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Inner Game osavpoiss/r/seduction30/07/21 04:44 PM
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Field Reportosavpoiss/r/seduction19/05/22 10:57 AM
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What's up with this sub? I see only 3 new threads past 24h.. Is everything just deleted by mods? Imo it's weird if the sub is like 741k users and people have questions but nothing is allowed to be posted. Where should all these people go then with their questions? Don't tell me r/dating_advice or r/dating..
/r/seduction02/11/22 12:44 PM
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Ok.. looks help - what you gonna do now? CRY? Why are you in this sub even if looks is everything? You ain't getting prettier by reading posts here.
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:09 PM
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First times suck for everybody. It took me 8 different times (I only had ons, so.. 8 different girls) to finally enjoy it. That happened also due to me telling the girl I wanted to have sex with that I don't enjoy sex and it's not pleasant for me. She then instructed me what to do and took it slow.. after that I have started to enjoy sex a lot.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:09 AM
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lol.. the guy is downvoting your posts..
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:03 AM
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That's the western society for you - don't approach women, it's creepy. Don't flirt with anybody at work, it's sexual harassment. Don't approach at pubs - women are just there to have fun times with their friends. Yeah.. meet people while dealing with your hobbies - LOL.. this is the biggest BS advice of them all. Yeah.. I have fcking 5 hobbies where there are 10 new single women every time to hit on. At best you have like 4-10 women in different age ranges, maybe 2 are pretty and both taken. Th…
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:53 PM
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Fuck online dating - you get shit results for not having balls to approach women IRL. Your prize are flaking girls. Go out, approach women in pubs, clubs.. wherever and then talk about rejections. Getting flaked online isn't even a rejection, it's just women not taking you even as a real person but just one random chat.
/r/seduction20/10/22 04:18 PM
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YEP - OP, you DO KNOW that most of these girls are not responding to messages themselves but they have dudes doing it for them? Most of the girls will never even see your DMs.
/r/seduction20/10/22 04:15 PM
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Dude.. don't tell her you don't want to see her again. Just don't say anything and that's that. Saying "you don't want to see her again" to her just amuses her even more and will come off a petulant child who throws a tantrum. Believe me, I have done that so many times when I was younger and the result was always that I felt like a butt hurt kid and she got the final double dose of validation out of it. She doesn't deserve to get the final double boost from you.
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:16 PM
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Yep. No point trying to get her. Unless you can play the disqualification game really well down to the point of sex.. there is no point cause once you give in they are gone and so is their interest towards you.
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:04 PM
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OP - I don't think all the posts are possible to back up but via some reddit bot it's definitely possible to save the last 1000 or so posts. I am not sure if it's possible to save the 1000 most upvoted posts or smth though via API because some subs don't allow it (or maybe it's a global reddit thing). For that though, someone has to code a bot.
/r/seduction19/10/22 05:54 PM
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The links to your posts don't appear under your saved posts any more? I know you can read deleted web pages through waybackmachine website but if you don't have the url then it's going to be pretty hard.
/r/seduction19/10/22 05:44 PM
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Hezuz Crist.. their 2 PINNED posts are about why women think you are creepy and what makes a man creepy..
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:00 AM
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Yeah.. most of this guys posts/comments are full of anger..
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:52 PM
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Dude.. you have no idea what you are talking about. I have watched hundreds of their videos where they share their lives etc. Just.. seriously.. you have no idea what u are talking about.
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:49 PM
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Yep - there is a big difference if a socially savvy chill dude does what OP says vs guy who is a nervous wreck.
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:45 PM
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That is beautiful dude, really awesome to her it 😎
/r/seduction16/10/22 02:50 AM
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Give this freebie a read - it's a pretty much no BS straight to the point manual on how to approach girls, build attraction and get a date.
/r/seduction14/10/22 04:20 PM
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La Ruina is a weird one.. I have watches his stuff on and off for over a decade.. He most def goes for the "look at me, I have literal models everywhere" look in his programs.. his material.. is a lot of technical stuff.. dunno.. not a big fan. I think he markets his stuff well but the guy himself is a charisma black hole.
/r/seduction14/10/22 04:19 PM
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Yea.. WH1 show is great for entertainment.. other than that.. these guys are just empty vessels there spitting routines.. zero personality, no long term prospectives with women.
/r/seduction14/10/22 04:16 PM
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Approach a girl who is alone and looks sad in a pub. Ask her where she lives, stare at her after asking it.. don't break eye-contact.. then slowly slide your hand down her shoulder.. don't say anything.. See how fast the bitch is when she is running away.. no worries.. she went to spread the word.. the big G is in da housssseeeee...
/r/seduction14/10/22 04:12 PM
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Why can't u talk about football? I talk about it all the time. If you are interested in something with passion then the topic isn't important but the enthusiasm you give out is. Also.. if you see that she really has nothing to add to your topic then yeah, pick another one.
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:52 PM
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Sales ain't that good of an example - very persuasive sales people can guilt trip people into making purchases even though they didn't want to. I'm not saying I like that or would do that myself but it happens all the time.
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:41 PM
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I mean.. I wasn't my ex gf-s "type" (she even told me) but we were together for half a year. She wasn't into me and I thought she was (because I was reading her actions as she being interested in me when she was just being polite). After couple of dates she started to become attracted to my personality + I also used game on her. Some girls are not into your looks but using game on her and showing your personality also will "win" her over. Had I left because she wasn't into me couple of dates in …
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:39 PM
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That was the title of David DeAngelos book "Attraction isn't a choice"
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:32 PM
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It's hard as phuck but doable. It's all about taking action from the moment you step out of your house. The moment you arrive to the pub you start talking to somebody in the line or sitting alone or whatever. The key is to express your humor and be a bit more "out there". I would also advise changing sets often when you are still not in the state because it's easy and comfortable to stick around with another guy for an 15 min+ but it doesn't give your brain the "proof" it needs that it's okay to…
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:17 PM
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So unless you have good chemistry with your date and shes insanely attracted to you then getting laid to some will just be a pipe dream! Da phuck? You are on a seduction sub and spewing nonsense like this.. No.. you don't need to have good chemistry or her to even be super attracted - just attracted enough. I have gotten laid with many girls I had real shit chemistry with and they weren't even that attracted to me but I was in the right place at the right time and spewed solid game, knew how to …
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:35 PM
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exactly
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:59 PM
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Like Mugul said.. it's not a topic. Flirting isn't something you "talk" about. You can start from the get go with strong eye contact and then teasing her about anything.. even if it's completely made up in your mind.. Could be as simple as.. if she is short "wow.. you're quite tall.. for a 5th grader" with a smirk.. even though she is obviously like 25 yo and 160 cm or whatever. EDIT: the formula is giving the girl a compliment while also teasing her at the same time. I would suggest searching f…
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:07 PM
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How is it seeking validation? He wrote what works for him. He even added that he might sound arrogant by writing this. Guess what.. it's called confidence and he even pointed it out that he is bordering on the arrogance line but not crossing it. But ofc it's always easier to shit on someone else than to read what he wrote and take the good bits with you so you could improve.
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:42 AM
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Read her post history.. she has been dumped and now hates guys or smth. Also.. she can't write and is emotional.. full package.
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:22 AM
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Well.. you can practice like I did - flirt with all the women who are not your friends or family (and satellites lul). Doesn't matter if you like her or not and start from the get go. This way you build the habbit of flirting without seeking the reciprocating energy from the girl.
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:12 AM
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Yea.. I can't believe she has upvotes for the comment as well. Shows the state of this sub I guess..
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:56 PM
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Who shat in your puding today? Guy like this used you and you got hurt?
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:55 PM
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Yeah.. reading these comments I am a bit shocked. I thought this kind of post would get tons of positive feedback because the stuff OP says is from experience and true. Instead the thread is filled with comments on how it's not fulfilling, how OP is lying and that he is an arrogant asshole.. like, people, fcking grow some balls and start approaching vs sitting in seduction sub and shitting on people who give good advice and show what is possible to achieve.
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:53 PM
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Well, that's like.. your opinion. How do you know what is fulfilling for OP or not? Maybe it's incredibly fulfilling for him because he likes the process itself, getting to know so many different girls etc.
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:45 PM
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This sub is actually good. Read r/dating_advice and r/dating and you get a post with thousands of upvotes where a guy who has been virgin for 30 years shares dating advice when he finally got laid.
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:17 PM
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If it takes you tons of social energy then you are doing it wrong - the idea is to have fun while doing it not pushing yourself through agony.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:32 PM
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authentic belief that you’re more interesting than other guys Doesn't "authentic" mean that you truly believe you are more interesting than other guys? If so then it means that you truly believe that you are better than other guys.. which means you are thinking others are below you not equal. There are tons of guys like that out there who get women - tons of them are narcissistic assholes though.
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:55 PM
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U can join our community r/datingadviceformen It's not that big but is actively growing and has active members.
/r/seduction18/08/22 03:27 PM
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I think you underestimate what a day with a coach in field can do to someone. He can point out your mistakes in a way you yourself never could - your negative body language, when you failed to pull the trigger, if you were overcompensating, how were you making the girls feel, were you flirtatous enough, chasing.. etc It's not "it's all numbers game and all books/coaches are scam" and it's not "any guy can get laid when following these 5 simple steps" also. I don't know where you have heard the 1…
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:51 PM
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Yeah.. you are oversimplifying it. It's not "just be confident brah, flirt and be done with it". All these points are not "baseline" to someone who never had a girlfriend or to people who aren't good socially. Yea, pua books overpromise you the world but they are good for traing wheels and without them I would have never been where I am with girl to this date.
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:46 PM
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Dude.. if that was literally your first kiss then trying to "secure" a ons in one day most probably ain't gonna happen.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:10 PM
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Who was the founder who killed himself, what was his brand name?
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:32 PM
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Dunno.. I watched theie videos a lot and they always were really open about it - they just didn't mention it that often because it wasn't important. They gamed all the time and had tons of infields showing that they are legit.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:27 PM
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The RSD guys never hid the fact that Tyler had a son and a gf, not wife. Julien also always had one long term gf dor years but those were open relationships. Julien married after RSD left pua behind.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:18 PM
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Well.. to know that you should view comments on popular posts with the most downvotes. If it's unpopular and gets a lot of upvotes in this thread then it's popular actually innit?
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:49 AM
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My thinking is they will probably guilt trip you to the moon so the donation will be quite big or upsell you real expensive programs during it. Probably both - nothing in life is free.
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:22 PM
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THIS! - Fcking one reasonable comment in this entire thread.
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:39 PM
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I don't get it why guys think that - first of all, do you have any proof or just an opinion that gets circle jerked around? Have you approached any girls IRL? Yeah.. the age old "well, she has all these doctors and models approaching her online so I don't stand a chance" argument. Most of my female friends are whining about how there are so wank guys online and they can't find anybody that way. Even the doctors and laywers must have some level of game to compete online and also.. if they are so …
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:36 PM
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I said that to myself for 10 years but sometimes enough is enough.. meds are not to be afraid, u don't have to take them for the rest of your life.. just long enough to get your wheels rolling.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:52 PM
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Meds help.. pregabalin is great for social anxiety.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:43 PM
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I don't know dude.. dating apps are way more time consuming imo.. you have to swipe for days to get couple of matches (using the free versions of the app) and then often times they aren't the most attractive girls.. you then chat for couple of days.. again.. a lot of interactions just die out/stop responding.. then you meet up and find out that she ain't that pretty or your vibe doesn't match or she doesn't really like you IRL as much etc.. On the other hand.. I can go out to a pub and do 20 app…
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:53 PM
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http://onlineslangdictionary.com/meaning-definition-of/304#:\~:text=a%20%22hoe%22%2C%20i.e.%20a,That%20girl%20is%20a%20304
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:45 PM
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Lol.. people are still going to be horney, maybe more people will think twice before having sex without protection but other than that.. wanting to get laid overrides all other instincts except survival (physically hungry, being in immediate danger etc).
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:43 PM
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Yea.. r/dating_advice is more of a "just be yourself and show your feelings" type of advice and cold approaching is creepy and PUA like scum to them. This sub is the one you want to read if you actually want to become better with women.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:11 PM
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I think women aren't a video game. She either initially likes you or she doesn't. The spark/chemistry can't be manufactured. Depends - so many guys take this bullshit attitude that she either likes you or not and game is meaningless (just be yourself crowd) which is absolute dog shit opinion. So many hot girls don't give you a second of their time if you just roll up and "be yourself" but if you tease her a bit and and use "game" on her she lowers her "bitch" shield and can be really attracted t…
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:52 PM
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Guys using this language are old school guys who followed mostly old school PUA advice where that lingo was "in" - created by the first guys like Mystery, Neil Strauss etc. Looking back it sounds cringe a bit nowadays but it's just the lingo that stuck with some people or with people who discovered their material/books now.
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:43 PM
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shout out to your shit friend for ditching u like that.. and ur cousin for not adding u to the list..
/r/seduction05/06/22 10:15 PM
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Truth!
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:05 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:47 PM
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you
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:29 PM
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Same, plz guy.. get a life.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:22 PM
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All is fair in love and war
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:27 PM
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Thanks, but the guide itself is solid.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:23 PM
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yeah, I should have stayed there but.. internal dilemma.. do I want to have fun or try to get laid, it was 1 am only also.
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:26 PM
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I asked them to come with me but they wanted to stay.
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:00 PM
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Yeah.. I guess you are right.. I did want to leave at that moment because I wanted to see what else is out there and I was hoping I can talk to her later in FB but she didn't accept and perhaps went with the other guy there.. so there is a bit of regret about that. On the other hand, I got to talk to more girls and had a fun night but it didn't result in any hookups.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:07 PM
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Ok. Well.. with really pretty girls.. usually all the guys try to overcompensate and being "normal" is actually a breath of fresh air to them as they are then wondering.. why does THIS guy doesn't suck up to me a do all the dance and whistles like the other guys do? That doesn't mean though that just be boring and don't talk much etc.. it means that be the best version of yourself - the guy who you are when talking with your best friends and not trying to prove anything to anybody.
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:45 PM
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Great comment, the big brother thing is a nice way of giving yourself compassion. I used to be really self critical when going out and getting zero results so I used somewhat of a same kind of approach. The inner child lectures on youtube were super awesome and helped me a lot with compassion :) Unfortunately it seems they are removed (was like a 6 or so episodes from an 80s or smth TV lecture series).
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:40 PM
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What do you think under "most men are behind her"?
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:28 PM
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just be yourself braahhh..
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:25 PM
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I do the best when I get into the zone of talking total BS and laughing my ass off - don't really want a girl who wants the hot and mysterious guy also because I ain't that guy - I'm more of a fun and great vibes type of guy.
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:19 PM
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Yea, I do the "be the funny guy" but usually I have still seen that even if my friend is boring and cheesy as fck the girls still want him. I ain't that bad looking myself, I think around 7-8/10, 6 foor 2 inches but my friends are in the category of 9-10/10 so yeah :D
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:12 PM
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My experience is the opposite - my friends are all better looking than me and when we go out they gey all the attention when we open a set. I do better alone and with not so attractive male friends.
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:31 AM
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That's what I was saying
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:37 PM
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Lol, I ain't gonna send you pics of my sister :D
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:24 PM
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This should be sticky...
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:00 PM
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right now you better focus on the whales because the mermaids don’t want you Hahhaahahhaa :D
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:59 PM
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It's an EGO thing.. if he can't let go of his EGO then he will be fcked.. (but not the way he wants to be).
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:58 PM
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One of the best comments I have read here for months, u'r gettin my free award :D
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:55 PM
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130 lbs.. damn.. that's not much.. my sister is 178cm and weights that much and she looks like anorexic almost..
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:51 PM
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So what? A lot of guys get attached to hot girls but they don't fuck all those guys just because the guys got attached. Remind yourself that you don't owe anything to these girls you are talking to - you are just sharing your personality, if they like you.. cool.. if not.. also cool.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:48 PM
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THIS! You will probably suck a lot at first - what gave me the biggest "boost" in results was to learn how to vibe and have fun with people I met during the night. The more social interactions you go through the fastest you will see the learned dynamics at work. What I suggest against (what I did) is to go out with the mentality of only talking to girls and trying to get the desired result from approaching. Getting rid of needyness is one of the biggest sticking points (along with AA) for guys w…
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:44 PM
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This applies more to girls you already know but if you go out and then meet a girl who is in a group of guys and "smiley", "flirty", "friendly" with everybody then it's a different story to identify. OP - usually I would say getting physical with the girl will give you the answer.. holding your hand around her, going for the kiss etc.. A lot of times these kind of girls have boyfriends and LOVE the attention from guys but when you get physical they back off.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:41 PM
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Definitely go out alone - I do it all the time and TBF.. it's better to go out alone than with friends because with friends I usually end up talking and drinking with them the majority of the night and then don't approach that much vs if I go out alone I almost always end up having a more awesome night with talking to everybody.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:35 PM
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Lot's of good ideas though I would add that all of it is the base structure. To really make it work you have to add your sense of humor and stuff it with that + flirting or else it just seems like a job interview.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:07 AM
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Basically.. living in the "now" is when you don't have thoughts running through your head about past events that happened or future events that might happen. Your mind is quiet. You look at your surroundings kinda like a child sees everything for the first time - without having any positive/negative assumptions about them. At least that has been my experiences the few times I have been present to the moment. The Power of Now is a great book but imo Tolle jumps to way too many random BS conclusio…
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:27 PM
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I ain't saying to model yourself after a homeless guy, lol. Just that he doesn't have any of his shit together but is still capable of getting laid all the time - yeah.. the quality might not be there but then again.. he is a homeless guy :D
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:31 PM
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It's the vibe you put out - it could be low and anxious energy. I get hit on by gay guys a lot also but it's more because I am really expressive and emotional in how I talk but I always take it as a compliment (also 100% hetero). You can read a lot about how the person is feeling inside by looking at their faces. Also.. nobody never really starts talking to you or walking up to talk to you if you are a guy. Your friends get into random interactions because they are having fun, their eye contact …
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:49 PM
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In general when you are dating a girl older than 25+ yeah.. If you want ONS then it doesn't matter or if you have really strong frame than also.. you can be almost a bozo but still pull shit off. There was a documentary clip about a guy in NYC who was homeless and picked up women during the day to crash at their places etc.. earned $100/day on streets just holding a sign that he is homeless etc. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmav517MQJc
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:40 PM
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Amazing dude, now go to pubs/clubs/on streets tonight and build upon that buzz you have atm.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:36 PM
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Either he is autistic or he didn't really like the girl and then wanted to just have fun with his homies..
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:34 PM
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Yeah, I was about to reply in a rant about how there are 1000000 posts about if the girl doesn't run after you then screw her and just take the next one but your post is actually correct - don't expect her to chase you like you were million dollars but def.. if she is interested she will make it way easier for you to meet up, responds faster etc. Made the same mistake years ago when I started - trying to put forth my best game to get girls who were never that into me. What I CAN say is that you …
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:28 PM
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I mean.. don't start from the beginning with the darkest material. I also like dark and absurd humor so I totally get where you are coming from. I usually start with more neutral humor but what I still enjoy and then spit out my less darker humor and see how she reacts.. if it's positive then I ramp it up throughout the interaction. I don't start with my "darkest" material etc.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:22 PM
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Yeah, agreed. When I go out and don't get results during the night I still have shit tons of fun - I don't really count rejections or anything. Ofc I would like to get the girls but if I don't I still had a blast with interaction with girls and guys, self-amusing, having deep conversations that are authentic and personal with complete strangers (about myself and about them), then being totally silly, walking up to another girl and opening her (not using "openers" or 1-2-3 steps to go through som…
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:24 AM
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I think the coach meant as.. beginner - has no idea how to keep the interaction going, has shit eye contact, is too needy or pushy etc.. Intermediate - can hold convo but it might not lead to anything, has solid eye contact, good energy to him etc. Advanced - has really good flirting skills, is a smooth talker etc..
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:34 PM
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Lol.. why was this comment downvoted? Reddit..
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:31 PM
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There absolutely are fundamentals. Things like solid eye-contact, calibrating after getting a negative feedback, solid breaking rapport voice tonality, showing emotion and passion behind what you are talking, asking for logistics etc.. these are all fundamentals that no matter what girl you are dealing with you should always keep solid and trying to improve upon.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:30 PM
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Most important is to do it consistently.. to make it a habit. This will give you better abundance mentality + lowers your social anxiety + gets you faster in the flow state. From there on.. try to push your boundaries all the time. Try to focus more on the quality, not the quantity of approaches. Stay in the set longer, try to self amuse more, flirt in a more calibrated way, get logistics faster and smoother, go for instadates if possible - just asking and spamming for numbers gives you tons of …
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:27 PM
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Hmm.. interesting. Were the girls approaching you randoms from pubs/bars/clubs or were they from school/work etc places? I don't think a guy ages that bad in 2 years... there must be something else behind it.
/r/seduction29/04/22 04:25 PM
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Taking a look at his username.. there is no point in replying..
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:28 AM
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You could try talking to your doctor - SSRIs can help you together with exposure therapy + cognitive behavioral therapy.
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:44 PM
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Yeah, talking to dudes first is actually the way I warm up also. The first part of the night is all about warming up socially and getting into a great vibe, the second half is for actually spitting game.
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:08 PM
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Cool story bro, I'll add it to my favorite book of fairy tales ;)
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:35 PM
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It's more about having an abundance mentality.. mentality being the key word here - doesn't mean you actually have multiple girls but if you look on interactions with the mentality that if you keep improving your game/looks etc you will eventually win then you will give off a way better vibe then when you are trying to get that one girl who would "complete you" aka neediness.
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:40 PM
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At first focus on your actions - don't focus on results because there will not be many (as you have experienced). Focus on what you want to improve about your interactions when out - are you getting stuck in your head, is your vibe good, do you share good emotions, are you sucking validation, are you approaching frequently enough etc stuff. Get good at holding a conversation for 1 minute, then get good at adding humor, then flirting etc. If you want to go out and chase validation then you will a…
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:21 PM
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A grandpa would not say to her “damn girl you so fine, you making me feel so hot right now” Hmm.. I see you aren't from Texas.. :P
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:13 PM
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I think covid made a big difference in that also - a lot more guys joined up, Tinder got more use behavior data and are now milking their user base more "efficently".
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:08 PM
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Yeah, it's even worse in Estonia - all I get is people from Finland, Latvia, Russia or bots. The last is like 75% of "people".
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:59 PM
2

I think there are good coaches and bad ones. Saying that they are all very fucked up isn't fair imo.
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:38 PM
1

Yeah, I'm not from USA but live in Eastern Europe so here it is like really rare
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:52 PM
2

it is an excuse but u are top guy for realizing that.. only way is up now
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:32 AM
2

I find it really hard to believe but if you are scared of being MeToo-d and are willing to give up your dating life happiness for it then it's your choice.
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:40 PM
1

I usually just send them some random funny memes during the week and talk a bit here and there.. I also skip some days.. don't text at all. Basically.. putting in minimum effort to keep the interaction going but always trying to be fun and uplifting when texting something.
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:40 PM
2

It's difficult to say what the problem might be.. it could be just really bad luck that you stumbled upon some girls that didn't click with you but if it happens every time then there is something iffy about your vibe probably. What helped me the most was trying to just casually talk with everybody at the beginning of the night, guys and girls.. not trying to get approval but to self amuse myself and get into better mood. Then.. after 2 hours or so.. when my mood is better then my game is also a…
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:37 PM
1

I have Ten Game - Ten Laws in Action infield video clips with Juliens commentary but I'm not sure if I am allowed to post that here.
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:34 PM
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Then you should go out with a friend who is socially more savvy and then he can give you feedback on your approaches.. tell you stuff like "you were too tense/needy/quiet etc" or you can save some money and get a dating instructor who goes out with you and gives feedback. There is always a way.
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:20 PM
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Seriously.. who the fck is gonna MeToo a random nobody? Unless you are a celebrity nobody gives a fck. Girls get hit on by guys all the time but mostly when dudes are drunk in clubs or bars. This MeToo thing is absolutely ridiculous fear for a common Joe.
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:16 PM
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The content of your words doesn't matter but HOW you say it does - you can talk about a totally random topic but be sexual while doing it - the devil is hidden in the sub communications (voice tonality, eye contact etc)
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:58 PM
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The point being - everybody has some thing to point at and say I'm not where I want in life because of this or that. Even fcking tall guys can point at Brad Pitt and say.. yeah.. I will never have as many girls as he has had because I ain't a rich and famous movie star.. and then the argument would be that you can become rich and famous? How many realistically will? The goal is to not be a victim and blame your height as some sort of disability for why you don't get women - I have had social anx…
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:51 AM
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Two things to think about - if you can spam approach 7 sets/hour then it means your sets are short and you need to focus on staying in the set longer, pumping up attraction more, closing (going for an instadate or asking contact). Second - for spam approaching and getting a feel for social vibe etc I would chose clubs/busy bars - more anonymity, you can build up your vibe faster and then feel how it's like to "be in the zone" more so that when you approach during the day time you can notice fast…
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:31 AM
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Yes.. dating as a short guy is hard.. you know what else is hard? Dating as a tall guy but having low self-esteem.. do you know what else is hard? Dating as a guy with fcked up understandings about love.. I can go on endlessly. EVERYBODY has some shit that makes it hard for them.. if there wasn't this sub wound't exist. It's not about if it's hard or harder.. it's about what YOU can do ABOUT it - comparison is the thief of joy!
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:24 AM
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It depends where you live and your age/income level. $50 for a book for an average 30 yo american is basically nothing but for 18yo Eastern European it's a lot.
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:30 PM
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Give up on him. He clearly doesn't want to improve and just wants to blame the world for his own incompetence. Some people are beyond saving.
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:06 PM
1

You would benefit by using the services of a dating coach. IRL is better but you could start from youtube as well. Who I know are legit are Todd Valentine, Karisma King. If you can search torrents or something like that then RSD had a lot of great videos and infield videos as well.
/r/seduction04/03/22 01:59 PM
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no that's NOT 'basically whay he is saying'. Learn to read information taking into context that it was written in and not pushing everything through your own agenda/view of world. That is ALSO a social skill.
/r/seduction04/03/22 01:48 PM
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push pull is way more benefitial to bring out as a tecnique than just saying 'flirting' which in of itself consists of fck tons of things and in general is vague.
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:30 PM
1

dude.. no offence but that's why u are probably shkt with girls online. There is just toooooo mucj competition, you normal greeting won't give u even a chance..
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:58 AM
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It's free bro
/r/seduction22/12/21 03:21 AM
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I was thinking why the hell has nobody mentioned Californication. I would say it's a must watch for all guys trying to up their humor and vibe with girls.
/r/seduction17/12/21 01:54 PM
1

It's a good book, give it a read 🙂
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:20 PM
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Believe me.. guys make FCK tons of mistakes that you would assume they don't. Also, it doesn't take care of itself.. if it did there wouldn't be a need for this sub... For some it comes naturally to be sociable and flirty.. so it comes 'natural' for them, for others it's like fcking nuclear science. I agree that it's important to get as many approaches under your belt as possible to get experience but if someone does 1k approaches and never learns from his mistakes it's just self torture. I woul…
/r/seduction10/11/21 11:47 AM
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Thank you for virtue signalling - we shall all behave and DO BETTER from now on. You might have saved us all, blesses!
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:59 AM
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Lol.. yeah, these are exactly the people you are talking about. For them PUA is a scam because they have never tried it or just plain suck and are unwilling to improve and then rather just believe the fcking fairytale that some day u will meet you "soul mate".
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:41 PM
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The problem imo is that a lot of people on reddit in general want to play the high morales card that goes together with the social understanding that seduction bad.. just say how you feel good which obviously is total bullshit advice. It's mostly people not coming from the seduction community but people who come from other bigger subs here like dating or dating_advice.
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:37 PM
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It might be hard but.. but I might help you suck those innuendos out of you... Lol, anyways.. for the OP.. I found that Lust Inception by Alister is really good for making texting into.. sexting. Anyways, he has tons of examples etc that have helped my game in that regard ;)
/r/seduction22/09/21 11:15 PM
3

Skyrim it is ;)
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:49 PM
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Love this way of thinking, liberating.. btw.. I used to be a traveller like u but then I took an arrow to the knee..
/r/seduction21/09/21 08:30 AM
1

They always are, lol :D
/r/seduction08/09/21 11:35 AM
1

You are getting me mixed up with someone else. I am nit the op who approached or whomever you are thinking of. Secondly, respect my opinions and don't force yours upon me. I will no respond from now on as I find this topic to have ran its course.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:31 PM
1

These are your values - not mine. I have approached and talked to probably thousands of girls from different ages. Yeah.. I have not approached many women who are above 30 so this is to be considered. I won't ask the age of the women who look like they are above 35 unless I have a solid chemistry with them. However - "women don't owe me anything"?? Of course they don't owe me anything however if they make a huge deal about their age then this is just one of my core values that I don't like women…
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:38 PM
1

Yeah, I wasn't aiming the reply towards you but rather to Woujo :)
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:27 PM
1

Because.. I want to know? If a girl gets offended simply by me asking her name then she is not the kind of person I am interested in anyways. Imo it's retarded to get offended by such a bullshit reason - if she can't deal with her own insecurities then god knows what other age related bullshit fears and expectations she has.
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:26 PM
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Pretty harsh numbers out there but if you started out from a bad place it does take time. Kudos for putting in the energy!
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:11 AM
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I have almost never had any bad reactions asking the girls age and I basically always ask it.
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:56 AM
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