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The average person thinks he's much better than average. 40% of first marriages end in divorce, this is huge and not something to take lightly. And a lot of those 40% aren't even happy, there is cheating, domestic violence and a lot of nasty stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 02:56 PM
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It's good to grow but almost half of marriages end in divorce. That's not something one can ignore, failure is extremely likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 01:16 PM
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Men still cheat on extremely gorgeous women. As a guy, I think a LOT of guys would cheat given the right context, the thirst for something different is really strong in some people. I don't know how women think but I think it's the same desire for something new. As long as you're still the same, I don't think you can mitigate much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 01:06 PM
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It doesn't even have to be a 10. He might be even less attractive than you but tickles her senses in the right way at the right time. It's a fucked up world, there are risks everywhere. We can only hope for the best but have to be prepared for the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 12:57 PM
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It's just a risk of life. Most relationships fail, you just have to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 12:53 PM
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But she sees someone better than you every day even if you think you're hot stuff. It doesn't even have to be better, just different. Living in fear sounds horrible. And why is a woman leaving you such a big deal? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 12:42 PM
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Yes, absolutely. Why would I want a chick that acts like a gym bro? I also don't see how an attention seeker on social media is feminine. Same with makeup, it doesn't make a woman more feminine. And why would you look down on a girl talking with her girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 12:22 PM
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Self describing as a vague useless word like "alpha" is weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:43 AM
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The post is about manosphere, not just TRP. The powerful men were so few, statistically it didn't even matter and they never had the interest of other men in their mind, only their families. It's not like women rulers built utopias or never waged war. Dying for a king or a queen is the same. A lot of women would have a problem with your statement that men want sex more. Some women swear they have much higher sexual desires than all of their former partners. I don't know what's the scientific opi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:46 AM
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I fail to see your point. Incels have no women interested in them, emotionally or sexually. It's like they don't even exist for women. Your post tries to pain women doing voluntary things as victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 04:48 AM
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I never understood why some guys brag about pumping and dumping. If you enjoyed your time with a girl, why wouldn't you want to do it more?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 02:37 PM
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They're bullshit words used to shame and promote personal agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:09 AM
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I wanted my post to be more nuanced than that. It's okay to do whatever you want but I don't get the ridicule from TRP if someone wants a LTR from a specific woman: "look at that beta cuck soyboy having oneitis".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:07 AM
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Don't be so edgy dude, just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 08:25 AM
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Going anywhere is a risk to their image which they care about if they married just for the image.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 06:31 AM
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It happens a lot but not all the time. There are tons of famous males and getting caught is very easy. We'd hear about all of them if that was the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 06:29 AM
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Probably for someone like a prince but the successful male actor has more to gain for doing whatever he wants with no repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 06:11 AM
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Yes but that' seen as less authentic even by the TRP. They miss on the thrill of going out there in the world and choosing their own instead of having to hide. Why go through all the trouble when you could have simply not get married and risk your public image?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 06:06 AM
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Where did you get the impression that I have a low libido? Do you think other women don't turn me on or what? It's just that they have much less value (especially random sluts) to me than my current girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 06:05 AM
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It happens but not enough in my opinion. There would be footage with them other girls everywhere except if they kept it really discreet with paid girls or groupies or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 06:01 AM
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Why don't we hear about it very often? If these dudes are fucking hundreds of women, one of them might make it public.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 05:52 AM
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It's as if people are more than animals and have more complex needs but that's a wild theory. I only googled the first woman, she's hot af and there's only a 3 year difference. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 05:49 AM
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Everyone knows you're not a real MAN™ if you don't focus your life on fucking random sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 05:23 AM
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That's not a good analogy. Eating donuts is fine, it's the ridicule of those that choose not focus their lives on eating donuts that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 05:18 AM
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I think the guy knowingly sharing a girl with another one is the cuck. So what if the boyfriend had feelings? Those are gone when she cheats, it's just a risk of life. Most men won't think twice about dumping a cheating bitch. "I don't want to have my feeling hurt so I want to share women with others" sounds pathetic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 05:17 AM
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Doesn't matter, the purpose is the same, sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:02 PM
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This sounds like a satirical post but I'll reply anyway. Women are just as likely to cheat on you as you are to cheat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 03:53 PM
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And their solution is to go and fuck as many cumdumpsters as they can because that's alpha as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 03:49 PM
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A friend is really into the TRP and I sometimes read it because he talks about it. He and many others make it seem like something more than guys giving each other advice on how to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 03:44 PM
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That's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 03:41 PM
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Human desires deep down are the same in all countries, they just like to pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:10 PM
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Exactly, I didn't think of this argument. How can you have great sex if you don't know the person, if you're doing it the first time and only once you're just seeing that person at their worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:08 PM
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I was just mocking your comment not the people in the anglosphere. I don't care about national identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:06 PM
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This turned funny, thanks for the laugh. Muh precious anglosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 01:35 PM
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They find female sluts gross but their goal is to fuck as many of them as possible. Doesn't make sense. We're talking about wanting casual sex, "pair bonding" is not casual sex and has no connection. It's a breach of trust to be cheated but there is benefit in having a relationship. My post is about ridiculing relationship (oneitis, love doesn't exist, women will cheat on you anyway) while promoting casual sex as the one true way of TRP. I'm from Romania. Marriage here is safer, you can basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 12:27 PM
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I think there is no chance of this ever becoming a problem. In the future, probably not far away we'll just use artificial wombs and not even have pregnancies anymore so population can always be controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 12:20 PM
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I think I'm not an outlier at all but definitely not the majority. Even the guys that say they don't have a problem with a woman doing it with others besides him, most deep down will prefer it didn't happen unless they have some sort of sharing fetish which literally makes them cucks. And I don't understand the fear of TRP with cheating. She cheats, so what? She's gone. She fucked a guy, just like the random woman you want to fuck. There's no difference. Marriage is stupid and risky in some coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 12:12 PM
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The risk of getting cucked is there but fucking random women is almost like cucking yourself each time. That woman might have been doing it with a dude before you. You're basically sharing them with others without knowing. This is my number one turn off. You said porn actress have some sort of problem. Why did you assume this? Because they don't have any inhibitions doing it in front of a camera?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 12:04 PM
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Your life as in a child or STDs? Because a vasectomy doesn't protect from STDS and having a child is an assumed risk obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 11:56 AM
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If you say porn actress tend to have problems it means that people that have no inhibitions tend to have some sort of problem. What I'm saying is that humans need more than just monkey sex and having limits and restraints is good for oneself. I understand the allure of being able to get a lot of girls but I don't understand the ridicule of people that choose different ways. They are called less manly and made fun of, sometimes when those people are actually really successful people that got what…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 11:54 AM
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But sex is a necessity. Someone's opinion of you is much less important than a biological need. And sex is one of those things that can be done very discreetly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 10:44 AM
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I don't condemn it and I can not like a thing without trying it. Everyone is free to do whatever they like, what I don't understand is why relationships are seen as less macho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 10:42 AM
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What do you think it's the cause? Women having lower sex drives or them being hypergamous and only wanting the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 10:35 AM
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Why do you mean by most being scared of women? I think men are afraid of rejection but that's normal human behavior, I don't they find women intimidating or scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 10:34 AM
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Diversity is nice but my post was more about wanting to have lots of "monkey sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 10:32 AM
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No and don't want to. Not knowing a woman and having to use a condom sucks. To be honest, I don't think I'd have much success even if I wanted. Have you tried it? What's your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 10:30 AM
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The guys you mentioned are just dumb. On the other hand some men can afford it, maybe they want to go to a nice restaurant and pay for their partner. I had friends pay for me (a dude) so why wouldn't they for a woman they want to have sex with? As long as it's an insignificant amount of money for him, what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 01:06 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 09:07 PM
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Probably low self esteem or not really liking the guy so she needs external validation. Relationship is doomed anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 08:43 PM
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The opposite of a drama queen is not a boring dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 08:36 PM
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What do you they mean by bad boys? The most promiscuous guys I knew in college were some really nice guys. They were tall and handsome but there was nothing "bad" or "dangerous" about them. I'm also inclined to believe they are referring to "hot bad boys" but hot guys are attractive anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:32 PM
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I'm 30. What makes a man a "bad boy"? You mentioned prison, how is being more likely to go prison more attractive for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:16 PM
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I honestly don't care about "alphas" in prison and I really don't buy this "bad boy" thing. And even if it was proved somehow, I still wouldn't care because trying to be a "bad boy" for women is just pathetic. Justin Bieber? I have no idea how he acts. I know he's famous so he can act any way he likes and I'm sure some women will still like him. I never received this "girls are special" advice but I've heard "girls are different" and they are but that doesn't make them special.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:02 PM
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I don't think masculinity and aggressiveness are really that attractive. A bald head, a thick beard, a hairy chest and ass are masculine but I don't think they are a priority for women. If a woman finds you unattractive, I don't think she will like your aggressiveness (I'm not really sure what that means btw). A nice jaw is masculine and attractive but that's cherry picking. And almost any men would like to muscular and lean and know it's attractive. I really agree with "You cannot negotiate Des…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:32 AM
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Can you give some examples about the harsh truths that you think a lot of men don't know about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:34 AM
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I understand this and it sounds really dumb. Why allow your citizens to be financially ruined because of a divorce? Isn't there any pressure to fix the system? I would never get married if it came with any financial risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:13 AM
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What can a short bald ugly guy with a small dick do? It's an extreme example, I know but being ugly, bald or short are not uncommon things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:06 AM
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Humans are very complex. Even though they know having a great body will improve their lives in different ways some will still see more benefits in their current lifestyles. My point is that just saying true things to people, it won't make them act on them, especially when things aren't guaranteed. A great body will lower your risk of health problems and improve your odds with the opposite sex but still comes with no guarantees while the small pleasures of their lifestyle are here to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:03 AM
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That's right although some things are out of your control and you have to make peace with that otherwise you might as well be mad at birds for being capable of flying when you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:52 AM
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Parents divorced when I was 25. My dad cheated for years on my mother and she forgave him and for some reason really loved him. It was my father who wanted the divorce. I'm still new to this so I'll go with purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:46 AM
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I think you are right. My impression is also that fewer women like casual sex but you always hear women saying they like sex just as much as men (and how it's society that suppresses female sexuality or other theories) so I give them the benefit of the doubt. In the relationships I've been they all could walk the talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:32 PM
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I am average dude and I've rejected women. I don't know about most men but I also have friends that rejected women they didn't find attractive, some were quite nice girls actually. I can't see how a really attractive man can just have sex with a wide range of women when he can get equally attractive women. I'm sure it happens but again, why would it matter if a dude fucks a girl you don't even find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:21 AM
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Aren't less attractive people having sex with other less attractive people? I don't get this idea that women are some sort of demi-gods that can get men way attractive than them easily. And why is casual sex even important? Having to use protection and the idea that the girl might have been having sex with another guy earlier sounds really unappealing. It's obvious that more attractive/higher status men are going to have more opportunities for casual sex but I don't consider the other men "low v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:12 AM
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