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Why is that weird? Me and my boyfriend are 6 ysars apart him being 24 going on 25 next july and me 29 years old turning 30 this September we meant 2 years ago and its been great Sure did i question the age gap at first maybe but looking back i dont know why i questioned things i love him very much and maturity wise how we relate to each other and other stuff it doesn't feel like we are 6 years apart If you are happy then thats what matters
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/23 02:25 PM
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I honestly think he's dragging you down, nobody has the right to tell you not to pursue your dreams or what you belive in that is your goals and achievements and you have every right to go down that career path. I think he may just be toxic and not thr right one for you and if you stop doing what you love just to please him I can guartee you'll be miserable that is not a life to live and you deserve to be happy.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 11:36 AM
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He's rushed because maybe he realizes that he rushed into a loveless relationship and had kids young and didn't realize the tole it would take on his mental health especially at a young age that's alot ro deal with and now that he's with you it may not be because he doesn't want kids with you but he most likely wants to wait because he finally feels he's in a healthy relationship your very young and 26 is still young I honestly think you should keep communicating but don't pressure him and just …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 05:09 PM
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Your not clingy it’s seems that he’s not making the effort and he blames his ex that she didn’t support his career but I feel like he’s blaming her yet the problem seemed to be the same with you and that maybe his relationships in general follow a similar pattern. If he’s so career driven and busy then why is he dating anyone right now? Asking for emotional connection isn’t clingy and asking him for more time to spend together is a normal healthy thing that people do in relationships and if he c…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 01:16 PM
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hey I’m in the same both minus the child and husband At 27 I feel really awkward that I can’t do make up but I never could and as embarrassing as it is my brother used to do my make up 🤣🤣 and he was actually decent enough I think most people got a laugh at that when I told them. if I’m honest there’s nothing wrong with not being able to do make up and there’s so many ways to feel good. If you can’t do make up such as eye shadows and eyeliner ( eyeliner is a bitch I can’t do it myself) Then stick…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 09:49 PM
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My aspect is that if your in a position in a relationship where your doing all the fighting and all the work to try to make a relationship work then you shouldn’t be dating that person to begin with and while your not entitled to said person I agree that in order to make any relationship survive it takes two to tango. Overall it takes two people to work on themselves for any relationship to survive if your always asking someone to change but lack insight into your own behaviour then your not in …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 12:22 PM
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You know from my perspective it’s easier to look at someone else’s life and think how easier they have it but you’d be surprised maybe that good looking woman is appearing to be happy but behind closed doors her husband is physically and mentally abusive and an alcoholic My point is that not everyone has it all and maybe your problem is that the way you talk about yourself is how people perceive you if you always have your arms crossed and you generally don’t put yourself out there maybe people …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 12:23 AM
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Honestly you have good boundaries and I totally get this But I think there’s certain circumstances that really dictates the situation of let’s say said ex has any sexual hang up or is still in love with my partner I sure as hell would put a stop to it I would hope my partner was mature enough and insightful enough to realize why it’s not okay But that being said if they’re really just friendly and espically if their part of their friendship group it is kind of unfair to ask them to give that up …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/20 12:11 AM
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That’s not advice though that’s you asking him and feeling the need to ask him permission you don’t have to ask him if you should do something with your body that’s your body anatomy and if you want to dye it go right ahead. Imagine if he needed your permission if he could wear shorts 🩳 today and you saying no because he looks awful with shorts lol do you see how ridiculous it is like if he’s like this why are you staying in a relationship like this it’s not healthy. Stop asking permission for t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 09:45 PM
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Try to not be so hard on yourself I think at times yes we fall short of expectations and we aren’t perfect but your trying you don’t make excuses your honest that to me sounds like a good wife. And I think he sees who you really are
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 07:31 PM
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While you may not think your doing enough the smallest things are always the Sweetest gestures don’t try to do anything too extravagant because then it will look disingenuous and fake just be yourself and show him love. Plus I’m sure even though you don’t see it that he’s noticed small things and it’s in his face when you give him a back rub or give him a coffee does he smile at you lovely and give you a kiss on the head or says I love you I mean sometimes guys are not very verbal when it comes …
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 06:41 PM
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I don’t think this is necessarily just men I think this can be anyone regardless of gender I feel like if your going to do a job you should make sure your actually enjoying it and are passionate about it I know that some days it’s going to be harder then others but what’s the point of sticking to a job that you don’t give a fuck about it’s not as rewarding as doing something that is fulfilling and makes your day that much better. It seems he only took the job because it was the only option he ha…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 02:58 PM
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Your still young if you want advice I think you should do all things you didn’t get to do write them down and then just do it screw what anyone says do something for yourself enjoy 😉 the years when your young and find happiness don’t worry about marriage and settling down yet you’ll get there when the time comes I wouldn’t rush that too cause if you haven’t meant a guy your just giving yourself too many expectations.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 11:25 AM
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Honestly it’s better to just accept that they’ll never think like we do and don’t try to explain yourself and justify your reason of thinking and don’t teach or at least fill like it’s your duty or obligation to teach them anything If they try and argue just shut it down “I’m sorry you feel that way and I respect your thoughts and feelings towards this area of subject but please respect mine I don’t think like you and neither should I think like you do I have certain life experiences that shaped…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 05:50 PM
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I think the best key here is communication without proper communication there can’t be trust to honestly make the time to keep up with this if you have a hard time expressing yourself then write it down. Mistakes are bound to happen that’s must life and no relationship is perfect with that being said if you continue on doing things with each other and make the time for them then that’s also healthy. Overall if your concerned about things changing it’s okay people change having change doesn’t nec…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 03:22 PM
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I’m sorry but your relationship is doomed if all he does is justify his actions and he literally did this threw out your whole conversation before you left it shows he doesn’t get it and never will he he’s a narcissistic person and for narcissistic people they don’t see them selves as the victim it’s always somebody else’s fault and he’s always going to blame you. See it’s good you got away from him but your greatly mistaken if he’s suddenly going to realize what he’s missed he will guilt trip y…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 02:31 PM
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Yeah like to defrost it probably but certainly not to cook it if it’s still undercooked you put it back in the stove I was kind of confused by this comment lol
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 11:50 AM
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Or maybe your going after the wrong type of men too basically we attracted a certain type and of you want that to change your in control of that it’s up to you
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 01:50 PM
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Seriously stop paying attention to the stupid comments you get from people this is who you are and I don’t see why that has to be an issue maybe your just more mature then people your age and sometimes that’s caused by how we grew up your just more independent then others and maybe that means you don’t tend to give a shit about specific things people your age do I know for me I only con recent years started smoking weed but I don’t drink or party and I tend to like my alone time and I used to ge…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 02:54 PM
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I love watching Gordon Ramsey videos he teaches a lot of stuff as well for beginners a lot of his dishes are easy you should check his videos out
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/20 01:55 PM
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YouTube is a great place to look for cooking basics literally can type anything but please don’t be harsh on yourself your parents did a great disservice to you by not allowing you to grow a healthy relationship with food and that can change you may not be a super amazing chef lol I’m not either but you can learn the basics and you’ll manage perfectly fine Just set small goals and work from there eventually give yourself a month you’ll learn a lot and if you make mistakes try again it takes prac…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/20 04:03 AM
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Break ups are hard no matter what The way I see it though is in a sense he’s doing you a favour if you stay with him he’s going to be holding you back from things that you want and he did the right thing it would of been selfish for him to keep going knowing you have desires and wants that he doesn’t care for
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 02:38 PM
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This is probably one of the best comments I've read in a long time great advice I know at this age I needed to hear something like this
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/19 09:49 AM
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