| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 189 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxiety | osavkass212 | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:43 PM |
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| 44 | How do I meet girls and make friends as a loner?Yea, came to say this - clubs ain't the best places to find "soul mates". You can't even talk there so how are you gonna connect? I would say pubs are way better places for that - there are older people there and you can actually talk. OP, try hitting the pubs (you don't have to drink), try the ones that are a bit quieter so you can actually talk with the women and get to build solid rapport before going for the contact so that you have a reason to meet up next time. I'd suggest giving this book… | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 09:08 PM |
| – | I have no idea what to talk about when I meet a girl at a party/pubThere isn't any "best topics" to talk about - it's all about how relaxed you feel in your body to express whatever you want to express. You have infinite topics to talk about but you filter your thoughts by thinking "is this cool enough to say, will she like it?" - fuck that. Talk about stuff that makes YOU laugh, that makes YOU feel good - if you feel good then she will feel good and add flirting. Most guys don't know how to really flirt and then just hope that one day the girl makes the first … | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:09 PM |
| 11 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?How about Bobs? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Book, video, content , etc. recommendations for flirting, conversation, making moves, etc.?Like I said, pretty decent. It has more like how to do stuff that I like compared to grand ideas of how to be the ultimate man without teaching how to even approach etc. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyYeah.. it was said in a joking manner/trying to say it in a fun vibe, I def was not trying to put those guys down or anything. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyGreat topics/lines.. will add it to my go-to stuff to say, thanks :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyAwesome advice, thank you so much :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyThanks man - I will def try the improvisation stuff :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyYeah, I guess I want too much too fast.. gotta keep my chin up and try to do a bit more next time, like some other responses have been.. try to talk like 1 more sentence etc. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietywow, thank you for this throughout comment. Def a lot of things to take not and improve! I didn't really try to put those guys down or smth.. I was more like a jokingly said/fun vibe when I made that comment. I have a bit of trouble letting lose on the dancefloor, feel like people are staring etc.. It can be helpful to arrive at the club a little bit early so you can warm up socially by chatting up people who work there at the venue, both men and women. I think this is the most important tak… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:23 PM |
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