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The "women were the selectors" argument doesn't make sense. Males are bigger and stronger than females, so the only thing stopping a male from mating with a female would be another male, not her tingles. Thus, it seems much more likely that it was not female preference at all that controlled who was allowed to mate with who, and it was the hierarchy established by the males that did. It wasn't a woman's "no" that prevented a male from mating with her, it was the fear of getting smashed over the …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 03:35 PM
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dude who suckerpunched me didn't apologize afterwards and its just been awkward during training with divided cliques It's awkward because you have unfinished business and everyone knows it. You guys have to fight and settle it. Keep it clean, shake hands afterwards in order to mark a definitive conclusion. Regardless of who gets the better of the fight, your shit will be settled and both sides will be able to get along again. Embarrassing him will just increase the tension between him and you, a…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:32 PM
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A woman can increase her SMV and so can a man, but the difference for a woman is that is that she will have a ceiling to how high her SMV can be as she approaches her later twenties. There isn't anything a pretty and fit 28 year old woman can do that can make her as desirable to a man as a pretty and fit 23 year old, generally speaking. For a man, there is no such ceiling until much, much later in life - again, generally speaking. Put another way, a woman's SMV is determined almost entirely by h…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 07:18 AM
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I think it would be wise for you to wait until you are in your later 20s Translation: wait until your SMV has declined along with your chances of gaining commitment from a high-value male. It's not a popular opinion in our post-feminism, "you go gurl," "spend your twenties having fun and finding yourself" world. But, by the time thirty rolls around, a woman should be happily married with three children and a husband who provides for his family, not going out on dates and meeting guys on Tinder w…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 07:07 AM
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The ages you list for a decline in SMV starts way too young. I understand this is a harsh reality for women and there is a lot of denial in this area. But, my numbers are good. Generally, a woman's sexual attractiveness will begin declining after about 23. If she takes care of herself (stays in shape, stays out of the sun, doesn't drink, etc.) then ithe decline might not be very noticeable. It's true that men become more appealing as they get their shit together and have potentially higher SMV a…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 04:10 PM
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I catch good-looking guys looking at me and I find myself getting more and more curious I’ve found myself kind of resenting him. Sounds like you want to ride the cock carousel for a while and fuck some Chads. You can't control him but it would probably help if your boyfriend started lifting weights and being more dominant because clearly you are not attracted to him. When a woman resents her man is because she sees him as beta. You didn't mention your age but you're probably young since you get …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 03:19 PM
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Surprised nobody has asked yet what kind of porn she watches. I think that could tell us a lot. Does she seem to have a favorite type or genre of porn?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:23 AM
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Pregnant from precum isn't impossible but very unlikely. This is true. VERY unlikely. Either OP isn't being straight about how it happened or it isn't his baby. The pull out method works. The only way that precum can contain semen is if you just ejaculated, and before taking a piss, you have sex. I can verify the efficacy of the pullout method because I used it for about 5 years with the same woman. We had sex literally hundreds of times and she never got pregnant. No pill, no condoms, nothing. …
/r/askTRP16/12/17 02:06 AM
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You still don't get it.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 11:55 PM
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You're not, but Chad is probably is to his balls right now, and he doesn't even know what a fucking meme is.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 11:52 PM
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Only sent the vine b/c we’re both into memes and I was trying to keep things light. Is she your pal or some shit?
/r/askTRP15/12/17 11:48 PM
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You shouldn't be looking for answers yourself online. You need to speak with a mental health professional. Seriously. Go do that right now.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 06:57 PM
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I'm guessing you are not familiar with TRP and that maybe you were somehow notified of this thread due to "borderline" being in the title. There is help and healing for borderlines who seek treatment. Sure, but they almost never do. When they do, they rarely will follow through. Often she will feel like the therapist is wrong because she doesn't like what they are saying, or somehow manufacture conflict between herself and the therapist. It’s one thing to covey your own story, it’s another to pu…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:22 PM
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Probably some truth in that in my case back then, although perhaps not as cut and dried as you put it I was definitely generalizing and the narcissist/BPD dynamic you mentioned is also interesting and seems to makes sense. BPD women compensate for those terrible flaws There is no way they can compensate for their flaws. They are simply horrible people. So horrible that many psychologists refuse to work with them, and one of the reasons, when they are honest, is because they simply can't tolerate…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:27 PM
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No offense, but it's hard to put a lot of weight on someones advice not to marry when they themselves married a woman with BPD. I know a few women with BPD and they are fucking horrendous human beings. Somehow, they still manage to trap men. Though, those men seem to be betafags with mommy issues whose insecurities cause them to ignore all the enormous red flags and adopt a "captain save a hoe" attitude. Not saying this is/was you, but the fact that you actually married a BPD women suggests that…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:15 PM
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but if I bring it up and say I'm breaking up with her, I'm hoping she'll cry and apologize and promise to stop. And then you'll take her back? You'll be establishing a pattern where she is "allowed" to fuck up so long as she begs for your mercy afterward. If you say you're going to break up with her, then be a man and fucking break up with her. Once you make a principled decision, stand by it with unwavering rigidity, or she'll never respect you. A better strategy would be to tell her that you w…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 08:35 PM
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Do you talk to him in a higher than normal pitched voice in a nurturing way? Have you ever done "baby talk" with him? To me, those are signs that you have a more feminine relationship with him. I know a guy whose father wasn't around while he was growing up. He was mostly raised by his mom and aunts. The biggest male influence in his life was probably his gay uncle. He was also the youngest child with two older sisters. When he had his first kid, a boy, I noticed he would interact with him like …
/r/askTRP28/06/17 05:15 PM
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Women of that caliber don't fuck blacks You think so? Google 'Lee Ann McAdoo boyfriend'. The media has made it seem trendy and even virtuous for white women to date black men. Leftist females (granted, most are ugly) love cucking their own race as a way to virtue signal. They can also simply be the The F YOU DAD Brats. If it's true that she has BPD, then she would be even more likely to fuck men outside her own race. Nearly everything a BPD chick does is a form of self-sabotage, especially as it…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:42 PM
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In the last six months, I got access to many private conversations between women I've read private messages from very intelligent women You're not going to give us context here? How are you getting access to private messages between intelligent women?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 12:57 PM
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You think girls in HS don't spread their legs? Either she's already getting railed or at least has someone else in mind.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 05:58 PM
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You aren't giving the full story. He achieved status of "captain" in your life, yet he is also the kind of guy who would, suddenly and without provocation, get upset about the number of texts you were sending him, or what emoticons you were using in your texts? Doesn't add up. My guess is that some very relevant context is missing here. Most likely something that led to him having severe trust issues with you. His own existing insecurities or beta tendencies may have exasperated the situation, b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 05:06 PM
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You may find this article helpful: Society is creating a new crop of alpha women who are unable to love
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 06:14 PM
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Great comments so far. I think what I have in mind is perhaps a combination of Alpha Widow and hamstering. From what I've just read, the definition "alpha widow" is fairly broad, but it would include a woman who is still "attached" to a certain guy from her past that she would probably get back together with if given the chance even if he mistreated her and even if she is already in another LTR with someone else. This probably is related to how women "pair bond" through sex. A sexual relationshi…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 06:29 PM
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