outdoorsman921 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	STBX keeping my last name		outdoorsman921	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/21 11:13 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	STBX keeping my last name Yeah restoring her maiden name seems like it’s not too hard. Obviously getting documents changed is a pain though.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/21 01:11 AM
2	STBX keeping my last name I’m not worried about it. Just thought it was weird.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/21 11:44 PM
12	Am I making a mistake NAL but to me it seems if she’s making 6 figures and you are a substitute teacher then you are leaving a ton of money on the table. Google “Calculating alimony payments in “insert your state”. I’ve been married 6 years and make about double what she’s at, I’ll be on the hook for around $650/month for the next 3 years.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/21 08:32 PM
13	Do the arguments with the ex wife ever stop? After four years the argument today was about me getting them the Covid vaccine. It just never stops, any chance she can attack she does. 100% grey rock method. Also, get the damn vaccine.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/21 01:38 AM
5	Blindsided by my wife wanting srparation You helped more than 1 man today.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/21 04:27 AM
4	Is anyone available and willing to talk? Or can you point me in that direction? Bro, you need to seek out a therapist ASAP. What you are feeling is normal and a therapist can help you sort through and work out those emotions. That’s the absolute best advice I can give you. I speak from experience. God awful, painful experience.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/21 10:24 PM
1	Please help... again Something I’ve done is go to the gym regardless. It doesn’t matter is it’s a good day there or not. Just go. You’ll get it to the habit and will get better	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/21 02:49 AM
9	Things are hard As someone once told me “it freaking sucks man”	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/21 05:59 PM
7	Please help... again Talk to a counselor asap. It’s hard to believe but things will get better. Grief is like waves hitting you. Sometimes they feel unbearable while other times they are more manageable. Being able to talk to someone will help you better manage those waves. Get into the gym. Sweat through as much as you can. I’m literally doing that right now. Focus on things that make you happy and if your like me then you aren’t sure what those things might be. Your life and hobbies have been tied to this one pers…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/21 09:45 PM
8	1 year post divorce vent I’m 30 yo and there is a good chance I’m going to be getting divorced soon. One of my biggest fears is figuring out how to get into the dating world again. How did you do it?	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/21 03:57 AM