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| 1 | Frustrating situation and need advice. I brought up divorce and wife changes just enough into stayingHere's what you do, when she acts like a bitch to you, you throw a dagger right back at her. This is ineffective advice if your goal is to have a long, happy, healthy marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Frustrating situation and need advice. I brought up divorce and wife changes just enough into stayingI think the issue is not the sex but how this couple solves problems together. I'm noticing how thoughtful and respectful your comment is and how vicious OP's wife's comments were. You are actually trying to solve the problem: both people have needs, find a balance. OP's wife isn't trying to find a solution to their mutual needs and that's really the issue at hand, I think. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Frustrating situation and need advice. I brought up divorce and wife changes just enough into stayingAnd they're irrational creatures as well. Marie Curie and Ada Lovelace have entered the chat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Frustrating situation and need advice. I brought up divorce and wife changes just enough into stayingThis doesn't sound like bipolar; I didn't see any evidence of mania or hypomania. I didn't see any evidence that she laid on the couch for a week and couldn't find the motivation to get up. That's what bipolar can look like. There are other personality disorders that cycle. I see a lot of emotional dysregulation and manipulation. Manipulating others is not one of the criteria for bipolar. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Frustrating situation and need advice. I brought up divorce and wife changes just enough into stayingI would not recommend this. Casually diagnosing someone can be harmful to the relationship. Even professionals are very cautious when making diagnoses because they are so hard to get right. This can backfire. For example, if you start viewing someone through the lens of narcissism, you may start to see signs of narcissism, but it's just you projecting on to them, like seeing patterns in a Rorschach. And then you may be more likely to treat that person less kindly, since you are seeing them in a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/21 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Frustrating situation and need advice. I brought up divorce and wife changes just enough into stayingI'm seeing some very unhealthy behaviors: You didn't say no to sex, you said maybe later. She didn't seem to accept that you had needs and feelings, too, and got angry that you did not meet the expectations in her head of how you should behave. "i hear that I am gay over" -- this is disrespectful both to you and gays "do you have Ed" -- another sign of disrespect She cancels our trip -- this is manipulation I’m frustrated but it’s whatever. -- This could enable the behavior; her behavior is waaa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/21 12:08 AM |
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