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| 3 | CowardsThe only reason for cheating is the twisted morality of cheaters, their stable character traits formed in childhood and adolescence under the influence of family, school, friends, social environment, literature, cinema and mass media. Therefore, such a "spoiled" morality cannot be corrected by popular methods widely used in "reconciliation": IC, MC, books, frank conversations, movies, algorithms of romantic behavior (dates, walks, trips to resorts, gifts, flowers, love bombing, etc.). | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Cheating playbookMan, I sympathize with you, but I want to warn you not to succumb to provocation and lies that are covered with the magic word "rape". It's amazing how should someone just say "I was raped" without any evidence and then logic and reason are completely discarded by everyone. Your wife is not a teenager or a child. Entering into a certain relationship with this couple, she knew what she was doing and what it threatened. She deliberately put herself in a position that could only end in one thing - … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/24 04:13 PM |
| 3 | HateYes, you are going through the usual BP's healing path after an affair. Everyone, of course, has nuances, but there are many common features and trends in our situation. Rage can't last forever, and you're right that rage should be constructive, not destructive. Anger and hatred by themselves cannot create anything, but they should serve as a stepping stone to each of us becoming the best version of ourselves. Time, time... The main thing is not to rush, to allow the body to heal itself. Externa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | HateI sympathize with you from the bottom of my heart. I must say that the phase of rage and acute hatred is a necessary step towards genuine healing, moreover, without hatred for the cheater and for what they have done, healing is impossible. We cannot learn to love again, if we do not learn or we will not be able to hate. This is the law. Now about forgiveness. To forgive is to stop punishing a person directly or indirectly (in our thoughts and feelings). You can forgive a cheater only in the evan… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/24 09:08 AM |
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