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orphileen/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 02:02 AM
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Yep! My current boyfriend! We've been together over a year. I felt super caught off guard, but we had good banter and still good banter when we had a phone call later that night! We did have an interesting start though. I didn't really feel him out too well at the start, but there was something about him and I told him "I do want to stay as friends" and he said the same thing. Then we were friends for a couple months before we started crushing on each other and then we were kind of confused, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:29 PM
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For myself and my boyfriend, hopefully we wed within the next 2 years or so. As for kids, I personally want to start in my 30s. We're both 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:09 AM
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My boyfriend has an emotional side and that's important to me. He is absolutely doting and I love that. The other night he made ME cry because I'm going through some health issues at the moment and before I went home, he said "I've been so concerned about you recently cause I know it's a lot". I am getting one seizure every month, and that is not how he met me... I cried and let out steam and he hugged me and shed tears as well, and I just left happier. We do a lot for each other and want to let…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:16 AM
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that's what I was wondering 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:12 PM
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IMO, I think we all (men and women) look, just don't stare intently or say weird things. To see someone and think "ooh that person is attractive", "whoa that's heavy", "what kind of workout is that?", "that person has nice glutes/ whatever" I think all stems from an innocent viewpoint. I don't act upon it, I just notice it and continue with my workout. Does this question stem from that recent tiktok video that got a lot of attention? I know there are some weirdos that will stare or say weird shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:17 AM
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At this point, we agree to disagree. A majority of society lives a different life than you, alpha. You stated you were above average weight and below average height. Your experience with women and how you view what a man and women are meant to be is purely your experience. You aren't a success object, and women aren't sex objects. The story keeps changing and you are very slim with descriptions. You have a very black and white mindset, and I cannot debate those who have already made their minds.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:44 AM
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true. and yeah hopefully 🥲🥲🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:54 PM
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right? My assumption is that he has gotten jaded due to the fact that he is very overweight and somewhat short. So the sugardaddy lifestyle is how he can accept that women just want rich men. However, if the women on this thread have said otherwise, then they're "silly for their decisions". you can't win with people like this 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:36 PM
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Imagine being proud of these things but as soon as some tough questions are asked, the alpha male gets emotional and spins it as "you can't ask these questions". You put the info out there buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:23 PM
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What is my position? And your responses have contributed enough. Enjoy your women and the Fresh and Fit podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:00 AM
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They are, but it's for my understanding. Do you believe these numbers contribute to your sugardaddy lifestyle (if you are still one, of course) and your views on women? Do you plan one day to have a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:53 AM
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What is your height and weight? age?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:37 AM
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How much is your weight? Height? Looks? What makes these women attractive to you? They are fine knowing they share you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:30 AM
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How many do you have? How much money do you spend on each of them as this alpha male?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:21 AM
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sighs in woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:12 AM
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Tbh, when you look deep inside yourself, do you think you are a good communicator? Someone who can hold good conversation? Do you look like you take care of your hygiene? In my experience, when I talked to individuals who want to date, they lived in the boonies, suck at talking, and are very shy/nervous to the bone. I'm not saying this is all true for you, but perhaps there is some inner looking. We are all not out here looking for an Adonis. Perhaps you are looking for an Aphrodite? Do you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:28 PM
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You need to work on yourself. I don't mean gym and hygiene (although that is necessary). I mean I want you to learn to love yourself and feel that you are 100% before you start dating. You are worth it. No one should cry from this loneliness, andI am sorry you are going through this. I started dating as a late bloomer, 22F. It's ok. Learn to do what makes you happy, and have that void filled with flowers, so that the partner can come and just water the plants. The partner should not fill the voi…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 07:00 PM
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that is YOUR opinion. my boyfriend was also a late virgin, and he didn't feel like a subhuman loser failure. Also, I have a genetic disease that I disclose before I date anyone which really "lowers my value". I probably won't be having children. I'm not sure. Thing is, is there is always something we can do to fix in ourselves. Example. I used to be super fat. Granted, I also did not think about boys until later, but then I turned out super hot. Anyhow, hopefully you understand, I'm kind of drug…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/22 05:38 PM
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Much apologies right now cause I'm doped up on a lot of brain meds that do limit my word capacities. Just did a quick run through on your profile and you seem to have some trauma or something and don't deal with it well or place blame elsewhere. There are a lot of nice people that find other nice people attractive. But we don't get with them because there is more to the story of attraction/love. Maybe they don't like you, maybe after a date you figure "I don't like them". Point is: being nice = …
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 10:13 PM
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I want to stay with my partner. But if this were to happen to me, I want them to be my proxy or whatever it's called and I want to be DNR and DNI. I been through too much health shit in my life, that being bed bound would kill my spirit. If my partner wants to be a a DNR/DNI, I will respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:40 PM
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You sound beautiful sir. Anywho, your time will come. I didn't date till I was about 22 years old. I'm not sure how old you are, but it's ok to be a little older. First love also totally screwed me over by hiding a kid from me, and I did not give into the female counterpart of "redpill" or whateva. So do not let that get in your head. Have hygiene, go to the gym, and have charisma. And don't be afraid to smile.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 12:36 AM
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I'm not sure what the 80/20 rule is, but maybe what you need is a break from it all? In my female opinion, redpill is designed to protect your feelings and place blame elsewhere. Don't feel insecure about your skin color. I'm assuming your darker? I'm a fair complected middle eastern woman, and my man is a darker Salvadoran man. We are the same height, he is my cornball, and we met on NOT dating apps. Keep doing you, as cheesy as that sounds.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 12:19 AM
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no. and i do not respect nor look up to anyone who does that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:40 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:49 AM
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I believe I bring over emotional security, the "doting kind of love", kitchen skills, laughter, money, and fun. I'm already in a relationship of 1year, and I think I've done just that. I'm Afghan, and he's Salvadorean. I bring him dishes of my culture so he and his family can try. I do like to cook new things, or healthy things (we're both somewhat health oriented). If I'm off and my man is at work, sometimes I like to bring him a coffee with a cute little note on it. According to him, I'm prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:07 PM
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Well according to this wall, someone on a previous post mentioned that the wall/women losing their prime starts at 16... it's never accurate lol And you can look good at 30. It boggles my mind. It's like that last day that you can say you're 29, you better make the most of it, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:48 AM
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How old are you? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:07 PM
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I'm female, and I delve on it like biweekly or something or something like that. As for my man, I'm sure he watches it, but not hours a day ... That's concerning imo 😅 Too much of something can be a bad thing. I don't mind if he watches porn, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:46 PM
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Well for starters, I don't know where to begin! But you spelled being wrong, and now I have to 🐝 angry about that!
/r/ExRedPill22/02/22 10:12 PM
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I was about to say this... And he is about to open a psych practice? This guy doesnt even know how blended relationships work and he's butthurt that he didn't see the kid 3 months in. Wtf.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/22 06:27 PM
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I saw that you are only dating for 7months. Usually, parents like to show their kids once they feel secure about their relationship. You not seeing the kids yet is pretty normal. When you date a single parent, it's all about what's best for the child. Imo, I personally don't know if you're ready to date someone with kids. With the way I am reading everything, it's as if you consider this relationship a "mario cart level/game" where you need to know what you can do so she can give you what you wa…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/22 06:26 PM
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I've been where you are for different reasons. I've done therapy, and high school was hard for me because that's when my epilepsy started (then que the depression and suicidal ideations). I'm glad your therapist has been helping you; what I would have done to have therapy at that age. And if it's anything like I've been told and my experience, therapy does get worse before it gets better. IMO, you are in that "metamorphosis" stage where you are trying to change that mindset. I enjoyed my childho…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/22 03:29 PM
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I've been with my boyfriend for the past 7 months, but I've known him since one year! If it matters, we are both 24. Did I notice any changes? Not really. Haven't been on OLD in over 2 years. I met my ex thru there. With my boyfriend, he asked for my number when I was at the tech shop, and it just felt so natural and I was enticed by it. Glad I gave it to him 🙏 Have not met any RP men in my dating life. Thank goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:06 AM
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Have you considered therapy? I'm not trying to hurt feelings, but seeing your thoughts make me wonder. I'm not sure how old you are, I'm assuming high school, and if it's chemistry you have, you got to be about 15/16? If that's the case, you're about my little bro's age. You're young, and it is ok not to experience romance that age. I'm female 24, and didn't experience romance till 22. I was fat most of my life, and it's probably what never made me attractive to others. In fact, I remember someo…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/22 07:58 AM
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What's considered older virgin women? I know I lost mine at 21, almost 22 years old (some people consider that the older side). I just was ready to have a relationship and no longer afraid of something being shoved up 😂 I never placed virginity on a pedestal, nor who I lost it to. I just felt ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:11 PM
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What type of girl are you wanting to attract versus what you feel you must settle with? I too have also lost a good amount of weight and started the gym. I'm female tho. I never felt I had to settle, only that I knew I never wanted an obese partner. I wanted a partner that looks like they care about their health. Abs not needed, but you know what I mean 😉 I wonder if your thoughts about the girls you can't get versus whom you gotta settle with is all in your inner dialogue. You just gotta go for…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 06:30 AM
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I see :( Well I'm glad you made the decision to remove yourself from a mindset that made you feel worse. 🙏
/r/ExRedPill03/02/22 03:03 PM
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Agreed. I was lied to about kids a year in, and it was not wanted in the slightest... I think he felt bad about it, but nonetheless, the damage was done. I'm glad that you were able to get out the redpill stuff, and that you understand the female perspective! 🤟
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 06:18 PM
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I think he makes a lot of good points and is hilarious too. However, I don't agree with some of the things he says. He will tease a woman calling herself "curvy/thicc" when she is downright obese and start the trumpet music, lol. Understandably so. However, he also doesn't want to call cheating for what it is, and will use the term "exercising options". If we aren't using euphemisms for being fat, let's not using them for cheating too. I don't think men should have to cheat on a woman who they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:09 PM
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Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/22 04:21 AM
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Absolutely. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:03 AM
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24F here. My goal is marriage. I wouldn't want to get emotionally invested and then call it quits. I can't remember if I put long-term or not on my OLD profile (it's been 2 years since I dated), but I would usually just put "not into flings, one night stands, or casual dating" as a way of blatantly placing what I did NOT want. Still got some of those men in my inbox anyhow 😅 I guess I always thought long-term was meant to lead to potential marriage 😅 I was very new to dating and just caught on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:47 AM
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I won't be taking the time to see who my male friends on IG follow and then actively shame them. Imo, this solution is not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:35 AM
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ahh i see
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 03:43 PM
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What about covid snapped you off?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 01:14 AM
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Agreed. There were some very contradictory points. As a woman myself, I wondered "why is a man's body count praised but a woman's is shamed? didn't a man tango with her? didn't he "soil" her to better himself". But man do I agree with your points. I'm glad to see that many of the people here found that just being yourself is all you need. I do agree that some red pill rhetoric I can agree with, but there's also a lot that makes me sad to hear. Glad you are with ya girl and that you have someone …
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 07:27 PM
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Exactly how I saw it ;) good for you man. Sometimes we need a victory story in regards to self growth! Happy for you and continue growing 🤟
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