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ADVICEorielle_/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 10:02 PM
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ADVICEorielle_/r/RedPillWomen11/07/18 11:46 AM
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LIFESTYLEorielle_/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 11:11 PM
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orielle_/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 02:02 AM
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LIFESTYLEorielle_/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 03:39 PM
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I've been thinking about picking up a new etiquette guide lately! Also, that housekeeping book sounds fun, I might just check it out.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 11:41 PM
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That's okay, it's nice to hear back from you! That's sensible but it makes the big purchases all the more special :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 08:01 AM
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I am about to move to the US to be with my American fiancé after two years of waiting (I am French but I live in Australia and I am about to lodge my side of visa papers next month!) and many, many visits. No need to despair! Take his advice and work on yourself, but also make sure you are a support and comfort to him during your months apart; men will not admit it but not having their woman around is hard and he will be missing you and hoping that what he is doing from abroad is still 'enough' …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/18 12:32 PM
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I wanted to find a more meaningful way to submit and I found I could not/did not agree with many modern US/Western virtues (my fiancé is American and it is different from where I grew up and where I live now, Australia). RP is common sense in many ways. There are differences between men and women, there is structure and there is strength in embracing these ideals. It feels normal.
/r/RedPillWives16/01/18 12:26 PM
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I am French, and I agree. Of course, Americans believe that all western cultures are/should be the same and cannot see why we do not agree with the unnecessary harassment of innocent and non-offending men by virtue of them being male alone. American women are too caught up in being victims while simultaneously being 'strong and independent women' and I can't seem to understand the logic anymore.
/r/RedPillWives15/01/18 12:32 AM
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Please!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 09:41 PM
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Then you take your leave if you are not married and find someone else who won't openly admit to you that he's in love with somebody else. He may have time for that sort of nonsense, but you do not.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 06:25 PM
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You will be fine, don't worry. <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 12:49 AM
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Ah, I have heard that Québécois French is different to my mother tongue; it is more informal, am I correct? Most languages are different to English and it is a very frustrating language to learn because of all of the synonyms, descriptors and filler words. Unlike a language like Japanese, for example, which is full of drop-words and is less vague, English is full of spaces like 'ummm' and 'aaaah' and speech that can mean something entirely different than what you are actually saying. It is inter…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 08:51 PM
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When you are forced to be succinct you make better arguments and communicate more effectively! Sometimes, however, my fiancé and I will communicate in my language (or rather, he will hear me and understand what I am saying) and it proves to be useful to be understood at such a raw level. It's very personal and it is useful to engage in such a way where I feel understood and he is hearing what I am saying. My man also speaks German and it makes for some amusing cross-cultural banter~ You are luck…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 07:50 PM
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Are you German? :) A spa day is our favourite thing because we get to hang out without needing to endlessly talk or gossip or occupy ourselves; we often get massages and treatments together so we can idly exchange news and discuss topics while melting back into ourselves. Sometimes we do not talk at all! We go once every two weeks when we all have time together. I hope you find more activities!
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 06:58 PM
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PC culture... I shudder at the notion. Your mantra is more or less correct. I suspect that all you will be able to do is learn to purse your lips and be more considerate about the things that you allow to leave your mouth. Do not offer anything if you are not asked and if you are asked for an opinion or explanation about something, keep it as short and closed as you can.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 06:56 PM
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My friends and I will usually go to a lounge for cocktails in the evening or have a spa day together.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 06:48 PM
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It may help you to read an etiquette book or two if you are stuck on topics for conversation or if you would like to know more about what is considered inappropriate or not for conversation (I do not imply a lack of culture on your part, but where you come from what may or may not be appropriate may be different and maybe you would wish to approach these in a different way). It makes for smarter and more considered speech and manners are always feminine! Often there are alternative words or phra…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 06:43 PM
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I'm new to this and it takes me a while to condition myself to do it, too. I mostly try to be measured about what I say/my reactions and try to consider if what I'm about to say is in any way useful or enriches the conversation. I count to two/three in my head and try to be thoughtful about what comes out of my mouth, but of course this is not appropriate for every instance and if you're asked for your opinion on something, it's often hard to stop yourself from being honest without being delicat…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 06:28 PM
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That should be really fun! It's a novelty gift but it's ALSO very useful and I'm sure he'll love knowing more about himself and where he came from!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 01:21 AM
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Aw. Does he not buy them because he doesn't like shopping, or because he's nervous about going into stores himself?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 01:21 AM
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Cologne is a good gift that he'll use for a long time and that you can customise to suit what he likes. I like Armani Code on my man myself, it's relatively affordable and he'll smell irresistible to you (and feel good about smelling amazing).
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 03:10 PM
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I'd like a similar tradition with ornaments because Christmas is not what it is at home like it is in the US! I think it's very cute and says a lot about the person you're buying the ornament for. Also, pens and shower gel are actually very practical and a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 03:06 PM
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That's really handy! I might have a look myself, I've never heard of that before!
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 03:05 PM
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What's he into? I love gift-giving, maybe I can help?
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 03:04 PM
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So long as it does work, it's the only thing that should matter.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 03:04 PM
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Trust me in that it will change your life.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 07:38 AM
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I am also new and today I was recommended a book called "The Surrendered Wife" - I am halfway through and it has been invaluable to my mindset and views moving forward. Maybe you could read this and see what behaviours and views of yours you can touch up on? (Sorry for any mistakes, I am French. Welcome!)
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 06:19 AM
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What sort of gifts do you give with that budget?
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 06:18 AM
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Maybe ship something to his home? Get him something thoughtful; it's approaching winter! Maybe a pair of nice gloves or a scarf or a book. Something that says you care but also something functional! Something he can take with him! Maybe a subscription to a magazine he likes or an outing to a conservatory? Christmas, other than being a religious holiday, is a time for family. Gift-giving is always a sweet family thing.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 04:59 AM
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That's actually very charming!
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 03:35 AM
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Ah, we are in Portland :( We will look, though!
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 03:34 AM
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This is very sweet! Experiences are often more valuable than material things, we do this sometimes too. Also, happy early anniversary!
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 12:21 AM
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I will give this a try, thank you! I thought all of this side of the country was liberal? :(
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 12:15 AM
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I like a lot of dresses, trench coats, long boots or a nice pair of heels and a good handbag. I don't like showing my arms (I have scarring) so it's also easy for me to just wear a cute turtleneck, a skirt and a coat on top.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 11:13 PM
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Hello! Thank you! It's been very nice here and it's a very different social landscape, so I understand. Are you in CA? I hear it is also a liberal state. :( I'll take a look at this also, thank you! I want to work on being more submissive and open and after reading some of the things here ('like those 7 Habits of the Highly Effective SHREW) I feel I have erred too in some respects and I may not be doing too much to cultivate his desire to lead or be more dominant... I am just not sure how to go …
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 11:03 PM
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I have seen The Surrendered Wife but was not sure if I should buy it. I'll read it if you think it might help me. I think he'll find it on his own, but it's more of a precaution than anything else. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 10:21 PM
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