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You take them on a journey/adventure. They feel comfortable and build memories of you in different environments. They get used to being brought places, culminating in your room. Best to not worry, as it can seem forced if it's a priority.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:00 PM
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Yeah, a little leg intertwined action and then something as simple as touching her kneecap and slowly moving up toward an erogenous zone, and then right before you get there, you pull away. Boob grab is easier if you're nervous, sure, but you might as well punch her in the vag while you're at it. Same amount of sexual tension built up there.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 01:48 AM
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You don't take control over a swerving car by driving it into a ditch, you fight to steer it steady. The uncontrolled car was going to crash. Making it crash isn't control.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 01:20 AM
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It's quite short as well, so there should be no excuses for not reading it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:15 AM
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Have you read 48 Laws of Power...
/r/becomeaman11/11/13 03:12 PM
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I haven't seen it in ages, but that certainly wasn't my takeaway. I realize that we shame self-censoring, but, seriously, for a group of guys that are wrongly labeled pro-rape, touting Irreversible is hardly the best example. (Legit, I thought this was trolling.) Let's say (500) Days of Summer brings some RP reality to the screen.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 09:51 AM
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you should edit the op because this is clearer and makes more sense
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 08:21 AM
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I find it useful to say very little or nothing at all while practicing dancefloor game. You get to see in action how body language is more important. I've found there's either the sexy-confident or fun-confident approach. sexy-confident example: eye contact, smirk, walk up and/or motion her to come to you, grab her hand and pull into you (resting your hand on her hip) or move her so her back is against your front (aka, her ass is on your crotch) (then place hand on her hip and/or shoulder/collar…
/r/askTRP29/08/13 08:34 PM
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I'm going to steal a quote on setting boundaries regarding a woman meeting another guy 1 on 1: Here, the man may try to set a hard boundary: No meeting guys 1:1 going to Miami without him. ...she will push against it hard and feel that she is being pressured/possessed/restricted for no reason other than her bf didn't want her to do it. So, I found that setting implied boundaries works well. You don't explicitly forbid her from meeting guys 1:1 going to Miami. Rather, you clearly and unequivocall…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 03:10 AM
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I am the one who knocks.
/r/askTRP13/08/13 09:43 PM
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Stop asking questions that are answered very consistently in the sidebar material. You answered that pretty succinctly, and the question was answered. No harm done. The sub has been around for 11days, it's good to have growing activity. In this case, typically you don't really internalize a body of text (sidebar material) until you're able to relate it to your own experiences.
/r/askTRP13/08/13 07:55 PM
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like when one girl spent an entire night on naked top of me gently tracing her fingers over my body. It's pretty much the symbol of male power / her feeling secure. I had a girl the other night inside my arm, gently caressing my chest-hair, lying with her head on my chest. This was post-sex, and some sleeping was in order. But, every time I would breath in deeply and my chest would grow, I could feel her get antsy/quiver (so that escalated). She loved the feeling of being taken care of and prote…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 10:19 PM
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That was a very good speech, bookmarked, but I wouldn't say it regards being a 'loner'. It's about taking the time to think for yourself (including introspection) and tackle problems/make decisions yourself. Combine these traits with being able to work well socially, and you have a leader. He even specifically says that to be a leader, it's a requirement to have people to lead. Being a loaner excludes you from that.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 06:58 AM
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I plan to be very nomadic like your parents, and it can go two ways for a kid: they become aloof or they become social magnets. It presents the opportunity for meeting many people/other kids and allows them to fuck up along the way without significant lasting consequence. Shitty nicknames or embarrassing events don't propagate grade after grade in school. I feel like if I can instill in my child that social drive (and TRP principals) while moving, they'll have few problems in life.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 05:36 AM
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The true red piller love women but don't respect them The term 'amused mastery' perhaps explains this better without so much attached negativity. I'm even happy to see when a one night stand found a serious boyfriend, because I know my role in life: Fuck girls and give them something to fantasize about later, I am a narcissist after all. I mean, yeah, this is narcissism. The feeling happy, at least for me, is really the feeling of 'I was there first / I did it better'. Ex: The first girl I had g…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 04:06 AM
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The word 'identity' is better than 'state' as you used it. The term 'state' has been used in a short term context in the PUA community regarding your mental state--aka being 'in the zone' or not. So instead, you're talking about going from actively thinking about/implementing game to internalizing it and making it your identity.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 03:48 AM
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So what I meant by "she really means" is "she really wants you to" so she can enjoy herself. So yes, you're right, but I'm also right, because we're talking about two different things. Someone said it simply: Women are your cheerleaders. They want you to succeed. They want you to be a man they like. Also, I've heard 'be yourself' come most often from other women giving advice/motivation, not really the women you're interested in. Replacing it with 'believe in yourself' is still valid in this con…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 03:42 AM
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Or maybe I've misinterpreted what red pill really is? You're rationalizing every TRP thing you read to justify your little obsession with this one girl. That is your real motivation. You're reading everything through that frame of mind. Only once you've moved on and reduced the bias will you look back on this and think...shit, yeah, I was needy and really wanted her back. You've already walked down the let's just be friends route, you're not going to salvage this at the moment--if at all. She'll…
/r/askTRP11/08/13 03:09 AM
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I think this is a great example. Most men realize something is off about their girl meeting with another guy 1:1, and they want to set that boundary, but it's very easy to fall into the trap of being seen as 'too controlling'. Perhaps it's best said that a guy being 'too controlling' is actually 'an attempt at being controlling without backing it up'--it's needy whinging without consequence. The guy that can actually have some control is the guy that controls his own actions.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 01:22 AM
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"What a fuss people make about fidelity! Why, even in love it is purely a question for physiology. It has nothing to do with our will. Young men want to be faithful and are not; old men want to be faithless and cannot." Touching on the emotional and irrational nature of love. The subconscious is in control. Young men are naive, suffer from one-itis. Whereas the older men who have uncovered the truth, realize it too late for it to be of any use. I'm pretty sure you misinterpreted this. He says 'p…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 04:29 AM
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As I recall, some old PUA shit emphasized using 'we' to increase a level of familiarity. Are you advocating against that? ex: "We should go tomorrow night." (vs I want to go tomorrow night?) Also, similarly, "Let's". "Let's hang out tonight."
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 02:23 AM
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I agree with 'guess' as well, but imho the examples aren't great. ex when asked a question: "I guess so" vs "Yes." also, ex: "I guess/think we should go" vs "We should go." But yeah, scraping those words helps to keep things in a decisive frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 02:18 AM
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It seems someone didn't have a very good childhood...
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 09:23 PM
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If you get to the gym and the squat rack is occupied, what do you do? It should be your first lift, so you wait. Worst comes to worst you ask to work in. As long as you're staying warm, heart rate still up a bit, starting strength doesn't care much if you wait a fair bit. The goal is to finish your reps, not fail because of lack of rest. Also, box jumps are not part of Starting Strength. ಠ_ಠ
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 07:03 AM
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The problem is that "patriarchy" as a concept is pre-scientific and so obviously false You are aware that women were not allowed to vote not too long ago, correct? That said, the concept of a patriarchy being some grand scheme is laughable...it simply developed out of the natural order of things. Overall, men were born more powerful (physically) and generally relied upon for leadership. This carried over. There was a patriarchy. It still exists in some degree (the problem is, the parts that have…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 03:53 PM
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Stuck in that culture, where everything you're taught ends up making you less likely to have sex leads to disgruntled, angry, bitter, sex-starved men, perfectly willing to rationalize their behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 01:18 AM
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It's just a sentence and not really substantiated. I expected more.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 01:13 AM
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Every lesbian college party experience would be considered rape if it was a man. Alcohol + manipulation + making the girl uncomfortable + continually pushing.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 06:08 AM
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10 Yeses followed by two No's is a No Because you have to double check.
/r/becomeaman26/07/13 04:16 AM
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I used to do this in Australia as a young 19yr old, out at bars/clubs for the first time. The first week I was there, I told this giant aus bloke/bf of one of the girls we were with (dude was a swimmer, could have modeled) that I'd get girls to buy me drinks, and he told me it was impossible. (As a rule here, you don't accept a drink unless you're going to buy one back--even for girls). I didn't even realize what great motivation that was to get out there. Then I stopped because I felt like a di…
/r/becomeaman26/07/13 04:11 AM
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If I'm typing it in my phone: "How do you spell your name?" It doesn't even matter if it's a common name. In that case I'll say, "I've got a friend that spells it weird". Never failed. Re: Last name, I'll ask if they don't offer and I'll tell her I need to keep my names sorted--which, I do.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 11:24 PM
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I think you missed the part where I said I lived with them. We were all aware of who was hooking up and who wasn't in the household, and had enough girls in the house to overhear, and hell, get involved in, proper girl-talk.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 08:06 AM
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Spark = sexually attractive
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 10:58 PM
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That is fucked up, but it just goes to show that some will give that 'free pass' so that you can fill that dominant role. They get to pretend that you are top dog and would have fucked two women in response regardless. Women are cheerleaders, they want you to be a leading man.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 10:56 PM
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TRP isn't about name calling women...it's about accepting reality. Her bf is in a beta role, and everything we talk about--how women seek comfort & cuddles from them, how they're so nice and...loyal--yet we see they prefer an assertive man that would have left on the first sniff of her cheating (which she probably wouldn't have done anyway if he was filling her sexual desire).
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 10:53 PM
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No doubt. I've never met the kid, but he's got to be so damn deluded. It's not just her, he doesn't have respect for himself as a man. As you say, they fight tooth and nail for their delusions because the reality fucking stings.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 09:38 PM
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When the guy considers Boise a step up opportunity wise, you get the feeling they're living in Bumfuck, Nowhere...not to mention things weren't going well financially where they were. Moving is great. I lack respect for people that stay put. The world is far too vast to confine yourself to a bubble. Vacationing/holidaying doesn't cut it. You need to live and establish yourself in new areas. Also, this was an Engineering job, making use of his degree. This is something worth moving over. He could…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:52 PM
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The woman made a huge sacrifice to be with the guy. What? She voiced her hesitation. Yes, she was not looking at the long term. New job = more money to support the family / daycare. The smart thing to do would have been to stay put. ...and remain in poverty Not only that she helped him finish school. He was closer to finishing his degree, and closer to being able to well support his children. If she didn't support him, she would have been a terrible / stupid person. Women need networks. Guys don…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 04:21 AM
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also: During the course of the conversation she kept trying to shift all the decision making onto me, as well as all the responsibility for our issues. It sounds like she wants him to be in that more distant, dominant role (usually they secretly/subconsciously cheer for it, but she's more or less vocalizing it). She wants to be afraid that OP will leave her. She wants OP to make decisions. By OP rejecting that, he just took a larger dose of the blue pill. and, as others have said, because of the…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 07:25 PM
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I'll have to disagree with the rest of these lot. Seriously, if someone is legitimately struggling and asks you for help, and you have the ability...they're not trying to fuck with you and test you, they want your help, because you're a more capable person. I wouldn't bend to the will of the two other women, as said, but if the carrier did ask, I would. There's a difference between being alpha and being a dick (fake alpha). And, y'all need to stop giving a shit. If you're that affected by a woma…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 04:35 PM
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I lived with two very attractive girls. They never slept around on a night out. They always put in the time to look good, but never hooked up with some strange for the months that I lived there.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 06:33 AM
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In the sense that you can't advocate for it, yes. But I don't see it as something to advocate for. Please, lets have equality, and watch the norms still propagate into the future.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 06:43 PM
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This depends on where you look, but even in the US, there are still far more "stay at home moms" then men.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 06:16 PM
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They're not "traditional" gender roles, they are natural gender roles. Once you understand that distinction, things start to fall into place. Indeed, I implied that at the end of: "there is no forced nature, only nature itself." Why should people breaking from the norm be acceptable? Because of equality--as you said, if they can make it work, good for them. I disagree that 'pretty soon everyone becomes the "exception"'. It might swing that way, but it's unsustainable. You'll see a massive number…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 06:13 PM
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I agree, however, in addition to that, guys also might not be getting what they want out of the relationship yet still feel bound to it. What they should do is break up and move on, but they want that security (blue-pill) and love (that they'll never have the way they truly want), so they'll cheat, and unlike wanting to end the relationship (and simply use their partner as a provider, as women typically do in these situations), they still want it to be better and work. Or something to that effec…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 05:19 AM
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This is a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 04:22 PM
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I mean, I was chowing down while I wrote it. But I want to know what other people would do/how they would justify it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 05:19 AM
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Seriously, I expected this to be much much worse. Hell, it sounds salvageable if he wants it even. She woke up feeling like ass, could have been a bit embarrassed, and was distant--not a big deal.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:24 PM
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I keep saying it (and keep getting labeled as a rapist) that the broad redefinition of rape, and the excessive use of the term belittles the serious trauma faced by actual rape victims. Then you have idiots who think women can't get pregnant from rape, and if they did, it wasn't really rape. If I don't get labeled a rapist, I end up getting grouped into this class of morons. It's lose/lose in this post-feminism era.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 01:02 AM
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It's full of betas, that's for sure, especially at the day 1 level--which a lot of posts are, and filled with young virgins. Guys end up with and become addicted to porn and become beta...or vice versa. It doesn't really matter. The point is, they're starting to turn away from the blue. The successful ones start focusing on themselves in all aspects of their life, becoming better men, and actually start applying their sexuality to the real world--very red pill. Then a lot don't get it and still …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 12:39 AM
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All women have vaginas. NAWALT
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 11:59 PM
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I try to avoid them, but I've had your stereotypical vegetarian feminist before, and the whole thing is cognitive dissonance. They like to put up the front of being domineering--one I'm thinking of had handcuffs and whips--but then they literally quiver at being taken. For the most part, feminists love 50 shades of grey, but the rational part of their brain fights it. The reason they're so vocal about their 'feminism' is because they have to convince themselves of it--so they yell it louder--whe…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 07:06 AM
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OP seems to be wound up pretty tight and overaggressive, he may have given her a weird vibe. There is a difference between calm/in-charge and a frustrated douche trying too hard to play it cool. hah, no, she was completely into it. Like I mentioned, a few years ago I might have been that frustrated douche, but instead I just left it up to her since I knew I was in, whether now or eventually (although throwawaygonnathrow's advice should have been done better). Everything in the main post was just…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 05:27 PM
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Heh, this is all true. I didn't setup for it/think of it. I actually did say 'me too', and flashes of the alcohol and new tv I have popped into my mind, but my excuse for the morning was bad and she called me out on it--though she did start walking over to the truck with me afterward. She just needed yet another excuse. Re: not telling her straight out to come to my place..this is what I get for hooking up with girls I've hooked up with before. "Come over" --"Okay". That simple. So yeah, I was l…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 05:22 PM
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School/career and lifting; I'll take this to heart when I find myself wrapped up in this silly shit. Edit: I'll say, it's the simplest advice, but sometimes I need to be reminded of it. With just a little bit of time and fleshing things out, I've got my head sorted again. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 07:41 AM
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I like to be cool, calm, & collected; but, I can see now where being more aggressive/assertive would have helped. I discovered TRP a month or two ago, & I find myself with varying levels of investment--right now more-so, but I'll chill out tomorrow and not really care. My whole frame was relaxed; toyed with her a little on the kiss, and once more, and then I just shrugged off her not coming over--"Eh? well, some other time then" but I'm left kicking myself, because I see now the missed opportuni…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 07:38 AM
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I've always heard from my father that part of being a man is doing things you don't really want to do, but have to. I'd say you need to be a bit more introspective about things you have to do. Certain things, like family, should always be a priority, even if you don't want to. As someone else said, if she was demanding that you go shoe shopping and hold her purse, that can get fucked.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 06:26 PM
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how many girls do you think would be 8s and 9s without any make-up on? not many. not many at all. I just want to add that a lot of women, who men may classify as beautiful, even naturally, have their own insecurities that guys become completely blind to by putting them on a pedestal. For example, my ex-gorgeous flatmate rarely slept around, and was made fun of when she was young for being tall and lanky. Even I had to stifle back a laugh at that, given the way she turned out, yet it was a legiti…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 07:37 AM
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A woman's greatest strength is her facade of weakness. A man's greatest weakness is his facade of strength. This is a paraphrase of Warren Farrell that really stood out to me.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 03:44 AM
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RE: RE: FW: FW: RE: RE: FW: RE: REally? ಠ_ಠ
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 07:00 AM
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To be fair, he said he didn't want to be like his father. Eh, I feel bad for writing that, but yeah, he needs to change. He doesn't have to go so far as cheat on a gf/wife, like his father, to be a confident male. It seems like he dove deep into the other end of the spectrum by sympathizing with his mother during his youth.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 07:54 PM
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Well, the guy is very much blue pill, if you will. So, yes, he needs to work on himself. He's been cheated on by his past 2 gf's plus this one...this is a problem. I thought we're supposed to expect this behaviour from women after swallowing the red pill. You have to be a better man to avoid this shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 07:48 PM
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Increased ice cream sales are correlated to increased murder rates. This implies that ice cream causes murder ...by real-boethius' logic
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:52 PM
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The dude spent time in prison. That should take some blue pill out of you.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:45 PM
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I dated one of these. As people have mentioned, she had her beta orbiters. They all hated me with a passion, because I was fucking her. We got into a argument one night, and one of the beta's got involved to white knight. I even called him out on why he was acting so protective, and just laughed. It wasn't a big deal; however, some more orbiters were at a local party, drunk and came around, with baseball bats and numbers. Well fuck, time to go, as I'm still laughing at the insanity of the situat…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:13 PM
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I'm Russian. This is how I will now preface all of my comments.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 10:09 PM
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You mean, I did. I linked to that.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 05:27 AM
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It was pretty great, but there's still a ways to go Aka, he agreed with her a lot, but she's still trying to weed out those opposing views.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 04:54 AM
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I bed they'd reject Max, for he isn't a true Scotsman. Huh?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 03:23 AM
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It'll end with him raising her proud feminist children as he's force-fed her koolaid. So, yep.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 01:50 AM
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We already know he's beta. Anyone with a good set of balls wouldn't stick around for that nonsense. She won't listen to his point of view and he must submit to her way.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 01:46 AM
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I'd wager that they'd reject her, claiming she's not a true feminist.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 01:39 AM
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Except, she happens to have a fiancé that she didn't mention and she regrets it later on. Guess what, you raped her. I should say, I was involved in something like this. Her hands in my back pockets. I turned her down since I knew she had a fiancé. So, she hooked up with some other poor international. She gets home to her fiancé and suddenly, she was raped. It was HER call at the end.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 05:37 AM
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Exactly. They play it the same way, while calling for something else. In the same way women may protest to avoid being seen as a slut, the women that call for excessive verbal consent do so to display their strong female power...and then act like any other woman when it comes to the real thing. It's such an extreme, and yet all a facade.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 05:34 AM
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(You'll never get laid by asking.) That's what they're asking for, and I've seen others chime in before with this every time rape is discussed. You can't have a rational conversation about it without getting assaulted by the absurd feminist side of the spectrum. Other men don't back you up, because everyone who disagrees is a rapist.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 05:04 AM
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In an ideal world, yeah, playing it so that she jumps on you is the best. But, there are times that she doesn't want to be seen as a slut, and you have to play that game, not reacting, ready to give up sex. If you're playing that, and then you have to stop and ask her for permission, that breaks the whole subtle interplay that you've just created. Like you said, 'you never ask for consent'...which flies in the face of the crap that dedelsd wrote. And yeah, it connects to the larger societal issu…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 02:57 AM
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During sex, obviously it is. But that sort of communication has nothing to do what we're talking about here. This is leading up to sex, and checking in with the woman, lowering yourself and asking her for permission. Nonsense. What's really going on was described by amishbreakfast.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 02:52 AM
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The sooner they realize that they can only be offended if they let themselves get offended, the better. Ha, I was just having this conversation about being offended. It's the damn truth.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 05:06 AM
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I think he dislikes you opinion. But I think I get what you're saying. So few women are unwilling to break down that wall in their own mind for introspection. It's true for guys as well, what we're calling the blue-pillers, who just won't see it. Behaviour won't change without recognizing your current behaviour. I would choose your diction carefully though, because some, as realishh did, have a gut reaction to certain words/phrases, and instantly reject the information, while a different choice …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/13 07:08 AM
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Or just not give a fuck. If we're together, and I get to the door first, I open the door and hold it so she walks in. I do the same for anyone. If she gets to the door first, she damn well better open the door. If she doesn't, she'll get shit for it. The whole point is to not treat them as some special object. Just treat them with the amount of respect you'd give anyone. You seem a little too invested in what they'd think.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/13 08:35 PM
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I was just having a discussion the other day about a girl we're friends with who's father is black. She's blonde w/ blue eyes, and fairly pale without tanning. She looks exactly like her mother, and apparently looks like a guy her mother used to date in college. All of her older brothers and sisters and much darker. But, she legitimately maintains that she's black. Basically, mind games, but it is legit.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 07:24 PM
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It's like obesity is eating up the US.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 04:51 PM
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No doubt. I'm not arguing that it's useless (and as you said, it tends to aid). The point was that it's not a requirement, as rkg-pua made it sound: "Right. Looks dont matter." And again, my last point I wanted to stress: lift for yourself, not the women. You'll be a more confident/independent/grounded man.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 05:49 AM
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its silly to believe it doesnt matter. Never said that. The point was, guys who aren't that attractive can offset the disadvantage. Also, attractive women don't just hop on your cock because you're good looking; there has to be more to it than that, so idk what you're on about.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 03:28 AM
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Rarely do we see a guy who is socially dominant but ugly, fat, balding, and short. I don't think we're living in the same reality.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 03:16 AM
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There's a difference between trying to be successful (ie. buying that sports car and gold watch) and actually being successful/social/magnetic. Take two men (one ugly, one handsome); all social status and personality traits being the same; the more aesthetic guy wins 9x/10. Which, doesn't discredit my point at all. If they have the same social status/personality traits, and are all very positive, yeah, the more handsome guy has a 1up on the other...but the ugly guy should do just fine--likely mo…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 03:14 AM
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If you're very successful in other areas of your life, well connected, and generally seen as having high status/value...then yeah, you can, and you certainly wouldn't be the first. That's pretty much the whole point. Lift because you like it. Lift because it improves your health. Lift because it improves your own self image. Don't lift solely trying to lure women in with dancing pecs.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 02:33 AM
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The thing that needs to be addressed though is how rape is treated, particularly in legal terms, and the severity of the punishment the same for brutal drug-fueled rape beatings and an alcohol fueled night grey area. (With both--life forever on a sex offender list--enjoy never having the job you wanted). I've seen first hand too many times the word and crime rape applied and--abused--in too many situations that do not deserve such classification. (i.e. a woman who had a fiance, hit on me, then s…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 04:24 AM
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Women may criticize and dislike us for our point of view. They feel that men that continually try to act nice, the opposite of us, are the good ones. Yet, we still love women--in our own way.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 10:29 AM
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the sense of entitlement that makes some men think they have a right to comment on women’s appearance, and which leads to the entitlement that is rape This is why I'm here. I can't stand this insane feminist view of rape. For example, on reddit you can't have a rational discussion about rape as it'll just turn into a downvote parade. These viewpoints do a disservice to actual rape victims who've suffered, not some bizarre feminist portrayal of rape. I've dated a girl that was actually raped and …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 06:08 AM
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Oh god, a friend of mine went on a feminist rampage triggered by this, about how this is an example of the widespread patriarchy in America (wtf? just...no.) and then into the larger issue of how she's being oppressed as a whole. (In the same vein as this.) I wanted to vomit.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 05:31 AM
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...I'm a physicist.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 12:28 AM
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There's no such thing as the 'quality of a calorie'. A calorie is a unit of energy. If you want to talk about the quality of food, we'd be comparing for example, 300 kcal of vegetables vs 300 kcal of twinkies, then yes--the vegetables would be 'healthier'. If we're talking about losing fat, eating only 2000 kcal of vegetables compared to 1500 kcal of twinkies, you're going to lose more with the twinkies--so calories are far more important in regard to fatloss.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 11:12 PM
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You can still get proper nutrition from food and cut calories without paleo. ಠ_ಠ As I said, paleo is just one way of going about it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 06:31 PM
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Uh, you don't need paleo, you just need to consume less calories than those burned. That's all. Paleo is just one way of going about it. Controlling the groceries, while helping, still requires that lifestyle change.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 06:18 PM
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