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Meanwhile hundreds of videos on tiktok are shaming guys for approaching girls at the gym.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:34 PM
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For me it was always a good sign.
/r/seduction01/11/21 03:23 PM
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It’s obviously a double standard but I read something once justifying it that I thought was clever. It was like, a key that opens many locks is called a master key. A lock that opens with any key is a bad lock.
/r/seduction31/10/19 02:57 PM
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Social proofing. You get invited to parties whereas you pay to get into a club. Easier to build attraction when it’s not pitch black with strobe lights and lasers with music blaring. There are a bunch of rooms in a house plus there’s outside to make it feel like a MVE. You don’t have a bunch of distractions on the way out like the guy selling street meat, waiting for valet or finding your car, etc when you leave a house party. Plus you’re probably closer to either of your homes than a bar downto…
/r/seduction09/06/19 03:43 PM
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“There’s only one way to know for sure.”
/r/seduction19/04/19 11:04 PM
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Yeah this one isn’t gonna work out.
/r/seduction15/04/19 08:22 PM
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I would say flirting is letting the person you’re interacting with know you’re interested in a subtle way. If you’re funny you can make a person laugh and not be flirting. However, if you’re interested in them the humor might be a little different in tone and content. Like, “you smell nice, did you shower this week?” If you said that to a guy friend it might be funny. If you said that to a girl you’re interested in, (if your delivery is playful and lighthearted) it may be seen as flirty. If you’…
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:40 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction15/03/19 01:18 PM
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“Nobody really talks in class” isn’t a reason it’s an excuse. Talk. Be the person making convo when appropriate.
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:03 PM
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Good luck brother
/r/seduction12/12/18 01:04 PM
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People are people. They’re just as nervous as you may be. Or as vulnerable. Be a person. Don’t try to be this above it all infallible version of yourself. If you’re nervous, mention it. “Hey I’m super nervous right now for some reason but I had to come say hi anyways or I’d be mad at myself later; what’s your name.” Go from there. Otherwise make it a “game” with yourself. Like, I have to talk to three girls today by sundown. Or tomorrow it’ll be 4! Reward yourself when you do. Go cop yourself so…
/r/seduction12/12/18 12:07 PM
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Metro Detroiter, lived in LA for a bit. Same shit. Just more 8,9,10s than you’re used to seeing. The major difference is there a lot of people are flakey, like super flakey. Don’t let it get to you. Or change you. As far as game goes girls are girls. There are all walks of life there from all around the world. I remember a couple girls on occasion being hip to game and recognizing it. I also saw Tyler Dirden teaching in the field once and had one of his students approach my table where I was sit…
/r/seduction12/12/18 12:03 PM
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I'm married and happy. This is the only point I do not agree with. I dated a lot and had my fun while finding what I was looking for. When I found her, I kept her. No regrets.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 04:10 AM
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Second part, check. Terminology, not check.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:31 AM
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There should be a glossary of acronyms at the bottom.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:02 AM
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You're putting a "ton of thought into interacting with girls"? What does that mean? You're not "getting any results", what does that mean? Girls are people. Guys are people. What you're trying to learn is how to communicate verbally and non verbally. All so you can learn how to attract the opposite sex. It's not really a "game" but there are games we play when building attraction. Just like a peacock showings it's feathers, or a bird singing a pretty song. You need to understand how everything w…
/r/seduction20/12/16 04:35 PM
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You just have to make each failure a lesson. Learn what you did wrong and try to improve. Then it's not failure, it's just part of the process.
/r/seduction15/12/16 12:49 PM
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That really doesn't hold a girl back. She wants to fuck someone she sees once a week cause she knows who that person is and it's a safer move than a random stranger. Yes she doesn't want you telling other guys but you can let her know that is not your intention or an issue very easily. Your job is to escalate. She'll pretend to resist. That's her job. You have to persist and continue to escalate until she submits or makes it blatantly obvious that she is not interested.
/r/seduction18/05/16 07:40 PM
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Dude just get out there. Talk to people. Not just girls. I have very competent intelligent friends who are good looking and suck at talking to people. It's an art but even art is just a matter of practice. Pay attention when you talk to people and gather info about what works and what doesn't and adjust. Or don't adjust. Just understand.
/r/seduction28/02/16 04:27 PM
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Good for you man. Reminds me of a similar story I have. It's a great feeling. The 10 asked ME for my number. Crazy. Social proof is so huge in a setting like that. I had two random foreign girls grab me to dance soon as I walked in the club (we were a group of people in LA and one of the girls in the group was a friend of a friend and a 10 whom I didn't know.) i didn't talk to the 10. I spent the night dancing and having fun. By the end of the night the 10 was like ok ok what's your number? As i…
/r/seduction31/08/15 04:52 AM
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I speak Italian, Spanish, and English. It's not the language, it's the words and the delivery. Play around and see what words get good reactions. Then use em.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 03:43 PM
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As a former applier of things I learned from PUA, I get it. Well done. It's all dandy while you're single and juggling. However, if you ever plan on being in a real and healthy relationship one day, none of that shit's gonna fly. Enjoy it while you can though man, cause when you're married you only get to sit and read about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:07 PM
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My wife now, had flaked on me a couple times and I almost didn't call her again. Once she was sick, then she had some family stuff. I was like ok, I know I'm getting blown off. In the end she wasn't lying. Was actually sick and had shit going on. Just bad timing. In the end it worked out.
/r/seduction01/01/15 03:47 PM
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Idk if this will help but here's some insight. Have you ever looked at the Facebook inbox of a pretty girl? A friend of mine logged in on my computer and let me snoop around once. Her inbox was littered I mean just endless messages from dudes hollerin. So in conclusion you're not the only fish in her pond. If she's cute and single, she's juggling.
/r/seduction25/12/14 04:55 AM
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I can tell you my wife wouldn't have gone when she was my gf. If she even considered it I'd be like, look don't let me hold you back from the trip of a life time. Go. Have fun. When you get back, don't look for me. I'll be just fine without you.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 05:20 AM
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The things you said you did to attract women instead of making you a better person are really no more than just becoming a Man. You got your shit together. That's something to be proud of. That should boost your confidence whether or not it's getting you girls. It still puts you ahead of half the people your age. Stay on that path of bettering yourself. Regardless of the motive, the result with be rewarding within itself either way. Your confidence will build when you realize you're doing well. …
/r/seduction14/08/14 04:29 PM
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A lock opened by many keys is a bad lock. A key that opens many locks, is a master key.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:02 AM
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Follow gay lube oil on twitter for advice about women?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:54 PM
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Insulting isn't negging. Negging is a backhanded compliment.
/r/seduction13/07/14 05:24 PM
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Stands for, alpha male of group. However as a verb it means to neutralize whatever dude bro has the ladies' attention at that time, or the dude bro throwing cock blocks.
/r/seduction09/04/14 12:53 PM
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Research Amoging by Tyler Dirden. If you and her are just seein each other and it's all new, she's still up for grabs, you have to deal with competition. If she's worth it.
/r/seduction29/03/14 02:01 AM
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Right, I gathered that soon after reading the post.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:20 PM
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I was like " fucked the living shit"? Is this that same dude? Lol nice.
/r/seduction13/03/14 01:48 AM
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A simple, "yeah you're right" while continuing to escalate always worked for me.
/r/seduction03/03/14 09:11 PM
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My only critique of this pickup is, asking "what's your nationality" instead of saying, "what's your ethnic background". Pretty sure you're both American, otherwise. Good work though.
/r/seduction18/02/14 12:26 AM
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Women know less about what to say to them than men do. Do not xpost. I agree with current top comment. They respond to the firm command more than the words. Similar to a light neck grab, a neck bite, a hair grab from the back of the head, etc. I think it all triggers that same primal instinct.
/r/seduction14/02/14 11:42 PM
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Trying to be smooth just ends up being funny. Being funny ends up being smooth. I always used humor.
/r/seduction13/02/14 02:49 AM
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Grab the least attractive one's hand and twirl her once or twice. So you're playful and not a creeper. Then if there are two or three other friends, eventually interact with them all one way or another with some cheesy old dance move so you're funny and not trying too hard. Then try to bounce the group to the bar area with a drink motion and a head nod toward the bar. If they agree and join, boom. If they shake their heads no, go get a water anyways. Then come back with more energy and join thei…
/r/seduction09/02/14 02:49 PM
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Start working on the inside, then work your way out. Get healthy, fit, make a friend that is fashionable and ask them to help revamp your style. You'll start feeling more confident. Basically give yourself a complete makeover from the inside out. You'll be like a butterfly emerging from a cocoon. People will start to notice any maybe even strike up a chat. If not, you'll have the confidence to start one yourself.
/r/seduction30/01/14 12:26 PM
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I find your lingo off putting, off the bat. No offense. Maybe some of them may be as well? Don't call a girl babe. You don't even know her. All this, catch up for a jam? Catch up for a drink? All that business makes you come off douchey/try hard in my book. Be a normal person. Hey, if you don't have plans on Friday I was thinking about going to ______, wanna join? If you wanna chat/text here's my number. Hit me up, I'm really good at making smiley faces. Edit: honest constructive criticism like …
/r/seduction28/01/14 10:29 PM
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In my opinion, most guys instinctively like "the chase" for me, if there's no chase involved it's almost no fun. I mean every guy likes an alley oop from time to time but it's less fun when it's more often. Id suggest the same I would for a guy. An indirect way to stir up convo. Even if it's a cheap excuse. What time is it, where'd you get those shoes? I'm shopping for my brothers bday, bla bla. That way the guy can be like, woah is she flirting? Let me see what I can pull off here, and then the…
/r/seduction19/01/14 03:11 PM
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With, " no worries ". Then that's that. Don't bother with her anymore. If the excuses were legitimate she'll reschedule. Otherwise, no big deal. These aren't the droids you're looking for. It might not even be you. Maybe just bad timing. No sweat nonetheless.
/r/seduction19/12/13 01:30 PM
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Even if you got a no, your mind set has to be... "no big deal", "No worries" because it really isn't a big deal. You're a man, she's a woman. It's a natural process. If she's not interested, so what? Even if it were slightly uncomfortable for a day or two, as long as you weren't creepy it'll be fine. You can't score a goal if you don't take a shot.
/r/seduction11/12/13 04:44 AM
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If she'll go out with you whether it's coffee or dinner, you have a shot. Don't worry if she's got a boyfriend. Just enjoy the company. If there is some chemistry, it won't really matter in the long run. Maybe she's with the wrong person!?
/r/seduction11/12/13 04:25 AM
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