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I appreciate that it's not the same as the friendship they have with each other and other men. There are things about being a man that I could never relate to and vice versa. But, having male friends helped humanize men and made them much more real to me. They help me see another perspective on things. It's easier to think and see the problems that men face because it affects people I care about. It's helped me get used to touches and gestures of affection from the opposite sex. It has helped me…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/16 07:07 AM
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I hate that I was born female, especially an ugly, stupid female. That's what bothered me the most in your text. I don't know what it's like to be you, but one thing everyone needs is a healthy self-esteem. You need to work really hard on your self-esteem. You need to build a healthy self-esteem and leave him. Your son deserves a father who will be a positive influence in his life, who does not mentally abuse his mother. You deserve so much better no matter how much your husband or your low self…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/16 05:00 PM
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You're right. We need to emphasise each other's humanity. We all fit into certain racial amd gender identities. Acknowledging our common humanity helps us look beyond the label. When I have a bad experience with someone from a certain identity I always try to think that the underlying trigger for such behaviour is the person's humanity. We have equal potentials fpr good and bad. It's human to be good, it's also human to be bad.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/16 08:53 AM
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I used to be very afraid of men (I still am a little) and lurking in the redpill subreddit doesn't help at all. Some of the things that help me are 1) I try to imagine what it would be like being a man. My personalities etc. are not changed only my gender and how it affects my interactions and treatment. 2) Realise that they are just people like you. 3) Make friends with them. This is what has helped me the most. I love my male friends. They have their faults and all, but being with them, being …
/r/ExRedPill02/08/16 02:54 PM
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