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5	This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like? This is exactly the line of demarcation between blue and red. One side wants to hear every ugly little truth and then further disect the topic to appreciate it more fully. The other side appreciates civility and will nurture it at the cost of all other logics. To be fair, they think this will reap worthwhile benefits to society. In other words if you are on the forum for debate between these two lines of thinking, you're going to run into some of the red pill arguments. There is a difference bet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 08:07 PM
1	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? I totally agree. I'm just saying the people on here asking for slutty women want that, and the guys who are trads want a conservative women. And those comments get conflated on this sub, by blue pillers who want to win the argument. As for you and I, yes I want a women who feels comfortable doing sexy things with me and hasn't done it with other guys enough to make me sick. I'm progressive enough to want a girl to have done healthy things with guys she actually liked for good reasons. I really o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 04:26 PM
3	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? It's so disarming when we agree. My comment was being petty. But not towards you as you stated the truth. I will walk away humbled :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 12:32 AM
1	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? Correct. And as cupcakelover said, which I agreed with, these are seperate groups of people making conflicting arguments. Some men want porn star women and some want conservative women. And as with the case for women, some want a low N man and some want someone with experience. Or "woosh" idk whatever	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 03:54 PM
3	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? Fair. I was agreeing with you. Your comment made me realize mine. It is sad to think neither of our comments will help bring about change. But I should know that by now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 01:08 PM
2	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? Right if they wanted to vet the guy for manipulative behavior the method isn't to sleep with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 01:03 PM
4	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? You are correct. Now let's make sure this rational is presented the next time women say, "you guys want women to be low N and your personal slut! That doesn't exist!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 12:57 PM
2	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? I agree. There are going to be the normal amount of exceptions to make it technically incorrect, but it's definitely not a silly take. As with all red pill advice, abiding as if it were true will be more likely to produce positive results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 12:51 PM
1	Most guys who don't "pump and dump" only don't because they can't without going sexless for long stretches I believe I'm in a similar situation looks wise, but I've always stayed away from ONS because I'm a wuss and I assumed the women would be hurt if I wouldn't stick around. I'm lazy on top of being a wuss and don't want to deal with that. Do you find a lot of good looking/average women who are ok with casual sex and don't cause any stress when you don't want to see them again? Or do you have to do rp things and they pretend that they're playing the game with you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/21 06:52 PM
1	How do men want women to behave? What are your thoughts on how women treat men on this subject. I don't really have a good way to put it into words, but I have this feeling, that society allows for slutty people to feel good about their actions, but prudish people have no comeback because it's "mean" to slut shame. The issue is, there is real validation in sex. So not only are the lucky already winning by having the sex, they are now allowed to lord it over the sexless. Which I get, people will be petty, but it's unnatural. Tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 05:33 PM
1	How do men want women to behave? Add on top of this that trp reflects just HOW hopeless some dudes were/are. If you've never had a friend ruin himself pining after some girl or a dude abandon you as a friend because you said something a little too "mean" or "real" about how some girls acted then you won't realise that aspect. There are some truly clueless gullible morons walking around out there, and they need to be shook out of the trance their in. It takes the flowery language and broad generalisations to get some men to focu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 04:57 PM
4	How do men want women to behave? The problem is that it seems like we're discussing irrelevant communities which never interact. High N-count women can have lots of sex and undesirable men live with their fate. At what point does it become necessary to talk about how the undesirable men make the high N-count women feel? They're not taking money from them. There's no crime. It's just shaming we're complaining about. Which leads me to believe that the high N-count are worried about being shamed for their actions. Which means ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 03:06 PM
1	The societal role of mother kills the sex life not the kid You could add this hypothetical in...but it's not something we organically produced through what is being discussed. I'm sure someone else could add in an anecdote that reinforces the bias. But at the end of the day, we were discussing how women might actually not be too tired based on her children, and it magically manifested a person who jumped in and said, "yea but I bet the husbands are trash. I know they're humans expressing their feelings. I could listen but I bet they deserve the distance…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 03:42 PM
3	Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness". If the truth is "mean" it has very little chance of getting through to people with certain dispositions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 03:57 PM
1	Male Vulnerability The problem with this place is that you treated that conversation with respect for too long. You were polite and reasonable for awhile. And it got you no where with them. I liked your arguments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 01:28 PM
2	Promiscuity is bad for men and women I appreciate this idea. But I'm really just trying to help justify people's actions more than judge them. I was looking at it from the perspective of,"how can I make the non-monogamous feel more confident in their lifestyle." If someone wanted to change I would give the same advice. Know why you want to change, own it, and then live it because you want to and for no other reason." I didn't say there was anything wrong with changing, but I do believe that people change for the wrong reasons. Peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/21 02:47 PM
6	Promiscuity is bad for men and women Another aspect is that we are dealing with different lifestyles and then hoping they match up after our 20s. If you want to live a swinging free-love type of existence that's cool. But you should acknowledge this and continue on down the totally fine path you chose. If halfway through you instead choose to become monogamous and domesticated with someone, you have to acknowledge that it is at odds with your earlier choice. It insinuates that your earlier choice wasn't one based on rationale and e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/21 01:57 PM
2	Women outside of this sphere, discuss "What it is like to "date a Red Pill Man" Let's try it here. I'm not sure how much of an outlier I am, though I suspect the answer is not too much. But I'm one of these hipster nerds. I like spending all my time here on Reddit, but I also like working out, sports, and am good at parties/social situations. Trp for me is the culmination of going from naive child to attractive dude who is disillusioned with life. I've dated several women and only had 1 ONS. I'm not conservative, just not quite selfish enough to believe I can sleep with women without someone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/21 07:12 PM
1	Interview with someone who lived during the sexual revolution I didn't really mean too much. If anything I was trying to get you to expound. I made a comment about how disgruntled unloved people deal with it. And the only person who replied said religion helps. So I said something kinda stupid just to get you to say more. Please give me a new perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/21 04:49 PM
0	Interview with someone who lived during the sexual revolution Quite the argument. Have celibate folk of the cloth ever committed an incel attack? Do Buddhist monks ever go postal? Is it really just religion that we're aching for? Ugh	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 07:18 PM
3	Interview with someone who lived during the sexual revolution The issue is we are finally engaging these emotions. For whatever amount it is just a trope, most people feel pressure to partner up and become "domesticated". Most people will ask you about it in small talk as it's a cheap thrill to discuss a budding relationship with acquaintances, and it's fun to ask single people if they're interested in anyone. So unattractive people, in whatever capacity, deal with this as well. Even if your friends know you don't do well dating, occasionally people are go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 05:21 PM
1	Q4Men: Which man would you prefer to be/which man is the winner? I was being a bit hyperbolic and honestly "mean". The jist was, "your child is alive, and you lived as you wanted to." Leaving your kid without a father is simply a reality. If it's upsetting, that's being overly emotional, I think. And not the end of the world. It just is what it is. Which is the thrust of many red pill tenants. Facing reality head on. I view much of what makes us soft nowadays, as mommy centered. Moms want us all to share. Make everyone happy. Make sure everyone gets a turn. S…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 08:52 PM
4	Q4Men: Which man would you prefer to be/which man is the winner? Where's the love? Where's the fantasy? You won't give her a story to tell her girlfriends! Your kid will deal with hard truths. Gynocentrism is what requires this nonsense. Nothing else. There is no reason his plan is anything other than a working plan for him. If it's not pretty that's society's problem for expecting a fantasy. He didn't say he'd force someone to sign up for it. Anyone who does will be expected to find happiness and contentedness in what it is. No need to shame because it won't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 04:12 PM
1	Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love? You're right, it's not a legal discovery. It's just something that will make certain partners feel comfortable, which is the real discussion, not legality. You're right, you don't have to disclose, but what good justification do you have for anything else you would "hide" from your "soul-mate".	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 01:44 PM
7	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Agreed. We need a new socialization track which teaches youngsters that some people will get married and reproduce, but that it isn't the only path to success, happiness, and most importantly fulfillment. Many times ive hae married people treat it like an either or thing. If I'm walking around as a bachelor, I get questions as to why I'm not married. And unless I lie and say "I'm still looking" they begin a conversation that eventually forces me to criticize marriage, relationships, or gynocentr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 03:23 PM
3	Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers? I think a lot of that stuff is meant to be a way of "getting out in front of the story". Like they know they're going to get less attention, and so they put that stuff up as a sheild to justify why men don't choose them. I agree with everything you said. I just refuse to believe they're all that deluded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/20 05:40 PM
1	CMV: A man’s passion isn’t always enough to keep a woman interested. I would argue that it depends on if the man deals well with his passion being unsuccessful or unrecognized. The guy has to hold frame in his passion being simply for the love of it. I think anyone would like to have a partner with a love for something which drives them to learn and grow and remain interesting. And this might be difficult if it isn't self sustaining. So I agree that passion might not seem like enough. But I bet it is often because having at least one person around who is watching…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 10:52 AM
1	Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit test It's been awhile since I watched it, but she sort of gives off a vibe that is hard to read. She's logical and reasonable which is cool. She has been bullied by people who don't like what evo psych postulates so she's seen through cancel culture and knows sometimes a hard truth is the real truth and can't be shied away from. But I'm not positive how much she "realizes what she's doing and would stop herself." Not to pick on your analogy but I view it less as no one is behind the wheel and more th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 08:56 PM
2	Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit test https://youtu.be/_YmTPATEArM	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 05:27 PM
6	Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit test You should check out this episode of triggernometry where they interview a female evolutionary psychologist. She does a great job explaining things. Then she gets into how her guy is in the same field and has to travel occasionally. And she notices that she tests him when he does this. She gets pissy a few days before he leaves. To see if he comforts her and indicates he isn't going to cheat or stay away while he's gone. She explains that women in the past had no way of knowing if a man would re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 03:52 PM
1	Why Do Women Not Think N-Count Matters? This isn't some friend of yours who you have a reason to assuage their feelings and insecurities. This is an anonymous internet forum. If you feel the need to deduce and discuss the "insecurities" of OP, it means you have decided to focus on them rather than the argument at hand. And the reason to avoid the argument at hand is because it makes YOU insecure, as you would gladly throw your ideas about the topic out there if you weren't MORE upset by the topic. Discussing OPs insecurities is an att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 05:36 PM
1	Why do few women whop disagree with TRP offer alternatives to it? I'm trying to be nice, but that sort of feels like what you just did to me. I didn't say any of that stuff to you or anyone else. I was looking for an interesting discussion with you or anybody who felt like it. And you've just been self defeating based on past discussions. I can appreciate you may be discouraged, but I don't really feel like apologizing for attempting to be better here and now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/20 06:25 PM
1	Why do few women whop disagree with TRP offer alternatives to it? Well I was trying to give the commenters the benefit of the doubt and encourage them to develop their own ideas if they disagree with trp. By pointing out that there is no point in simply disagreeing and stating that they disagree. The OP set them up to give us their own ideas...and they avoided that creative opportunity. It would provide growth and understanding. We're begging to be engaged with on this sub. But regardless, to address your post, I do mostly agree with trp stuff. So I'm not too …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/20 05:42 PM
6	Why do few women whop disagree with TRP offer alternatives to it? You're all missing the point. You're suggesting that you specifically hang out in places, just to hear them ramble. This is a forum for debate on exactly this topic. It's insane to not understand that we would all worship you if you were to come up with a proper alternative theory. The issue is the difference between what makes content creators valuable and commentors valueless. If you could present a good idea or researched theory it is fuel we all want. Sure it's less valuable to just have a h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/20 01:21 PM
8	CMV- Most dating advice in this sub and other subs are more depressing and anxiety inducing than helpful to men and they should seek answers somewhere else. Why have there been so many posts on this lately? For awhile now I've thought that we need a different forum because discussion is mostly dead here. We might as well be trp because those are the only posters with worthwhile insight. Is that why we are seeing these," I don't think this place is good. We should probably shut it down" posts? Is it because depression rates are jumping up because of covid shutdowns? It's so weird to see this concern trolling here. "These ideas make me sad so they sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/20 10:50 AM
1	Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship? I just spilled something walking back into the kitchen. It was definitely my fault and because I wasn't paying attention. And I know it would've cause my ex to laugh in my face and make some "little brother" comment to me. And then I get mad cuz like, why are you like this? I went and got a towel and cleaned it up. Can we please discuss something of substance? But no, you're pass time is how absent minded I am. It's mean. What kind of person do you think won't take advantage of this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 02:03 AM
2	Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship? Fine, I like all that. I know I might come down on the aggrieved men side of these issues, but I come to these places to commiserate with my fellow man. If I'm critical it's for others. I don't have many issues interpersonally because I like to smooth things over and have a good time. I get along well with feminists if I keep my mouth shut. Which is just about always. What I mean by pick on me is that I've found that I'm very easy to mock. I get it from my mom. We're people pleasers and take jok…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 01:57 AM
4	Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship? Trust me I have standards, am emotionally stable, and am very nice and kind. I have respectable interesting hobbies and rarely waste my time. I've dated 5 women in my life and walked away from all of them when it became clear they didn't love me for the reasons I love me. No cheating. No big arguments. On top of that, I'm very caring and giving. Yet I find women who pick on me. For being a goof. Or for my body(which is something Id never do to them. I've always had the fitter form and I'll leave…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 12:33 AM
3	Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship? Well I totally want to commiserate with you about weak men. I agree that a lot of dudes don't stand up for themselves, mostly cuz there's nothing to stand up for. I don't condone being confident for no reason. You have to earn it. But I definitely know guys like that. And they are clueless and miserable to listen to. I think my issue is that I literally just had a "guy roundtable" where the group had the healthiest set of relationships I know of. All cool accomplished guys who fix things around …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 11:55 PM
3	Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship? Would you care to offer some advice. I'm a pretty terrible at this aspect of LTRs. I seem to really know how to pick someone who treats me like a little brother. If I trip or make an awkward face while chewing, whew boy am I in for it. I better not miss some little hair on my neck while shaving. Just your candid thoughts. I'm truly curious about this topic. I'm a very nice kind person. Great with children and animals. But people who can judge, view me as the nail they hurt their finger trying to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 11:37 PM
2	Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship? Again I agree. My point of view is that marriage truly is something that we want EVERYONE to buy into or else it's way too tempting to not partake. It was useful in a time where just about everyone had to eek out existence as a farmer or blacksmith and it wasn't something you bought into for the kick ass times it promised. So when you're single but have friends who've chosen marriage it's pretty glaring what they can no longer partake in. But I imagine the human thing to do is empathize with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 11:26 PM
2	Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship? Yea let's pack it in guys. I don't even know why we have a sub for thinking and discussing. The only thoughts here are anecdotes rigidly tied to our own personal lives. Could we beg them to use some conjecture and imagination?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 11:16 PM
2	Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship? Are you being paid by Wife inc(Big Wife as in big oil sounds off)? What in the world is with the attitude? It's just a conversation. I really truly have no argument against what you're saying. I think relationships are trade offs. There are things that make them worthwhile. I think we live in an overly hedonistic time where we misconstrue the partnership that marriage is for something other than a means to raise children and protect the unity that is a family. But at least when I wrote it I don'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 11:08 PM
1	The “manosphere” and other adjacent communities are damaging to the majority of people’s mental health who engage in them I agree with reluctantreds response, but wanted to add, that this is the opposite covert contract that women have to "nice guys" being friend-zoned. Women think if they sleep with an attractive man, he'll love me. It's not fair to approach that from the man's perspective just as it isn't fair to shame women when guys expect sex for "being nice and friendly". If guys spin plates it's because(hopefully) the women consent to casual sex. If anyone is hurt by that then it is on them for not stating t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/20 11:15 PM
3	Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreed Ok, cool, that gave me a better perspective. Next though is like, I can totally shell out $60-$100 for an impressive date, even on my low income. There have to be dudes who would gladly pay to try and convince a women with your mindset. Like it's not as effective of a filter as any of the other ones. Talking(getting to know one another), having multiple dates to see if they'll stay around, getting actual commitment 1st(marriage). I see where you're coming from now, but I no longer thinks it's a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 08:56 PM
6	Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreed I'm genuinely intrigued by your take on this. You keep saying you stop seeing guys who are up for splitting the bill. Are you like super set on sending your kids to fancy prep schools or traveling the world every summer? Or are you just saying it's a warning the dude might be a red piller and you're avoiding that, so as not to be taken advantage of? The way you said "someone I thought had potential" is ice cold and I'd be interested to hear that person's take on it. That'd be a red pill. I'm a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 08:40 PM
4	Women create "nice guys". I understand why you'd think that, it makes sense that exposure would help the issue. But have you ever met these guys. They are naive and immature and have all sorts of expectations and anxieties that would certainly benefit from some direct and honest education. You keep saying, "Why do these men need any explanation. If they were just hanging out with women..." Why do you have this take? Why can't we talk to them about these issues? I'm not being aggressive, but it seems like you're throwing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/20 04:49 PM
2	Women create "nice guys". I can admit I came at you a little hard. It's tough to resist the urge when it comes up. ;P I should have just left that last line out. My bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/20 04:17 PM
7	Women create "nice guys". There is no implication the poster is a "nice guy" themselves. And they are actually being productive by suggesting real solutions to the question that was posed. In this online thread. Where people go to talk. This one is about nice guys. For people who might be red pilled, blue pilled, or something in between. If you get emotional and defensive about the topic, you might be the one who's too close to it. The issue is nice guys exist, not that any of us are them, or that they're oblivious of wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/20 12:23 PM
1	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? Well idk about actually, a couple were already dead when I got there and two were men I found out. ;P	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 11:59 AM
1	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? Rude. If I hurt your feelings you can explain yourself. But nothing you said is "official" or all that thought provoking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 03:51 AM
2	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? I'm not sure. I bet insecure men do. I don't think the point is to keep score. Maybe that's not what you meant. My point is that you should demand better from those in your life. It might be unfortunate that you have to make a decision about a loved one because of biology, but biology is what rules us, makes us lesser than others, and kills us in the end, so I'm not gonna negotiate with it. I just developed a desire to walk away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 12:14 AM
2	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? And the relationship will benefit you because you comport yourself this way. This is how it will be pleasant and worthwhile. Most of the lamenting we have on this is because we had to overcome having it ingrained that it would be different. It's not the woman's fault. The guy has to persevere through their own expectations of fantasy land.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 02:59 PM
6	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? We'd need to read up more on evo-psych. There's a great triggernometry episode on YouTube, where they interview a woman who is in the field. She explains how she herself gets emotions, when her partner is about to leave to do research elsewhere, and she will poke, nag, and "test" his loyalty. She can catch herself momentarily, but the program still tries to run itself. She acknowledges that women in the deep past had to make sure a man was invested and would stay around and come back. Another ti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 02:53 PM
1	Why is it always "female hypergamy" and not shameless male thirst that is complained about? Right, and blue pillers cannot put our awareness of the red pill back in the bottle. It does not matter how uncomfortable the education is, though many see that as enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/20 07:14 PM
3	Men who think "men age like wine" while saying women hit the wall are exactly the same as fds women who look at an obese, unhygienic woman and call her a "queen." Hah! So you had motive to shame him above? You don't care about him or his methods, you just want everyone to admit settling down is "just the greatest" so you can validate your personal choices? I've never understood why that's so important to the married dudes. Plus you hunkered down on what you said as not wrong, as if anyone cares how you feel about your position. When you're out here bothering others about theirs, calling people beta. Enjoy your unicorn solopsist	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/20 01:36 PM
0	CMV Men are not the slut shamers in society Hoe into a housewife is a rationalization not shaming. The guy tried with the woman. He wanted the relationship. The failure came from the expectations, not insults or shame. Just because people don't have the vocabulary to say,"jeez I really should pick a better candidate next time" doesn't mean they're judging women or that specific women even. And women call their exes names(jerk, asshole, fuckboy). It doesn't mean anything. Again, the desire to have a women who is open to all the sexual acts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 03:31 PM
0	CMV Men are not the slut shamers in society Right, like does your post not get some credit? Can we please at least speak on a time where a man called a woman a slut for the right reasons. All of this obfuscating. "Well men call women sluts for looking at other men." Then that's just someone lashing out. When women call me a jerk I know they're upset with me. It's their prerogative to make me feel worse. I'm not actually a jerk, she just didn't get her way. It is a touchy subject and maybe it's not that important who calls who sluts more. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 03:02 PM
2	CMV Men are not the slut shamers in society I like all your looks inward for your own bias. However you raise a good point. The incentive for calling women sluts is not always to shame against promiscuous sex. A lot of it from men is lashing out at women who handed something out for free to "hot" guys but not indiscriminately so they could get some. The women judged these men unworthy and the men feel shamed so they lash out. If sex were more equal and less shallow, I don't think men would slut shame. We'd be like bonobos. A lot of guys c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 02:54 PM
1	CMV Men are not the slut shamers in society Slut shaming is a shit test like any other. It's only about frame. If the woman is competent and awesome, she won't care what you think of her sex life. Rightfully so, and although she might sleep with a lot of men, hopefully there is a quality involved in the quantity. Hopefully she is discriminating and classy. If she has comported herself in a respectful way, she will be able to respect herself. Any slip-ups might linger on her mind when called a slut. She definitely should not listen to the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 02:30 PM
2	CMV Men are not the slut shamers in society And rightfully so. It may be insulting, but it's not something you're allowed to hold against someone else if they don't raise the issue to you. If a girl doesn't like me because my job isn't good enough it implies all this judgement about what I've done with my life. But it's not shaming. It's discrimination. In the allowed way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 02:19 PM
1	What life script would be better suited for (young) men than the one we currently have? There is a point here where the outlier that we each are is talking past each other. Right? Like you're angry at some internet kid who speaks out his ass and paints people in broad brushes. You're better than the caricature he paints and regardless he's wrong because it's a bigger picture than just his hurt feelings. We also rarely discuss loser guy problems. I have been on a guys side about a break-up before, because I know him and not the girl, and by the next couple weeks of him talking about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 07:31 PM
0	What life script would be better suited for (young) men than the one we currently have? That was all very good and I agree with a lot. Very sensible. Maybe I misused that term. I'm not a lawyer. But context clues describe some sort of obtuseness there on my father's part. But what I was trying to get at with my dad, and you, is that I'm poor at talking about this. I think some of it has to do with a knee jerk reactions to defend women. Or they know an evil man who talks the way I do, and so they rightfully think, "Well I better try and change his mind." But A. I'm a better person t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 06:09 PM
5	What life script would be better suited for (young) men than the one we currently have? Well I kinda like a lot of what you said. The thing I'm going to nitpick is this suggestion on how we interact. Because I think you got really close to it. We're speaking in generalities and anecdotes all at the same time, so like you said it's hard to listen and believe. I would say it has to be done though. It's tough for some men & women and easy for another subset. Both need to be taken into account, but the bad experiences do exist. It doesn't say anything about you and I specifically as a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 05:08 PM
5	What life script would be better suited for (young) men than the one we currently have? That is the crux of everything around here. I know from the guys side, I always felt like trp was enough of a collection of guys giving anecdotes similar to each other, to genuinely begin to believe them. Like a lot of guys were able to explain scenarios they had been through and they related to stories from other guys there. Whenever a doubter came in, I simply wanted them to give this a chance because enough guys had validated it for me. And I'll agree that you're being disagreed with from tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 03:58 PM
3	Women. Knowing what you know and what we discuss here, if you were a man , would you get married? Ya know, rather than derail intelligent thought over a misused word. Can't have OPs that are a bit hyperbolic at times. Gotta assume the worst in everyone's thoughts and intentions. That'll lead to a good place. We've accomplished so much discussing this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 02:33 PM
1	FDS isn’t good dating advice Or even, like, I wouldn't say it's the only thing, but I definitely appreciated trp simply as a place I could go and i knew people were being real. Maybe the advice was shit and maybe they were mean, but because no one was policing language and telling them "be niiiiice." I knew I could trust it not to be gynocentric mommy culture b.s. Now I think that has been distilled down and sold off. Trp isn't what it used to be, and I do find it hard to see value in fds, and I tried. But I do think there'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 02:11 PM
-3	I LOVE the Purge See I don't believe your "Lmao". You seem upset. Triggered it if I may. The comment above you was a complaint made by a man about his experiences dating. Now idk about you, but I know for a fact he hasn't dated all the women. And that probably includes you, so you can calm down. He wasn't talking about you. But what I truly don't like is that your upset because he spoke this way. You clearly don't believe him, so it's not like reality is as he described. You're just upset with how he thinks. And…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 01:18 PM
1	CMV: The manosphere greatly underestimates female-group preference and intra-male group aversion Is there any chance that at least some aspect of cattiness is similar to what men experience with women in that you have to be "on" to be fun and keep their attention, at least at 1st? So like, when I've gossiped with girls, it'll be because they don't want to talk about sci-fi or sports, and you throw out there something juicy about their friend, and all of a sudden their engaged. So like it's low hanging fruit for women to get all excited shitting on their friends who aren't around. Usually it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 10:36 PM
14	CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women. I took the topic more as good faith argument based on what I had seen on this sub already. There was a post the other day asking why guys couldn't go 5 times a day like her, and plenty of comments from women concurring. I think I would side with research, but I assumed this argument was more to counter the assumptions made in that other thread. Women do like sex, just not with as many men as exist. Personally I always felt this was the point of trp. To let the other men in on this secret. It's s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 10:07 PM
1	To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack? I think they're acting as they were raised. Maybe people here will argue that sex isn't an equal transaction, but that is what us youngins were taught. Guys just are on the look out for girls who are trying to get more out of it. When you can predict motive, you prepare against it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 01:59 PM
6	Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard? He was specifically saying that's what older women say(less life experience) when they can't hide their motives very well. I've heard it. They don't simply say she's too young, because if she's 19 she's not. There are these qualifiers that come afterwards and they undermine the sentiment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/20 07:44 PM
1	Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard? So why wouldn't it just be a conversation about unattractive men need to realize their standards and go fantasize somewhere else. The OP was correct in asking why age is brought into it. You seem pretty secure in that it's just about proper value being present. I'm getting the impression that friendly fire on this topic is acceptable to many here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/20 07:37 PM
1	Why are the caring loving fathers against their daughters being a housewife and dating an older man? I can appreciate that you made a "tongue-in-cheek" comment. I am also flippant and expect others to get past things I've said in an attempt to be understood. I can apologize for that. But you would admit that it is a prevalent opinion, no? I don't think I'm super off base trying to justify home making in this day and age. Feels appropriate to discuss the pros of something that really seems like a harmless choice and no different from any other job. I wouldn't say that working your dream office j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/20 03:48 PM
0	Why are the caring loving fathers against their daughters being a housewife and dating an older man? You made the argument the one side is fake and anyone who's "sane and steady enough" knows this. And then went on to say I'm more the other way. That's the one that fits me. As someone who's skeptical about everything, I don't think its a good practice to marginalize that which you're already biased against, like that. Plus, this is our experience currently. I dont feel well versed in a culture where anyone is a homemaker. I grew up with everyone's mom working. It certainly seemed fine to me. Bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/20 01:22 PM
3	Is this sub still about Red vs. Blue? We get it. I do agree that there is something about both men and women when it comes to dating today, that is undesirable. I can handle nuance. FDS maintains that you must become a high value woman and refuse all low value men. Well fucking duh! This is what always upset me most during my rp phase. Women collate the losers who upset them, and the dudes who were alone in their basements the whole time. There not the same guys. You can still dislike both. But the guys you're trying to stay away fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 05:34 PM
3	Do nice girls finish single? Gullible an opportunistic are applicable as well though. I mean I'd like to give the benefit of the doubt too, but... I even know a girl I think this applies to. She's pretty cool, likes everything I like, but she's a super jaded asshole. Sometimes you see this nice mouse come out and say nice kind lighthearted things. But she's clearly been so hurt by something that whenever I'm not super paying attention to her she jumps down my throat about little shit. Her facebook says things like, "guys on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 04:36 PM
4	Q4E: what are some stupid things your preferred gender has done that made you less attracted to them? This is a big one. Especially the off hours thing. When you both come home at 4-5 and they blab, you know you can interject with relevant shit. "What are we doing for dinner?" "Want to go for a run?" "What're we watching?" But as your winding down or even in bed. It's just so obnoxious and tone deaf. Realizing it and changing would've really impressed me. Alas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 04:20 PM
2	Society works best when the base assumption is men and women do deserve sex and relationships I don't know that I have a big change to society. I would simply side step all of this by teaching children that romantic love is not everything and not everyone will find it. I don't necessarily think people will be unhappy without affection, once society doesn't set it up so that single people represent an affront to couples. I always find it devolving into a zero sum game. And I'm arguing against that but I can't make my argument without destroying love, marriage, and parenthood. Like why am …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 04:11 PM
1	What would a woman benefit to gain by breaking her "wait 3 months for sex" or similar rules? Look I totally understand your points and the OP is a good question. It's a paradox alright. Im very respectful of women. I say this to say i am not pushy. I've never run game on a woman. A women giving in to sleeping with you is a fantastic feeling. It engenders a lot of trust in the relationship for me. And I don't mean ons, I went on 2 dates with a girl, and the second one she didn't want me to go home at the end of the night, but told me we wouldn't be sleeping together. She gave in and we d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 03:40 PM
2	Society works best when the base assumption is men and women do deserve sex and relationships Oh I didn't look at who OP was. I can assume what you've seen. We could still argue in good faith now. Doesn't matter how stupid their opening was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 03:14 PM
1	Society works best when the base assumption is men and women do deserve sex and relationships The post says everyone should find love. I'll go read now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 03:12 PM
2	Is this sub still about Red vs. Blue? You have to make an argument. He explained how he dodged a bullet. And your response was, "Why are you still talking. Stop even thinking about women and their interests." Should we go outside now? Is this how you have a discussion? He said it made it difficult for her! What argument do you have that that is untrue. You can't always rely on making it ignorant and futile to discuss thing with women. We get it. You won't date any of us. We were hoping you were here to talk and expand your mind. You…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 03:10 PM
0	Is this sub still about Red vs. Blue? And a large part of it is smacking men out of the mindset that women cannot be criticized. It may be distasteful to see and read, but it is necessary. We have a whole culture where people don't understand why the women in the wnba are payed less. It doesn't make any money. No one watches. I've been at parties where someone randomly brought up colonies on mars, and his girlfriend got actually upset with him because he was "ignoring all the people hurting on earth." And he didn't know what to say,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 03:01 PM
2	Is this sub still about Red vs. Blue? It's always projection. What sort of retort even was that. Women's strategy is to avoid a miserable scenario. Men's strategy is to maximize happiness and success. And theres steps. Hers is one move and then what? And even then the women's strategy is still to avoid playing into a shitty man's imperative. It has everything to do with men, and it's ass-backwards, as usual, focusing on the bad boy. Men are the narcissists here. It's not like we're willing to drag a woman along to prosperousness wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 02:47 PM
0	Society works best when the base assumption is men and women do deserve sex and relationships You went from "everyone should find love" right to the handmade tale? I mean they did say everyone in 1 relationship. But it didn't say permanently. Or that is was mandatory. Just you should have the option. And regardless, it's a pretty froofy idea, you don't think this person would concede that they didn't mean forced monogomy? That they would never accept such terms? They're arguing about love not world domination. I think you saw the WORST possible outcome in what they said and gave their id…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 02:32 PM
2	People over-glorify youth. Specfically, the 18 to 24 demographic. I hear all that. It's making me think, "Well this is the world we live in now. I've dated a few girls she's dated a few guys. This is who we are. We should be stronger people because of it." So A. I'm not really gonna vote for more lieing from my girlfriends. Either they lie, and are cool that I'm good being lied to. Or they don't lie, and deal with the coin toss that that is. Definitely do whatever works for you. I certainly lie in relationships. But there it is. And like I don't really care th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 05:43 AM
1	People over-glorify youth. Specfically, the 18 to 24 demographic. I agree with all that. I wouldn't tell you to get married. But yes, how you feel about all this is a weaker argument than one where we argue women, or all of us, are worse off from the behavior. Or that it's stupid and we'd like them to stop. For their own well being. Still no one get married. But women should stop validating the "spontaneity" and instant gratification of reckless bad boys. The things that would change. The way children interact, the way business could be done. If only women act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 01:39 AM
0	People over-glorify youth. Specfically, the 18 to 24 demographic. With this argument, your final paragraph, the counter is that sex isn't everything and you didn't know her then, blah blah blah. But it is an argument. Makes your argument seem weak. The true argument needs to be more nuts and bolts. No emotions. When she does arrive after all that, will it be as someone who can truly love you. Was all that casual sex reeeeeally casual. Every girl I've ever dated hated her exes. They clearly had suuuch good taste in men. She was definitely with them for the righ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 11:42 PM
2	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. I consider myself rather well versed in the culture war. I've been out of college since this all started so it's not like I've had a class on it or anything. I know rape has a low conviction rate. There was a video of some girl walking through NYC that had to do with cat calling. The implication being this contributes to rape culture. The idea that people, especially in a court room, would ask a victim or defendant what they were wearing or why they were in said location. Frat parties Didn't bro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 11:14 PM
2	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. Let's move to the rape culture thing. I said I don't believe in it because I don't feel right saying I don't care about it. So first off, let's remember we just agreed on our animal nature. So I kinda think that's a point for me. The world is the world. We're trying to be civilized. There will be problems. Spending too much time analyzing something that will go away and is part of nature, I just don't know what we'll get out of that. (Obviously we could stop rapes, but my point is could we? Thes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 07:50 PM
1	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. I think the other peice of this vendiagram is that I have occasionally had moments of connection with the cruel obtuse men in my life. There is some percentage of the men who mistreat us who on occasion are capable of saying, "oh yeah, I saw that, it was cool." You realize that some men are just assholes because it's how they learned to fit in and when you see them acknowledge you when you do something cool, you see that they simply want to fit in. So they mock when the group likes it's and they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 06:19 PM
5	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. Ok, I will accept anecdotes in our conversation. I believe you. But do you think most women feel that way. And it's not about settling down, it's about young single women with options. Do they give short men the same chance. Thus not creating a situation where short men develop in this environment. It doesn't matter that some overcome it. Also, your "still felt like a lady" qualifier implies something. If you can't make your argument without throwing in the equivalent of that open vent on the de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 06:02 PM
1	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. Discussion on short men having it hard>people making arguments that try sooooo hard not to see they're saying the same thing. We literally cannot have these talks without anecdotes and people saying,"well see i can explain why it really shouldn't matter." Saying it shouldn't matter means it does exist. How dare someone be so obtuse! Right in front of us!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 05:53 PM
2	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. I agree. But to make it even again, most people are idiots, it's the culture that is ruining ignorant men and women. Your average stupid person is still funny. You bring up something smart they didn't realize, and they go, "who cares you braniac, shut up take another shot!" That's the average moron we're all friends with. We take them for who they are because the stupidity is second to them wanting to win and have a good time. The person we dislike is the one who is generally walking around life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 05:40 PM
2	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. Regardless of all the drama that came in afterwards. You make the argument that it's simply realistic to have a tall dude with you for safety and attraction is a nice second. Maybe I don't buy into rape culture, but even just being beaten up or targeted by someone panhandling are greater risks when you don't have deterence. There is some quote that said guns made it so every man is tall. So you brought up a nice point that women may not be responsible for this short man complex. Other big men co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 05:27 PM
5	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. Now I disagree with both of you because I think you're both right. It's a vanity born of the fact that they can flaunt their tall man in front of other females, and even if the other girl has a guy of her own, he probably can't beat up her huge man. An instinct brought it about, and we've fetishized it because it pays dividends. Especially all this "pick me up, throw me around, choke me" shit going on with girls. Most guys find it a bit off putting at 1st. But girls have been chasing big tough g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 05:14 PM
2	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. Your last sentence. Short man syndrome could just as well be born of male insecurity. This back and forth has specifically been about how you won't entertain the possibility that it "could just as well be born of" female "insecurity." It's not definitive. He said he'd like to hear more of your thoughts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 04:36 PM
4	Porn raises men's expectations of women during sex and that's not a good thing for both men and women. It's definitely a convenient lie for them. Sex with women is mostly the same. Any two unathletic people will have unathletic sex. Maybe a guy will get some girl willing to get her heart rate up during sex but it's not the same as a big athletic guy being able to manhandle and throw a woman around. So when they act like we're the ones with expectations because we'd like them to smile and be enthusiastic about sex with us, it appears to be projection. I think what most guys like about porn is that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/20 03:53 PM
3	Optimal thot level This is simply the golden rule. Treat others as you'd like to be treated. You said as much sex as someone would like is "ideal". And good on you. Then you plainly stated that for yourself, in this specific instance of your life, you would like the person to match you even somewhat. Specifically because of your circumstance. Not because you're a controlling asshole. The incredulity of the commentors who simply missed your point is ridiculous. You didn't say youd demand this person exist or be sol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/20 03:42 PM
1	What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partner Or it goes to what all naysayers are getting at in here. "People grow out of slutting around and settle down with good people, so who cares." This topic is discussing the female animal attraction and who receives it. There need not be any moral qualifiers. But the guys who girls give it up for when they're young, and the crazy ones keep on doing it into adulthood, display objectively undesirable traits and there is no comeback if your wife or gf wants you to be more "dominant" or have more confi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/20 03:29 PM
1	What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partner I'm having trouble fleshing out the idea, but here goes. There is absolutely a difference in the value of the average man and the average woman. If the average dude scores a 10, good for him, he had average dude sex with someone out of his league. He'll try his best. But if a woman scores a 10 guy, he's probably a big dude with big muscles who can pick her up and swing her around. Perform with stamina in a way that displays excellence. Whereas most guys can't. One experience is replicable with a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/20 03:05 PM
1	What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partner The interesting thing I find about these subs, is specifically the ability to discuss uncomfortable or undesirable ideas. If someone sidesteps the topic at hand, human history and evolution are at odds with one another because our paradigm has changed, then you know they simply are using their words and thoughts to stay safe. You and I are similar. I was raised in this new progressive world. I have expectations of finding an equal and I am coming to terms with the reality of it. If I can find a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/20 02:44 PM
3	Maintaining composure (frame) is one of the key attributes of being a man. Not many people realize and then embrace their ability to judge properly. I've always believed this is one of the advantages of being artsy or stylish. Your art or fashion gets judged. you either recalibrate or you succumb to mediocrity. You realize when people are capable and when they are incapable of recognizing the patterns of character and style in order to appear attractive, in all sorts of ways. But you need the ability to judge and not feel guilty judging others. Your post points out a v…	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/19 01:57 PM
5	Women have a different version of reality I get what this other guy is trying to say. I was raised blue and often do blue things because it makes me feel good to treat women as an equal. As capable. But you're tactic is truly the correct response and here's why. They'll sabotage the answer you give. They will sabotage that sentiment. Yes, it'd be lovely to reply and say you're exclusive. It'd be fantastic to say you love them back when they say it. Because another human being who you are spending time on should be worthy of those sentim…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/18 07:57 PM
20	Ariana Grande: Another example of AWALT, Female Rationalization, and Victim Card. I find that your take, on posts like this, is obviously correct. Which makes me think that the value of posts like this, I seem to think they have some, is that they are pointing out hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance in gynocrocy or the feminine imperative. This post should give no one the impression that this man or even most men are well put together or capable of captaining a relationship. Just that it's a prime example of a woman hamstering, and society whiteknighting her. It's worth it to …	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/18 10:14 PM
2	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill The elation I felt thinking you'd decided to engage me. The excitement at the possibility of having my mind changed or educated. Look if questioning you made it seem as if I was a contrarian then I'm willing to look the other way. I don't pretend I'm as eloquent a writer as someone with readers. I was simply trying to pose the opposing view point a bit more robustly. I won't say intelligently because I'm just riffing. I don't even know why I care about this point. I enjoy your writings. I'm a fa…	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 01:00 AM
2	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill Do you guys offer anything to suggest that you're forming these opinions objectively? The way this discussion is evolving lends itself so much to tribalism, that the question must be asked, are we simply protecting our own butts? My thesis is that we're dealing with a crowd who was thoughtful enough to show themselves the light. If they went wrong from there they still have my respect. I cannot understand the desire to "other" the only other group which is willing to acknowledge us in an intelli…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 09:40 PM
7	Billionaires have more sons - further scientific evidence for TRP sexual theory Ooo missed a chance to hold frame and deal with a contender properly.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 08:46 PM
3	How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key Tips We're in agreeance. Why do you think anyone is suggesting one do this for physical & temporary pleasure? I know I would argue that they have missed the point. The issue would be, can the majority of users filter that message from this post? I think it was a good attempt.	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/18 07:37 PM
7	How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key Tips He simply used getting laid as the framework around which he could explain to you where to properly focus your attention. Having a frame of mind where you cannot be emotionally destroyed by the things others, especially women, say is beneficial in many ways. One just so happens to be attractiveness. Understanding the rational of the SMV and the probability of any one person being the golden calf you worship will bring about a mindset which allows for an abundance mentality. Theres that Zen quote…	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/18 06:37 PM
-8	The empathy trap, testosterone, and the power of holding frame Look, if you want to make the concession that someone who is incel should avoid something that enables that condition, then fine. But telling men what to do and what not to do is NOT red pill. We are supposed to acknowledge hard truths and deal with them pragmatically. Shaming men about porn, acting as if they cannot make their own mistakes, or overcome a disadvantageous situation is mothering. The problem you described was specifically with your mind set. Not porn. Religion is not evil. What we…	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/18 08:36 PM
3	Rough Fucking vs Passionate Lovemaking. Where a lot of men are wrong. Is he wrong? Regardless, treat it as a shit test. Agree & amplify Change the subject Ignore her shit test completely Pressure flip The nuclear option Command respect You sort of got there with a pressure flip, but honestly I feel like the mgtow are a thorn in a lot of our sides. If I was gonna troll here, that's how I'd do it. There are rationalities to mgtow that aren't there in feminism, and thus we could entertain their ideas & argue back. But the way we rage at them for being on our turf...c…	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/18 09:44 PM
5	Women cannot seem to understand that men are not hypergamous like them The argument I use for this situation is "how wrong do you think we all are?" Do you think we're all wrong? Most of us? Just a few? Not only do I care how much ground you'll concede, my argument is based on the fact that you flinched at all. Why'd you try to protect us from these thoughts? Why'd you make the concession that it surely can't be any large amount of women. I'd argue that most people suck. Most people are immature & self destructive, if not entirely ill equipped for a number of reaso…	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/18 06:23 PM
1	Women cannot seem to understand that men are not hypergamous like them An adult would find responsible pragmatic reasons to make a more reasonable decision. An adult would work within the system to make the best for themselves and if another adult presented an opportunity to partner up for shared gains they would consider the risks. That's all this is about. You are right that the childish among us would continuously chase cheap thrills until they cannot. That is immature, selfish, and self destructive. We do not need to learn that "it's just women's nature."! They…	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/18 05:57 PM
1	Why you must believe AWALT That's all well and good. How would you suggest I meet an INTJ. I like hearing your thoughts on this topic, but what would you say to the men who will say that you are too confident in the perfection you've found? Has your relationship conducted itself in this manner for many years? Just to be contrarian and continue this discussion, what do you think you can offer to trp community with such a star crossed romance? I believe you offer good advice on finding a niche girl, but that almost reinforc…	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/17 03:31 PM
1	The case of 'innocent' girls or 'innocent looking girls' This was BGS ibmor's video topic today. Scorpion & the frog. https://youtu.be/4dalIeLQrqg	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/17 04:22 AM
10	Why you must believe AWALT First off I want to reply in kind. You have been polite and patient with your questions and we are setting an example as to how ideas could be probed in a decent manner. I do agree with your description of at least my interpretation of this space. With the small caveat that you used soft words to describe it. "Solace, empathy, and companionship". While it is true those are to be found here, I only needed to know I wasn't crazy. I don't believe that I needed kindness, more so I believe I was bein…	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/17 03:16 PM
16	Why you must believe AWALT The real question here and the next stage of your understanding will pertain to whether or not we are all wrong. That is the truth of the red pill. Here is where men are allowed to speak freely on women and we have a consensus. We have noticed patterns and we are united in having shared these experiences. This happens to me, a lot, with women. I will attempt to make some point, and she will dismiss it as "That's just your opinion. You're just being too harsh/pragmatic/serious." But here, people …	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/17 01:09 PM
9	College: Just Fucking Try Idk where you got the idea that this post is about "learning to get laid. He basically just shamed us. It's a strawman he set up and then let you cut it down. Did someone recently make a post about not wanting to spend their time getting laid in college? He certainly didn't offer anything besides the basics on how you could go about doing this. Just that you must be wasting your time if your in a sex capitol(college) and not chasing poon. People are turning down legally dangerous socially stigma…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/17 10:04 PM
1	Succinct post on what happens when you don't give these women attention. I got 2 replies from endorsed dudes(I hardly participate here, so that's always cool for me), and you're both being nitpicky with me about how I described your roles here? ;) I'm not trying to pick on you guys, I was simply taking a stupid question and attempting to help someone understand what they should be paying attention to around here. If people don't realize that the way a trp man expresses himself is almost more important that what he says then you will be lost focusing on his reasoning.…	/r/TheRedPill	18/10/17 07:27 PM
2	Succinct post on what happens when you don't give these women attention. They're the "cool" guys around here. And I don't mean that negatively. They have a record of consistently contributing and doing so in a calm & collected way, while still imparting unbiased knowledge. You will see many contributors who fight with their commenters. Loss of frame. You will see contributors who pre-empt their topic with a disclosure as to why their post will suck. Demonstrating low value(smv) and lack of abundance. You will see contributors who don't understand AWALT, will White-kn…	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/17 08:53 PM
3	An issue many men in their 20s struggle with on TRP, not seeing a light at the end of this tunnel when thinking about the alternative to marriage and kids. Does this guy almost make a very interesting point? Maybe, we won't know since he didn't get there. Is he trying to get us to be more chill towards marriage and children because it'd make him feel better? Yea that's pretty much what these type of posts are. They're almost concern trolling in the sense that these posts try to make the general red pill opinion on marriage more relaxed. He thinks it's gonna fix his problems, save his life. And we don't really allow him to feel that way because were…	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/17 01:13 PM
4	Yes, Virginia, you do have to be an asshole. Not every man will reproduce. Not all men should be subjected to the santa clausian lie that they will need and find love and adoratiom from a woman. We're all going to find out that focusing on this as an insight into male sexual success rather than a subtle enabling of feminine sexual supremacy is going to destroy productive society. I'm honestly much more the person who is here for "male sexual strategy" than for neoreaction's conspiracy, but the draw is actually just the safe space to see pe…	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/17 11:58 PM