “lets” him touch her boob. Like is that a chore you endure to cheer him up whilst he smacks his greasy lips and scowls? Probs. It’s so gross when you dig down into it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 12:41 AM
21	Pick me girl - you need to realise it’s not your job to fix his shitty mood. Yes sis. “All it takes ladies” is to not let his problems be your problems, especially if he can solve them by going to get a snack. Jeez	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 12:38 AM