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People list the problems, but they don't acknowledge that those problems carry very different weights. I.e. saying men face these unique 4 issues, and women these unique 4 issues means we both have similar difficulty in dating is absurd For men, their problems undoubtedly impose a much heavier life burden causing borderline depression for many; for many women, their issues are mostly annoyances. For example: one woman might say “there’s too much to choose from; I need to read profiles and chat”,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:08 AM
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You're right. Suggesting various “try this” fixes misses the bigger point: in today’s global dating marketplace women generally have many more options, and a minority of men capture a disproportionate share of attention. For average or slightly-above-average men, competition is heavy, so dating apps are often the more efficient strategy for practical reasons: Save time: spend less time chasing matches in person and more time improving your life. Save money: reduce costly outings and redirect fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:57 AM
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You are completely correct. Anyone who goes out regularly knows many women go to bars mainly to have fun with friends. If they notice someone they find very attractive like 8-9/10, they might be open to meeting them, but most women already receive enough dating options from Instagram, coworkers, classmates, and dating apps - so going out isn't primarily about meeting men at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:49 AM
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The simple truth: women are lying. I'm a statistician, and most of the studies on this are bullocks. However, being keenly aware of my own bias, but also at the world around, the reality is this: Women have a way, way more sex than men. Let's for argument sake say the average women has a third of the sex lust than a man; the average man may get lucky every once in a while, and acting each time on his sex lust. The woman may not act each time on her lust, and might not have the same lust in gener…
/r/MensRights15/04/24 10:32 PM
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By taking responsibility for dating quality men and not sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:17 PM

On point, good comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:07 PM
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Many already have a new partner lined up, cheating with them and mentally exiting the relationship well before it officially ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:01 PM
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Thank you, this is good advice!
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 11:25 AM
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Anyone have advice for wearing earplugs; I tried for some time, but then I need to see a doctor every month or so as my ear fills up with wax making me loose my hearing? Moreover, I could never find a good sleeping mask because I end getting acne where the sleeping mask sit tightly to my face. Anyone found a solution for this?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 09:36 AM
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You clearly don't understand what I am saying, because you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:37 PM
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I'm not saying that an average guy is good enough, because that's certainly not the case statistically. To even be considered good enough you have to be above average. There are many above-average guys being in pseudo relationships with women that they have been dating for months, if not even more than a year, where they have never established an actual relationship, because the woman is longing for that even high status guy that dated / enjoyed her for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:01 PM
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You forget that women is competing for multiple guys at the same time. And at the same time might keep a good enough guy around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:58 PM
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That's a good point. When this forum is taken down eventually, where do you think red pill people will go?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 04:56 PM
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I don't know if this is me moving to the acceptance phase, however, it doesn't hurt so more reading this. And thank you for a good post btw! It stings a bit, and then I am like whatever that's how women are. Do other people have the same response?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 04:21 PM
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This is the right approach!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:58 PM
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I am an average looking male, and I would argue it's worse - I don't have any statistics though. However, the people I know that divorced in their 40s, if their woman looked okay she had no problem finding another guy. It's depressing to swallow that reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:46 PM
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Of course it is jealousy and hate. They reflect themselves onto these younger women and see that they can never compete on that level again. Most successful men in their 30s don't want a career woman; they want a 20-25 year old woman ready to start a family without too much baggage. The woman that are in their 30s then shame the men and try to scare the younger women away because they hope that it will make the successful men in their 30s to date them. A successful man in his 30s knows that havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:20 AM
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To be honest most things in life is just cope. One way men used to cope with life in general was to support a family. What did that include? It meant working longer hours than his single peers, it meant helping to take care of the kids, it meant taking of a house (compared to single peers living in apartments) etc. Said differently, having the trade in older days where a woman would give her youth and a man all his productive years was meaningful. The man, besides his youthful wife, got meaning …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:56 AM
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A good point, however, I don't think this a man, but rather a series of short relationships where she eventually gets tired of each man due to her having alpha widow syndrome (given she have average to above average smv). What do you think?
/r/MGTOW222/06/21 04:06 AM
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I get your point, but she doesn't need you specifically, she needs some blue pill man as orbiter, whom changes with different frequency in different phases of her life.
/r/MGTOW222/06/21 04:02 AM
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Women are not capable of taking responsibility. They will, always, rationalize situations backwards, if it benefits them.
/r/MGTOW12/06/21 06:06 AM
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Good points! Behind every successful man there are a woman because women are not with men that are loosing in life.
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 04:06 AM
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This is a paradox of dimensions as older friends, relatives etc. tells me that it's the most fullfilling thing in your life; your options are: you can date a western women, live with her and without marrying still legally be seen as a married couple. Bad idea. you can date a woman and always live separately all of your life. One can't find a woman that will do this and not extract child support. go abroad and use a surrogate mother. Problem is that the child will probably never know the mother, …
/r/MGTOW205/09/20 09:02 AM
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All men are beta in some situations and alpha in other situations, we are not single dimensional. Eg. as a mathematician and a athlete, then when talking to older mathematicians with more experience I'm beta because they know better, but when talking to peers about training etc. I'm Alpha as I know more than they do for sure. That's the situational definition of Alpha / Beta, but I think about more as a lifestyle where one is not affected by people's opinions, don't just do things because other …
/r/MGTOW228/08/20 04:01 PM
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If fat chicks rejects you have to look inwards. You are probably too insecure
/r/MGTOW15/08/20 09:28 PM
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This could be dangerous for your psyche in the long run as humans are social animals
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 06:50 PM
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When girls means nobody, they mean high status alpha men
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 04:20 AM
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I'm curious, do we have any statistics supporting Muslim marriages being more successful? I'm just curious and wants to understand.
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 07:16 AM
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Simp tax - you said it well
/r/MGTOW18/06/20 10:32 AM
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The other reply’s are great, however, with that degree of chaos you experience you’ll benefit from talking with a psychotherapist that can help you get control of your life
/r/MGTOW216/06/20 07:11 AM
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You don’t randomly say “let’s grab a drink Wednesday evening”, as that would affect your career, diet and fitness negatively; when girls says you are boring, what they mean is that you are predictable
/r/MGTOW13/06/20 01:50 PM
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Can you explain why you say this?
/r/MGTOW12/06/20 05:15 AM
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I have been thinking about making a really good one that is easily printable in LaTeX - this will take some time, and I just need to finish my bachelor in 2 weeks before doing it
/r/MGTOW28/05/20 05:07 AM
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Yes, I also uploaded it here on the sub
/r/MGTOW21/05/20 03:34 PM
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This is crazy...
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 12:04 PM
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What is the rules in France?
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 11:35 AM
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One thing you always can trust in a woman, is that she will act in her own best interest. The problem is that what she thinks is the best for her, as you point out, is based upon emotions, so they just dump guys easily, if their SMV allow.
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 06:17 AM
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Where are you from? It sounds incredibly cheap; where I’m from, where it’s legal, the cheapest is 130-150 and premium is 400-800
/r/MGTOW16/05/20 07:28 AM
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I don’t think OP is jealous - you don’t get the intention
/r/MGTOW13/05/20 10:16 AM
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Stay busy and get laid; the easiest thing to get over someone for me, is to get laid with a woman with higher SMV. When you think about the heart ache in a year or two, if you continue to follow MGTOW, you will realise that woman simply not are important enough to get a heart ache over.
/r/MGTOW212/05/20 03:06 PM
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I’ll create a pdf of the sidebar later today when I’m free
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 07:23 AM
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Can you give some names of the songs / albums?
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 05:40 PM
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The problem for me is that most music is about love. Given that you like listening to music, what is some good albums / songs / bands?
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 05:21 PM
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I’m quite young and had never used such a site, however, I realised after having the job, that one is not able to trust anyone online.
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 05:06 PM
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No, the pictures are gathered by paying girls from 3rd world countries and Eastern Europe It’s very organised, and even though the dating-websites corroborating try to be secret, I have gotten to found out that it is the big dating websites that use the company
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 04:54 PM
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This explains why women in general today get a baby in the party years with the bad boy, and get the beta man to provide
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 04:52 PM
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Many of my friends at uni have this job besides their normal student job, they work at it in the weekends and when sitting in the train to not waste time. They even have a catalogue of nearly naked pictures of the women they pretend to be (the pictures are given to them by the company), so they can reward the men when they receive money gifts. I had this job for some time, however, I earn better by having my own company. Nevertheless, it astonished me how many men are totally naive.
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 04:30 PM
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This is actually scaring
/r/MGTOW21/04/20 02:30 PM
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I’m curios, can you come with an example?
/r/MGTOW216/04/20 05:19 AM
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I like your 3 min rule, that sounds as a great habit My training routine is that I do: Lateral Raise Neck Abs Back Wrist And the next day: Barbell Chest Press Barbell Back Fly Triceps Curls Biceps Curls I do 3 sets of each with 8-10 reps, however, I never stop a set before I’m not able to lift the weight anymore. Besides this, I will independent of the above be running every 3rd day for 30 min with 6 HIIT-intervals, and when not in intervals, I run in my fat-burning heart rate zone. Besides this…
/r/MGTOW216/04/20 05:17 AM
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Everything is relative ;)
/r/MGTOW215/04/20 03:06 PM
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You have a good point
/r/MGTOW215/04/20 02:31 PM
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You are right about going to the supervisor, however, I will only go to the supervisor if it would have happened several times I just wondered about how the article says that when one looks at the general woman, that the bad behaviour is learned culturally
/r/MGTOW215/04/20 01:55 PM
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I’m still around women on my job etc. that uses this excuse
/r/MGTOW215/04/20 01:47 PM
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I understand that Jordan Peterson may not be the most popular person in MGTOW, however, one thing this man hits spot on is his speeches about meaning of life. Besides this, I can make three observations: Life has no meaning. This could be one way of looking at life. Everything I do has meaning. This could be another way. The longest study ever done looked at longevity of people and their life-satisfaction. They found for men that meaningful relationships (deep relationships) and career achieveme…
/r/MGTOW213/04/20 05:35 PM
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Yes, I have read. The problem is, she lives on the other side of the earth, so that’s why I cannot date her like a normal plate.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:52 AM
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Please elaborate; how can I know beforehand that she will be nurturing, good to me etc.?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:45 AM
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Thank you for your reply. Can you post to anyone having being manipulated by Thai woman? I’m frightened to hear “[...] entire sections of Thai population dedicated to hooking [...]”, is that really true?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:42 AM
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I don’t want to spin plates right now in my life, so I want something more stable. Because of that, I need to see how she is to argue, how nurturing etc. - for that, I need to live with her.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 02:08 AM
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Thank you for the recommendation!
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 06:27 PM
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I’m quite on point with my diet, however, I also weight train to take on muscle.
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 09:36 PM
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I know, but it’s cheap
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 09:16 PM
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No, I ate oats, eggs, oliven oil etc.
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 09:06 PM
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I have tried OMAD, but cannot eat the 3600 kcal I need per day in one serving.
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 08:54 PM
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This is interesting. I’m concerned about weight training and gains - do you weight train?
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 08:39 PM
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Thank you for the good answer! When I see some girls, I want to be with them sexually, I don’t have this feeling for her - I’m not curious in the same way, as with other girls
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:19 PM
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You think she treats me so nice, because I don’t care?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:10 PM
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Please elaborate
/r/askTRP21/12/19 11:26 AM
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It took me a bit of time to move on from my first serious relationship ever; what I learned was: Block her everywhere I didn’t have options, which made me desperate I thought the way she did sex was unique, it’s not; and probably a lot out there are better Get at least five hookups from different girls, and you will realise that she highly probably was not special If you cannot get a hookup in the next couple of days, then an investment in an escort could be wise
/r/askTRP08/12/19 09:03 PM
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The problem is no one is perfect - you don’t like the hollistic approach?
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:36 PM
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This is so correct! It happens all the time; I grew up in a ghetto (in my country, this compares to lower middle class in the US), and is know in top 10% in terms of income. People treat me very differently, especially women - so if you have status due to confidence, resources or alike, hypergamy will go into overgear.
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 04:43 PM
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I think you in general are right, however, a girl can have a male friend, as I have one woman, very close to me, as a friend. She made me understand female nature when she talks about her friends (women) - so even though I must admit that I find her attractive, I have no intent to date her, as she is more valuable to me as a friend
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 12:05 PM
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Thank you for your reply. Yes, she would, but I’m still in doubt whether it’s a good idea, However, thank you for the perspective.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 11:57 PM
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I disagree, I would have done the same for a boy
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 09:13 AM
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I have already started learning her about the dangers, because it is so important, especially for her happiness in the long run.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 06:43 AM
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You have a really good point: most people are quite shallow, and will like you for what you have to offer. I think they would be more controlling and more judgemental, however, I will never know.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 06:32 AM
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This is a great question, but a good answer is difficult; here is my take on it: Many Danish men are extremely Blue-Pill, which combined with the Danish “jantelov” makes things worse. One knows that men are judged by woman on accomplishments, and the danish “jantelov” was a law back in the days, which still is a mindset for many; it states that you never say you are better than anyone else, and that your success is not because of you, but society, so don’t take ownership. In other words, a femin…
/r/MGTOW08/11/19 05:46 PM
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You are right, however, I see the aspect with waiting differently; I’m 21, but have gotten told that having children is amazing. So for the sake of the child, if one wants to have that amazing experience, one has to bet on the fact that one has enough resources, social status and personality, so she will not act on her hypergamous nature.
/r/MGTOW08/11/19 02:35 PM
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I’m a Dane, and I think that we are focussing on a wrong facet of this; I don’t think either a man or a woman should be able to get a child without a partner - the science is clear on this topic, a child from a household with both a man and a woman will become better functioning. In the same way, it forces women to put more thought into their behaviour, as “there is no good men left” to “how can it be that I don’t find any man, at my status good enough; maybe I need to understand that as men mak…
/r/MGTOW08/11/19 01:47 PM
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Thank you, yes we have great security in all aspects, however, are you are top-earner then other countries, eg. Switzerland, will provide far greater security for far less money. However, if one has a middle income, then Denmark is great. Would you take a pay cut, if you could work in the company that would align with your career, if you were in university?
/r/MGTOW08/11/19 10:53 AM
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You will become a little bitter, but girls “dont love you”, in the way you love them. See them as a compliment, and focus on yourself and becoming better - then they’ll come to you. They love what you can provide for them, and the SMV they see you have when walking with you in public I know it’s hard to believe right now, but there a lot better than her, there always are
/r/askTRP01/11/19 12:33 PM
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First, I will not date a girl that has just gotten out of a relationsship; is she ready? If she left her former relationsship, maybe she is ready, however, listen carefully when she talks about why she left; if she was dumped, she will still have feelings for her former boyfriend - it will take far longer than two months, approximately 4-6 months in my experience before she has gotten over him, and taken info consideration that it’s her first relationsship, this magnifies the time Remember AWALT…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 12:15 PM
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You are right, the stats in Denmark are quite high. We do have alimony and child-support, where alimony normally will be 20% of your income for 5/10/15 years, however, as you point out, the custody is more fair.
/r/MGTOW30/10/19 03:56 AM
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I have been thinking about your comment quite a lot, and their is one aspect that I will like your opinion on. I live in Denmark, one of the countries in the world with the highest divorce rates; even though approximately 50% of all relationships end every year, it does not mean that there is a divorce-probability of 50% every year. I might suspect there is a large subgroup of the population that get’s divorced at far higher rates than other groups, and therefore makes the statistic look worse -…
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 06:08 PM
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I will learn more redpill, as the saying goes “[...] a wise man learns from the mistakes of others”. Thank you for your perspectives!
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 05:19 PM
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I earn quite a good amount of money, so I will have the ressources to try again and again, however, I would rather invest those money and become financial independent. You are right! I have come to the belief (I am unsure where I heard the metaphor): Imagine being in an ice cream shop, and you can choose different types, however, the cup for the ice cream has a size-limit. So I can choose different types of ice cream, which is different aspects of my life that I focus on, to fill my cup, where t…
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 02:14 PM
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Thank you; this idea of tolerance to the ressources provided, which make her seek more resources to get the rush makes really good sense!
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 07:49 AM
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Thank you; very valuable points you make!
/r/MGTOW28/10/19 06:29 PM
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Thank you; I appreciate your perspective!
/r/MGTOW28/10/19 05:01 PM
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Do I understand you correctly, if as a function of time, the further away they are away from their peak SMV around 22-26 they look for safety in terms of finding a better provider
/r/MGTOW28/10/19 04:14 PM
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We have nearly the same stats, and I will say go for it! Why? Because you’ll get experience with your first cycle, with a fine low dose. How it affects you, can I not say, it depends on way too many variables. I have done one cycle, and is doing a SARM before my second cycle, to increase my ability to undertake another cycle. My cycle was very low-dose; one thing that happened with me was that I took far more risks, which isn’t good, as I’m already a person that puts a lot pressure on myself! I …
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:41 PM
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If we have a scenario where you continue to be confident and indifferent, then not. However, if you act in a way that shows too much appreciation, eg. getting touchy or longer eye contact than normal, then yes. However, being aware of the attention, you will show the more attractive women that you have standards and will uphold them, which will ensure that your SMV don’t get lower. It has the same function as a shit test, “will this man act indifferent in front of this lower value woman?”
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:24 AM
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