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Good :)
/r/seduction11/05/14 10:32 PM
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This is what I think - I might be off, but you can correct me if I am. You are a perfectionist. You are afraid of failing. When a girl comes who seems interested, you're terrified. You say yourself that you have no trouble talking to girls. I believe you. But you're afraid in that specific situation. So you avoid the situation. What you do is overthink it. To you, a girl coming up is huge a test. You probably think tons of fucking things in that short period of time. Lots of what ifs. What if I …
/r/seduction11/05/14 09:54 PM
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It's just a pissing contest. Some random douche confronts you. You can be above it, and dismiss the confrontation and move on. That's what I recommend. You can also take up the confrontation like you did, and feel like a badass when you win it. Good for you. Imagine your little sister comes to you, and says "you suck blablabla". What would you do? She's your little sister, who gives a fuck. "ok sure". You dismiss the confrontation - she's being annoying like little sisters can be - just move on.…
/r/seduction10/05/14 02:39 PM
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If anything is beta, its to act a certain way, because you don't want to be beta. That's probably what the other guy was doing. He felt he had to do something, because "what would my friends/girlfriend think if I just let guys hit on my girlfriend. They shouldnt think im pussy. Im gonna confront the guy". And to answer your question, I think saying something like what you said, and quickly let the confrontation fizzle out is the best approach. There's nothing to gain by trying to win the confron…
/r/seduction10/05/14 12:48 PM
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You read and know a lot, you say. What you need is to be more confident in yourself. You don't become that by reading and thinking. You do it by acting. Go out and do stuff. If you lack ideas, you could join a sports/book club, a volunteer organization, whatever. Meet new people, have fun, get out of your comfort zone. I bet it's not the answer you want. You would prefer an answer that you can sit and think about. But you don't think your way to having a good social life.
/r/seduction26/04/14 09:42 PM
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It sounds like you are focused on what is the right thing to do in a general way. But everyone's different - and you don't want to be exactly like everyone else. What do you want to do? Do you want to know more about her? Do you want to have fun, laugh together? Do you want to discuss philosophy or politics or whatever? Do you want to tell her stories, or have her tell you? Maybe you want to experience something with her - like go for a hike/go skiing/whatever is possible where you live? Play ga…
/r/seduction24/03/14 10:10 PM
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It does seem pretty clear, though. She gets free validation, like the guy said. You're there to make her feel wanted and she likes that. Any time it is any inconvenience to her - she's not letting anything happen. Askign you to stay, when you're already there? Takes no effort on her part, she invests nothing. "I'm not going with you, but you can stay and say you want me. I'm not moving. I'm gonna do anything. I'm not even gonna reply to your messages on facebook/sms/whatever." is her message. Th…
/r/seduction16/03/14 05:40 PM
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It seems to me like you lack confidence. You focus on what other people think of you way too much. Think of a happy, confident cool guy. Imagine him in your classes instead of you. Imagine he doesn't know anyone, and he doesn't talk to anyone. Will he hurry around, or go eat, or whatever, to avoid looking like he's alone? No man, he will just enjoy being alone. And when there's an opportunity and he ends up talking with someone - it will not be because he has to do it, to avoid being alone. It's…
/r/seduction14/02/14 05:54 PM
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That's now how statistics work, though. Imagine a woman having twins - there's 50% chance of each baby being a boy. But that doesn't mean she's guaranteed to have a boy. But I agree with your mindset.
/r/seduction14/01/14 06:09 PM
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You're probably imagining a sleezy pushy guy asking. It doesn't have to be that kind of guy who asks.
/r/seduction14/01/14 05:41 PM
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If you're not somewhat broken if you realise your wife was cheating on you, your marriage was already over emotionally - or you're a sociopath or something. But that has nothng to do with what TheHeadHunterr was saying. There's a huge difference between a wife and a girl you just meet for fun and sex.
/r/seduction08/01/14 12:54 AM
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if you like solid blogs you should definitely also read www.krauserpua.com - it's a guy blogging all along his path from 6 months after his divorce with no game, into him being absolute top tier years after. I recommend starting with his earliest posts and just read them chronologically. There is TONS to be learned from hidden video recordings, breakdowns of fieldreports and texts, thoughts on life etc etc.
/r/seduction05/05/13 07:38 PM
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I wrote a lot and accidentally deleted it. Fuck me. In short: Pic+Profile is absolutely core. The message is to hook them into looking at profile. You need pics of you having fun with other people, without focusing on camera. As opposed to sitting alone in a dark rooming trying to smile and look good for the camera. The profile text should leave her thinking "interesting, I wanna know more" as opposed to "ok now I know who this guy is". I like 1st part of the message. It's funny to you and it sh…
/r/seduction19/03/13 11:51 AM
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Guess you don't know much about nailing
/r/seduction19/01/13 10:18 PM
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The situation you create when you bring her into your world is much easier to be attractive in, than by doing the opposite and going to her world. But you went to where she is. You're in her territory. She's surrounded by friends who like her. She's relaxed and calm. You on the other hand have to work for it - you have to work to get conversations going, to prove yourself. Your social value has to be earned. If she went to you and your friends, she would be in that spot. Her social value would b…
/r/seduction06/01/13 12:03 PM
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Don't get too drunk is the real lesson here imo
/r/seduction06/10/12 07:38 AM
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Talk to her about it before she's gets super drunk.
/r/seduction10/09/12 08:08 AM
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I think you lack 2 things in your interactions with women. Sexuality and attraction. Even if they think you're gay, they could still get attracted to you. But it seems they don't. There's tons of stuff on how to create attraction. But generally tease her a bit, have some fun. Show you've got value as a person (you have experienced cool stuff, got your act together, are confident, know stuff, aren't afraid to question/oppose what she says, etc) If you notice earrings and the like and feel like co…
/r/seduction13/08/12 09:59 AM
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If you can't trust her to go on a stage few metres in front of you for a few minutes, you've got serius trust issues.
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:56 AM
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He should stay down and let her go up there by herself. The stage is theirs, they're in charge, and he will always look beta compared to them up there.
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:15 AM
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There are ridiculously many girls in the world, and you let the 5-10-20 or however many at your workplace be the bosses of your success with girls in general, and ultimately decide for you what kind of live you're going to live? What the fuck? Do you want them to have that kind of power? You're giving it to them. If that really is what you're going to do, then I bet you'd have some other excuse if you actually did find this subreddit years ago. Then it would be the girls at school. Or your siste…
/r/seduction10/08/12 02:30 AM
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I really like your start and the come kidnap me thing. You set it up for a fun playful chat. But then you set the frame of her being in charge, and you stick with it. It can be fine, but you let her do all the work. You don't push back. You sort of lean back and take it. In the end she has completely dominated the conversation and has decided you and her have no sexual chemistry. Some other girl is in the way and you're stuck under a bed with a teddy bear. End of conversation. I understand why y…
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:19 PM
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My guess is that you find it shameful that you've been through a divorce. When a girl asks you about it, it shines through. Whether you talk about it, or you hide it - the shame is evident. Why don't you try and embrace your personal history instead. You have a kid, thats fucking awesome. Kids are great. And you're a normal guy, of course you've had a longer relationship - you even got married. It wasn't meant to be - so fucking what. You've got valuable experiences and an awesome kid now. You h…
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:05 PM
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Been following his blog, read it all, very recommended! It's at krauserpua.com He shares raw video footage from daygame pickups etc, transcripts from textgame and it is generally an awesome blog if you want a combination of intelligent reflections and discussions on game/society/gender roles etc and direct pickup related stuff to learn from.
/r/seduction21/05/12 06:03 PM
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Just live up to what you do. Be proud of what you are. I bet you say it thinking something like "im so boring. / will she go away after i tell her" etc. Easy to pick up on : self fulfilling prophecy. If I was an elec. Engi Id say something like "i help create/invent xxx for the use of xxx. Makes me happy to wake up in the morning knowing that i help shape the future of xxx. Anyway that shit is boring (smile) what about you?" Something like that. Job with impact+you talk about it from emotional p…
/r/seduction13/04/12 08:55 AM
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Happy for you. The "we're not gonna have sex" thing is SUPER normal. They just want it to be on you - so they don't feel like some cheap girl going home with a guy to have sex. 'It just happened, I'm not that kind of girl.' You handled it well
/r/seduction23/03/12 02:06 PM
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What's creepy about trying to make out with a girl and take her home? Whatever, don't let it faze you. If you eventually run into some girl, who's heard the rumour and you're tryign to pick her up, just be honest and explain it like you're perfectly normal and she was just a bit weird. "She seemed cute, so I wanted her number, but she had a boyfriend. That was fine, dunno why she spreaded a rumor about it. Maybe she likes the attention. Whatever. Anyway, blah blah blah" - unless you act weird an…
/r/seduction17/03/12 06:55 PM
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Good job, man. But really - fuck that and just kiss. You should have kissed her after you looked her into her eyes. Perfect time. Its really holding you back, and its so simple.
/r/seduction16/03/12 01:07 PM
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Right now you're depending on your surroundings to make you feel awesome. You need people to qualify you. Not good. It's completely normal to experience groups where you don't feel like a king of socialising. How you experience it is up to you. You can think "shit im a loser - i hope they start liking me soon." or "not really my kind of people. Whatever ill just take it easy". Guess which one turns you into a needy guy seeking validation.
/r/seduction05/03/12 09:10 AM
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Completely agree. I think its natural though. Many guys in pickup come from the 'im a loser, girls are the shit' mindset - and for some it can be a healthy change to switch it around for a while to get out of the shitty mindset. I think its just a step on the way to a healthy self-image that some people need.
/r/seduction24/02/12 05:11 PM
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1) you imply you're not used to someone of her quality, she could get better 2) you let her decide if you pay for her - youre not confident enough to make your own decisions. Strong way of losing attraction fast. Stop doing that.
/r/seduction19/02/12 11:07 AM
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The biggest issue: outcome dependence. Stop going out and think of what you must accomplish. It's ok to have goals like, talk to 10 people or whatever, but don't set outcome specific goals. Don't be like "i have to get laid tonight" That's a fucking loser attitude. The girls there are suddenly the judges of whether or not you have a succesful night. You are dependent on them and you are therefore "performing" and trying too hard. Just relax and think to yourself you're there to HAVE FUN. Talk to…
/r/seduction09/02/12 06:08 PM
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Good luck, but I really think you should have put in something like "a shame you leave, was looking forward to working with you" like colourandtheshape said. It gives the whole you writing her a message out of the blue meaning.
/r/seduction08/02/12 09:49 PM
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You're so accustomed to writing to strangers online that it's not scary for you at all. When you have to actually speak, it get's real. The cool thing is that by letting yourself write to some girls, you can see how awesome you are at socialising when you aren't inhibited by fear, insecurity and lack of comfort. The text-writing you is NOT a different you, it's just you without the bullshit stopping you from being awesome. Work more on real non-text conversations and lose the inhibitions. It's a…
/r/seduction08/02/12 09:29 PM
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Yea, there's something a bit quirky about him. At first when watching Blueprint Decoded I got annoyed at his weird laugh that seemed forced/fake. I don't care anymore, though. The stuff he talks about is almost always pure gold, so who cares.
/r/seduction08/02/12 06:58 PM
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If she activates fight-or-flight when being added on facebook, id love to know how she reacts when someone tries to initiate sex
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:31 PM
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With a great vibe it might work some of the time. But really, you're just a random guy wanting to text with her. Spend a few min talking with her first. Tell her its great to see a happy girl in a dress - she reminds you of summer (or whatever), and let the conversation flow from there. Then suggest the game. I bet it will work much more often.
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:22 PM
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yea let's have some estimated percentages, like 20% leads to telephone number, 15% to instadate etc, 1% to same day sex, 2 % to stuck up angry bitch.
/r/seduction30/01/12 05:08 PM
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then use OK Cupid.. it's a hotornot'ish feature that's not linkable. It lasts like 5 days or something then you get results and your pictures are removed from it.
/r/seduction26/01/12 06:14 PM
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take some pics and make some girls give on advice on /r/rateme for instance. Ok Cupid also had the great extra thing, where girls rate you on 4 different pics and you get a diagram of what age groups and shit like what picture the most. So experiment and take some pics of various styles.
/r/seduction26/01/12 06:01 PM
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Thx for sharing, great read - im happy for you
/r/seduction22/01/12 12:17 PM
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What matters is she doesn't see it as rejection. She has no doubt tried to start matter conversations that didn't go off. But it's not her being rejected in her mind. The girl who said she's busy - not a rejection, just a busy girl. The girl who only responded with one letter words and quickly left - girl is too shy/not feeling it right now/in a bad mood, not a rejection. The girl with where the conversation had no flirty chemistry - Just don't attempt to escalate - not a rejection. But yea, it'…
/r/seduction17/01/12 05:23 PM
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Sounds interesting. Id love to read some stories.
/r/seduction14/01/12 03:54 PM
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you're looking for signs of them not being interested. It will do you no good. Assume attraction until they make it clear they're not interested. Unless she's hardcore frowning there's no reason to let a simple "you mean a dare?" Bring you down
/r/seduction09/01/12 11:11 AM
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Hah nice. You should have thrown in a link to the other thread, though.
/r/seduction07/01/12 09:20 PM
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mode 3.5 detected
/r/seduction05/01/12 08:12 PM
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