Agreed, that's why something I can do is make sure I don't allow my son to be forgotten. I've never really worried about my daughter because society supports her fully. But now that I have a son I worry for him. And I've joined this subreddit to educate myself and make sure I support him in any way possible.
I am so sorry! I can't relate because I don't personally struggle with an eating disorder. I hope you're able to overcome this. Sending you love and good vibes!